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Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 1:50pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
myami:free sex is an understatement my brother. Free sex is at the expenses of something. It’s not really a free sex afterall. 71 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by TheFreshVanilla: 1:50pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
You've got to grind a way to make your own money bro. Nothing good comes easy. Adexgentle005: 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Vinnie2000(m): 1:54pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
koladata: Lolss, e tire you, abi? As a Guy, If you are NOT dat Financially Strong and u Rush into Marriage, (Particularly in this Buhari/APC Administration currently), Na BITTERLEAF and BITTERKOLA Analysis go end am o. 😕😄😄😄 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 1:54pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:You and I know it’s rare to see a woman who’s going to stand by you in times of tribulation. I have been doing very well before I met her. All I’m just saying is that there is nothing special about marriage, if you are not financially stable don’t get married. When life start to happen you’d know why money is important! 36 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 1:59pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
TheFreshVanilla:Yes my brother. That is all that matters right now. To make money and be more successful. Even if you decides to divorce your wife, it won’t hurt that much. I just want my peace of mind. 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Kobojunkie: 2:01pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005:1. Now you want to put the blame your wife for your own mistakes? 2. You were financially stable as a single person responsible only for yourself does not mean you are capable of taking responsibility for more people. Why una no dey like reason these things properly for Pete's sake. If your wife does not equally bring in income that compares to yours in the marriage, you are both going to be in difficult straits. This is commonsense! Stop blaming marriage for your ridiculous decisions as individuals in marriage. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Rokiat(f): 2:12pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Even if you don’t believe in marriage you still hav to be a responsible individual unless uselessness is your area. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Raalsalghul: 2:18pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
seanwilliam: Seanwilliam spitting facts. Men's commitment is quite expensive and they should be careful whom they give it to. There are reasons I'm not so keen on it yet. You just highlighted it all. Even it goes beyond wife and kids especially in the Nigerian context: the inlaws are there too. I've always opined that men who decide to get married are brave. 43 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Hardcore11: 2:22pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
seanwilliam:Jesus I'm scared |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by QuinModah(f): 2:27pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
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Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 2:36pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:😏What is actually sweet about marriage? What ridiculous decisions are you talking about? Ridiculous decision is that I got married or what? I bet you are not even in a relationship talk more of thinking of getting married. You don’t know shit bro. 33 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 2:38pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Rokiat:Of course I’m a responsible individual. Just stating the fact about marriage! 9 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Kobojunkie: 2:40pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005:1. Outside of hypogamy, marriage is not what you describe. It is instead a partnership that both individuals--- husband and wife --- are equally able to benefit from hence the saying "two heads are better than one". 2. From your statements so far, it seems you what you have is a hypogamous relationship, right? 3. Marriage is not the ridiculous decision at all. 4. Not everyone is in the same sort of marriage that you have chosen for yourself. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Acidosis(m): 2:42pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005: Are you kidding? 100k in two months and you're complaining? Guy! 😃 30 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Vinnie2000(m): 2:51pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Acidosis: Lols.. Everyone has their Spending Pattern na. 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Acidosis(m): 2:56pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Vinnie2000: Yes, definitely. I'm definitely not comparing him or his spending pattern with anyone... But really, 100k in 2 months is 50k in one month. 50k will never be too much for a married anywhere in the current day Nigeria. Okada men spend more. The key word there is "current day Nigeria." By the time you buy cooking gas, pay bills (electricity, waste, security, and data), you're already going over 30k in one month so I'm wondering how he feeds his family. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by emmaodet: 3:07pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Paramount01: Una never chin chin chin. For this plantation, una die well |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Maxxim: 3:07pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
emmaodet:😁 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by jerryforgood: 3:11pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Acidosis:He should be thankful that his wife is not that demanding. Me I'm not married but I spend close to 100k on my parents in same two months excluding rent, only food and other bills. What is 100k in two months? I don't have heaven and Earth. I work extremely hard to earn a living, and I'm 29 years. For me if my future wife would manage 100k in two month then I wouldn't see it as a huge burden, except adding it to my parents need. Because of my parents I'm not married. I'm looking for ways to settle my mother who is still fit. I'm looking for business she can do. 23 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 3:16pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Acidosis:I should have spent 200k in 2 months bah? 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 3:18pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Acidosis:I didn’t include cooking gas and other bills bro 2 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 3:19pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Acidosis:Basic spending like gas money and other bills excluded. Not to talk of house rent and the rest! 4 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 3:26pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Not everyone is in the same sort of marriage that I have chosen because they have plenty of money and that’s what I’m saying. Responsibilities to them is nothing because the money is available. And that’s exactly my point, financial stability is the bedrock of a healthy marriage. Take money out and see the marriage crumbles! 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Baronthecelebri: 3:39pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
No money no marriage 9 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Kobojunkie: 3:42pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005:1. Who are the "they" that have plenty of money?. 2. You are still lying to yourself! You don't want to accept that the reason your marriage is the way it seems to you has primarily to do with the fact that you chose to strangle yourself with the rope called hypogamy, simple. 3. That maybe the picture for your marriage and this primarily because of choices you made in yours but it isn't the case for every marriage out there. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by elipheleh(m): 3:43pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Lol. See me thinking what I'm doing in marriage. Is this thing juju. I've spent more than 8 million in 19 months of marriage. When I was a bachelor, i didn't spend up to 1million in a year. 21 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Kobojunkie: 3:43pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005:Aren't these some of the same bills you paid when you were single and financially OK, according to you. So what changed? 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Mobog(m): 3:59pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Since I stopped calculating how much I spend I've regained my sanity. If we reason am too much person fit craze I just minimize how I spend that's all. 13 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 4:01pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I have kids. That changed! 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Adexgentle005(m): 4:03pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Tell me what’s so special in marriage? Is it the free sex or what? What are you even justifying?? 3 Likes |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Kobojunkie: 4:03pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005:1. Was your wife equally financially stable before and after marriage to you? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marriage Is Just all About Responsibility, Nothing Special. by Kobojunkie: 4:04pm On Mar 26, 2023 |
Adexgentle005:1. If properly implemented, "Two heads are better than one." That is what is special about marriage. It is an agreement, a business partnership of sorts that if well worked on, goes on to benefit both partners in the agreement. 2. You are mistaken here assuming I am in some way attempting to justify marriage. Instead, what I am doing is pointing out the fact that marriage has nothing to do with your problem and current situation. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
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