Bro register on Tinder, POF or any local site around you. Put there you are looking for friends with benefits. Try Ashley Madison and all those porn site you will surely find a girl. You won't spend up to $100 before you get laid.

canada123:
Hi everyone,

Would appreciate if I’m not crazily judged though. I live in Canada Ontario and I’m single and lonely. The weather isn’t helping also. I’ve been having this strong urge to order an escort . Actually talked to a couple of them on Tryst. There are Latinos and really beautiful. But I honestly don’t want to proceed but my konji is making me look towards it and I feel disgusted with myself for having such strong sexual feelings.

Price is $500 for one hour and I’m looking at booking a 2 hours session.

I just feel bad.

Would appreciate any advice to overcome this crazy urge. Please don’t crazily insult me thanks

Canada isn’t all rosy after all sadly

I'll advise you to pick a wife here. I know a many Naija girls here that also have a crazy high libido, you'd have no issues matching them. Whatever fantasy you want, it's no problem for them, you just have to pick one. All these are just 'youthful energy' problems, within a short period those urges will certainly vanish, nothing last forever, it's better you do them now and rest than suppressing it and later it becomes a huge monster you can't control, perhaps at your middle age.

OKOATA:
Bro register on Tinder, POF or any local site around you. Put there you are looking for friends with benefits. Try Ashley Madison and all those porn site you will surely find a girl. You won't spend up to $100 before you get laid.

Just checked it out (Ashley Madison). would cost me $59 a month and lots of ladies there. Hopefully I can get a girlfriend there.

Thanks.

canada123:


Sent the money. Sent more than the 1k though.

Appreciate it and the advice. Though not easy to overcome sadly

Wow thank you so much,this is actually the first time I am receiving anything from nairaland,I really appreciate so much God bless you and give you the the strength and determination to keep pushing higher.👏👏👏

Jozilinn:
Wow thank you so much,this is actually the first time I am receiving anything from nairaland,I really appreciate so much God bless you and give you the the strength and determination to keep pushing higher.👏👏👏

You welcome.

I honestly pray so.

Wotoporiously speaking

Konji na bastard

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

Konji na bastard

Honestly ooo. I don’t wish this extreme type on anyone oo. Even my enemies too. It makes you do things that ordinarily you won’t do

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canada123:
Hi everyone,

Would appreciate if I’m not crazily judged though. I live in Canada Ontario and I’m single and lonely. The weather isn’t helping also. I’ve been having this strong urge to order an escort . Actually talked to a couple of them on Tryst. There are Latinos and really beautiful. But I honestly don’t want to proceed but my konji is making me look towards it and I feel disgusted with myself for having such strong sexual feelings.

Price is $500 for one hour and I’m looking at booking a 2 hours session.

I just feel bad.

Would appreciate any advice to overcome this crazy urge. Please don’t crazily insult me thanks

Canada isn’t all rosy after all sadly

You said you are addicted to porn. I feel that's actually where your problem is. If you can try to abstain from sex and PMO for 3 months (best if you can go 6months). It is going to be hard but you can do it. Your brain will reset. I have done it before. Best way to do this is cut off social media and don't have much free time.

Also with that money get a gym membership and start jogging once a week and weight training through out this 3/6 month period. This will help improve your physical appearance.

There is a thread on nairaland for people trying to quit PMO addiction if you want the link I can send to you.

If you can try to do this. Then you will see changes in your addiction.

ElasmoBranchii:



You said you are addicted to porn. I feel that's actually where your problem is. If you can try to abstain from sex and PMO for 3 months (best if you can go 6months). It is going to be hard but you can do it. Your brain will reset. I have done it before. Best way to do this is cut off social media and don't have much free time.

Also with that money get a gym membership and start jogging once a week and weight training through out this 3/6 month period. This will help improve your physical appearance.

There is a thread on nairaland for people trying to quit PMO addiction if you want the link I can send to you.

If you can try to do this. Then you will see changes in your addiction.

Would appreciate the link.

canada123:


Would appreciate the link.

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

read the first few pages you will find some useful tips. And introduce yourself on the thread, the president will reply you.

If you need some motivations to help you quit

read

https://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/


https://illimitablemen.com/2016/02/28/champions-mentality-how-to-stop-being-a-loser-become-epic/

Go to Tinder and swipe right. In a day, you should be able to get someone that can kill your konji. It will likely end in two ways. One is meeting and you guys go down, konji killed. Two is meeting and you guys are disappointed in each other, konji subsided. Both ways are a win win with no cost.

elipheleh:

Or alternatively look for fellow Nigerians and promise her marriage and start lashing.

If he finds and promises a fellow Nigerian woman marriage, lashes her and then finds out they are not really compatible, what next

What if the woman is a psycho and when he dumps her she goes to the police and says he raped her 2 weeks ago. No be jail be that for bros ?

Even oyinbo men dey fear to marry or promise women marriage nowadays.

Western world women na different kettle of fish o. They no get conscience at all and have no problem with setting up and jailing any man who dumps them.

Hell hath no fury like a scorned westernised woman.

Bros should tread carefully before promising any woman marriage just because he wants regular sex.

I would even go further to say that if he is not sure about the future of a relationship with any woman, he should not date her or encourage her by sleeping with her.

You know that some women equate sex with love or marriage or a promise to marry them.

Ilekokonit:


If he finds and promises a fellow Nigerian woman marriage, lashes her and then finds out they are not really compatible, what next

What if the woman is a psycho and when he dumps her she goes to the police and says he raped her 2 weeks ago. No be jail be that for bros ?

Even oyinbo men dey fear to marry or promise women marriage nowadays.

Western world women na different kettle of fish o. They no get conscience at all and have no problem with setting up and jailing any man who dumps them.

Hell hath no fury like a scorned westernised woman.

Bros should tread carefully before promising any woman marriage just because he wants regular sex.

I would even go further to say that if he is not sure about the future of a relationship with any woman, he should not date her or encourage her by sleeping with her.

You know that some women equate sex with love or marriage or a promise to marry them.

True though . Don’t want stories that touch . I would really feel bad deceiving someone also.

Eazzii:
Shh. Sharrap. Show me where it's prohibited to use 2 accounts (when one isn't banned) and I'll credit you 100k live!!!

⁷

See it below, rule 19. I don't need your 100k though

canada123:
Hi everyone,

Would appreciate if I’m not crazily judged though. I live in Canada Ontario and I’m single and lonely. The weather isn’t helping also. I’ve been having this strong urge to order an escort . Actually talked to a couple of them on Tryst. There are Latinos and really beautiful. But I honestly don’t want to proceed but my konji is making me look towards it and I feel disgusted with myself for having such strong sexual feelings.

Price is $500 for one hour and I’m looking at booking a 2 hours session.

I just feel bad.

Would appreciate any advice to overcome this crazy urge. Please don’t crazily insult me thanks

Canada isn’t all rosy after all sadly

na big money be that o! Getting girlfriend there no hard naw.

canada123:
Just incase anyone thinks I’m not being serious about this.

I really am and honestly want to stop this addiction sincerely.

I feel I’ve gotten lots of advice from here and feel it’s a small token to say thank you guys.

After all I’ve been spending way more on onlyfans and was about spending way way more for an escort .

Which app is this that u can send money in dollars and the receiver receives it in naira

PoliteActivist:
⁷

See it below, rule 19. I don't need your 100k though

Don't use alternate accounts to access nairaland after being banned.

shantti:


Which app is this that u can send money in dollars and the receiver receives it in naira

I use Pesapeer.

There are lots of them out there I think remitly too and the others. But I use Pesapeer

Killbillz:

You have ur family over there and ur still reasoning like man without bearing? Why can't u go to fun places with those cousins and meet new people or friends of friends. No let Russian girls work on ur destiny after rimming u helplessly. Better use ur head.

Rimming abi pegging?
Did op say he's into bdsm?

Eazzii:
Rimming abi pegging?
Did op say he's into bdsm?

Lol both...

canada123:


True though it’s really much. But not easy finding a girlfriend though here. Dating scene is messed up. I also feel I need a therapy session too so I could become better mentally. I feel I’m a terrible person cause I might cheat with this lifestyle and attitude too.

Why not use the $500 to book for a therapy, probably that will be the beginning of the end of your problems.

Eazzii:
Don't use alternate accounts to access nairaland after being banned.

It could have said:
"You can use alternate account as long as you are not banned."
BUT IT DIDN'T!!!!

@cananda123

Abeg, which app did you use to send money to Naija?

omotodun1:
@cananda123

Abeg, which app did you use to send money to Naija?

Pesapeer

Abeg my guy,u fit help me with $1000

canada123:


I’m really praying also he helps me.

If you really need the N1,000 that’s fine haven’t done a giveaway on Nairaland before though but can easily send that to you.

Don’t know how that works , like dropping your account number is it safe on a forum like this. If it is feel free. Would send you the N1,000. Or maybe more

Please bro I am sick,help me with that $1000,this is my Nigeria account (8161371482)?(

canada123:
Hi everyone,

Would appreciate if I’m not crazily judged though. I live in Canada Ontario and I’m single and lonely. The weather isn’t helping also. I’ve been having this strong urge to order an escort . Actually talked to a couple of them on Tryst. There are Latinos and really beautiful. But I honestly don’t want to proceed but my konji is making me look towards it and I feel disgusted with myself for having such strong sexual feelings.

Price is $500 for one hour and I’m looking at booking a 2 hours session.

I just feel bad.

Would appreciate any advice to overcome this crazy urge. Please don’t crazily insult me thanks

Canada isn’t all rosy after all sadly

I really feel like filth now. I really really tried to control it and myself but it’s just tough I went through with it at last.

For those curious about the girl attached are her pictures. It was just too too difficult to resist . And she’s my first latino/white girl experience. I’ve been celibate for over a year now but feel like filth ending it this way.

Just tried my best .

For those that encouraged me thank you so much. I won’t give up.

But she’s gone back to Toronto and I’m blocking her and everyone that’s pretty to avoid temptation again.

I think that’s where I would start from.

Attached are her pictures for those curious

2nd picture

3rd

Well just to guard myself I’m blocking her on both instagram and deleting my onlyfans account and doing same with any pretty girl like her. Seeing them is too much temptation for me it’s like my brain shuts down and konji does the thinking until after the deed is done then my brain restarts. So cutting them off completely is a way to start.

I really really gave it a lot but shit happens.

Hopefully my healing process starts.

I just feel filthy and wish I can leave this body and enter another body and just live happily without this burden