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7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Greatzeus(m): 9:44pm On Jul 12, 2018
Personally,i think cheating is a concept accurately applicable to the Married Couples and those Engaged only.why? because you are bound to him or her by a legal or religious oath.Unlike Bf/Gf relationships,So why keep a promise you never made by being faithful?
Now i am not here to encourage cheating please but to discourage it cool

Now to the Married and Engaged,have you ever being tempted to cheat on your partner? Probably yes, it goes beyond the actual act of sex most times, to include mesmerizing about a "hot" colleague or neighbor,sending obscene pictures of yourself to another person,to sex chatting,viewing pornography content without your spouse etc.

My question to the Married and Engaged is, is it worth it cheating on your spouse? to those who have one time or another cheated before,is it worth it,really? be sincere with yourself,would you go back to correct your mistake if you can? It takes the grace of God yes,but we should also have checks and balances in our lives that makes it easier for us to overcome certain things.
Whenever you are tempted to cheat on your spouse,in your matrimonial home, at your work place, while on a journey far from the comfort and caress of your wife or while on a business trip outside the country,just try as much to think about the following:

1. Think about the day you proposed to her,the desperation you had and all you went through to make her say yes. Its a golden memory, dont throw it down the mud by cheating.

2. Think about the Oath you took in the presence of God on your wedding day,either in church/Mosque or Court to stay faithful to her alone

3. Think about disappointing those who spent their time and money( transport and gifts) just to attend your wedding,when they hear your marriage has crashed because you cheated.

4. Think about your kids,who will grow up with the sad knowledge that their parents divorced because their dad or mum cheated.

5. Think about the guilt that will permeate your whole being after cheating on your spouse( for those who still have conscience grin

6. Think about the fact that your attraction to your wife decreased,not because she is no longer beautiful,but because of familiarity. And your attraction to the new lady is due to initial infatuation.

7. Think about the minutes you will spend having sex,like is it really worth throwing everything you have(Happy home) away for?

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:09pm On Jul 12, 2018
The problem is that during this time the brain can't think of such, instead the idiot initiates erection and oxytocin secretion

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by akeentech(m): 10:17pm On Jul 13, 2018
This is enough reason for me to cheat

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Naturalobserver(m): 10:18pm On Jul 13, 2018
Who will cheat will cheat

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by abiodunalasa: 10:18pm On Jul 13, 2018
Think about this...
Think about that... angry

The point is when you are at the peak of it... you can't "think" until its done.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Gspotlicker(m): 10:18pm On Jul 13, 2018
i think the seven things should judt be "dont cheat"

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Onyeedum(m): 10:19pm On Jul 13, 2018
Sometimes I forget how to think.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by aldexrio(m): 10:19pm On Jul 13, 2018
Op it doesn't work. If you find some fine lady that gives you attention you will still cheat. I'm speaking from experience

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by akeentech(m): 10:19pm On Jul 13, 2018
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by mattonnairaland: 10:19pm On Jul 13, 2018
Story! Story!! Story!!! All these are fictions, it's different in real life situations.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Nedfed(m): 10:19pm On Jul 13, 2018
Basic facts
Op well done

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:20pm On Jul 13, 2018
wink
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Olalan(m): 10:20pm On Jul 13, 2018
The only thing to do is walk away

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Naturalobserver(m): 10:20pm On Jul 13, 2018
[quote author=akeentech post=69355996][/quote]keep on quoting o,no go find work do
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by sarahade(f): 10:20pm On Jul 13, 2018
Just don't cheat
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by brownhawk: 10:20pm On Jul 13, 2018
Cheating is very unnecessary if ur partner is capable and willing to give u ur potential concubine offer

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by kenny905(m): 10:21pm On Jul 13, 2018
Conji won't allow u to think...All conji wants is satisfaction...regret comes later

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Toks2008(m): 10:21pm On Jul 13, 2018
Greatzeus:
Personally,i think cheating is a concept accurately applicable to the Married Couples and those Engaged only.why? because you are bound to him or her by a legal or religious oath.Unlike Bf/Gf relationships,So why keep a promise you never made by being faithful?
Now i am not here to encourage cheating please but to discourage it cool

Now to the Married and Engaged,have you ever being tempted to cheat on your partner? Probably yes, it goes beyond the actual act of sex most times, to include mesmerizing about a "hot" colleague or neighbor,sending obscene pictures of yourself to another person,to sex chatting,viewing pornography content without your spouse etc.

My question to the Married and Engaged is, is it worth it cheating on your spouse? to those who have one time or another cheated before,is it worth it,really? be sincere with yourself,would you go back to correct your mistake if you can? It takes the grace of God yes,but we should also have checks and balances in our lives that makes it easier for us to overcome certain things.
Whenever you are tempted to cheat on your spouse,in your matrimonial home, at your work place, while on a journey far from the comfort and caress of your wife or while on a business trip outside the country,just try as much to think about the following:

1. Think about the day you proposed to her,the desperation you had and all you went through to make her say yes. Its a golden memory, dont throw it down the mud by cheating.

2. Think about the Oath you took in the presence of God on your wedding day,either in church/Mosque or Court to stay faithful to her alone

3. Think about disappointing those who spent their time and money( transport and gifts) just to attend your wedding,when they hear your marriage has crashed because you cheated.

4. Think about your kids,who will grow up with the sad knowledge that their parents divorced because their dad or mum cheated.

5. Think about the guilt that will permeate your whole being after cheating on your spouse( for those who still have conscience grin

6. Think about the fact that your attraction to your wife decreased,not because she is no longer beautiful,but because of familiarity. And your attraction to the new lady is due to initial infatuation.

7. Think about the minutes you will spend having sex,like is it really worth throwing everything you have(Happy home) away for?


All these can never stop a man who wants to cheat but only the man who truly fears GOD and strongly principled WILL not.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Histrings08(m): 10:23pm On Jul 13, 2018
It takes the grace of God

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(f): 10:23pm On Jul 13, 2018
Tajbol4splend:
The problem is that during this time the brain can't think of such, instead the idiot initiates erection and oxytocin secretion
brain will switch off temporarily

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Josephjnr(m): 10:23pm On Jul 13, 2018
Gspotlicker:
i think the seven things should judt be "dont cheat"

You used 9 alphabets... Plus your apostrophe it will be 11. So you see...not seven things.
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:23pm On Jul 13, 2018
As if they will hear...
Like the saying goes: the dog destined to get lost in the woods will never hear the hunter's call however loud it is. undecided

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:25pm On Jul 13, 2018
If it's cos of money, work extra hard and smart.
If its sex, get a vib.
If you no longer love him, walk away.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Izabel(f): 10:26pm On Jul 13, 2018
Don't put your eggs in one basket. I made that mistake and he paid me back by running away with my 50k

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by sulmeza(m): 10:28pm On Jul 13, 2018
Bottom line: "Thinking Before Acting" - that is actually the main issue. Unfortunately, most people do the opposite.

This world would be a "heaven" if we can all adopt the practice of "thinking" before executing our actions/reactions.

Nice piece BTW.

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Tampa6246(m): 10:28pm On Jul 13, 2018
Y'al stick to the dick and pussy you vowed to Bleep all your life
Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Damfostopper(m): 10:33pm On Jul 13, 2018
Izabel:
Don't put your eggs in one basket.
I made that mistake and he paid me back by running away with my 50k
man's not Hot

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Re: 7 Things To Do When You Are Tempted To Cheat In A Relationship by Hotzone(m): 10:34pm On Jul 13, 2018
When the maga cum observe the cheating technique...he cum b like...

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