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Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by flokii: 8:15pm On Mar 28, 2023
@OP In all you do, make sure you take care of yourself and your health...
Let your siblings go out and find a job.. there are people looking for workers like store assistants, part-time delivery guys etc. They can look for stores close to your house to work. All those fast food joints, restaurants etc. need youngsters ready to work.

They must learn how to manage and be prudent with finance... It's biting everywhere.
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by victooman(op): 8:17pm On Mar 28, 2023
Samantha124:
Your siblings will be grown and taking care of themselves by then.

Will you now have the money to take care of both your siblings and kids?

Or you will go around begging?
let me ask you,, if l die today wont my siblings and family survive? l will not marry in my 50s just to take care of family problems it doesn't make sense or even gurantee anything,,
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by victooman(op): 8:25pm On Mar 28, 2023
CallmeTrinity:
Not claim you USELESS bastard. I am sitting in the living room of my own building I own eating ground nut ekpa and age bread while typing how stupid and USELESS you are.

Big fool without a brain you are com hi ;Dparing helping you family with marrying one used of ashewo who we have all used.

Useless bastard . I pity the woman who had such a cursed son like you.

Animal without sense
okay you are right,,, hope that makes you happy grin no be me u go use cure depression,, u need to get busy and stop living in ur imaginary mansion,,have a nice day bro
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Nobody: 8:26pm On Mar 28, 2023
Okay, If that's the case then go and tell your parents that your siblings are not your responsibility, but it's theirs.

They should go and hustle for money to take care of their kids, not you because you now need to focus on starting your own family.

And don't let them try to manipulate you just because they're your parents because they didn't enter into an agreement with you that they'll bring babies into this world for you to take care of.
victooman:
let me ask you,, if l die today wont my siblings and family survive? l will not marry in my 50s just to take care of family problems it doesn't make sense or even gurantee anything,,
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by CallmeTrinity: 8:31pm On Mar 28, 2023
victooman:
okay you are right,,, hope that makes you happy grin no be me u go use cure depression,, u need to get busy and stop living in ur imaginary mansion,,have a nice day bro
E pain am🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You thought everyone was useless like you. Bastard , don't go and take care of your parents useless big for nothing first born idiot.
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Albertone(m): 8:50pm On Mar 28, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. No matter what you do, do not settle for hypogamy in marriage. If your girlfriend does not already have a job and is herself financially stable as a single individual, do not marry her or else chances are over 83% that it will end in tears for you and you will end up strangling your children and their future with the curse of poverty. undecided

You are still too young to worry yourself about marriage. Focus on getting yourself financially stable and established in your business. I say you should give yourself 20 - 30 years to get that done. Marriage is not going anywhere so take your time. undecided
Why should you tell someone the kind of marriage he/she should operate?
Different strokes work for different folks.

How much do you know about marriage for you to be giving marriage advice? If you've not been married for 10years upwards, please take the back seat.
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by Kobojunkie: 8:54pm On Mar 28, 2023
victooman:
■ let me ask you,, if l die today wont my siblings and family survive? l will not marry in my 50s just to take care of family problems it doesn't make sense or even gurantee anything,,
1. Why exactly did you create this thread again? undecided
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by HellVictorinho7: 9:19pm On Mar 28, 2023
u will not rest in peace
Re: Family Problems Is Weighing Me Down, l Need Advice by victooman(op): 11:43am On Sep 22, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
u will not rest in peace
ur father will not rest in peace
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