No be lie.

One of the reasons why women suddenly 'change' after wedding/during marriage — Your commitment has been secured.

In her mind, she's like "you're going nowhere, nigga. I've clipped your wings" 😂😂

One of the scariest thing for a woman, is to see her ex doing better than her current dude.

chikasnight:


Who cares ?? The message has gone farther than just Nairaland. So I guess they’ll have to close Twitter, telegram and other online spaces. Some of the OGs here have moved on to spread the message in other platforms
Ubunja on Instagram
Cave on Twitter
Psychologist on telegram
They’ll shut down all these too
So closing the thread is not a big deal not to me
No one can stop the message

The girl who’s boasting to martinez about killing the ashawothread, did it really stop prostitution. The men moved to a more conducive telegram and prostitution is still the biggest business in the country and still growing...

she didn't close down shit lol ,ashawothread was invaded by beggars after a particular monicker was doing giveaway ,it annoyed the creator who changed the name to beggar's den , unless you are talking about the oh group 🤷

Many of these modern women with their rude, snobbish & arrogant behaviour, tag themselves as "strong woman" or "king"



Delusions of grandeur.

Ladies that think having sex with a guy's close ally, is a form of revenge, are the most daft set of people, I've seen on the cyber space.

Skepticus:


She geo-maxxed which is changing her location (state) where we all knew her as w.hore to a far distant state and city to improve her chances of sexual attractiveness (I gave her that advice, though, as a simp would always be available to clean up our mess). In this new state, she ran into this new simp, who was more than happy to find the love of his life. Now, he is in New Zealand working his ass off placing "our w.hore" on monthly salary coupled with the business she opened for her before he left. Same w.hore is still fucking and trying to fûck her past back.

Knowing the problems, male white knights cause for men, I do not hate them but I have no pity for them. I can only save who is ready and gravely hate those men who make or support laws to support women (without recourse to responsibility and accountability) at the expense of men.

Totally agree with you 😊😊

LMAO! 🤣🤣🤣



The more self-aware you become,
The more your antenna 📡becomes sharp.


📶 😎

Stay Sharp, bro.

Karlifate:
But when a man says: his money & other resources are not meant for one woman, a broke one at that, they go bonkers.

🤣🤣🤣🤣

That girl is a solid 3 in book..

Ballzproblemm:
she didn't close down shit lol ,ashawothread was invaded by beggars after a particular monicker was doing giveaway ,it annoyed the creator who changed the name to beggar's den , unless you are talking about the oh group 🤷

I didn’t know that was the case, Na me Bleep up to take what she said serious...

Karlifate!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Omo logo, sanitizing the thread
May your oil never run dry

See that part of "only consequences await a man who doesn't level up" sent shivers down my spine
Cause not everyone will actually make it...
Life's crazy

Karlifate:
Trust, but verify occasionally, so you won't end up like him.


This kind of see finish is on another level.

Jesu Kristi!!

That's a blow some men may never recover from.

Karli is the new Pill-a-daddy

Dey drop am hot hot

See how scanty this place is, they went clubbing overnight and brought home prostitutes, later they'll come here and be doing redpill nuggets.smh

Top G now released, placed under house arrest

Maxxim:
Top G now released, placed under house arrest

Love his beards!!!

luminouz:


Love his beards!!!

Thank you...🙏🏾

Epositive:


Add up please.


Thanks.

Sorry, I've checked but couldn't find the link.

You can join this group, it's a sub-group of the RP group. DM @UWEM on this group to add you.

https://chat.whatsapp(dot)com/CgapE8e1DvJJfSMFWV3VFQ

Replace (dot) with.


Kindly edit your contact too.

luminouz:


Love his beards!!!

Looks cool on em, dude physique looks great, he must have been on workout all through his time there

IyaebeTheGreat come lets do it in this dark environment

Maxxim:

Looks cool on em, dude physique looks great, he must have been on workout all through his time there

Is this red pill or chit chat? 🤷🏾‍♂️

Maxxim:

Looks cool on em, dude physique looks great, he must have been on workout all through his time there

Yeah!!!

AndrewTate:
Is this red pill or chit chat? 🤷🏾‍♂️

Tate's parody, how does the convo affects you

Maxxim:
Top G now released, placed under house arrest

Finally🙌

Maxxim:
Top G now released, placed under house arrest

Tate freed

Jessepaid:
Tate freed

Yes boss, it's good news

luminouz:


Love his beards!!!

gay-briel i know for a very long time that u are.

Maxxim:

Looks cool on em, dude physique looks great, he must have been on workout all through his time there

another gay-briel

Karlifate:


Side note: Since time immemorial, men have been building a lot of somethings out of nothings. — Men build, conquer, protect & raise strong offsprings.

So, when men come together in one accord, these activities become wildfire & this is irresistible to the females with default boring lives. They'll do anything to part of it or tear it down by manipulation (the classic "if I cannot join them, I'll beat them" thingy)

They're also the crusaders of "you'll be lonely at old age" when they come across high-achieving (single) men, that doesn't want marital commitment to slow him down.

They're surprised at how a man can be alone, yet not lonely — This concept look alien to them, thereby stirring up their curiosities.

According to that popular cliché: "behind every successful man is a woman" even proves this 'attaché by force' observation right.

I've never come across "behind every successful woman is a man", even when the saying is visible to the blind & audible to the deaf.

Skepticus:


On point!

HeartofCity once made a comment on the thread saying that the Red pill should be scientifically studied on why so much of what it preaches (and also predicts) turn out to be true and fulfilled. I agree with him. It just never lies no matter how much you try to ignore or play around it.

Men by nature, are usually not bothered about what women do in their in-groups like gossiping about irrelevant things or themselves (intra-gender competition) in their gathering like sororities or hair-saloons. Ladies have told me how surprised and pleasured they are, seeing random men meeting each other in a barber shop, mechanic garage or having friendly rivalries over their favourite sport teams while sharing drinks in a bar, exchange numbers and move on while the same can't happen easily for women. One told me yesterday that men tend to be better keeper of secrets and she like other ladies I know, tend to enjoy the company of men as it is often fun of course. This may also contribute to why they invade male spaces but the innate female imperative of control and tendency towards disorder often kicks in.

A female fûck buddy of mine some years back, who got married last year was telling me (in a private chat) about how she would feed her husband a "sleepy" meal so he could not hang out with his friends on weekends. In her words "He seems very happy hanging out with them. I can't stand him being so happy without me".

"A woman's 'happiness' comes at the cost of someone else's."
- Rosemund P. Cherubin

Females' existence is solely dependent on the existence of others, that is, without (constant) external validation from others they'll just plummet into an existential crisis - the key to their happiness is always in someone else's hands, and that's why they're almost always unhappy and unfulfilled.
This combined with their self-involved and self-serving nature is a really nasty mix.

Here are some screenshots I took a while back, the first one is of a female explaining this incredibly petty, self-centered and, perhaps even, malignant trait, signature to females, from her pov; the second is a guy breaking it down in the terms of female nature.

[quote author=PstDapo post=122224426][/quote]
Wise words...
#staytaliban

heartofcity12:
Rants of an evening newspaper. Always blaming men.. Zero accountability..

😂 😂 😂 😂

What are they healing? Is it the damage pussy of their broken?

Haydens:
What usually gets me tired is that girls are kind of dumb when chatting to them via whatsapp, if you want to escalate they will start forming "I don't know what you are saying."

Is there any ways you can write or shed more light on escalation.

Your piece is great.

I'll drop #4 ideas on your question on escalating. From there, maybe you can learn something. I hope so.

#1 Idea
This police man stopped us...then he gesture to my guy who was on the steering to pull down the glass.

He looked at us dead in the eyes as if he was tryna read our thoughts. Then he ask for driver's license. When my guy showed him his license, the police man titled his head and looked him in a confused way as if, "he doesn't know what he's doing."

Kinda similar to what you say that when you start to escalate, the girl start forming as if "she doesn't know what you are saying."

My guy quickly get the cue: he opened his wallet and gave him a thousand note. The moment the police collected the money, he smiled and said, "now you are talking!"

Then he gesture to my guy to whine up and get the Bleep. We zoomed off!!

Sometimes, like you said, if you want to escalate they will start forming and giving you the "I don't know what you are saying" vibe. That's female manipulative game: she knows exactly what you are saying but she is acting that way to knock you of your game and see if you can get you to spend money on her

In a nutshell, women want you to "spend money" on them in your attempt to woo them, and just like the police officer, If you are not doing that, she might give you the "I don't know what you are saying" vibe when you try to escalate.

Don't fall for her trap.



#2 Idea.

Escalating is fun and smooth when you dealing with the woman who has some interest in you.
There is difference between a lady who has interest in you AND a lady who's only enjoying the attention she's getting from you AND a lady who is only being polite and looking for an excuse to dismiss you.

The solution is to “test the waters”, to see if there's any interest, so you won't be wasting your time on the wrong chick.

They say, failure is the key to success...but it depends on the situation where the failure happens. Remember, people only want associate with success not failure... If you fail officially on life TV where the whole world is watching you, that might reduce trust and respect people have for you. But if you fail on a low-key, privately, you can quickly learn from your mistakes while still retain your respect and use what you learn to succeed in public.

That's why most companies test their products before launching it; they even give it to people for free and get their feedbacks before finally launching it.

I mean, it foolish to launch a big move, when you have not yet launch smaller moves first...

It's not rocket science, it's common sense.

For example, let's say I'm hanging out with a woman...then the idea of kissing her flash on my mind...so I think "this is an opportunity to escalate"...

So I boldly lean in to kiss her...but surprisely I'm soundly and harshly rejected by her... "Stop it, how dare you try to kiss me." she roared.

That's a big move, that ended in big failure: she consciously rejected my escalation(kiss).... She's clearly aware of it and her respect for me might reduce a bit (and it will continuously reduce if I keep trying to make attempt to kiss her.)

Speaking from experience, most girls know if they’re into you or not within the first few seconds of meeting you. So, logically, when meeting a woman, the idea is to quickly test the waters and see what her deal is.

With women, it's sometimes better she reject your escalation low-key, and still retain your respect and diginity. Using the previous example, when the idea of kissing her cross my mind...instead of drawing close to kiss her, I simply "test the waters" by softly touching her on the arm or hand, and watch her reaction. I observed how the she react...If she react negatively by quickly removing her hand or something... I might touch her again later when there is more trust. I still retain my respect.

What if she's comfortable with being touched on the arm or hand (and she even touch my hands too), then I can move on to keep touching her more intimately....then going for the kiss will just flow naturally.

A girl that reject my touch on her arms or hand, will definitely reject my kiss. It's not rocket science, it's common sense.


#3 Idea

Escalating is simply moving things forward with the girl.
Most men see escalation as a series of sequence they must conquer: talk to her and get her name, then get her digit; then chatting with her and get her to respond well; then get her to meet up..then get a hug...then get a kiss, then get the pussy...and boom... victory!! You are winner.
However, this is a sad way to view it.
Because, one, you are putting the pussy on pedestal. And Two, And you are creating win lose vibe.

What do I mean by win lose vibe?

Here's what I mean: when you escalate smartly and get the pussy, you feel like the winner...but then what does she feels like?

Well, you guess right!! She feels like the LovePeddler, the slut and the loser.

This is why many women don't want to lose: so while you are trying to sexually escalate the interaction using every seduction tool in your arsenal, she's also trying to financially escalate the interaction.

When a woman meets a man, subconsciously or consciously she’s analyzing the amount of resources he possesses. She's feeling you out to see how much money you would be willing to spend on her...and then she's start trying to manipulate you into spending money using any female tricks possible.


Getting the pussy...automatically makes her the loser. So when you try to escalate and move the interaction forward, she put up an obstacle so she won't feel cheap. And the obstacle can be in any form. Just like in your situation-->when you start to escalate, the girl start forming as if "she doesn't know what you are saying"... That's her own form of obstacle.


Some fellas would say, "yo, yo, this is where having a good "mouth piece" comes in.

Hmmm.....

I just remembered an incidence:
Few weeks earlier, my cousin visited me and while talking generally, he started telling me about a guy(his friend) in his estate who's smashing lots of chicks because he has "good game", "sweet mouth", "good mouth piece" or whatever.

Wow! I was curious to see this guy...he showed me a photo and a short tiktok video of him.

I was marveled to see that this guy is particularly tall, has an athletic physique and he has an handsome face, and he's a bit popular on ticktok because has great dancing skils.

I tried my best to convince my cousin that the reason why he's smashing lots of girls is plainly because of the above qualities he has, and not because he has, "sweet mouth", "good mouth piece" or any whatever crap....

But that's a topic for another day... let's me not derail this post.

It's natural that when you try to move the interaction forward, she put up an obstacle... One way to handle this situation is to creating a win win vibe NOT win lose vibe.

Most term popularized by redpill community naturally create a "YOU vs the Girl" vibe.... terms like game, escalating, passing shit test, frame control...It makes the simple act of talking to a girl seem like you are entering a battle ground and a power tussle game. This naturally create a YOU vs HER vibe where nobody wants to feel like a loser.

To make the "escalation" happen smoothly and the interaction grow naturally towards sex (and maybe amazing romantic relationship), you want to create a YOU with HER vs the world vibe... that's a WIN WIN vibe. Basically, you want create a "cooperating vibe"....



If your behavior indicates that you are faking, playing games, being phony or being judgemental...that won't inspired cooperation vibe between you and her...That would create a power tussle where both you and the girl don't want to loose guard... and where you and her would be trying to outsmart yourself.

When you create a cooperation vibe, the idea of sex, won't be something you have to tactically escalate to, but rather it becomes something you and her are looking forward to have together.

Different women needs different level of cooperating vibe...Logically, Some women, especially those with past traumas and negative experience with men might require a higher level of cooperation vibe for the sexual escalation to progress.


Creating a cooperation vibe kicks in when you change the goal of your interaction from "getting" to "cooperating" ....

Instead of thinking in a getting way: "what can I do to get her to give me the pussy and not lose interest in me?" you are thinking in a cooperative way -- "what can I do to create an interaction where mind games, deception or disrespect doesn't exist?

Instead of thinking in a getting way: "what can I do to get her to like me and accept me," you are thinking in a cooperative way -- "What can I do to find out if I and this girl share the same interests and Intention so we won't waste each other time??"

These cooperative way of thinking doesn't sound sexy to the alpha wannabe junkies, but this kind thinking is what grow you into a mature, confident self-assured dude who naturally attract classy and high quality chick...

Classy and high quality chicks loves and respect mature, confident and self-assured dudes. It's not rocket science, it's common sense.




#4 Idea

Women are naturally program to resist a man's escalation attempt because they don't want to seem easy or cheap. However, the more attracted and interested she is in the guy, the less likely she is to resist him.

So if there's no much attraction or interest yet, it's natural that when you try to escalate, she'd put up an obstacle... One way you can possibly handle this situation is to prevent this situation in the first place by YOU actually putting up an obstacle first. So that the focus of the interaction will now be on your obstacle and not her's.

2 weeks ago, chatting with this lady; after congratulating her on her birthday. I was not that interested in her, but for experimentation purpose, I decided to move the interaction forward (escalate)....

Of course, I expected that she'd put up an obstacle because she's kinda cute, in her prime and getting massive attention from guys...

So I began with something along the lines of,
"you are my kind of girl, but I heard March born ladies are naturally self-centered and selfish... please how true is that?"

If you can interpret the above statement, you'd noticed I tried to escalate the interaction but I also put up an obstacle immediately on why I might not pursue any intimacy with her...

She started subtly defending and trying to change that negative idea I have about ladies March born girls. That is her own way of trying to neutralize the obstacle I'm putting up.

So now the focus of the interaction is now on the obstacle I created and not on the obstacle she should have created.

Most times, when a girl start trying to change the negative opinion you have about her, her interest for you gradually goes up..

In an attempt to create more obstacles on the idea of being self-centered and selfish, I told her, "I doubt if she has ever bought birthday gift for a guy before."
Of course, again she tries to remove the obstacle, telling me different situations where she bought gift for the guy she was dating in the past and the difference experiences she had with that...... Our interaction got deeper and deeper.

With her, I wasn't so much concerned getting the pussy, I was more concerned with testing the waters, creating obstacles (challenging her ego) and creating a cooperating vibe...

If you noticed that's the summary of the 4 ideas

When I tried to escalate by asking us to meet up, she enthusiastically agreed. Saying I'll be pleased to go out with you....The date ended up in my house.

I hope this was helpful.