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Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op):
I don't want to do something I will later regret, girls these days are unpredictable.

Though she's not a demanding type, she hardly ask me for money.

We met on Facebook ending of 2021, but I haven't seen her since then, though we talk regularly on phone, she got admission into the school of health recently.

I called her yesterday and she asked me for money.

I'm just afraid because I've read so many heartbreaking stories on this forum about girls abandoning guys that helped them in the end, and their fellow ladies will also defend them
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 7:52am On Apr 02, 2023
My mind is telling me not to give her since I'm not her dad
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 7:53am On Apr 02, 2023
Though I promised her next week, but I'm not sure of doing it
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Pierocash(m): 7:58am On Apr 02, 2023
What is wrong in just assisting someone with money if you have it,what is the big deal there? Not like you are taking over her parents responsibility,just a little assistance she requested and you are already interpreting it to something else.

If it was a man that asked you and you have it, would you not have given him,or is it because it is coming from a woman?

The one we don't advise is training her all through school just because you want to marry her, that is the one we don't encourage,not just a mere financial assistance
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Brainmytool(m): 8:01am On Apr 02, 2023
Anoda boy dey bang puc.ci you dey pay for the sex grin

Ask her to wait till next week and her react immediately and by next week will show if she is into you.
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Ahmed0336(m): 8:03am On Apr 02, 2023
Please yourself undecided
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by obinna58(m): 8:30am On Apr 02, 2023
You met a girl 2021 and you keeping conversations with her till this day without seeing her
Isn’t that enough simping already, now you want to take your simping to a whole new level



She already have guys eating her puxy and showering her with gifts/money, the billing is bcoz she already ditched you and now to stamp it she must have reason, why not give her the reason with ease and maintain your ego and pride
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by JASONjnr(m): 8:32am On Apr 02, 2023
Helping her isnt a must!


And you shouldn't send her money based on the relationship between you two.


How can you date a girl since 2021 and you never see her or bang her and now you want to start being a simp!
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by advanceDNA: 8:32am On Apr 02, 2023
Fineman2:
My mind is telling me not to give her since I'm not her dad
I dont know why some pple dont have shame..
Demanding for money from soeone u dont even know...

I dont blame these girls....its u weak guys i blame always thinking u have to pay a woman to get her attention...

Uve not seen her since 2021.?.. and she's asking u for money?? And u are not seeing she just wants to use you....
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 8:35am On Apr 02, 2023
advanceDNA:
I dont know why some pple dont have shame..
Demanding for money from soeone u dont even know...

I dont blame these girls....its u weak guys i blame always thinking u have to pay a woman to get her attention...

Uve not seen her since 2021.?.. and she's asking u for money?? And u are not seeing she just wants to use you....
she appears like a good girl from my observation so far, but I don't trust any girl
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 8:38am On Apr 02, 2023
obinna58:
You met a girl 2021 and you keeping conversations with her till this day without seeing her
Isn’t that enough simping already, now you want to take your simping to a whole new level



She already have guys eating her puxy and showering her with gifts/money, the billing is bcoz she already ditched you and now to stamp it she must have reason, why not give her the reason with ease and maintain your ego and pride
Lol, we don't live in same state, but she's someone from my tribe
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 8:39am On Apr 02, 2023
JASONjnr:
Helping her isnt a must!


And you shouldn't send her money based on the relationship between you two.


How can you date a girl since 2021 and you never see her or bang her and now you want to start being a simp!
it's long distance relationship.
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by advanceDNA: 8:43am On Apr 02, 2023
Fineman2:
she appears like a good girl from my observation so far, but I don't trust any girl
No good girl expect money from a man she doesnt know...its called exploitation....and u are not the only contributor....

Na u know the standard for assessing good gilr material.....u dont know someone..u have seen her since 2021..how did u relate with her to know she's a good girl??

And how does being a good girl relate to u becoming her ATM

.
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by JASONjnr(m): 8:44am On Apr 02, 2023
Fineman2:
it's long distance relationship.
You believe in this nonsense?


You haven't seen shege yet!


I hope you find yourself in the next men's conference nationwide..... To avoid the next thread that you will open to complain of heartwreck!!
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Qatar2022: 8:46am On Apr 02, 2023
Get ready for heartbreak
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by advanceDNA: 8:46am On Apr 02, 2023
Fineman2:
it's long distance relationship.
Na abroad u dey?? grin
Nigga ..u are dating urself....the real owner dey somewhere dey offing pant, u are here worrying about paying someine u have not seen for 2 years..... hahahaha
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 8:49am On Apr 02, 2023
advanceDNA:
Na abroad u dey?? grin
Nigga ..u are dating urself....the real owner dey somewhere dey offing pant, u are here worrying about paying someine u have not seen for 2 years..... hahahaha
lol, she wanted to see me several times but I always disappoint her
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 8:49am On Apr 02, 2023
JASONjnr:
You believe in this nonsense?


You haven't seen shege yet!


I hope you find yourself in the next men's conference nationwide..... To avoid the next thread that you will open to complain of heartwreck!!
that will never happen, I can assure you
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 8:52am On Apr 02, 2023
Pierocash:
What is wrong in just assisting someone with money if you have it,what is the big deal there? Not like you are taking over her parents responsibility,just a little assistance she requested and you are already interpreting it to something else.

If it was a man that asked you and you have it, would you not have given him,or is it because it is coming from a woman?

The one we don't advise is training her all through school just because you want to marry her, that is the one we don't encourage,not just a mere financial assistance
no help is small bro
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by JASONjnr(m): 8:52am On Apr 02, 2023
Fineman2:
that will never happen, I can assure you
Lol... So why did you create the thread if you know that she can never wreck your heart in the future? Why doubting her based on the analysis you read in this forum? Why didn't you just send her all her demands without bothering us?

I hope one day you will get the sense that will make you live and survive as man! Because the gender you feel you know, will make you look stupid!
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 8:57am On Apr 02, 2023
JASONjnr:
Lol... So why did you create the thread if you know that she can never wreck your heart in the future? Why doubting her based on the analysis you read in this forum? Why didn't you just send her all her demands without bothering us?

I hope one day you will get the sense that will make you live and survive as man! Because the gender you feel you know, will make you look stupid!
I'm looking for validation
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by advanceDNA: 8:57am On Apr 02, 2023
Fineman2:
lol, she wanted to see me several times but I always disappoint her
Okay....u deserve to pay... grin
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by JASONjnr(m): 8:58am On Apr 02, 2023
Fineman2:
I'm looking for validation
Ok.... I pray you get told what you've never been told before!✌️
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by blacksam01: 8:58am On Apr 02, 2023
i for u want relationship from her..pl dont help her...and if ah says yes..and u want to marry her..go and marry her first, impregnate her with two children before u help her...

ladies are devil incarnate.....
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 8:58am On Apr 02, 2023
JASONjnr:
Ok.... I pray you get told what you've never been told before!✌️
cheesy
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by obinna58(m): 9:00am On Apr 02, 2023
Fineman2:
Lol, we don't live in same state, but she's someone from my tribe
Still Doesn’t justify it, crash the goalless relationship, drive at 280kph to a full frontal collision in the rail line so she can understand how awesome you are.
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by BigYash: 9:41am On Apr 02, 2023
If you want to,do it for God o.. Expect nothing from her,cux you might be disappointed.. If you do it for love or relationship sake,she go carry you for over 2.5 or g/g
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by vincenteger: 9:41am On Apr 02, 2023
If you think you can assist her and you have the necessary things to do please assist her willingly and NEVER expect anything in return.

Don't come back here in 2yrs time or so to cry that she refused you from having s*x with her or she rejected you.
Anything you do for woman na dash, don't expect anything in return.
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 9:42am On Apr 02, 2023
BigYash:
If you want to,do it for God o.. Expect nothing from her,cux you might be disappointed.. If you do it for love or relationship sake,she go carry you for over 2.5 or g/g
thanks
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 9:43am On Apr 02, 2023
vincenteger:
If you think you can assist her and you have the necessary things to do please assist her willingly and NEVER expect anything in return.

Don't come back here in 2yrs time or so to cry that she refused you from having s*x with her or she rejected you.
Anything you do for woman na dash, don't expect anything in return.
okay man
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Clinghton: 10:02am On Apr 02, 2023
Assist without expectation, if you have future plans with her assist little and watch from a safe distance.
Re: Should I Help My Girlfriend In School? by Fineman2(op): 10:06am On Apr 02, 2023
Clinghton:
Assist without expectation, if you have future plans with her assist little and watch from a safe distance.
thanks
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