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Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by kinghopex(m): 12:16am On Jun 18, 2019
I really need advice on this..

I asked this lady out back then in 2015 and she turned me down completely without any reasonable excuse...

Now she is in the university studying and today while we were chatting, she told me she is seriously broke that i should help her with money!!

If i were you will you help her

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Davash222(m): 12:32am On Jun 18, 2019
Turn her down completely without any reasonable excuse!!

You can’t work for mtn and expect airtel to pay you.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by lilmax(m): 12:37am On Jun 18, 2019
take that money to any orphanage or hospital

its better there

I don't think that girl really needs money

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by ceeroh(m): 12:41am On Jun 18, 2019
Is she an orphan?

If she's not satisfied with what her parents are giving her, she should go into prostitution and stop using emotional tricks on you. Don't even relate with her as if you've asked her out in the past.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by 2dice01: 12:42am On Jun 18, 2019
You can help her if you have the money

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Davash222(m): 12:44am On Jun 18, 2019
2dice01:
You can help her if you have the money
You’re one of the problems we have in this country.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by 2dice01: 12:48am On Jun 18, 2019
Davash222:

You’re one of the problems we have in this country.
lol why is that

Because he woo her and she declined angry


So he shouldnt help the needy

Bros do u know if you date an average 9ja Bae your expenses after 6month can building one room in my area cheesy

Pls dont ask me where i live angry

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by ceeroh(m): 12:48am On Jun 18, 2019
2dice01:
You can help her if you have the money

Did you just say help?

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by lonelygem(m): 12:50am On Jun 18, 2019
If its such minor student money you can part with, its nothing much to seek advice about.

Talking about 5k, 10k.. After all you and your homies dey squander such amount on beer table without any impact on your financial status.

Assume you are doing it for a stranger and don't take advantage of this to get the poor innocent girl laid as accomplishment of a pre-planned evil.

God sees our intentions behind every good tidings and will sure reward us accordingly.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by 2dice01: 12:51am On Jun 18, 2019
ceeroh:


Did you just say help?
Yes if he has

If dangote ex ask him for money
If he dash the ex 1million will it affect him

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by kinghopex(m): 12:51am On Jun 18, 2019
ceeroh:
Is she an orphan?

If she's not satisfied with what her parents are giving her, she should go into prostitution and stop using emotional tricks on you. Don't even relate with her as if you've asked her out in the past.


NICE TALK

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by kinghopex(m): 12:52am On Jun 18, 2019
2dice01:
You can help her if you have the money

Make she no use me shine dat my fear

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by kinghopex(m): 12:58am On Jun 18, 2019
lonelygem:
If its such minor student money you can part with, its nothing much to seek advice about.

Talking about 5k, 10k.. After all you and your homies dey squander such amount on beer table without any impact on your financial status.

Assume you are doing it for a stranger and don't take advantage of this to get the poor innocent girl laid as accomplishment of a pre-planned evil.

God sees our intentions behind every good tidings and will sure reward us accordingly.
I AGREE WIT YOU.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by J111333(m): 1:04am On Jun 18, 2019
Yes help her of course and ask if you can help her entire class mates too.

You were not good for a boyfriend but you're very good for a helpmate after all, God blesses a cheerful giver. undecided

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by kinghopex(m): 1:07am On Jun 18, 2019
J111333:
Yes help her of course and ask if you can help her entire class mates too.

You were not good for a boyfriend but you're very good for a helpmate after all, God blesses a cheerful giver. undecided
HAHAHA

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by daddytime(m): 1:24am On Jun 18, 2019
"If I were you, will you help her"? What a silly question.

Why should I be you?..thank God I'm not you to help her

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Lamasta(m): 1:27am On Jun 18, 2019
Don't be emotional here pls go and look for who needs help in your family and help them pls the lady will sort herself out

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Poseidon000: 2:11am On Jun 18, 2019
I would've said that you should help her, but the veracity of her claim is the problem. we all know how her ilk concoct fables to mugurize men, but if you can establish for a fact that she is indeed telling the truth, then, help her.

there's more to this life than romance.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by nedubest(m): 3:38am On Jun 18, 2019
lol, do whatever ur mind tells u to do bro
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by ise82(m): 5:11am On Jun 18, 2019
How many family members or genuine friends have u helped??

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Apeshy101(m): 6:02am On Jun 18, 2019

Op she turned you down because of your grammar


Talking about helping her, if you have the money and you are willing to partway with any amount, then help her, it's no biggie.


Everyone must not be in a relationship with you. What if she was in a happy relationship before you stepped into the picture?






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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by MJBOLT: 6:12am On Jun 18, 2019
yes,you can help but dont let her turn you to father christmas

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by ceeroh(m): 6:57am On Jun 18, 2019
2dice01:
Yes if he has

If dangote ex ask him for money
If he dash the ex 1million will it affect him

And if Dangote goes about dashing out money to all the girls he has asked out in the past, would that be a wise thing to do?

Meanwhile, the girl in question is not even OP's ex.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Obainoneandonly(m): 7:30am On Jun 18, 2019
don't waste your money. but if you feel otherwise just send it to this account number 2189490964 ZENITH BANK. I will pray for you everyday throughout this year

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by RSVP: 7:33am On Jun 18, 2019
Send her 2k or 3k and wait to see her response after 2 days.

If she act funny afterward... Just call/txt her you are actually planing to send her more money probably next week when u got d money u expecting.. False promise dey work on dem wella... U don put her on hold and she go humble till next week be dat. Infact na she go dey call u sweetie cheesy.

Some girls have a way of making one look like a fool after you send them a token. They won't even call to say " I've got the money" it's irritating.


Just use ur head.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Deepfeel(m): 7:48am On Jun 18, 2019
Well she turned you down 4 yrs ago but you two are still communicating fine I guess as friends right? Help her as a friend, friends help each other, she's not asking for a chance to love you or be loved by you why take revenge cause someone said she's not in love with you, don't be surprised even with your money she will still turn you down, she's a friend not a lover

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by 9jaBloke: 7:50am On Jun 18, 2019
It's your call. I never knew that ladies were supposed to have a 'reasonable excuse' to turn down an advance.

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by 2dice01: 8:17am On Jun 18, 2019
ceeroh:


And if Dangote goes about dashing out money to all the girls he has asked out in the past, would that be a wise thing to do?

Meanwhile, the girl in question is not even OP's ex.
will all his ask for money angry

This is the first time she asked for money

If I have sef i will just tell the op to send the girl account number to Me...

This Buhari regime don make una dey think upside down

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Remijuice: 10:40am On Jun 18, 2019
Na pple like this we go have as friends and family members and hunger go dey wire us and dem go even complain about hardship pass you...

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by ikennamadu1(m): 10:48am On Jun 18, 2019
2dice01:
lol why is that

Because he woo her and she declined angry


So he shouldnt help the needy

Bros do u know if you date an average 9ja Bae your expenses after 6month can building one room in my area cheesy


Hahahahahahaha...... Lol
Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Onyenna(m): 12:36pm On Jun 18, 2019
lilmax:
take that money to any orphanage or hospital

its better there

I don't think that girl really needs money

Perfect Answer!!

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Re: Should I Help A Lady That Refused To Date Me 4 Years Ago With Money? by Gisborne6(m): 2:02pm On Jun 18, 2019
Think of it as helping the needy nt as helping d lady dah turned u down it should be easier

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