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Pukkalolo omo! Detailed explainations with real life scenerios, no teaching beats that!



Teaching go fit you.

Meedon:
😂 😂 😂 😂

What are they healing? Is it the damage pussy of their broken?

Yeah, pretty much 😂😂

The write up is very terrific and eye-opening. I will save it up for referencing. Thanks alot. I thought that u have even forgotten my reply. 🙌🙌🙌

Pukkalolo:
I'll drop #4 ideas on your question on escalating. From there, maybe you can learn something. I hope so.

#1 Idea
This police man stopped us...then he gesture to my guy who was on the steering to pull down the glass.

He looked at us dead in the eyes as if he was tryna read our thoughts. Then he ask for driver's license. When my guy showed him his license, the police man titled his head and looked him in a confused way as if, "he doesn't know what he's doing."

Kinda similar to what you say that when you start to escalate, the girl start forming as if "she doesn't know what you are saying."

My guy quickly get the cue: he opened his wallet and gave him a thousand note. The moment the police collected the money, he smiled and said, "now you are talking!"

Then he gesture to my guy to whine up and get the Bleep. We zoomed off!!

Sometimes, like you said, if you want to escalate they will start forming and giving you the "I don't know what you are saying" vibe. That's female manipulative game: she knows exactly what you are saying but she is acting that way to knock you of your game and see if you can get you to spend money on her

In a nutshell, women want you to "spend money" on them in your attempt to woo them, and just like the police officer, If you are not doing that, she might give you the "I don't know what you are saying" vibe when you try to escalate.

Don't fall for her trap.



#2 Idea.

Escalating is fun and smooth when you dealing with the woman who has some interest in you.
There is difference between a lady who has interest in you AND a lady who's only enjoying the attention she's getting from you AND a lady who is only being polite and looking for an excuse to dismiss you.

The solution is to “test the waters”, to see if there's any interest, so you won't be wasting your time on the wrong chick.

They say, failure is the key to success...but it depends on the situation where the failure happens. Remember, people only want associate with success not failure... If you fail officially on life TV where the whole world is watching you, that might reduce trust and respect people have for you. But if you fail on a low-key, privately, you can quickly learn from your mistakes while still retain your respect and use what you learn to succeed in public.

That's why most companies test their products before launching it; they even give it to people for free and get their feedbacks before finally launching it.

I mean, it foolish to launch a big move, when you have not yet launch smaller moves first...

It's not rocket science, it's common sense.

For example, let's say I'm hanging out with a woman...then the idea of kissing her flash on my mind...so I think "this is an opportunity to escalate"...

So I boldly lean in to kiss her...but surprisely I'm soundly and harshly rejected by her... "Stop it, how dare you try to kiss me." she roared.

That's a big move, that ended in big failure: she consciously rejected my escalation(kiss).... She's clearly aware of it and her respect for me might reduce a bit (and it will continuously reduce if I keep trying to make attempt to kiss her.)

Speaking from experience, most girls know if they’re into you or not within the first few seconds of meeting you. So, logically, when meeting a woman, the idea is to quickly test the waters and see what her deal is.

With women, it's sometimes better she reject your escalation low-key, and still retain your respect and diginity. Using the previous example, when the idea of kissing her cross my mind...instead of drawing close to kiss her, I simply "test the waters" by softly touching her on the arm or hand, and watch her reaction. I observed how the she react...If she react negatively by quickly removing her hand or something... I might touch her again later when there is more trust. I still retain my respect.

What if she's comfortable with being touched on the arm or hand (and she even touch my hands too), then I can move on to keep touching her more intimately....then going for the kiss will just flow naturally.

A girl that reject my touch on her arms or hand, will definitely reject my kiss. It's not rocket science, it's common sense.


#3 Idea

Escalating is simply moving things forward with the girl.
Most men see escalation as a series of sequence they must conquer: talk to her and get her name, then get her digit; then chatting with her and get her to respond well; then get her to meet up..then get a hug...then get a kiss, then get the pussy...and boom... victory!! You are winner.
However, this is a sad way to view it.
Because, one, you are putting the pussy on pedestal. And Two, And you are creating win lose vibe.

What do I mean by win lose vibe?

Here's what I mean: when you escalate smartly and get the pussy, you feel like the winner...but then what does she feels like?

Well, you guess right!! She feels like the LovePeddler, the slut and the loser.

This is why many women don't want to lose: so while you are trying to sexually escalate the interaction using every seduction tool in your arsenal, she's also trying to financially escalate the interaction.

When a woman meets a man, subconsciously or consciously she’s analyzing the amount of resources he possesses. She's feeling you out to see how much money you would be willing to spend on her...and then she's start trying to manipulate you into spending money using any female tricks possible.


Getting the pussy...automatically makes her the loser. So when you try to escalate and move the interaction forward, she put up an obstacle so she won't feel cheap. And the obstacle can be in any form. Just like in your situation-->when you start to escalate, the girl start forming as if "she doesn't know what you are saying"... That's her own form of obstacle.


Some fellas would say, "yo, yo, this is where having a good "mouth piece" comes in.

Hmmm.....

I just remembered an incidence:
Few weeks earlier, my cousin visited me and while talking generally, he started telling me about a guy(his friend) in his estate who's smashing lots of chicks because he has "good game", "sweet mouth", "good mouth piece" or whatever.

Wow! I was curious to see this guy...he showed me a photo and a short tiktok video of him.

I was marveled to see that this guy is particularly tall, has an athletic physique and he has an handsome face, and he's a bit popular on ticktok because has great dancing skils.

I tried my best to convince my cousin that the reason why he's smashing lots of girls is plainly because of the above qualities he has, and not because he has, "sweet mouth", "good mouth piece" or any whatever crap....

But that's a topic for another day... let's me not derail this post.

It's natural that when you try to move the interaction forward, she put up an obstacle... One way to handle this situation is to creating a win win vibe NOT win lose vibe.

Most term popularized by redpill community naturally create a "YOU vs the Girl" vibe.... terms like game, escalating, passing shit test, frame control...It makes the simple act of talking to a girl seem like you are entering a battle ground and a power tussle game. This naturally create a YOU vs HER vibe where nobody wants to feel like a loser.

To make the "escalation" happen smoothly and the interaction grow naturally towards sex (and maybe amazing romantic relationship), you want to create a YOU with HER vs the world vibe... that's a WIN WIN vibe. Basically, you want create a "cooperating vibe"....



If your behavior indicates that you are faking, playing games, being phony or being judgemental...that won't inspired cooperation vibe between you and her...That would create a power tussle where both you and the girl don't want to loose guard... and where you and her would be trying to outsmart yourself.

When you create a cooperation vibe, the idea of sex, won't be something you have to tactically escalate to, but rather it becomes something you and her are looking forward to have together.

Different women needs different level of cooperating vibe...Logically, Some women, especially those with past traumas and negative experience with men might require a higher level of cooperation vibe for the sexual escalation to progress.


Creating a cooperation vibe kicks in when you change the goal of your interaction from "getting" to "cooperating" ....

Instead of thinking in a getting way: "what can I do to get her to give me the pussy and not lose interest in me?" you are thinking in a cooperative way -- "what can I do to create an interaction where mind games, deception or disrespect doesn't exist?

Instead of thinking in a getting way: "what can I do to get her to like me and accept me," you are thinking in a cooperative way -- "What can I do to find out if I and this girl share the same interests and Intention so we won't waste each other time??"

These cooperative way of thinking doesn't sound sexy to the alpha wannabe junkies, but this kind thinking is what grow you into a mature, confident self-assured dude who naturally attract classy and high quality chick...

Classy and high quality chicks loves and respect mature, confident and self-assured dudes. It's not rocket science, it's common sense.




#4 Idea

Women are naturally program to resist a man's escalation attempt because they don't want to seem easy or cheap. However, the more attracted and interested she is in the guy, the less likely she is to resist him.

So if there's no much attraction or interest yet, it's natural that when you try to escalate, she'd put up an obstacle... One way you can possibly handle this situation is to prevent this situation in the first place by YOU actually putting up an obstacle first. So that the focus of the interaction will now be on your obstacle and not her's.

2 weeks ago, chatting with this lady; after congratulating her on her birthday. I was not that interested in her, but for experimentation purpose, I decided to move the interaction forward (escalate)....

Of course, I expected that she'd put up an obstacle because she's kinda cute, in her prime and getting massive attention from guys...

So I began with something along the lines of,
"you are my kind of girl, but I heard March born ladies are naturally self-centered and selfish... please how true is that?"

If you can interpret the above statement, you'd noticed I tried to escalate the interaction but I also put up an obstacle immediately on why I might not pursue any intimacy with her...

She started subtly defending and trying to change that negative idea I have about ladies March born girls. That is her own way of trying to neutralize the obstacle I'm putting up.

So now the focus of the interaction is now on the obstacle I created and not on the obstacle she should have created.

Most times, when a girl start trying to change the negative opinion you have about her, her interest for you gradually goes up..

In an attempt to create more obstacles on the idea of being self-centered and selfish, I told her, "I doubt if she has ever bought birthday gift for a guy before."
Of course, again she tries to remove the obstacle, telling me different situations where she bought gift for the guy she was dating in the past and the difference experiences she had with that...... Our interaction got deeper and deeper.

With her, I wasn't so much concerned getting the pussy, I was more concerned with testing the waters, creating obstacles (challenging her ego) and creating a cooperating vibe...

If you noticed that's the summary of the 4 ideas

When I tried to escalate by asking us to meet up, she enthusiastically agreed. Saying I'll be pleased to go out with you....The date ended up in my house.

I hope this was helpful.

abba09:
another gay-briel

Whois dis dumb asshole

It’s genuine desire or nothing. Don’t force yourself on anyone, don’t apply pressure. #trp

heartofcity12:
It’s genuine desire or nothing. Don’t force yourself on anyone, don’t apply pressure. #trp

Something happened yesterday. This girl got a big scholarship to study in the US in a telegram group I am and like everyone else, I congratulated her and told her to carry Oha soup ingredients when travelling oh. She said she can be stingy but I should drop my picture and she will decide whether to be stingy or not with her 'Oha'.

I didn't bother to reply. It's very simple. Na shit-test be that. The narrative or power has shifted to her and now, it's up to me to find my bestest picture so she won't be stingy with her affection or whatever.

To play their game is to lose. Never play their game

I've been following this thread for a long time now.
Still trying to catch up tho, I have a question bothering me.

Pls fellow niggas is it adviceable to disconnect urself from anything girls.

My eye opened big time after reading thru this page, I now approach girls indifferently, most of them are now telling me they're angry with me bla bla bla.

Before now I've "simped" so hard to the extent of even sending girls recharge card because they replied my message and sometimes I even beg them to accept the card when they reject

I don't wanna have anything to do with women anymore at least for the next 4-5 yrs.
The purpose of this is to build myself physically and career wise.
I later got to know that it's called "Monk mode" pls anyone with any ideal about how I should go about it should pls help pls explain, or anyone who has gone that part before.

Happy Sunday

SOZINN:
This my friend is why most men get married.
Several men tie the knot because they don't want to work when they become elderly and streaked with grey hair and they want to be cared for if they reach that age. They nurture children with the belief that these sprogs will become successful and return the parenting in time to come, it's quite unfortunate that most of them die before the actualization of that dream. Due to the stress that comes with providing for a family in beggary.
If that man was educated and successful, he wouldn't be there (children or not).

Thanks for this man
MGTOW

Imagine what someone is writing.
I completely lost interest in anything concerning Nigerian girls of this days

So like play like play, we're getting to the 21st century in this thread.

If you know you know

Thecan:
I've been following this thread for a long time now.
Still trying to catch up tho, I have a question bothering me.

Pls fellow niggas is it adviceable to disconnect urself from anything girls.

My eye opened big time after reading thru this page, I now approach girls indifferently, most of them are now telling me they're angry with me bla bla bla.

Before now I've "simped" so hard to the extent of even sending girls recharge card because they replied my message and sometimes I even beg them to accept the card when they reject

I don't wanna have anything to do with women anymore at least for the next 4-5 yrs.
The purpose of this is to build myself physically and career wise.
I later got to know that it's called "Monk mode" pls anyone with any ideal about how I should go about it should pls help pls explain, or anyone who has gone that part before.

Happy Sunday

1:
This thread does not preach hatred against the female folks.

2:
This thread opens your eyes to the female nature that's being hidden in plain sight.

3:
This thread doesn't encourage you to go about boasting on your RP knowledge in the real-life.

4:
You don't have to fake anything, because the female folks can even perceive a false confidence before you get close to them.

5:
I'm glad you took your self-development as a priority, but it doesn't mean you won't relate with women at all. This can be detrimental to you in the long run — Think long-term, bro.

6:
In real-life, you don't go about declaring & displaying your indifference or animosity towards the female folks, you'll be striked down when you least expect it, especially when you work in the midst of females or have female clients

7:
Read & practise the 48 Laws of Power as you navigate through life, and as you put your "monk mode" into practise.


Happy Palm 🌴 Sunday.

Karlifate:
1:
This thread does not preach hatred against the female folks.

2:
This thread opens your eyes to the female nature that's being hidden in plain sight.

3:
This thread doesn't encourage you to go about boasting on your RP knowledge in the real-life.

4:
You don't have to fake anything, because the female folks can even perceive a false confidence before you get close to them.

5:
I'm glad you took your self-development as a priority, but it doesn't mean you won't relate with women at all. This can be detrimental to you in the long run — Think long-term, bro.

6:
In real-life, you don't go about declaring & displaying your indifference or animosity towards the female folks, you'll be striked down when you least expect it, especially when you work in the midst of females or have female clients

7:
Read & practise the 48 Laws of Power as you navigate through life, and as you put your "monk mode" into practise.


Happy Palm 🌴 Sunday.

I don't hate women
I'm just tired of them for now.
Thanks for ur input

It is deceitful and treacherous for a wvmån who has done it with other men, to tell you to wait until marriage.

If she does not want sxx because she has gone Blac Chyna and baptized, then she has no business being in a relationship with an innocent man. Never ever allow a wvmån to use sxx to get you to commit to her.

Once your own case is different from the other men she gave, you have lost it. If you comply to her rules, you have lost your masculine frame. Making rules for you means she didn’t submit to you.

If she bargains with sxx, she will continue to weaponise sxx against you. If you make her happy, she will reward you with sxx, and when you upset her she will punish you by withholding sxx.

She gave to other wvmęn’s husbands whom she knew were married and was never going to marry her, but she is making rules for you who is single and likely to marry her.

She gave her exes and casual friends who did not marry her, and she turns around to demand marriage before she can give you. That is a blackmail. She has little respect for your intelligence. It is injustice!

Why must your case be different? Why are you special?
Tell her: “Agbomma, nye mu ịhe ị ṅyere ibe mu kaa obi ri mu ṅma”.

Even if she must change, let the change begin after you. You are not special, and you don’t deserve such honor to marry her before you can pierce her. You deserve equal treatment.


#copied from Facebook

Aswear
You get babe, babe no fit spend her money come your side until you give her money make she come.
She go come, she go dey form hard hard before she gives in.

But she fit use her money go another nigga side claiming they are old friends, he go dey smash her.
Nigga too go do her better she go come dey talk sey dem no dey do anything.

Bf too go believe 😅 omo it's just dey play o.
Obinrin🤣

Kimcutie:
Similar?? I only brought facts to the table, I don't go around throwing words or use derogatory names, she said self deceptive, it should be called self awareness instead, how did I underestimate, omo ur free to do what u like bro, peace.

We don't quote that guy here na. Why you dey waste your time na

It pleases me greatly when I see how much the detractors try to derail this thread but keep failing.
Keep starving them of attention good sirs.
Many of us do not comment often but we are following.

God bless the RedPill.

NB: Heard Cobra Tate and Tristan have been released from prison.

Thecan:
I don't hate women

Wanted to ask him which part of your post showed "hatred for women" or "faking of confidence" ... But yeah, understanding is relative...
Brilliant sexual urge control
Zero Ego ( the ego responsible for reacting to words or manipulative actions)
Flawless conscious and unconscious way of ignoring people. and
Financial Discipline.

Back to your question, Trust me if you can do these 4 things above, you wont care less about the gender (male, female, trans etc) you interact with. If you can cap it off by expecting little to nothing from others whilst maintaining a good value standard ( deal with people ( again men, women, trans ) that have values to "contribute" ), then you get the see the world in a whole new way.
Is it quite difficult, especially coming from the bluepill lens? Yes...
Is it possible? Yes
_{I'm thrilled when i see people going the self-dev route. Wish you good luck on that journey. It's one of the best trust me. My only worry is the fact that people return back to default state after attaining a certain level of success.}

Redpillers I want to open your eyes to something, after your redpill nuggets and taking pills to help you against being used by women as you claim, I'm yet to see redpill against kanyamatta because it's the order of the day now. So redpillers please try and suggest nuggets against kanyamatta so that the redpill can effectively work else it's going to be a very fruitless journey. I come in peace. #RedpillNuggetsAgainstKanyamatta#

Thecan:
Imagine what someone is writing.

..
I mean, it's the game bro..
You either play or get played... Sadly, my gender is almost always at the wrong end..
There are those (who the society call cowards) who know the game, but are not interested in playing . they simple cheer those playing and laugh at those being played...

Interesting times we live in

_{reposting the picture for easy ref.}

Be forming redpill here, by the time better kanyamatta nack una head, you'll never remember if anything like redpill exist

10k for anyone who ignores the dense dolt.

Eazzii:
10k for anyone who ignores the dense dolt.

I am the winner already just pay me!!!

luminouz:
Something happened yesterday. This girl got a big scholarship to study in the US in a telegram group I am and like everyone else, I congratulated her and told her to carry Oha soup ingredients when travelling oh. She said she can be stingy but I should drop my picture and she will decide whether to be stingy or not with her 'Oha'.

I didn't bother to reply. It's very simple. Na shit-test be that. The narrative or power has shifted to her and now, it's up to me to find my bestest picture so she won't be stingy with her affection or whatever.

To play their game is to lose. Never play their game

Hope you no go just completely forget am

She is still smashable

Thecan:
I've been following this thread for a long time now.
Still trying to catch up tho, I have a question bothering me.

Pls fellow niggas is it adviceable to disconnect urself from anything girls.

My eye opened big time after reading thru this page, I now approach girls indifferently, most of them are now telling me they're angry with me bla bla bla.

Before now I've "simped" so hard to the extent of even sending girls recharge card because they replied my message and sometimes I even beg them to accept the card when they reject

I don't wanna have anything to do with women anymore at least for the next 4-5 yrs.
The purpose of this is to build myself physically and career wise.
I later got to know that it's called "Monk mode" pls anyone with any ideal about how I should go about it should pls help pls explain, or anyone who has gone that part before.

Happy Sunday

No just take like 3 or 4 months to learn game and be practicing with girls you come across with

Either girls that are just acquaintances or new ones
5 years is way too long to stay away from action

Experience is ALWAYS gained in the field

joeeee240:
Hope you no go just completely forget am

She is still smashable

I'm not sending my picture to any girl so she can 'decide whether I'm worth her time or not' which was essentially what the girl meant.

Smashable? Yes!!! But on my own terms, not hers!!

luminouz:
I'm not sending my picture to any girl so she can 'decide whether I'm worth her time or not' which was essentially what the girl meant.

Smashable? Yes!!! But on my own terms, not hers!!

I know... i didn't say you should send a picture
I said you shouldn't just completely forget her because she is still well within smashable territory

See them up there, yeye people. I'm telling you all the hard truth, it'll reach your turn and you'll not even know what is redpill by the time babes wey sabi package una and do una anyhow . Else why do you think men are crying over relationship everywhere these days. I say the truth most times but can be playful with it.

joeeee240:
I know... i didn't say you should send a picture
I said you shouldn't just completely forget her because she is still well within smashable territory

Lol... I won't push that unless I can control the construct.

N.B: I'm definitely winning this 10k

Just 1500 you and your redpill is gone before na 500 it's this naira scarcity that made it rise. Make una dy deceive unaselves

luminouz:
Lol... I won't push that unless I can control the construct.

N.B: I'm definitely winning this 10k

Na wetin i dey tell you

That you can control the construct... that's why she's smashable

See this evil hater up here, your own Dy come. Ordinary 1500 all of you will rush into the simphood and handover your properties ontop. I am not joking oooooo

joeeee240:
Na wetin i dey tell you

That you can control the construct... that's why she's smashable

Sure...but then do I want to? Nope... I just don't have the interest.