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How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 8:37pm On Apr 03, 2023
Good evening everyone
I'm in regrets now
I've sore never to touch alcohol

Today I sipped some Irish cream drink for little confidence for a presentation in class
Then I sat next to this girl... my friend and course mate then we got talking and she started asking if I took alcohol
Tho I'm an introvert and don't talk much but surprisingly I noticed I was flowing well with her
I had to excuse myself to the toilet to wash my mouth properly
Now it feels awkward when I see her.
Pls what can I do to get over the shame
Thanks
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Apr 03, 2023
Stop taking alcohol
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 8:40pm On Apr 03, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Stop taking alcohol
I won't
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 8:41pm On Apr 03, 2023
Temioolajide:
I won't
Then keep embarrassing yourself
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Apr 03, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Then keep embarrassing yourself
No I mean I won't take it again
Any advice to get over the embarrassment?
Thanks
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by grafixdon: 8:43pm On Apr 03, 2023
Lol. Be yourself. You've committed no harm. Be free. You don't need anyone's validation.

My crush once packed my vomit after taken excess alcohol to impress her. Very real, loving girl. Unfortunately, she died after just 6months in relationship with her... Shade, may your soul continue to rest in peace.
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Apr 03, 2023
Temioolajide:
No I mean I won't take it again
Any advice to get over the embarrassment?
Thanks
Just talk over it with her. That's all
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by PussyGalore(f): 8:44pm On Apr 03, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Then keep embarrassing yourself
Good answer
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 8:45pm On Apr 03, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Just talk over it with her. That's all
Thanks
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Apr 03, 2023
grafixdon:
Lol. Be yourself. You've committed no harm. Be free. You don't need anyone's validation.

My crush once packed my vomit after taken excess alcohol to impress her. Very real, loving girl. Unfortunately, she died after just 6months in relationship with her... Shade, may your soul continue to rest in peace.
Woah
may her soul rest in peace 🙏
Thanks for your comment
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Autobot05: 9:09pm On Apr 03, 2023
I'm introverted and I can relate with this..
Stop alcohol tho
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Apr 03, 2023
Autobot05:
I'm introverted and I can relate with this..
Stop alcohol tho
Thanks I've stopped
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Blupen(m): 9:19pm On Apr 03, 2023
Op what you need as an introvert is weed my 2cents
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Apr 03, 2023
Blupen:
Op what you need as an introvert is weed my 2cents
Lolzz
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody:
Temioolajide:
Good evening everyone
I'm in regrets now
I've sore never to touch alcohol

Today I sipped some Irish cream drink for little confidence for a presentation in class
Then I sat next to this girl... my friend and course mate then we got talking and she started asking if I took alcohol
Tho I'm an introvert and don't talk much but surprisingly I noticed I was flowing well with her
I had to excuse myself to the toilet to wash my mouth properly
Now it feels awkward when I see her.
Pls what can I do to get over the shame
Thanks
Since she is a friend just strike a conversation with her like this but not in an awkward time.

You can go close to where she is sitting when you people are waiting for lectures and start by saying .......

Hello or hi how is the semester going ... ?

Three seconds after .... you start with the question.... below

" Speak with an engaging tone ..( a tone that makes the listener know you are not asking a rhetorical question that you require an answer ".


Are the norths in Nigeria hypocrites they destroy alcohol citing islam religion doesn't permit it but want to get a share of the money gotten from the sales of alcohol in the south ?
Wait a lil while for her response.

Your next question should be if you are giving the permission to ban just one brand of alcohol (beer, foreign Spirits ,local gins) every six months in the south which one would you start with ?

Whatever her response is, ask her why she chose the brand she chosed .

Lastly ask her have you tasted any alcohol in your entire life .

Her response might shock you. She might have been a drunk.. no matter how cool she looks now .


Kids of 10 years this days have already tasted alcohol.

But like you said stop alcohol and don't try to taste cigarettes or do drugs.

I recommend you involve in church activities on campus it will give you confidence in presentations .
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Apr 03, 2023
IblivinJesus:
Since she is a friend just strike a conversation with her like this but not in an awkward time.

You can go close to where she is sitting when you people are waiting for lectures and start by saying .......

Are the norths in Nigeria hypocrites they don't destroy alcohol citing islam religion but want to get a share the money gotten from the sales of alcohol in the south ?

Your next question should be if you are giving the permission to ban just one brand of alcohol (beer, foreign Spirits ,local gins) every six months in the south which one would you start with ?

Whatever her response is, ask her why she chose the brand she chosed .

Lastly ask her have you tasted any alcohol in your entire life .

Her response might shock you. She might have been a drunk.. no matter how cool she looks now .


Kids of 10 years this days have already tasted alcohol.

But like you said stop alcohol and don't try to taste cigarettes or do drugs.

I recommend you involve in church activities on campus it will give you confidence in presentations .
Many thanks
I'll join one
God bless
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Blupen(m): 9:49pm On Apr 03, 2023
Temioolajide:
Lolzz
Am not joking that is how i overcame my shyness
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Smitaro100(m): 11:07pm On Apr 03, 2023
You will get over it when you swallow d redpill. wink
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 11:12pm On Apr 03, 2023
Smitaro100:
You will get over it when you swallow d redpill. wink
Tell me more
I should stop being a simp??
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Smitaro100(m): 11:21pm On Apr 03, 2023
Temioolajide:
Tell me more
I should stop being a simp??
Yes. You will have to chew three redpills and swallow one card daily for 3 months because your case is severe. grin
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Apr 03, 2023
Smitaro100:
Yes. You will have to chew three redpills and swallow one card daily for 3 months because your case is severe. grin
Wetin b dis
I get the redpill part
Whats the card own??
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Smitaro100(m): 11:24pm On Apr 03, 2023
Temioolajide:
Wetin b dis
I get the redpill part
Whats the card own??
A card of d red pill.
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 11:26pm On Apr 03, 2023
Smitaro100:
A card of d red pill.
Hmmm...how do I get that

TEACH ME MASTER
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Smitaro100(m): 11:34pm On Apr 03, 2023
Temioolajide:
Hmmm...how do I get that

TEACH ME MASTER
You will have to register with redpill institute of no simping..

Registration fee: N10,000 only.
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 11:40pm On Apr 03, 2023
Smitaro100:
You will have to register with redpill institute of no simping..

Registration fee: N10,000 only.

Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by falcon01: 6:10am On Apr 04, 2023
Temioolajide:
I won't
🤣
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by otipoju(m): 7:14am On Apr 04, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
Just talk over it with her. That's all
Never apologise to a woman...ever over nothing.

Make it up to her in a different way..but never say I am sorry. They hate hearing it
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by advanceDNA: 8:15am On Apr 04, 2023
Temioolajide:
Good evening everyone
I'm in regrets now
I've sore never to touch alcohol

Today I sipped some Irish cream drink for little confidence for a presentation in class
Then I sat next to this girl... my friend and course mate then we got talking and she started asking if I took alcohol
Tho I'm an introvert and don't talk much but surprisingly I noticed I was flowing well with her
I had to excuse myself to the toilet to wash my mouth properly
Now it feels awkward when I see her.
Pls what can I do to get over the shame
Thanks
U have simping gene in you body..na so e dey start....being awkward around women for no reason.......
U ddnt offend her....yet u are feeling embarassed .....mayb she's even thinking u are cool guy but u dey belittle urself, worshipping her aśś...
Mayb u dont know ...bad boy vibes dey attract most girls...
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Nobody: 8:27am On Apr 04, 2023
advanceDNA:
U have simping gene in you body..na so e dey start....being awkward around women for no reason.......
U ddnt offend her....yet u are feeling embarassed .....mayb she's even thinking u are cool guy but u dey belittle urself, worshipping her aśś...
Mayb u dont know ...bad boy vibes dey attract most girls...
Hmm another perspective
I knew bad guys here will give me bitter truth grin
Thanks
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Demigod22: 9:49am On Apr 04, 2023
Lol, you don't have problem in life if this is your worry.

Don't read deep meaning into girls action or words, they are emotional most times, you should be logical and take charge. I am very good at doing that, and that's why we don't have problem getting girls, even while in school.
Re: How Do I Get Over This Embarrassment? by Davash222(m): 10:16am On Apr 04, 2023
grafixdon:
Lol. Be yourself. You've committed no harm. Be free. You don't need anyone's validation.

My crush once packed my vomit after taken excess alcohol to impress her. Very real, loving girl. Unfortunately, she died after just 6months in relationship with her... Shade, may your soul continue to rest in peace.
Good girls die young while evil girls like Iyaebe live up to 150 years.
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