bukatyne:
Does divorce mean you have failed in marriage?

Yes.

After all, divorce is the failure of a marriage.

The question should be 'is failure a bad thing'?

It depends on the circumstances.

For instance, failure is better than death.

bukatyne:
Does divorce mean you have failed in marriage?

Yes.

After all, divorce is the failure of a marriage.

The question should be 'is failure a bad thing'?

It depends on the circumstances.

For instance, failure is better than death.

Dearlove2me:
■ Does divorce really mean you've failed?

Kobojunkie:
1. Divorce instead means the strategy employed in your previous relationship failed, and you have a chance to do better in your next attempt. You do not divorce yourself from all marriages but from a particular marriage.

So long as you are in this "error and contradictions" prone state called life, expect failures. If you take anu of it personally, you are bound to wreck yourself. If you pretend it all has no meaning, you fool yourself. Best is to take it for what it is which is an opportunity to learn from mistakes so you can move forward and make less of the same.

Kobojunkie:
1. Divorce instead means the strategy employed in your previous relationship failed, and you have a chance to do better in your next attempt. You do not divorce yourself from all marriages but from a particular marriage.

So long as you are in this "error and contradictions" prone state called life, expect failures. If you take anu of it personally, you are bound to wreck yourself. If you pretend it all has no meaning, you fool yourself. Best is to take it
for what it is which is an opportunity to learn from mistakes so you can move forward and make less of the same.

Mkelv0106:
Letting go of an unhealthy marriage doesn't mean you failed. It actually gives you the opportunity to reset, learn garner experience and fix any problem you might encounter in the future. You only failed in picking your partner. What most of the female do now, is just to marry the man that is available and can provide her needs without considering their compatibility. When you discover you guys aren't compatible, it's already too late.
Let's say the truth, money is important in every relationship, and it's a major factor in majority of the women picking their partner now, one thing y'all have to understand is that relationship isn't marriage, you don't spend frivolously in marriage the way you spend in relationships, bcus you no dey try impress anybody again.

Tayorshd2:
U must be a marriage councillor with enough years of experience.
Love your tips

Dearlove2me:
■ Have you ever been in a situation where you find it difficult to let go even when the situation is not making you happy?
■ Have you ever been with a partner with bad behavior and they are not ready to change and you're force to divorce and walk away, but deep down, you wish they could change for good, because you want a better life?
■ Have you ever been in a situation where you constantly nag your partner out of the house,but still wish they're safe. And want them back safely?
■ What of living with a partner where love, affection romance and all that are absent because your partner's bad character irritate you? What did you do?
■ Could this emotional feeling, be a feeling that keeps people in an unhealthy marriage for the rest of their lives? Did you walk away or did you stay even when you have no solution?

Kobojunkie:
1. Divorce instead means the strategy employed in your previous relationship failed, and you have a chance to do better in your next attempt. You do not divorce yourself from all marriages but from a particular marriage.

So long as you are in this "error and contradictions" prone state called life, expect failures. If you take anu of it personally, you are bound to wreck yourself. If you pretend it all has no meaning, you fool yourself. Best is to take it for what it is which is an opportunity to learn from mistakes so you can move forward and make less of the same.

JeffreyJunior:
■ Marriage is a treaty and they both signed to keep it running. In that treaty, there is no clause for divorce or I no gree again so going against it simply means they failed.

If they move on and succeed in subsequent marriages, that's gonna be a different topic.

I strongly encourage separation though, especially when physical abuse is involved.

Shokoloko:

Very wise words. Not all failure is bad.
Besides a first marriage failing does not mean a second marriage will fail
I cannot thank God for the number of times I failed in some aspects of my life, because every single time I failed hopelessly I got beautifully compensated.