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SuperBlack:
I have been in a Relationship with this Particular Girl for a Long time now, and I have grown to Love Her so well, She's from Benue State ( Idoma) while I'm from Abia State,

Now I want to Marry Her, when I told the elders of my meeting that I want to Marry Her, they ask me if I know much about their tradition,

I said No, they said I should find out before proceeding, when I start making research,

I found out they have a culture that when their daughter is married outside, any time she dies her body will be brought back to her father's house for Burial

I called her and sat her down and asked, she said she doesn't know much about that,

Then I told her to help ask her mum, maybe her mum will also help ask her father,

At long last, it now happen that it's true, I still said I will like to meet her father to hear from him direct,

I went to their house yesterday with my brother to meet with him, after telling him my intentions and the enquiring that I came fore,

The Old Man Said Tradition is Tradition and Nothing will Change it, that I should still do more research and ask questions too,

That he can't do anything about it,

SINCE THEN I'M TOO CONFUSED if I should carry On Or Back out!

SuperBlack:
I have been in a Relationship with this Particular Girl for a Long time now, and I have grown to Love Her so well, She's from Benue State ( Idoma) while I'm from Abia State,

Now I want to Marry Her, when I told the elders of my meeting that I want to Marry Her, they ask me if I know much about their tradition,

I said No, they said I should find out before proceeding, when I start making research,

I found out they have a culture that when their daughter is married outside, any time she dies her body will be brought back to her father's house for Burial,

I called her and sat her down and asked, she said she doesn't know much about that,

Then I told her to help ask her mum, maybe her mum will also help ask her father,

At long last, it now happen that it's true, I still said I will like to meet her father to hear from him direct,

I went to their house yesterday with my brother to meet with him, after telling him my intentions and the enquiring that I came fore,

The Old Man Said Tradition is Tradition and Nothing will Change it, that I should still do more research and ask questions too,

That he can't do anything about it,

SINCE THEN I'M TOO CONFUSED if I should carry On Or Back out!

Jashub:
Why would you want to marry into a family that values its own tradition over common sense and your own sense of right and wrong ? Better be wise and ditch that relationship before their tradition takes over your home and happiness

SuperBlack:
I have been in a Relationship with this Particular Girl for a Long time now, and I have grown to Love Her so well, She's from Benue State ( Idoma) while I'm from Abia State,

Now I want to Marry Her, when I told the elders of my meeting that I want to Marry Her, they ask me if I know much about their tradition,

I said No, they said I should find out before proceeding, when I start making research,

I found out they have a culture that when their daughter is married outside, any time she dies her body will be brought back to her father's house for Burial,

I called her and sat her down and asked, she said she doesn't know much about that,

Then I told her to help ask her mum, maybe her mum will also help ask her father,

At long last, it now happen that it's true, I still said I will like to meet her father to hear from him direct,

I went to their house yesterday with my brother to meet with him, after telling him my intentions and the enquiring that I came fore,

The Old Man Said Tradition is Tradition and Nothing will Change it, that I should still do more research and ask questions too,

That he can't do anything about it,

SINCE THEN I'M TOO CONFUSED if I should carry On Or Back out!

SuperBlack:
I have been in a Relationship with this Particular Girl for a Long time now, and I have grown to Love Her so well, She's from Benue State ( Idoma) while I'm from Abia State,

Now I want to Marry Her, when I told the elders of my meeting that I want to Marry Her, they ask me if I know much about their tradition,

I said No, they said I should find out before proceeding, when I start making research,

I found out they have a culture that when their daughter is married outside, any time she dies her body will be brought back to her father's house for Burial,

I called her and sat her down and asked, she said she doesn't know much about that,

Then I told her to help ask her mum, maybe her mum will also help ask her father,

At long last, it now happen that it's true, I still said I will like to meet her father to hear from him direct,

I went to their house yesterday with my brother to meet with him, after telling him my intentions and the enquiring that I came fore,

The Old Man Said Tradition is Tradition and Nothing will Change it, that I should still do more research and ask questions too,

That he can't do anything about it,

SINCE THEN I'M TOO CONFUSED if I should carry On Or Back out!

SuperBlack:
I have been in a Relationship with this Particular Girl for a Long time now, and I have grown to Love Her so well, She's from Benue State ( Idoma) while I'm from Abia State,

Now I want to Marry Her, when I told the elders of my meeting that I want to Marry Her, they ask me if I know much about their tradition,

I said No, they said I should find out before proceeding, when I start making research,

I found out they have a culture that when their daughter is married outside, any time she dies her body will be brought back to her father's house for Burial,

I called her and sat her down and asked, she said she doesn't know much about that,

Then I told her to help ask her mum, maybe her mum will also help ask her father,

At long last, it now happen that it's true, I still said I will like to meet her father to hear from him direct,

I went to their house yesterday with my brother to meet with him, after telling him my intentions and the enquiring that I came fore,

The Old Man Said Tradition is Tradition and Nothing will Change it, that I should still do more research and ask questions too,

That he can't do anything about it,

SINCE THEN I'M TOO CONFUSED if I should carry On Or Back out!

CDCEO001:
Why are you worried about where she will burried when she die? At this stage? Is she going to die anytime soon?

Wodu89:
How does the girls village value their traditions over his. Please state where you got this from out of his post. Thank you

Jashub:
Oga, the OP edited his post . Tell him to post the earlier version where the girl's father said " that is tradition ..." , afterwards , read my post. Thank you

SuperBlack:
I have been in a Relationship with this Particular Girl for a Long time now, and I have grown to Love Her so well, She's from Benue State ( Idoma) while I'm from Abia State,

Now I want to Marry Her, when I told the elders of my meeting that I want to Marry Her, they ask me if I know much about their tradition,

I said No, they said I should find out before proceeding, when I start making research,

I found out they have a culture that when their daughter is married outside, any time she dies her body will be brought back to her father's house for Burial,

I called her and sat her down and asked, she said she doesn't know much about that,

Then I told her to help ask her mum, maybe her mum will also help ask her father,

At long last, it now happen that it's true, I still said I will like to meet her father to hear from him direct,

I went to their house yesterday with my brother to meet with him, after telling him my intentions and the enquiring that I came fore,

The Old Man Said Tradition is Tradition and Nothing will Change it, that I should still do more research and ask questions too,

That he can't do anything about it,

SINCE THEN I'M TOO CONFUSED if I should carry On Or Back out!