Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? - Romance (2)

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Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by AjiBussu(m): 6:32pm On Apr 20, 2023

Say women don finish for this life ni ?

Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by Jakumo(m): 9:27pm On Apr 20, 2023

AjiBussu:
Say women don finish for this life ni ?

I hear you, brother. Any single man who allows himself to be recruited as the BREADWINNER of another man's unfairly used and discarded wife AND her rugrats deserves to be taken to the village square for vigorous and sustained flogging as punishment for being a complete and utter dunce.

I have never heard of such an idiotic idea in my entire life. If the only women available on this planet were mothers of other men's children, I would very quickly decide to live alone until the day I die, rather than finance the results of another man's phucking sessions, whilst presumably mounting a gaping wide childbirth canal whose edges will rival the width of the Grand Canyon in Arizona.

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Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by AjiBussu(m): 9:53pm On Apr 20, 2023

Jakumo:
I hear you, brother. Any single man who allows himself to be recruited as the BREADWINNER of another man's unfairly used and discarded wife AND her rugrats deserves to be taken to the village square for vigorous and sustained flogging as punishment for being a complete and utter dunce.

I have never heard of such an idiotic idea in my entire life. If the only women available on this planet were mothers of other men's children, I would very quickly decide to live alone until the day I die, rather than finance the results of another man's phucking sessions, whilst presumably mounting a gaping wide childbirth canal whose edges will rival the width of the Grand Canyon in Arizona.

Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by efficiencie(m): 10:06pm On Apr 20, 2023

micellgevity:
There is this neighbour of mine who has been married for some years without children. He confided in me and sought my advice on this issue that he was introduced to one beautiful widow who has three kids with a good job. He told me the woman said the kids' responsibilities would not be his as she has her job. But my neighbour is afraid. How should I advise him?

Your "neighbor" needs to investigate what killed the woman's husband make the same thing no go kill am. A beautiful widow can easily be a black widow so tell your "neighbor" to thread carefully before he walks into a slaughter house.

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Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by rickleye: 10:15pm On Apr 20, 2023

It all depends on the father of the kids and the ages. Some kids would make your life a living hell. Get to know the woman and the kids. Take them out and see if they are warm and respond . Who handles discipline ? Are you guys going to have an additional kids. Would the kids allow you to adopt them so that they bear your name ? Are you working ?
Do not cheat yourself out of a good relationship on faulty advise . Some of those ladies out there have made mistakes and aborted and may find it difficult to have kids again. But know the kids - This is common in the states. AN example Richard Williams and Oracene. They each had 3 kids from different marriages before they had Serena and Venus to make 8 children.

Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by Jakumo(m): 10:22pm On Apr 20, 2023

rickleye:
It all depends on the father of the kids and the ages. Some kids would make your life a living hell. Get to know the woman and the kids. Take them out and see if they are warm and respond . Who handles discipline ? Are you guys going to have an additional kids. Would the kids allow you to adopt them so that they bear your name ? Are you working ?
Do not cheat yourself out of a good relationship on faulty advise . Some of those ladies out there have made mistakes and aborted and may find it difficult to have kids again. But know the kids - This is common in the states. AN example Richard Williams and Oracene. They each had 3 kids from different marriages before they had Serena and Venus to make 8 children.

Papa God fobit bat ting. I would not touch someone's mother for a million dollars.

Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by ItisWell22(f): 10:46pm On Apr 20, 2023

Fahvvy:
Atleast for the most part, there are benefits attacked to marrying these alleged great grand mothers (finance, green card, connections etc) ...

Can you tell me one benefits attached to getting married to a single mother that has three kids here in Nigeria? ....

@OP...
I don't hate single mothers, however, unless God Himself thunders from heaven saying "Marry this one", I'd rather be castrated than end up with one ...

And I can't advice any to marry one too ...
Let her go and marry any of her baby daddy's ...

She’s a widow! 😒

Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by pansophist(m): 10:48pm On Apr 20, 2023

Regardless of what the woman said, marrying a woman with kids is privilege reserved for wealthy men, just like polygamy. It's the only way he will ever find peace in such union.

If he is poor, tell him to stay off. And he should not believe her word that she bears the responsibility of her kids only. Women are not known to keep to their words. And even if she will, how will he be respected?

Women value men for provision, it's as simple as that. And the provision extends to her kids, whether it's yours or not doesn't matter. You can't tell her you love her, and watch her kids go hungry.

And money is not the only channel of fatherly duty. There is representation, leadership, scolding, teaching, etc, and they will only listen and respect him if he is paying as a father. You can't have one without the other. If the kids enters prison for example, you will show up.

So use your sense. Learn to think for yourself. And if he wants his own child(ren), then he should consider if her age can give it to him, and also if she wants to bear more kids, that's if he goes ahead with her.

But last last, in life, some decisions should not involve pity, feelings, and sacrificing one own interest, and marriage is one of it. It's always good to start on a clean slate. Marry someone without kids, just as you. And hopefully, both of you live happily, ever after.

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Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by 1Sharon(f): 12:29am On Apr 21, 2023

Has he done medical tests to ascertain the cause of their infertility before jumping ship?

Or does he assume the fault is from the woman?

What an odd story.

Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by FEGNO: 3:21am On Apr 21, 2023

Dem jazz me? Never

Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by Fahvvy: 6:02am On Apr 21, 2023

ItisWell22:
She’s a widow! 😒

Yeahhh...
That's terrible, I agree...
The death of her husband prolly wasn't her fault...

But she's still a single mother REGARDLESS undecided

...
So that makes her not good enough to be taken seriously (relationship wise) undecided

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Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by Jakumo(m): 7:15am On Apr 21, 2023*

pansophist:
Regardless of what the woman said, marrying a woman with kids is privilege reserved for wealthy men, just like polygamy. It's the only way he will ever find peace in such union.

Ha ha ha na so. One of the reasons I just love this forum is that hugely talented comedians show up to tell stories that leave me convulsing with gales of laughter.

A privilege, did you say? A PRIVILEGE, to marry a leathery-skinned middle-aged obese matron with humongous dangly deflated udders, a protruding beer gut, a gigantic gaping beaver wide enough to park an 18-wheeler articulated truck, AND a horde of dependent kids many of who would be big and strong enough to beat the living crap out of any man that enters their turbulent household? A PRIVILEGE ? ? Hahahahaha

You got jokes, dude, and hysterically funny jokes that qualify you to be on stage as a standup comedian that will really pull the crowds.

Hey, you know what, I'm going to run with this concept of PRIVILEGE and list a few privileges that I would love to experience before I die.

1. I would relish the privilege of having my car's front tire suddenly explode while I am driving at very high speed, enabling my car to summersault at least three times, while I tumble about inside like a rag doll in a washing machine after forgetting to wear my seatbelt.

2. Nothing makes my mouth water more than the privilege of having my house invaded by a gang of bloodthirsty armed robbers who will then proceed to stab me in the legs and torso repeatedly after I inform them that I have no cash to donate, as an exciting prelude to getting shot in the head so I can go and visit Papa God with many fun stories to tell there.

3. I dream in wistful anticipation of the privileged day I will be seized by a crowd of Nigerian "sympathizers", adorned with a petrol-soaked tire around my chicken neck after being viciously clubbed over the head to ensure compliance, before then basking in the privilege of smelling that glorious aroma of my own skin and flesh being incinerated to the delight of the baying lynch mob.

Man oh man, a PRIVILEGE. You made my day sir. You truly did. You are a comedic genius the likes of which only appear once in a generation.

God bless Nicaragua!

Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by MRFIXER001: 11:40pm On Aug 20, 2023

AjiBussu:

Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by Fairview1(m): 4:00am On Aug 21, 2023

donbachi:
Why not.
You guys don't marry them in nigeria.but, will come overseas and marry great-grand mothers.

This has nothing to do about the woman. It's about the kids involved or children rather

Re: Can You Marry A Woman With 3 Kids? by Map1(m): 4:54am On Aug 21, 2023

donbachi:
Why not.
You guys don't marry them in nigeria.but, will come overseas and marry great-grand mothers.

here in Nigeria they don't add value but over there they add value to your life.

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