2canplay1000:
I need to quote u again... do you know some people just love naturally? She loves me even before falllin for her.. she told me about her feelings when she was 17 and I waited till today.. see go sleep

lol remind me of my frnd way back then in gusau zamfara state. There is this small igbo girl that came and toast him, she is not even upto 16yrs then and she was in jss3. My guy sharpaly accepted, disvirgin the girl and almost every body in tudu wada gusau knew the both of them. To cut the story short, after 3years chizubar don carry belle for another man while still forming fake love for my guy

purples25:


Now your commitment is a case of 'if' right? But when it was time to break her hymen, it was a matter of urgency.

You mentioned that she was begging you to stay, which you won't see if not that you have put her at your mercy by taking her virginity, her pride. You have temporarily rendered her your slave emotionally, putting you in full control of everything. You claim you wanted to do things right. Then why not follow a fair process. Why put yourself in control of her emotionally, and physically as the first guy.

You want to marry the girl in three years time. You have opened the road of sex to her now. Now, you will be sleeping with her, and have her glued to you because now she fears she has sacrificed something, plus she wouldn't be valued by any other man as brand new. Also you will have her on a dog leash as a girl now prone to sexual temptations, yet not married. You want to be jacking her back anytime she feels urges, for your sadistic enjoyment.

I believe if you wanted a fair relationship, and not power play, you would have dated decently. But you don't want to be on the receiving end, wondering and sweating fearfully over whether she has had sex or she won't get married to you. You don't want to feel bad that you didn't gain if the relationship ends.

So you devalued her.
Congratulations, shey you have made yourself the winner by all means. Even if it means taking her down.

I have been following this thread and this your comment caught my attention... Iam a lady like u and the girl the op disflowered.. the reason he brought it here was to ask questions about her bledding after the process.. you guys are forrming feminist by castigating the op.. what's wrong in two adults having consentual sex? Even if the op played the girl into submission that's how it should be..a Man should be in charge inasmuch he would treat us well..at the moment u and I know the girls love for the op would be hot as fire . The op must have read the 48 laws of power by Robert greene.. that's the type of woman he wants And he has gotten her.. the only bad thing now is if he now Starts mis treating her that's where all what you typed would Make any sense to the girl.. you And i know..we don't joke with the first guy that got there first.. it a fact we ladies can't hide.so just wish Dem well

piyoo91:
lol remind me of my frnd way back then in gusau zamfara state. There is this small igbo girl that came and toast him, she is not even upto 16yrs then and she was in jss3. My guy sharpaly accepted, disvirgin the girl and almost every body in tudu wada gusau knew the both of them. To cut the story short, after 3years chizubar don carry belle for another man while still forming fake love for my guy

fine.. ur guy no loss na.. I can never touch a 16 yrs old girl never

merrymike47:
That thing is no longer a virgin, you took it, it can't be rebranded, it is now used, it now has a second hand value. The best that you can do for her and yourself is to marry her. Good night

which I would on the condition she keeps being the loyal and good girl she's before the deed

purples25:


Now your commitment is a case of 'if' right? But when it was time to break her hymen, it was a matter of urgency.

You mentioned that she was begging you to stay, which you won't see if not that you have put her at your mercy by taking her virginity, her pride. You have temporarily rendered her your slave emotionally, putting you in full control of everything. You claim you wanted to do things right. Then why not follow a fair process. Why put yourself in control of her emotionally, and physically as the first guy.

You want to marry the girl in three years time. You have opened the road of sex to her now. Now, you will be sleeping with her, and have her glued to you because now she fears she has sacrificed something, plus she wouldn't be valued by any other man as brand new. Also you will have her on a dog leash as a girl now prone to sexual temptations, yet not married. You want to be jacking her back anytime she feels urges, for your sadistic enjoyment.

I believe if you wanted a fair relationship, and not power play, you would have dated decently. But you don't want to be on the receiving end, wondering and sweating fearfully over whether she has had sex or she won't get married to you. You don't want to feel bad that you didn't gain if the relationship ends.

So you devalued her.
Congratulations, shey you have made yourself the winner by all means. Even if it means taking her down.

You talk from lots of experience

merrymike47:
can I expect less from a marine spirit? Are you shocked that I know what you are mermaid? Sorry that the guy that disvirgined you opened you up for some other guys to penetrate, sorry that you never recovered from the trauma that you got after he left you, sorry he made you become a shadow of yourself, sorry that more guys will still use and dump you. But the little girl that the op disvirgined do not have to go through all of those things, that's all we are saying, who cares about how you live your life in the first place?

let me not answer u for ur assumption about me..I fit still kill u this night.. now the girl is 18 .op is 28..if you ask me.. the girl is in the best place provided the op won't treat her bad.. Dating someone mature won't give space for unnecessary dramas. Iam a lady..I love guys like the op.. he knows what he wants and went for it.. he's an alpha male which is sweet to us. And again mind ur words on me..

Laurene:
You talk from lots of experience

she don see shege

Seagodess:
let me not answer u for ur assumption about me..I fit still kill u this night.. now the girl is 18 .op is 28..if you ask me.. the girl is in the best place provided the op won't treat her bad.. Dating someone mature won't give space for unnecessary dramas. Iam a lady..I love guys like the op.. he knows what he wants and went for it.. he's an alpha male which is sweet to us. And again mind ur words on me..

in as much as I won't take back my words, I do apologies for calling you a mermaid.

Quick question for you: the guy that disvirgined you, didn't he know what he wants? Why did he leave you after all?

I would have lectured you but it's not like you care to learn, but I'll leave you with a piece to work with. No man knows what he wants, so economics says that human's want are insatiable. You guys concluded that you hardly forget a guy who disvirgined you, it is not the same for men. A man can not even trust himself when it comes to boobs and ass. It takes a disciplined man to stay loyal. A man who is not disciplined can not be trusted.

I am a man, I try to stay loyal, I try to stay disciplined but my babe's friend almost succeeded in stealing me from my babe.

Take this truth from me, you guys are not wise and your emotions will not help you.

2canplay1000:
I need to quote u again... do you know some people just love naturally? She loves me even before falllin for her.. she told me about her feelings when she was 17 and I waited till today.. see go sleep

Oga no problem. Enjoy your 3 years of knacking while she enjoys three years of being tested to see if she is worthy... After her nigga don lick the sweet finish

purples25:


Oga no problem. Enjoy your 3 years of knacking while she enjoys three years of being tested to see if she is worthy... After her nigga don lick the sweet finish

which nigga again?

Laurene:
You talk from lots of experience

This one just came to cast shame and labels. All while hiding under her palm tree of perfection. Your own is just to come out when someone makes a comment, and pinch them small

Na the only thing you come out for be dat

2canplay1000:
which nigga again?

Ah, you na. You don't like the name? Okay sorry.

2canplay1000:
what are you saying Sir? What if I ended up marrying her and she's happy with me?

A very big IF what if you don't end up marrying her because you are not God who knows tomorrow. Why is it good to wait till marriage before sex?
1. God forbids it and he is not a fool for doing so.
2. Common sense shows that too early exposure to sex by a girl without a husband predisposes her to promiscuity.
3. Will her parents reward you or be happy if they found out?
4. Will you be happy if someone did this to your 18 year old daughter, sister or future wife?
5. If you don't know why there is cheating among married couples today, this is the chief cause.
6. How do you know you will marry her, did you both check your genotype and other factors?
7. That girl never grew up like a wild iroko tree, some parents nursed and cared for her, is it not right to accord them some respect and formally marry her by paying a price on her before sleeping with her?
8. That she is so stupid and empty skulled not to know her value does not give you the right to prey on her.
9. You have sinned and you are liable to eternal damnation in hell.
10. You must repent in deep sorrow before God if not you may not even live long enough to marry her.
I am not a kid, trust me I am old enough to father you and I have learnt this lesson in life that " whatsoever a man sows that shall he reap" You have not won a trophy today, you just lost a key battle which made you nearer hell than ever.

merrymike47:
in as much as I won't take back my words, I do apologies for calling you a mermaid.

Quick question for you: the guy that disvirgined you, didn't he know what he wants? Why did he leave you after all?

I would have lectured you but it's not like you care to learn, but I'll leave you with a piece to work with. No man knows what he wants, so economics says that human's want are insatiable. You guys concluded that you hardly forget a guy who disvirgined you, it is not the same for men. A man can not even trust himself when it comes to boobs and ass. It takes a disciplined man to stay loyal. A man who is not disciplined can not be trusted.

I am a man, I try to stay loyal, I try to stay disciplined but my babe's friend almost succeeded in stealing me from my babe.

Take this truth from me, you guys are not wise and your emotions will not help you.

. we were programmed differently from u guys

We think and act differently.too..the easiest way to get us glued is giving us memories.e.g.making us give u our most treasured treasure which is our virginity.Ask any girl, if she's being sincere she would attest to this..we want u men to be in charge.. don't show us weakness.. it not about money... bang us to submission.. let our legs go weak at the sound of ur voice.. that's what that op has done to that girl.

Oboto700:
I have been following this thread and this your comment caught my attention... Iam a lady like u and the girl the op disflowered.. the reason he brought it here was to ask questions about her bledding after the process.. you guys are forrming feminist by castigating the op.. what's wrong in two adults having consentual sex? Even if the op played the girl into submission that's how it should be..a Man should be in charge inasmuch he would treat us well..at the moment u and I know the girls love for the op would be hot as fire . The op must have read the 48 laws of power by Robert greene.. that's the type of woman he wants And he has gotten her.. the only bad thing now is if he now Starts mis treating her that's where all what you typed would Make any sense to the girl.. you And i know..we don't joke with the first guy that got there first.. it a fact we ladies can't hide.so just wish Dem well

Oh no problem hon just have the same energy for your eighteen year old daughter in the future.

Seagodess:
. we were programmed differently from u guys

We think and act differently.too..the easiest way to get us glued is giving us memories.e.g.making us give u our most treasured treasure which is our virginity.Ask any girl, if she's being sincere she would attest to this..we want u men to be in charge.. don't show us weakness.. it not about money... bang us to submission.. let our legs go weak at the sound of ur voice.. that's what that op has done to that girl.

is the person behind this moniker a woman? I guess no. I am good at playing along, all for learning but do have a nice night bro, it's past bed time for me. Make sure that you marry that girl.

godliman:

A very big IF what if you don't end up marrying her because you are not God who knows tomorrow. Why is it good to wait till marriage before sex?
1. God forbids it and he is not a fool for doing so.
2. Common sense shows that too early exposure to sex by a girl without a husband predisposes her to promiscuity.
3. Will her parents reward you or be happy if they found out?
4. Will you be happy if someone did this to your 18 year old daughter, sister or future wife?
5. If you don't know why there is cheating among married couples today, this is the chief cause.
6. How do you know you will marry her, did you both check your genotype and other factors?
7. That girl never grew up like a wild iroko tree, some parents nursed and cared for her, is it not right to accord them some respect and formally marry her by paying a price on her before sleeping with her?
8. That she is so stupid and empty skulled not to know her value does not give you the right to prey on her.
9. You have sinned and you are liable to eternal damnation in hell.
10. You must repent in deep sorrow before God if not you may not even live long enough to marry her.
I am not a kid, trust me I am old enough to father you and I have learnt this lesson in life that " whatsoever a man sows that shall he reap" You have not won a trophy today, you just lost a key battle which made you nearer hell than ever.

I won't die because iam not the first to have pre marital sex.. back to sender

2canplay1000:
I won't die because iam not the first to have pre marital sex.. back to sender

Hmmm I don't wish you death but long life to see your children' children, I am only honest with you that the wages of sin is death, that decree by God has not changed. So just repent to avoid the disaster which sin brings. May be you should read this, I am afraid it is long but try and read it will help you.
Ezekiel 3:18-19 KJV
When I say unto the wicked, Thou shalt surely die; and thou givest him not warning, nor speakest to warn the wicked from his wicked way, to save his life; the same wicked man shall die in his iniquity; but his blood will I require at thine hand. [19] Yet if thou warn the wicked, and he turn not from his wickedness, nor from his wicked way, he shall die in his iniquity; but thou hast delivered thy soul.

Ezekiel 18:4,20-23,31-32 KJV
Behold, all souls are mine; as the soul of the father, so also the soul of the son is mine: the soul that sinneth, it shall die. [20] The soul that sinneth, it shall die. The son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, neither shall the father bear the iniquity of the son: the righteousness of the righteous shall be upon him, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon him. [21] But if the wicked will turn from all his sins that he hath committed, and keep all my statutes, and do that which is lawful and right, he shall surely live, he shall not die. [22] All his transgressions that he hath committed, they shall not be mentioned unto him: in his righteousness that he hath done he shall live. [23] Have I any pleasure at all that the wicked should die? saith the Lord God : and not that he should return from his ways, and live? [31] Cast away from you all your transgressions, whereby ye have transgressed; and make you a new heart and a new spirit: for why will ye die, O house of Israel? [32] For I have no pleasure in the death of him that dieth, saith the Lord God : wherefore turn yourselves, and live ye.
As for the reasoning that other fornicators are not dying, hmmm please just save yourself. We are not given same length of life.
Thanks

godliman:

Hmmm I don't wish you death but long life to see your children' children, I am only honest with you that the wages of sin is death, that decree by God has not changed. So just repent to avoid the disaster which sin brings. May be you should read this, I am afraid it is long but try and read it will help you.
Ezekiel 3:18-19 KJV
When I say unto the wicked, Thou shalt surely die; and thou givest him not warning, nor speakest to warn the wicked from his wicked way, to save his life; the same wicked man shall die in his iniquity; but his blood will I require at thine hand. [19] Yet if thou warn the wicked, and he turn not from his wickedness, nor from his wicked way, he shall die in his iniquity; but thou hast delivered thy soul.

Ezekiel 18:4,20-23,31-32 KJV
Behold, all souls are mine; as the soul of the father, so also the soul of the son is mine: the soul that sinneth, it shall die. [20] The soul that sinneth, it shall die. The son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, neither shall the father bear the iniquity of the son: the righteousness of the righteous shall be upon him, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon him. [21] But if the wicked will turn from all his sins that he hath committed, and keep all my statutes, and do that which is lawful and right, he shall surely live, he shall not die. [22] All his transgressions that he hath committed, they shall not be mentioned unto him: in his righteousness that he hath done he shall live. [23] Have I any pleasure at all that the wicked should die? saith the Lord God : and not that he should return from his ways, and live? [31] Cast away from you all your transgressions, whereby ye have transgressed; and make you a new heart and a new spirit: for why will ye die, O house of Israel? [32] For I have no pleasure in the death of him that dieth, saith the Lord God : wherefore turn yourselves, and live ye.
As for the reasoning that other fornicators are not dying, hmmm please just save yourself. We are not given same length of life.
Thanks

the blood of Jesus is stronger than any other blood in this world... It available for me

2canplay1000:
yes what's wrong with that?

you need to grow up

anthonyuncle:


you need to grow up

for asking for help and opinions on an issue? You need to kill ur pride

2canplay1000:
for asking for help and opinions on an issue? You need to kill ur pride

no pride here,

act the age you proclaim

Very possible. Still married to the same man and only man I fell in love with at 16.

Octopusssy:

Make we tell am?

Tinu4real:

Very possible. Still married to the same man and only man I fell in love with at 16.

WOW God bless you sister

2canplay1000:
Good afternoon everyone.. I met this girl February,, this year.so we started dating, to cut the story short.i got down with her today and discovered she's still a virgin and I disflowered her..Due to her tightness and freshness,I poured into her.so I decided to get her postinor 2 just to be on safer side.the problem now is,, she has been bleeding since 1pm till now.i want to know if it the effects of the drugs or it the blood from the broken hymen.. pls your advice is needed,, she's just 18 . she's sleeping at the moment.

You have started postinoring a poor man's daughter!

You couldn't even wait for her to make the choice of swallowing postinor or not...you couldn't even wait for her to come to term with her first sexual experience...fiam off from the sex and off to pharmacy!

Maybe you have a cabinet filled with postinor double double sef.

Please stop filling her body with postinor!

Wear condom or stay away from unmarried sex!

Seagodess:
. we were programmed differently from u guys

We think and act differently.too..the easiest way to get us glued is giving us memories.e.g.making us give u our most treasured treasure which is our virginity.Ask any girl, if she's being sincere she would attest to this..we want u men to be in charge.. don't show us weakness.. it not about money... bang us to submission.. let our legs go weak at the sound of ur voice.. that's what that op has done to that girl.

You have been misled a long way and unfortunately, you are not willing to learn what is right. Please don't marry for sex alone ooo this one you are looking forward to been banged to submission. Remember, it is the name you choose to be addressed as that you will be called.

2canplay1000:
the guy said she's going to leave me And I said fine... so what's imature about that... most of you are simps on nairaland

There are different angles to looking at issues.

Morality and legality.

What you've done is not legally wrong but morally condemnable.

You can't deflower an 18 year old and pride yourself as being lucky to have gotten yourself a virgin girl. When were you expecting her to be deflowered? 12 years?

When you meet a 25 year old virgin, that's when you can take pride in meeting a virgin that's disciplined and worth celebrating. All girls are born virgin, remember.

Most girls lose their virginity immediately after secondary school because they were never given the free hand to go out while they were still in high school.

So, what's the big deal here other than the fact that you want to brag about it. And if you must know, that girl has a lot of toasters waiting on the queue. You've only opened the door for them to go in.

So, yes, when the girl has opportunities to mate with her other friends, she will gladly do that because there's nothing stopping her.

I have had experience with enough girls to tell you this. It's only that first sex that a girl needs a strong reason to give in. That's the only sex she can talk about in the next years to come even to her future husband, but her subsequent sex experiences will be kept to her and herself alone.

So, don't rejoice yet. You only started what others will continue from. The girls you have been meeting as non virgin, remember someone somewhere deflowered them as well.

the blood of Jesus is stronger than any other blood in this world... It available for me

I don't know which pastor is deceiving you like this. You are neck deep in sin and unwilling to repent and talking about the blood of Jesus. The blood of Jesus only cleanses sins that are confessed and forsaken. I let the bible speak for itself.
Proverbs 28:13 KJV
He that covereth his sins shall not prosper: but whoso confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy.
1 John 1:8-9 KJV
If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. [9] If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
What takes people to hell is pride and unwillingness to repent. That was why one thief let the cross to hell and the other to heaven. The choice is yours

All of attacking the op are nothing but hypocrite.. most of you are pained you not the first Man that met the woman you finally married.. the op said he won't toiled with the girls hearth you never believed him because you see as every Man out there as a cheat.. things happen.. some of you are even quoting the Bible wishing him death..are you guys okay at all? What offence has he committed? He never raped her..it was an agreement between them. What if he ended up marrying her? Do you know if their love is even divinely ochestrated? What do you guys know about life? The only way he would be wrong is if he do The Young Lady any dirt. The op is 28 for Christ sake.. are we not seeing 40 yrs old men getting married to 18 yrs? Do you know what happened in thier secret? You guys should get out abeg

Oboto700:
All of attacking the op are nothing but hypocrite.. most of you are pained you not the first Man that met the woman you finally married.. the op said he won't toiled with the girls hearth you never believed him because you see as every Man out there as a cheat.. things happen.. some of you are even quoting the Bible wishing him death..are you guys okay at all? What offence has he committed? He never raped her..it was an agreement between them. What if he ended up marrying her? Do you know if their love is even divinely ochestrated? What do you guys know about life? The only way he would be wrong is if he do The Young Lady any dirt. The op is 28 for Christ sake.. are we not seeing 40 yrs old men getting married to 18 yrs? Do you know what happened in thier secret? You guys should get out abeg

babe iam just shoked at how battered the minds of some people are here.. they don't even know if the girl naturally loves the op.omotola met her husband at a very tender age..did we know what happened before he got her married? Someone here was even saying he met his husband today at 16 years and they are happily married today.. they attack the op to the extent he deleted his account.. haba.. what has happened has happened.. it now left for the op to treat the girl well.. if she's willing to marry the op fine and if she's not willing fine.. abeg

I had a nice laugh going through the comments.
One hymen down! that's all I can say