Whyzaid:
I think with learned in-laws, the wife's problem is half solved; but you see those illiterate in-laws that follow tradition like something else will frustrate the hell out of the wife. My opinion though

mike4zeal:
Coping with in-laws can sometimes be challenging, as it involves navigating relationships with your spouse's parents or family members who may have different perspectives, expectations, and dynamics.

Ways to cope with in-laws include: Communication, setting healthy boundaries, show appreciation and respect, be inclusive and involve them in life activities, practice empathy and understand, seek support from your partner, take good care of yourself

Remember, building a healthy relationship with your in-laws takes time, effort, and patience. It's important to approach the situation with an open mind, be respectful, set boundaries, and communicate effectively.

Based individual differences and family differences, share your experience with in-laws, give ways to cope with difficult in-laws.

Whyzaid:
I think with learned in-laws, the wife's problem is half solved; but you see those illiterate in-laws that follow tradition like something else will frustrate the hell out of the wife. My opinion though

IyaebeTheGreat:
I know my future inlaws will intially complain and dislike me but they'll eventually love me beyond imaginations by the time I packaged them 😂. I don't even know why people have problems with their inlaws, stop marrying pretenders only to start seeing their true colours in the marriage.

Persephone1:


I don't see in-laws as threat and in as much as I know some can be very crraaazzzzyyyy I will still love to maintain positive energy and relations with them.

I pray my in-laws will be my second family.

Whyzaid:
I think with learned in-laws, the wife's problem is half solved; but you see those illiterate in-laws that follow tradition like something else will frustrate the hell out of the wife. My opinion though

IyaebeTheGreat:
I know my future inlaws will intially complain and dislike me but they'll eventually love me beyond imaginations by the time I packaged them 😂. I don't even know why people have problems with their inlaws, stop marrying pretenders only to start seeing their true colours in the marriage.

MadarasBlade:


Funny how a man hater wants to get married lol

Funny how you think only Nigerian men exist.

JovialJune:
Well, easiest way to cope with in laws is to set boundaries before marrying into their house and never start what you can't finish, e.g I've never stayed more than one week in my in-laws house to avoid see finish, I don't try to over impress because once you stop what they are used to seeing you do, it becomes an issue followed by negative side remarks, meanwhile they've forgotten all the good beautiful things you've done o, etc.

Most importantly, set boundaries, again, be accomodating but set boundaries, be stern when they try to ride on you, and don't be a push over, let them see your strict side to know you are not a push over if not, oyo is your case, be humble, humility brings out the best in us no matter who or what we are, then be close to God, tell God to spring up the spirit of forgetfulness anytime they want to remember your case, the negative aspects, or cause issues for you 😂, it still works for me 🙂

IyaebeTheGreat:
I know my future inlaws will intially complain and dislike me but they'll eventually love me beyond imaginations by the time I packaged them 😂. I don't even know why people have problems with their inlaws, stop marrying pretenders only to start seeing their true colours in the marriage.

abobote:

Get a man first that will agree to marry you before you start talking about inlaws

MadarasBlade:


Funny how a man hater wants to get married lol

Diligent1:
For in-laws, what I do is that I first take everyone of them as my family. Whenever I am around them, I engage them with discussions about life generally with respect.

If I now discover that there us one with hatred every time, even if the person abuse me if I cannot turn it to a joke and laugh it off then I try my best to avoid the person rather than replying the person which will now cause greater fight in the family.

Dmeji4444:


Are you married?

na2016:


You definitely have a problem and you are naive. Haven't seen and heard of very difficult educated in-laws? And who told you, in-laws here refers to the man alone? In-laws from the woman side can also be a problem. Statistics has even shown that majority of divorce is from in-laws.

Whyzaid:
I think with learned in-laws, the wife's problem is half solved; but you see those illiterate in-laws that follow tradition like something else will frustrate the hell out of the wife. My opinion though

Whyzaid:
I think with learned in-laws, the wife's problem is half solved; but you see those illiterate in-laws that follow tradition like something else will frustrate the hell out of the wife. My opinion though

AbdulAkpan:
My dear, you are very wrong. My useless inlaws are educated, but I have suffered a lot of neglect, humiliation and insult from them. I am so happy the kind of strong mind I have. I have stopped all kinds of visit or communication with them..

Persephone1:
Funny how you think only Nigerian men exist.

IyaebeTheGreat:
I know my future inlaws will intially complain and dislike me but they'll eventually love me beyond imaginations by the time I packaged them 😂. I don't even know why people have problems with their inlaws, stop marrying pretenders only to start seeing their true colours in the marriage.

DevilSignature:
who go marry u sef?

IyaebeTheGreat:
Definitely not a small boy with a small minded mind and an Oloko give away like you.