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Please u need mature advice, I am about to make a decision but I am very confuse
I will be 31 by December and I am thinking of settling down this year. But my girlfriend is 32 with 3 kids, 2 from her late husband the other one for another man who is alive. She is d nicest human alive I must say but her past is horrible I must admit. But I love her, would u advice me to marry her I am really confused

Emmaomokhafe:
Please u need mature advice, I am about to make a decision but I am very confuse
I will be 31 by December and I am thinking of settling down this year. But my girlfriend is 32 with 3 kids, 2 from her late husband the other one for another man who is alive. She is d nicest human alive I must say but her past is horrible I must admit. But I love her, would u advice me to marry her I am really confused

Useless stupid fake story. No man on earth will be so useless and stupid to marry such a woman...🤣🤣🤣

This story is very fake abeg. What man will be so cursed to marry a single mother ? Talkless of a single mother of 2? Only an impotent useless low self-esteem suffering BASTARD will do such and I know such men don't exist in Nigeria!!

@OP try another fake story 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Emmaomokhafe:
Please u need mature advice, I am about to make a decision but I am very confuse
I will be 31 by December and I am thinking of settling down this year. But my girlfriend is 32 with 3 kids, 2 from her late husband the other one for another man who is alive. She is d nicest human alive I must say but her past is horrible I must admit. But I love her, would u advice me to marry her I am really confused

The best advice for you is to follow your heart and use your head as well... No here will endure or enjoy the marriage with you. Everyone here will tell you to run including me!!!.

But, since she is the nicest human on earth according to you, you should not have any doubts provided she will remain so after you marry her.

I want to believe you're financially buoyant to take care of all the kids

You guys should stop making single motherhood look like a crime.

Emmaomokhafe:
Please u need mature advice, I am about to make a decision but I am very confuse
I will be 31 by December and I am thinking of settling down this year. But my girlfriend is 32 with 3 kids, 2 from her late husband the other one for another man who is alive. She is d nicest human alive I must say but her past is horrible I must admit. But I love her, would u advice me to marry her I am really confused

Do you have kids yourself?

dawnomike:
The best advice for you is to follow your heart and use your head as well... No here will endure or enjoy the marriage with you. Everyone here will tell you to run including me!!!.

But, since she is the nicest human on earth according to you, you should not have any doubts provided she will remain so after you marry her.

I want to believe you're financially buoyant to take care of all the kids

Don't forget she hasn't married him yet and human beings change, she not suitable for him if he doesn't have kids, also the other man that was alive why hasn't he married her till now, shouldn't that be a reason to understand her more before making any big decision.

FManager:
Don't forget she hasn't married him yet and human beings change, she not suitable for him if he doesn't have kids, also the other man that was alive why hasn't he married her till now, shouldn't that be a reason to understand her more before making any big decision.

As bros said she's the nicest human he has met... So that, it wouldn't be my my opinion that will not make him to marry the nicest person in the world

Follow your heart.

donbachi:
You guys should stop making single motherhood look like a crime.

How else will an impotent man have kids right ? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Oga go to fertility clinic and treat your impotence and stop looking for another man's child to raise. 🤣🤣🤣

dawnomike:
As bros said she's the nicest human he has met... So that, it wouldn't be my my opinion that will not make him to marry the nicest person in the world

That woman has alot to gain and the man has alot to loose

Samantha124:
Follow your heart.

Na so

If you were certain of her you wouldn’t have opened this thread so there’s your answer.