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I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Adejoncy01(m): 7:44am On May 09, 2023
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.

So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by ozone0801(m): 7:50am On May 09, 2023
"She doesn't feel a thing for you" is a subtle way of saying she can't date with a broke dude like you. If your finances are looking bright or there's a prospect, the narrative would have changed.
Take heart, go and hustle, you will get the woman of your dreams the moment you become successful.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Sonnobax15(m): 7:50am On May 09, 2023
lipsrsealed
I was once in the op's shoe........But trust me, moving on ain't easy but las las you will thank your stars you did...

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Adejoncy01(m): 8:01am On May 09, 2023
ozone0801:
"She doesn't feel a thing for you" is a subtle way of saying she can't date with a broke dude like you. If your finances are looking bright or there's a prospect, the narrative would have changed.
Take heart, go and hustle, you will get the woman of your dreams the moment you become successful.

I'm broke today. She never even told me why we can't be together, and I never asked.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by dirolad(m): 8:03am On May 09, 2023
Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.

So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...
you don't become friends with whom you loved from the jump. You must have spent a lot of time and attention and your d!ck was never part of her life. I hope you are emotionally capable to move, always remind yourself why she was never useful and won't still be, with that, you will let her be.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Adejoncy01(m): 8:04am On May 09, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
I was once in the op's shoe........But trust me, moving on ain't easy but las las you will thank your stars you did...


Like, the thought of disconnecting from the girl alone is so painful. This is someone I've made an habit. I've never gotten close to a girl like her before. I just didn't know why that girl didn't yield. She was too kind to tell me she didn't have any feelings for me.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Adejoncy01(m): 8:13am On May 09, 2023
dirolad:
you don't become friends with whom you loved from the jump. You must have spent a lot of time and attention and your d!ck was never part of her life. I hope you are emotionally capable to move, always remind yourself why she was never useful and won't still be, with that, you will let her be.


You said a lot with this short comment. I should have immediately cut her off when she declined my advances. That's the huge mistake I made. I didn't. And we got closer by the day.

And I truly spent a lot of time and attention, even though she did same too. Somehow, I feel it's even a good thing we never got to be intimate because it might be worse to move on like this.

Your last line is what I don't understand.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Tenrack: 8:18am On May 09, 2023
Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.

So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...
bro this wasn't necessary.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Adejoncy01(m): 8:20am On May 09, 2023
Tenrack:
bro this wasn't necessary.

Why do you think so? That's what I call her. And she calls me daddy too.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Tenrack: 8:28am On May 09, 2023
Adejoncy01:


Why do you think so? That's what I call her. And she calls me daddy too.
chuckles. Bro..she don friendsone you tey tey be that. grin cheesy

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by GrammarNazi1(m): 8:56am On May 09, 2023
Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.

So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...
Normally, women are not capable of love.

Women are only capable of survival.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by JOACHINpedro: 9:41am On May 09, 2023
She daddy zoned you.
Pls I need small handset, if you get hala me

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Autobot05: 10:23am On May 09, 2023
Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.


So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...

You should work on The bolded... work on being emotionally mature to continue the friendship on your own terms ... ( make it a once in a while thingy )
Now you also work on being the best version of yourself and become a better person in all ways including looks and finance.

She'll come back one day ... but be ready and yunno what to do wink

Check my siggy cheesy

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by dirolad(m): 10:54am On May 09, 2023
Autobot05:


You should work on The bolded... work on being emotionally mature to continue the friendship on your own terms ... ( make it a once in a while thingy )
Now you also work on being the best version of yourself and become a better person in all ways including looks and finance.

She'll come back one day ... but be ready and yunno what to do wink

Check my siggy cheesy
after 5yrs, you want him to still hang around with hopes? He rather hang around success not a woman who's not willing.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Autobot05: 12:39pm On May 09, 2023
dirolad:
after 5yrs, you want him to still hang around with hopes? He rather hang around success not a woman who's not willing.

What i meant was that he should kill the feelings
wink
And downgrade the friendship to a casual level
Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by advanceDNA: 1:08pm On May 09, 2023
Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.

So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...

Daddy's baby girl?? Nigga dont be a pvssy.
.....u made urself over-available to her....so there was nothing else she would get from dating you..
. oh!!! Wait...u were thinking swhat of ur love and penís?? No naaaa...when u are an overly attentive and caring guy...u can never be sexually appealing to them......they will just use u as advice-machine, boredom location, free money, free food, and a free place to watch movies/charge phone when there's no light

Bur wait...dont tell us u also spent money on her?? If yes...baba..how much be total??

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by advanceDNA: 1:11pm On May 09, 2023
Tenrack:
bro this wasn't necessary.

Nigga is pathetic asf...

Very repulsive...

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by MechanicMike: 1:31pm On May 09, 2023
Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.

So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...


angry
Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by MechanicMike: 1:32pm On May 09, 2023
Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.

So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...

So u lsayin u let go of woman coz u happy to be gay.... corrrrrrrect?. are u gay sir?({no offenscce) angry

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Adejoncy01(m): 1:35pm On May 09, 2023
GreatVocalist:

I also finally let go of someone I made a habit yesterday, so we're both in a similar situation. The difference is we were in a relationship -- a mildly toxic one.

I had "let her go" almost a billion times, but somehow I kept finding myself back with her. She'd say she loves me, but she was very passive, unlike me who was practically head over heels. Whenever I tried to talk about it, she'd give cold shoulders. Each time I walked away, foolish me would follow my heart, forget my head and get back into a relationship I wasn't happy in.

I decided to finally walk away 'cause I got so sick of complaining, she told me I nagged a lot so I had to pipe down. Made so many mistakes too, but I admitted and made the decision to change. However, that decision hinged on her willingness to change, but she didn't. She barely admitted her wrong actions.

Last night, I had it and I had to ghost her. I really hope I stand my ground, 'cause I took a different approach this time around.

Sorry I had to make this about me. Like you, I'm also hurting, and I had no intention to share this anywhere. Reading about your situation urged me.

I also need you to know that you're not alone, and lots of people have been where you are, even in worse situations (like mine). I've decided not to get involved with any lady emotionally for at least 5 years. gringrin. Ambitious, but not impossible, and I suggest you do the same bro.

The right one will come at the right time. Just focus on improving yourself to more advanced versions.

Good luck!

Thank you.
I really appreciate.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Adejoncy01(m): 1:38pm On May 09, 2023
Autobot05:


You should work on The bolded... work on being emotionally mature to continue the friendship on your own terms ... ( make it a once in a while thingy )
Now you also work on being the best version of yourself and become a better person in all ways including looks and finance.

She'll come back one day ... but be ready and yunno what to do wink

Check my siggy cheesy


No, it's not worth it.
Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Houseofglam7(f): 1:40pm On May 09, 2023
undecided
Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Adejoncy01(m): 1:44pm On May 09, 2023
advanceDNA:


Daddy's baby girl?? Nigga dont be pvssy man.
.....u made urself over-available to her....so there was nothing else she would get from dating you..
. oh!!! Wait...u were thinking she what of ur love and penís?? No naaaa...when u are an overly attentive and caring guy...u can never be sexually appealing to them......they will just use u as advice-machine, boredom location, free money, free food, and a free place to watch movies/charge phone when there's no light

Bur wait...dont tell us u also spent money on her?? If yes...baba..how much be total??

LOL... Calm down. She never jokingly asked for money or anything. Besides, I don't even have to give. My gestures towards her was on my own accord and reward for the things she do for me.

But you are right that I gave her too much attention though. I made it look like she was special even though no one is, actually.
Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Lvgirl: 1:45pm On May 09, 2023
Adejoncy01:
So, yesterday, 8th of May, 2023, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. It's been over six years I met her.

We've been very good friends and kind to each other in our ways. The thing is, I fell in love with her deeply, and she said she doesn't feel the same towards me. We talk for hours. The flow was too smooth. We understand each other to a great level. I still find it difficult to believe she didn't feel a thing for me.

I decided to kill my feelings for her and keep her as a friend. It didn't just work.

I recently knew she's now in a relationship with someone else. She told me.

And I can no longer remain friends with her.

So, I finally decided to let go of someone I've made an habit. I needed to.

I'm saying this here, maybe the pain will go out a little bit.


I feel so much pains. Farewell, girl. I'd miss you. Let me wish you well, from afar.

Do know that Daddy wish you well always, Daddy's baby girl.

We meet to part...
So painful


When will you commite suicide
Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Adejoncy01(m): 1:47pm On May 09, 2023
advanceDNA:


Nigga is pathetic asf...

Very repulsive...

I know. The thing is I fell in love with her before I learnt game. And I couldn't change how I related with her.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Adejoncy01(m): 1:49pm On May 09, 2023
Lvgirl:

So painful


When will you commite suicide


Werey!

On top wetin abeg?

And I even have other girls around. LOL.

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Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by advanceDNA: 1:50pm On May 09, 2023
Adejoncy01:


LOL... Calm down. She never jokingly asked for money or anything. Besides, I don't even have to give. My gestures towards her was on my own accord and reward for the things she do for me.

But you are right that I gave her too much attention though. I made it look like she was special even though no one is, actually.

Chaii...u also lost money?? grin
If na guy....una go pay for each other drink from time to time....hang out and have fun...business fit show....una fit borrow each other money... reasin serious things....

But Women!! U date them ..u will lose...
U are just a friend...they will still collect...

Bros..how much in total?..just audit urself and let us know how u mumu for that girl grin ..no lie ooo
Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by advanceDNA: 1:51pm On May 09, 2023
Adejoncy01:


I know. The thing is I fell in love with her before I learnt game. And I couldn't change how I related with her.

Why couldnt u change... she seize ur brain??
Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Tenrack: 2:28pm On May 09, 2023
advanceDNA:


Nigga is pathetic asf...

Very repulsive...
very.
Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Waffarianman(m): 2:33pm On May 09, 2023
Nawa Una get mind sha with all D's women matta I just dey imagine how old Una be sef. Una really get time
Re: I Finally Decided To Let Go... by Justkatty(f): 5:24pm On May 09, 2023
Life happens

Just accept it in good fate and quickly move on
.

If only others are strong like you.

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