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Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Nobody: 4:57pm On May 06, 2023 |
@Descarado has spoken |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Nobody: 5:11pm On May 06, 2023 |
Perfect example of my husband. The man is hard. I swear. I can't even list number of times he ignore me. The worst part is, he wouldn't help me do anything, no matter how long I soak dirty clothes, he will never help, till I get well, I will wash them. But once I cook, he will Smile to the kitchen and eat. I can remember in my 8th months pregnancy, I fainted due to high level of malaria, he left me with my mother and went to take permission from his office, they granted him even contributed money for him to use and take care of me, he went straight to his betting shop and played away everything then returned in the night. Then, my mother had gone to get a nurse who came to the house and immediately put me on drip. To the glory of God I was okay when he returned in the night with fake love and excuses. His colleagues called me through out. That was how I knew. It's unfortunate, that out of all the good and loving men out there, I ended up with an enemy. Sometimes, I miss my ex. My ex will back me, force me to the hospital, pet me to take my drugs. He did something wrong and I couldn't take him back. Long story jor. If not because I'm not financially okay now, I would have pack out ever since, but I will soon. I will soon shock him. 11 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Dainy1(m): 5:13pm On May 06, 2023 |
descarado:I'm a Guy o. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by ahnie: 6:31pm On May 06, 2023 |
Madam calm down,if we all reason like this....everybody for don run comot from marriage. Dearlove2me:Mine has his soft spot Sha,he's not entirely bad.what I would tell you is ...stop birthing kids,look for something doing that will fetch you daily income,take care of yourself and kids. 1 Like |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by pocohantas(f): 6:40pm On May 06, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: Lmao. My mum said it is when you taste another, you will sit one day and see that the former had some good that is peculiar to only him/her. So never hate any man(ex). One day you will see where he take be better person kwa. Sorry about your situation. I wish you strength. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Nobody: 1:01pm On May 07, 2023 |
pocohantas:You're right. |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Nobody: 1:01pm On May 07, 2023 |
ahnie:Really? There are level of wickedness one shouldn't endure in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by descarado: 3:41pm On May 07, 2023 |
Dainy1:Sorry, I thought you are a lady. |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Aaaaarghmed(m): 6:09pm On May 07, 2023 |
I think about 2years ago..me and my ex were house hunting for her.A serious stomach ache attacked me,so so serious and we had to stop to sit somewhere,we had called an agent and he kept saying he was on his way for like 1hour,we sat somewhere waiting for him,belle dey squeeze me,my ex no send at all,she busy dey press phone when I was in pains,I asked her if I can get a pharmacy close by and she even had mind to point it,she did not even offer to help buy the drugs.she was so engrossed in her phone,the thing suprise me till date.In my mind I had already broke up with her,like ,na small thing remain make I no dey roll for ground.The pain was too much.The agent never showed up and we managed to go home.She was a Narcissist 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Dainy1(m): 2:00am On May 08, 2023 |
Aaaaarghmed:You're lucky you didn't marry her. Yours is better. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by poshestmina(f): 3:37am On May 08, 2023 |
I once had a boyfriend that said I was " exaggerating my menstrual cramps , weather na only me dey see period,"Let's k**k so the place will be open" blah blah .All of those nasty comments just made me started disliking him. Worst part was,he was ashmatic and I was always using my money to replace them .3 Ventolin (One at his', mine and his office bag ) . One day ,I vex bleach palm oil without closing the kitchen door or telling him to stay out 🤐🤐🤐( the full compound and street know him health status that day) and subsequent issues,we no just last again 🙄🙄. Me wey dey feign sickness ,just so my man can pamper me ,I go sick real sickness and a 'Lover' won't call to check if the headache has subsided ,or if Catfish can help reduce the cold or if Credit alert will stop the diarrhea?. That's a deal breaker ! 3 Likes |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by YoshihideSuga: 4:00am On May 08, 2023 |
poshestmina: Why do you have to feign fake sickness so that your man can pamper you? Well, your man, because I detest dishonest people. If you want to be pampered, open your mouth and state it clearly. @OP: Your story and others are heart touching. Thankfully, I grew up in a family that takes illness very seriously. I have baby-sitted my sister when she had cholera and my mom when she was very sick to the point of death. My dad has rushed me to the hospital and spends any amount of money to ensure proper diagnosis and treatment are offered. The rest of us lambasted our son/brother who was sick and didn't inform anyone. So, it's surprising to read that there exist people who are totally nonchalant about their partners and in cases, father and mother of their children. I really pray not be involved in such because to divorce no go hard me. In the meantime, I will stop further procreation with such a woman and begin planning my exit. Save, invest and diversify. I will also keep malice with her. It's not hard for me sef. I will be silently wicked to her, na she go begin divorce proceedings. The issue we've in the world and in particular Nigeria is that people don't face consequences for their actions. The Bible states it clearly "to do unto others as you want them to do unto you". So if a woman gives me cold treatment when I am ill, I will gladly return the favour wholeheartedly and with pride. I don't forgive, I don't forget. That's God's responsibility, not mine. 1 Like |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Kajaard: 8:14am On May 08, 2023 |
Dainy1: You don't have a partner. The sooner you realize this, the better for you. I would rather live under a bridge than share the same roof with such a person. 1 Like |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Aaaaarghmed(m): 4:43pm On May 08, 2023 |
Dainy1:love is one very stupid thing,if she is sick,that's how I will wear slippers like madman going to buy drugs,cooking for her,Me wet I first dey skinny,I go slim more because of thinking,I will bath her,I will practically be her errand boy and I no dey even reason am.i dey even cook carry go feed her for bed.The signs was there for me to break up early enough, But the love I had for her was as blind as a bat.when the relationship end ,na that time I con dey see her plenty comma. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Dainy1(m): 10:04pm On May 10, 2023 |
Aaaaarghmed:Nau wao. I thought is only me o. |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Darlingme(f): 6:15am On May 11, 2023 |
That's not a partner at all. Maybe roommate 1 Like |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Octopusssy(f): 8:15am On May 11, 2023 |
Give him a taste of his medicine. Shikena |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Whyzaid(f): 8:31am On May 11, 2023 |
OP! Maybe you should involve the people he or she respect |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by NoToPile: 8:34am On May 11, 2023 |
Some people are generally hard nothing moves them, even if it their own children. People should shine their eye before they marry oo. 1 Like |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Kobojunkiee: 7:47pm On May 11, 2023 |
ahnie:An adult did this to his own kids? Na wa oo... Una dey marry o! Please, never leave your children in his care!
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Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by ahnie: 8:19pm On May 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee:Lolz Kobo of laive,why den, do you think I have made my kids my silhouette? Things has changed now 1 Like |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Kobojunkiee: 8:34pm On May 11, 2023 |
ahnie:Again, trust no human being abeg! |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Dainy1(m): 8:36am On May 12, 2023 |
Whyzaid:To do what? To beg her to be a kind human? I don't think so |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Dainy1(m): 8:38am On May 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee:You can trust someone who have proven to be trust worthy |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Kobojunkiee: 9:22am On May 12, 2023 |
Dainy1:And how many humans have proven themselves trustworthy in your lifetime? Come on! We are humans;we are fallible. That is like the default setting for us all; sometimes we can't even help ourselves. So when you go around putting your trust in individuals, it becomes your fault when they fail you because duh! We are fallible beings! |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Dainy1(m): 12:42pm On May 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee:My dear, that your own fail, does not mean everybody own no dey work o. I know is hard, but they are still some people you can trust. |
Re: Your Partner Ignore You When You're Very Sick by Kobojunkiee: 3:09pm On May 15, 2023 |
Dainy1:I am afraid you have it wrong entirely! None of mine failed, absolutely none and the reason is cause I apply this same commonsense I extend to you in every relationship I have with others. 2. I am afraid this is nothing but an illusion we create in our minds to make us feel better about the risks we take in relationships. |
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