Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

Lifeinbits:
Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

she is you GF not your mother. Move on dude.

Why are you so hell bent on deciding your future in your girlfriend letting you tag along. Be honest, she has valid points and you'll do the same if you were in her position.

If you have enough money you'll be using for yours and her upkeep over there, why not hustle a little longer and find your own way there.

If na woman you be now, dem for don dey shout gold digger. Drop your shovel bro.. Go get a hustling.. "You have an abroad to earn for yourself"

I remember your previous threads. People (myself included) in those threads advised you to move on, yet you've refused. I also told to start your own application process since she's not going to do it for you and doesn't want to take you along either. It seems you just want to continue wasting your time on a woman who doesn't want a future with you.

You're simply a placeholder to her right now; her actions (or lack thereof) and her reply that she will marry someone wherever she's going should've revealed that to you but you just want to keep playing nonchalant at 40. A fool at 40 is a ______ _________.

Why don't you marry her all along? Why rushing now? Are you really stressing yourself up because you love to spend the rest of your life with her or because you want to travel along?

Serious minded women hate men leaching around them pls

Lifeinbits:
Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

Why do you want to go to US as a man with an F2 visa?

Exodus15v11:
I remember your previous threads. People (myself included) in those threads advised you to move on, yet you've refused. I also told to start your own application process since she's not going to do it for you and doesn't want to take you along either. It seems you just want to continue wasting your time on a woman who doesn't want a future with you.

You're simply a placeholder to her right now; her actions (or lack thereof) and her reply that she will marry someone wherever she's going should've revealed that to you but you just want to keep playing nonchalant at 40. A fool at 40 is a ______ _________.

Fool forever.

You Nigerian men/simps have been advised severally against investing in a woman (especially those with girlfriend titles) but as usual, your small-mindedness would tell that your case is different coupled with your inability to reason rationally after been flooded with emotions.

Remember you lamenting on how much you have spent on her and your investments as if you have nothing in your life which you could have used that money to improve: maybe even plan your own japa self. Now you have successfully built her for another man and coming here to cry wolf. Right now, she is loyal to how she feels and that does not include you in her future plans.

Gerrard59, can you see why I'm vehemently against investing in "Girlfriend" titles that's if there's any iota of truth in the story.

There's no gain in it whatsoever.

Raalsalghul:


Fool forever.

✔ 👏

Don’t you have relatives or people who actually care about you so they can smack some sense into your head?

Lifeinbits:
Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

mumu man

U are forcing yourself on d girl

She no send u at all

Let go, but don't mind all these small-minded elements that have chosen to deride you for feeling betrayed by a woman that, according to you, had volitionally agreed to marry you, only for her to rescind her decision just because she now seems to be in an advantageous position than you.

The mistake you made was that you were not discerning to know and/or failed to accept the bitter truth that grit wasn't her forte; thus, ought to have known from the inception of your relationship with her that in an event like this, she'll discard you. It's ignorant of you to have expected her to give you what she doesn't have - she had neither grit nor an altruistic interest in you. So far, she's the callous person, not you, don't allow anyone to make you think otherwise unless you never sincerely meant well for her and had an altruistic interest in her, too.

Going forward, to always be on the safe side most of the time and without hurting the fair-minded people around you either:

- Learn to always come into equity with clean hands and never accept anything less from anyone, whether woman or man.

- Always put on your discerning cap to know anyone around you beyond who they presented themselves to be or how they wish to be treated and treat people based on who you truly know them to be.

Lifeinbits:
Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

A girl told you she wants to get married over there and you are still here asking what you should do?

Ok, she don reget you and you need to just move on...

Move on as fast as you can

Lifeinbits:
Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

Nothing you can do

She has moved on
That's women for you

Otilor

Please don't mind these people dishing out advice on this.
The truth is you can only go with her to US for studies, you can't work and will depend on her all through. Then you will both come back with almost nothing after the study.
She said she will have to marry another person(US CITIZEN) when she gets to US is absolutely true. That's how it works for her to stay after studies. However, the marriage will only be on paper for 5 years even if not more than that. She can leave wherever she likes though without even seeing her married partner.
That's the bitter truth. Its the main reason people choose UK over US, the US migration route is hard compare to UK.
Please let me know if you need more clarification on this

Lifeinbits:
Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

Lifeinbits:
Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

You feel cheated because you love her but she never loved you the same.My brother you dodged a bullet.

Move on man.My fiancee took me to Europe around 2007 on student visa as a fully funded student and we both weathered the storm after her studies.

Do you have a masters degree?A brother in the US reliably informed me that US is seriously seeking Phd students with full funding.

Try search for schools with full funding regarding your course.

I can help you out with the little knowledge i have about US schools.DM with your course of study.
Never do anything for revenge.

Raalsalghul:


Fool forever.

You Nigerian men/simps have been advised severally against investing in a woman (especially those with girlfriend titles) but as usual, your small-mindedness would tell that your case is different coupled with your inability to reason rationally after been flooded with emotions.

Remember you lamenting on how much you have spent on her and your investments as if you have nothing in your life which you could have used that money to improve: maybe even plan your own japa self. Now you have successfully built her for another man and coming here to cry wolf. Right now, she is loyal to how she feels and that does not include you in her future plans.

Gerrard59, can you see why I'm vehemently against investing in "Girlfriend" titles that's if there's any iota of truth in the story.

There's no gain in it whatsoever.

That was harsh.My fiancee was the one who took me to Europe in 2007 on her student visa.Not all fiancee/girlfriend are selfish.
Guess the love was one-sided from the beginning.

Husband no dey abroad, she go run back to you.

Thortp:
Please don't mind these people dishing out advice on this.
The truth is you can only go with her to US for studies, you can't work and will depend on her all through. Then you will both come back with almost nothing after the study.
She said she will have to marry another person(US CITIZEN) when she gets to US is absolutely true. That's how it works for her to stay after studies. However, the marriage will only be on paper for 5 years even if not more than that. She can leave wherever she likes though without even seeing her married partner.
That's the bitter truth. Its the main reason people choose UK over US, the US migration route is hard compare to UK.
Please let me know if you need more clarification on this

Keep quiet if you lack comprehension, and knowledge, in general. Based on his submission, in lieu of embarking on the journey with her as her dependent, which is possible and can be fruitful without them breaking the law, he's ready to stay back home if they can formalize things at the registry. People like you that take pleasure in justifying every nonsense are quite irritating.

I hear you.
@op, you can listen to him. I don't have strength for argument please.
Peace is priceless

RightToReject:



Keep quiet if you lack comprehension, and knowledge, in general. Based on his submission, in lieu of embarking on the journey with her as her dependent, which is possible and can be fruitful without them breaking the law, he's ready to stay back home if they can formalize things at the registry. People like you that take pleasure in justifying every nonsense are quite irritating.

Lifeinbits:
Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

Move on fast!!!!!!

Forget all youve lost. Thr best way to feel better is to endeavour to become very successful in life. If you do, you look back at how this issue became your turning point.

What she said is absolutely true.

If she arrives the States as married lady, she will need to divorce you in absentia before marrying someone for papers and that can be a very complicated process.

Allow that lady to pursue her future because it seems she is more focused than you are. You see only today but she sees tomorrow.

She can still divorce whoever she marries for the paper and come back to marry you so oga, rest naa biko.🙂

Lifeinbits:
Recall in my previous threads about my girlfriend getting her visa and how she doesn't want me to go with her as F2.

So she got her visa and I told my babe that we should go to the registry so that my mind can be at rest that I have someone that i can call my own that was how my babe said she's not going to the registry because of PR in Yankee that if she's married to me it will be difficult for her because the easiest way to get a pr is to marry a citizen over there. I don't understand why my girlfriend will want to do that and I'm suggesting that she can go for Ph.D but she's just adamant.

Guys what do think i should do

Start preparing for life without her. You've lost her, that's the bitter truth.

U av fulfilled your role as Nigerian boyfriend.

Unto the next....

cocolacec:

That was harsh.My fiancee was the one who took me to Europe in 2007 on her student visa.Not all fiancee/girlfriend are selfish.
Guess the love was one-sided from the beginning.

True bro, I have course mate that found his way to Canada through his gf.

Guys una una go the scream hustle hustle, abegi. Some people got opportunity you can't get if you like hustle for 100 years.

She's just assuring me with words of mouth and she's suggesting i apply to schools and come in as f1 too but most people have been talking to said i can go with her on f2 and later change to f1 in the United States. I find it difficult to believe all the things my girlfriend is saying because i feel she just don't want me to come with her because of her selfish interest on how she wants to get pr

Thortp:
Please don't mind these people dishing out advice on this.
The truth is you can only go with her to US for studies, you can't work and will depend on her all through. Then you will both come back with almost nothing after the study.
She said she will have to marry another person(US CITIZEN) when she gets to US is absolutely true. That's how it works for her to stay after studies. However, the marriage will only be on paper for 5 years even if not more than that. She can leave wherever she likes though without even seeing her married partner.
That's the bitter truth. Its the main reason people choose UK over US, the US migration route is hard compare to UK.
Please let me know if you need more clarification on this

Bro,
I believe proper information and dialogue could solve this problem.
My advise for you is to speak with a travel agent to shed more light on the issue.
Travelling to US is more than meet the eyes bro.
Please calm down and plan the whole thing with her.
Only people abroad will give you the right information on relocation.
I wish you well

Lifeinbits:
She's just assuring me with words of mouth and she's suggesting i apply to schools and come in as f1 too but most people have been talking to said i can go with her on f2 and later change to f1 in the United States. I find it difficult to believe all the things my girlfriend is saying because i feel she just don't want me to come with her because of her selfish interest on how she wants to get pr

Lol, this is the attitude of the female folks we will all shout gold digger, I will advise u move on because the relationship has ended so expect nothing. Registry ke.

She already has someone over there..leave her bro you have lost her..telling a woman u need to formalise things is a total turn off.
Find your own path,whats d big deal in Us.

Truly u are not mentally ready for wedding. U both are just on a survival path. u are going to a place where u can't work..even those earning still complain.
Let ur logic speak for you and not emotions. Leave her she's not yours

Am sure shes a nairalander too

Eyyah.

Sorry 😢

I understand it’s hard, but otilo already… 🫣

Be strong and hopeful for better things ahead…