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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Bakrabas: 7:54am On May 17, 2023 |
Samantha124: You're blending with Nigerian style of comments Samantha124 |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by gentlesmithugo(m): 8:03am On May 17, 2023 |
Officialetila:keep deceiving yourself.if not for cutting one.keep playing |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by LaRosa01: 8:12am On May 17, 2023 |
I am listening, you are the definately the problem. you can only treathen a weak man with divorce,if it was me,the day it came out of your mouth,you would have been out of my house.as for my sisters or daughters those black mail work for weak Men.would you wish a woman like yourself for your own son? we all know the answer to that. please do and divorce so that Young man can progress before you distroy him ,please note even if you too remain together,your action would hurt you in the future. men never forget does who humilate them when they are down,so prepare to reap what you have planted when he starts progressing. Dearlove2me: 2 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Vado(m): 8:13am On May 17, 2023 |
duality: Have you seen how haggard & unkempt looking many people in a bet shop are? Visit a Bet9ja shop in ur neighborhood one day & run a check. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by rafcrown(m): 8:17am On May 17, 2023 |
When a woman is tired of a man , excuses will follow. He is jobless now and he has no money and the woman wants to move on to where better dey. Excuse he is a gambler. In case he wins big you would claim 80 percent of his total wealth. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by ahnie: 8:18am On May 17, 2023 |
Dearlove2me:Duchess of nairaland,sorry ma'am. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Godwin4444: 8:24am On May 17, 2023 |
ChizzyBuna:na 1- 0 them play ooo |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by BeigJawnson(m): 8:28am On May 17, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: There is nothing God can't do and there is nobody God can't change. Please engage yourself with night prayers for him. I fmdint know if you are a Christian. If you are a Christian. .. at least wake up by 12am. That is when morning starts, before any other activities of the day. Cry to God on his behalf. Even if it is one hour vigil. Anytime you go to Church, pray for him. And inform your pastor too, so he can help you with him in prayers. Also in your prayers don't blame God for giving you as a husband ... Thank God for giving you as husband... And always thank him for all He has done in your life.. you can quote me and give me his full name so I can help in prayers in my quite time. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by ahnie: 8:39am On May 17, 2023 |
Godwin4444:You sef na punter,not surprised! Advice the lady what to do with your buddy in the punt industry,seems she's frustrated with him. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Oju4190: 8:42am On May 17, 2023 |
Dearlove2me:If u have done everything then let him be.....chill.....later he eye go clear....just keep praying 4 him because prayer nor dey too much.....No need to b quarrelling u have tried ur best 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Godwin4444: 8:46am On May 17, 2023 |
ahnie:donāt b ridiculous I watch ball like tomorrow no dey n I once have a bet shop after my service but despite that me I no dey bet ooo cos d story no dey end well I had to stop d business cos it ruins life a lot, no matter wetin dem chop for there they must bring it back d following day D thing is d guy should get a job n pick up another addiction like playing video games 2 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by ahnie: 8:52am On May 17, 2023 |
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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by KingofHearts(m): 9:02am On May 17, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: [b]It appears that you donāt want to listen! You may have put efforts and no result yet that is well understood!! You see that divorce you mentioned thatās what is on your mind and the only thing stopping you is that you donāt have enough money to do it yet. You are letting your emotions get the best of you as well as allowing the devil sit permanently in your home. Within a short time everything beyond your imagination will be destroyed completely. Everyone on Nairaland will leave you and focus on another matter or their own struggles. This is the exact plan of the devil for you and your child. Itās in your hands whether you want to act the script or not. Marriage is not beans, those oath you swore has now come before you, now you are tired and want to abandon ship. It can be tiring and draining I know, it can be overwhelming and give that sinking feel. The truth is , our problems in reality are not as big as our mind and brain present it to usā¦this is what results in hopelessness!! Your present approach is not working and will end your marriage. Talk calmly and peacefully, take it to God in prayer,find something better to do to give you money and donāt you ever ever give him money(thatās the fuel for the addiction)be there for your child as itās both your responsibility,he needs you more now than ever to win this battle. There is battle everywhere even in the places you may jump to(May be worse sef) God Will strengthen and bless you, he will give you the wisdom,knowledge and understanding to win this battle,joy and happiness will return to you again,your husband will come to his senses again and he will even compensate you beyond your imagination. Stay strong and reach out directly for help. [/b] [/b] 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Berankis: 9:02am On May 17, 2023 |
Skyfornia:Werey leleyi o Gambling is big issue... For a fact that you see yourself winning big and having a breakthrough for once will always make you return to gambling, it is worse when you are not financially strong and you see it as a way out. It will bring you down and all the people around will also go down with you. Only a very few get lucky, most people lose! May God help all Naija stakers and gamblers. May God help me too! |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by KingofHearts(m): 9:07am On May 17, 2023 |
Berankis: Itās is now an epidemic!!! The numbers are crazy!! 2 owners of these site have bought with 3years 2nd division football clubs in Europe (100% ownership). Itās the same too in other African countries!! Gambling is a fun sport for the super rich and done for the fun of it. Gambling is not for breakthrough, the exceptions are not the norms!! The board man always wins!!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by bukatyne(f): 9:08am On May 17, 2023 |
Emmanuel909090: Not the chronic gambler, it is the wife who is his victim that is the cause of the failed home. Onyeoma. 1 Like |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by just2endowed: 9:22am On May 17, 2023 |
Omo what do guys gain in gambling? The odds are not always in your favour when you gamble... |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by mukthar2000(m): 9:28am On May 17, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:And u think you are doing that woman favour with all this ur discouragements articles, can't u just stop judging and stop talking As if u are a God that create the guy and stop discourage that good wife if u can't console her with what she was passing through right. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Fireson: 9:56am On May 17, 2023 |
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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by dealslip(f): 10:02am On May 17, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Avoid this person's advice like COVID 19. He/She is a sad, angry, bitter, resentful and God hating soul. On the other hand; gambling, when it gets to the stage of addiction is not easily broken!!! At the moment he is not different from a cocaine addict. Everything you tell him falls on deaf ears. He has been animated by the spirit of gambling(destruction). Only the power of the Holy Spirit can break the stronghold of darkness over his life. You are not confronting your husband, you are confronting a wicked spirit operating through him. The weapon you have against it is not a physical one but a mighty one through God, specifically designed for the pulling down of strongholds and everything that exalts itself above the knowledge of God. Trust me, fighting him is futile. For the sake of the love you have for him and your baby - fast and pray for him - using the appropriate weapons of warfare. Sometimes a knife might be appropriate and other times only a hammer can work. If you want me to share the scriptures to use, you can indicate to me when you respond to my comment. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by MechanicMike: 10:05am On May 17, 2023 |
bukatyne: Gimmmmme Yor nomba I beg.i hav moiney |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Nobody: 10:13am On May 17, 2023 |
LaRosa01:Oga, you can't be living a low life, behaving like a toddler and expect yourself to excersis authority over your home. They're many ingredients that makes a real man a man. Is not by ranting online. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Nobody: 10:16am On May 17, 2023 |
rafcrown:I want to believe you're not using your right mind to communicate here. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Diddycsbsb: 10:16am On May 17, 2023 |
Divorce him now or leave the house for him now.. Then go and look for a better job to help train your child,. That man will never change , he will draw your destiny back. Run for your dear life. Gamblers are the most useless people on earth. They always dream when dey won games but in reality they are loosers. My dear in fact divorce him and focus on your life you can do it alone. Udo |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Nobody: 10:18am On May 17, 2023 |
Oju4190:Thank you |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by victorazy(m): 10:28am On May 17, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You say? Repeat plz, I yam not understanding |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Timidangote(m): 10:51am On May 17, 2023 |
ChizzyBuna:Game don cut |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Quebec91(m): 11:16am On May 17, 2023 |
Gbam š¤š¤ Oloki: |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Emmanuel909090: 11:30am On May 17, 2023 |
bukatyne: I'm not praising the man either, if divorce is the first thing that come to your mind in any little problem, you are not supposed to marry, just stay single, there are other remedies. Why not show him more love and convince him not to anytime you sense he has the urge to.. Women are keepers. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by bukatyne(f): 11:38am On May 17, 2023 |
Emmanuel909090: 1. Chronic gambling is not a 'little' problem. 2. The OP has reported the issue to her in-laws and family without resolution. So divorce was not her first line of action 3. Women are keepers; men provide what the women keep. So what is the OP's husband providing? While I am not saying the OP should divorce her husband (I have not given my opinion on this thread), it is gross misrepresentation to infer that the wife is the problem or the one that doesn't want to 'keep' the marriage. You cannot solve a problem if you canāt even get the problem statement right. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Tzar(m): 11:46am On May 17, 2023 |
There is nothing wrong with the woman praying for her man and/or marriage to become better. Marriage in most cases benefits the woman more than the man. Therefore a lot is required from her to stay married. Men on the other hand have less consequences to contend with if they choose to be unmarried. The truth is that the woman makes the home. It seems unfair to carry such heavy responsibilties with unequal authority in marriage, however it is what it is. As long as a woman wants to be in a marriage there is a lot she needs to do, give up and intensify on. The good news for feminists is that staying unmarried is gradually becoming fashionble, therefore women can now remain single if the demands of marriage is too much for them to handle. Although staying unmarried is antithetical to the needs of a woman who mostly have a deep seated premordial and inate psychological need to be loved, pampered and protected by a male to feel happy. Kobojunkie: |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Aklee4994(m): 11:54am On May 17, 2023 |
labake1:but love those ones that cheat and fraud to bankroll your extravagant lifestyle...Dey play something must kill a MAN šØ why on earth man will not do one āļø of those your mention |
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