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Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by akaahs(m): 8:39pm On May 24, 2023 |
Klass99:No mind that guy, he no know what he's saying. The think dey work like magic. My wife dey always used that think at d early stage of our marriage but when i understood it, she come dey fear my own sef. Sha, i get my limit when ever i enter that mood 4 Likes |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Emaprince: 8:40pm On May 24, 2023 |
Op. I give you kudos for still having a flaming sexual interest in your wife. Whom you have bleeped several times. Some men, by now, would have lost that fire and interest, hence na the wife go dey complain say hubby no dey show attention again. But here we are with the reverse. Maybe she is bored and lost interest in you, who knows. No woman can put me in this position. Unless I'm no longer capable of working and making money ( God forbid!!!) You don't know your value as a man. That's why you are here sounding like a baby and even explaining to women that are dragging you on this thread. Be a man bro. 1 Like |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by PROPEACE: 8:40pm On May 24, 2023 |
RenegadeX:Exactly my perspective! I like your post die! The sweetest part is where you open the door and kick her out so hard that she falls and scrapes her knees.😂😂 I almost peed in my pants laughing. I am going through exactly what OP is going through and I am doing exactly what you suggested and I am already seeing some soberness. I will not stop till I fix it. I tried the heart to heart talk that naïve dude was suggesting earlier on and it failed woefully. One bitter truth many of us fail to get is being nice is mostly not a solution to life's problems. Most times, when you want peace, you have to prepare for and fight a war. 4 Likes
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Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:41pm On May 24, 2023 |
RenegadeX: You are very uncouth. Can you not pass your messages without sounding tactless and ghetto? |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Kobojunkie: 8:42pm On May 24, 2023 |
Metronomy:1. If you did not figure out that there is a lot more to the story than what OP spun there in his OP, then you would likely be easily fooled by many other tales out there such as these. |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Kobojunkie: 8:43pm On May 24, 2023 |
deltateam:Arrgggh!! so, people who don't get more than 1 week of sex are indeed not loved? |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by nonny1212: 8:43pm On May 24, 2023 |
jaxxy:I wish this particular comment is on the 1st page. NO WORDS truer |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Tayorshd87: 8:43pm On May 24, 2023 |
yemmit90: God bless u this is d best reasonable and comment so far to me |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Veezy4u(m): 8:44pm On May 24, 2023 |
Most Nigerian women are selfish in nature, they'll always abandon who loves dem n who they love for someone who will guarantee instant marriage. The moment they see house/car n small change they'll dive in thinking Love grows, I'll just try to love him, if there is little or no attraction it doesn't always end well cos even d guy will feel ok I'll treat her anyhow d moment he realises that d love is not genuine. We understand very well that menopause is usually not on their side, but I won't suggest you suffer with a guy all in the name of love. U can build a relationship to be what n how u want as long as you guys can get a rent, feed urselves n other bills n prepare Ur future in love n peace, faithfulness, it will be well. Naija economy is messed up, a lot of guys go through sh!t n d least de should get is a happy home. Guys should forget beauty cos when these ladies are desperate for marriage you'll see a different almost perfect being na when Una mistakenly marry you hear wheeeen, d moment de get married n have a child they are fulfilled they've achieved a successful life any other thing is less important. In Gold circle advert dah year dey say "use your head" 😂😂😂😂 |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by holybabayo(m): 8:45pm On May 24, 2023 |
Nairaland add unlike in comment so we can unlike some people's comments without typing 1 Like |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Kobojunkie: 8:45pm On May 24, 2023 |
modelsms:What I clearly understood is that there is more to the tale that Op spun here in his oP. If you read some of his follow-up tales, you would see this too. There is a reason why the wife is the way she is towards OP and it has to do with some discovery OP didn't reveal in his main post. |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by tunjilana: 8:45pm On May 24, 2023 |
I will say this....from experience....many women in Nigeria are so damaged that a kind, good man looks like a walkover to them....simply stop caring too, if u can, take ur mind off sex with her...start by warning her that if she denies u again without any logical reason., u wont touch her again....and do ur best to stick to it...if it ever happens....get a sidechic if that will help U...start doing only the barest minimum and let it be obvious.....If she still cares about the home she got....she will adjust quickly....else, u will be better off being with someone else who genuinely cares and is willing to adjust to make u happy as much as u r willing to.make her hapoy |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Kobojunkie: 8:46pm On May 24, 2023 |
albert2512:I read it and realized immediately that OP was not telling us all of the stories. the Tale he spun in his opening post was only to make the wife look terrible and he succeeded because if you read his follow-up comments, you will see OP is playing the victim. |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Gunayo(m): 8:46pm On May 24, 2023 |
kkins25:Thunder will also fire you For using it on others as well. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Nobody: 8:47pm On May 24, 2023 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Will you keep quiet? We are now mate abi White ogbanje 2 Likes |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by akaahs(m): 8:47pm On May 24, 2023 |
CuriousMind2022:Then u re too gentle and she's not sure of the man she's married too. Im married too, she want to see the lion in u. Believe me u, some women hate seeing their man behaving too gentle. See that sex, don't bother any time she refused u. Just locked up |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by bekpo(m): 8:48pm On May 24, 2023 |
frank317: If he's caring as he claimed, did he care to findout why she's unhappy and resolved same that night? Did he k 2 find out frm d wife why she's unhappy? As a caring husband, is he not bothered d wife said she's unhappy? In d morning, did he care to findout why she's unhappy? Before leaving for his station, did he care to findout frm d wife what d problem is that she's unhappy and seek to resolve same before travelling? He left that woman in that condition and expect her to called him, what's d motivation? He's now playing d victim card. Some women dey suffer sha. 2 Likes |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by akinade28(f): 8:50pm On May 24, 2023 |
CuriousMind2022: Brother, your marriage and peace is at stake here. You need to be careful with the kind of advice you will follow. As a Christian, it is better you seek advice from the right quarters, get the people your wife listens to, so that they can speak some senses into her head. Get your mentors and pastors to interfere and give the appropriate advice. 1 Like |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Freelancerr(m): 8:50pm On May 24, 2023 |
what I do to a girl I'm dating is I clone there chat mostly WhatsApp. Once it's cloned I check and read all their message directly on my phone even without them noticing. I do this for some months so as to be sure of whom I'm dating, make I for no go enter one chance. I'll teach anyone this trick only if you check my signature and text me on WhatsApp. Note : you will pay a token before we start. Cos it's not free oooo. |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by deltateam: 8:50pm On May 24, 2023 |
DBestDoc: Who your upset epp? Better spread those damn legs for your man or allow him to move on. 1 Like |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Kobojunkie: 8:50pm On May 24, 2023 |
akaahs:And if Op takes this advice and the woman runs crying, "Rape", hope you will also be there to bail him out? |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Clinghton: 8:51pm On May 24, 2023 |
Probably hasn't healed from your lustful act, show her love not sex. Sometimes its good to understand they ideology of a family before getting married to it's member. 1 Like |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Ten06(m): 8:53pm On May 24, 2023 |
You better walk away now that it is still early. If at the early stage of the marriage she could not pretend to love you, after she has given birth to like 2 children she will bare all her fang. By then you won't be able to leave because of the children and you will decide to tolerate and bear her attitude and it will make you to be sad and die early |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Tayorshd87: 8:53pm On May 24, 2023 |
irepnaija4eva: Exactly 😢 |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by PROPEACE: 8:54pm On May 24, 2023 |
RenegadeX:Imagine this silly advice from a vagïna person, help with the chores not for the sake of helping but because you want to eat her apple at night. Tufiakwa! 1 Like |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Nobody: 8:54pm On May 24, 2023 |
When God Is Silent This Is What It Means Apostle Joshua Selman Listen And Remain Blessed https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-nmw52_i008 1 Like |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Ade1177: 8:57pm On May 24, 2023 |
CuriousMind2022:Brother If she was a good girl And Gave you alot of sex before marriage that made you accept to marry her Now that you're married and she's refusing you There's only one explanation She's not intrigued by what you're doing anymore Females are not like male that gets moved by sight or what they see Rather what they feel towards you You must have satisfied her fantasy or thrilled her during dating But right now she doesn't feel thrilled or let's put it BORED And has lost Respect for you Infact if a lady raises her voice at you She doesn't respect you Ladies don't love their men They respect them by being overprotective of the relationship not wanting anything to tear you away I'll advice you try find ways to Thrill her again and do things that will make her respect you She's bored That's if you still love her and want the marriage to work Even after 20yrs You can get any Lady back once you thrill her and make her feel you're way Above what she can Afford to lose |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by Veezy4u(m): 8:58pm On May 24, 2023 |
When you're a playboy they'll say better go n marry , u marry wife go tell u sex once a week 😂😂😂😂😂😂 ment or malaria? U're single u go fvck tire see Cynthia, Rebecca, Jennifer, chisom, chinelo, adeshewa, funmilayo, Zainab, Aisha, etc u come marry they'll tell you am tired, I'm not in the mood, I'm angry with you, I have kids to look after bla bla bla......if him comot outside they'll say all Nigerian men are 😂😂 as for all those God-fearing babe or spouse bullshit shebi Lucifer was not God-fearing Abi? He was a "saint" truth is most women love god-fearing badboys🙃 |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by LagBlogger(m): 9:01pm On May 24, 2023 |
Biglittlelois: E remain small you for get sense. As you don turn expert psychotherapist, make we bring different lunies to you for analysis. As an expert at reading people's minds, characters and personalities you're entitled to a special place - boss of people who think they know what they're talking about but don't. I am only being nice here - hope you understand my message madam psychotherapist? |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by histemple: 9:02pm On May 24, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Sometimes I wonder if there are robots on nairaland. But even robots do have sense. Did you read that it takes him two weeks to see his wife again? Did you read that she hasn't called to check whether her husband arrived safe? Did you read that she makes no effort to make the marriage work? |
Re: I do not feel loved by my wife, Is this enough reason to quit my marriage? by juman(m): 9:03pm On May 24, 2023 |
See marriage counselor. She refused to grow up from a lady to a married woman. |
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