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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by simfrost90210: 6:58pm On May 25, 2023
Harrynight:



Nairaland forum shouldn't be all about Politics, tinubu, buhari Obi and yeyebrities
Sometimes let's engage in some other things affecting us individually

I believe that.. you're right πŸ‘

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Divoc19(f): 7:32pm On May 25, 2023
Nairaland guys are broke ass men.
I can't advertise here.
Besides I don't do online things.
Nairaland family remains online family.
olabrinks:
are you advertising yourself?

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Beebah321(f): 7:33pm On May 25, 2023
KingMack:



Babee shey ni de ke za mu dinga yin shi kulun in mu aure ko? πŸ˜ŠπŸ˜‰
Ehhh!! lipsrsealed
So, u Sabi Hausa
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Chinny024(f): 7:57pm On May 25, 2023
taylor89:
Konji go soon kill you

God no go let me see anything wey go make me knack two times a month, i dey even Fvck my babe on hospital bed with injection port in my hand

Me wey Fvck dey hungry per second

Very soon you go dey come out for T-Junction dey shout I wan knack oo I wan knack oo

E don do me before, if I sneeze like this sperm go come out, if I run my sweat go dey drip like Ogbono, my spit na spermatozoa

Even Tinubu knacks Remi more than that

Anyways pray hard bcuz I don witness over 8 people wey konji kill

Hahahahahahahahah🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣🀣
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Chinny024(f): 7:59pm On May 25, 2023
Pele.sir

It's well
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by simfrost90210: 8:01pm On May 25, 2023
Chinny024:
Pele.sir

It's well



Hey Sis..
I got a notification that you just emailed me..
I'm sorry i've lost the password to that email and has not been functional by me.. You can email me on beverheights90210@gmail.com..
I'll get your mail ASAP..
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by eroticecstasy: 8:06pm On May 25, 2023
Peterpanny:
nonsense.



You are calling someone who can feed your entire generation bastard,can't you see that you just an unfortunate swine.

You're a bastard, I can say that to your face, you son of a thousand father, go and feed your village. You can't even foot the bills of my pet.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Peterpanny: 9:38pm On May 25, 2023
eroticecstasy:


You're a bastard, I can say that to your face, you son of a thousand father, go and feed your village. You can't even foot the bills of my pet.
why you day swell like agege bread.

Can we meet in person so you can the gist very well.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by malcom1X: 4:11am On May 26, 2023
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Sexxx sexxx sexxx angry. What a generation! So,of all the problem wey dey this life,na limitation of sexxx by your wife be your major problem? shocked. The same wife that produced two beautiful kids for you....And to even imagine that some kangaroos here are advising the op to marry another wife can't just beat my imagination angry. Op,if you like,make you go use your own hands take scatter your marriage all because of say your wife ain't giving your too much of sexxx.

Sex rules the world.
Do you know why Boko Haram are fighting the Nigerian government?

It's because of sex. That's why they keep marrying the young girls they capture.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by KingMack(m): 6:41am On May 26, 2023
Beebah321:
Ehhh!! lipsrsealed
So, u Sabi Hausa


Eh mana..ina kwana
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by sukkot: 7:17am On May 26, 2023
AngelicBeing:
OH Nooooooooolll, not again, l am tired of all this sex, sex, sex matters on nairaland.com, where is sukkot, oya come and carry these guy to England to go and work for Prince Charles shocked

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by eroticecstasy: 8:39am On May 26, 2023
Peterpanny:
why you day swell like agege bread.

Can we meet in person so you can the gist very well.

You're too childish for my liking, I'm very far from that shit hole you're dwelling and forming trash, empty barrel.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Gerrard59(m): 8:58am On May 26, 2023
donbachi:
Bro, wetin dem wear for hand,dem no dey take mirror look am .

What a proverb! grin
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:37pm On May 26, 2023
Harrynight:
Lol
They will easily tell you to go ahead and look for other ways to satisfy yourself that they don't care,
Later they will use it against you for cheating on them
When it becomes an issue no body will care whether she deny you sex they will focus on the fact that you've been cheating...
Fear women!

thats very true...until you bring home WIFE #2.

charlypoker:
Other ways like?

like...
- a GF.... and dont be afraid to flaunt her everywhere you go, even to your wife.
- POLYGAMY.... if a wife is not willing to fulfill her marital duties then get a 2nd wife who will. competition has a way of making your lazy wife suddenly get her shiiit together.

Psoul:
That guy should go out more and hustle more. Ya jee chuba ego. He should go and hustle for money and this will make the woman to always be wet. Lack of money makes kpekus get dry.

are you claiming that this woman's problem is MONEY?!?!?! BWAAAAAAAAH! so money is gonna make this woman act right in the bedroom?! how exactly? are you claiming this man should PAY for his wife to act like A WIFE SHOULD?!?!?!?!?!

IamtheTruth1:
Two times in a month is high libido ? I do not understand. The sex Na festival way suppose happen once a year?

two times a month is definitely not enough for OP....

Xammie001:
BRO you should know the wife is bitter or angry about something for her to be behaving this way,Telling her will cause more harm than good sir

yes more HARM to wifey, and more GOOD to husband.

thuxzwda1:
Never discuss this with your wife grin

so this dude should suffer in silence...or go cheat like a rat in the dead of night?! hell no... tell your wife what time it is and move accordingly if she doesnt want to change her ways. this is just a matter of sexual incompatibility (or someone else is shining her congo)
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Beebah321(f): 4:47pm On May 26, 2023
KingMack:



Eh mana..ina kwana
lafiya cheesy
Take am easy ooo, I no too Sabi Hausa lipsrsealed
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by thuxzwda1: 7:50pm On May 26, 2023
Psoul:


You mean he should call his wife and say this to her.
Bros, come, are you married?
Do you know it's far better for him to divorce his wife than saying this to her.
That statement will empower the woman to also openly look for a way to be getting her own sexual satisfactions. How will the man feel about that. Can the man have any moral stand to stop her after telling her this?

Do you know that, the statement can bring out the devilish vile in that woman and she may secretly kill that man. Women do not think like men.

What this man need to do is just to go and make money. Probably, the wife is taking care of many things(financially) in the house and she will be like... after I've suffered outside to make ends meet and you'll still be bothering me with sex.

Do you know that when a man is not making enough money to take care of his wife, the sexual urge of that woman will drop. She may not necessarily be seeing another man outside.

That guy should go out more and hustle more. Ya jee chuba ego. He should go and hustle for money and this will make the woman to always be wet. Lack of money makes kpekus get dry.

cool....correct

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Psoul(m): 9:10pm On May 26, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


are you claiming that this woman's problem is MONEY?!?!?! BWAAAAAAAAH! so money is gonna make this woman act right in the bedroom?! how exactly? are you claiming this man should PAY for his wife to act like A WIFE SHOULD?!?!?!?!?!

Yes, money may be her problem. I'm not expecting you to understand cos I believe you're not married yet.

I never said the man should pay there woman. Now listen let me educate you
That woman's issue May be that the man is not making money as expected. Not just for the man to be giving to her.
Every woman want to be proud of her husband.

The guy May not be hustling enough for the wife to be proud of him.
He may not be measuring up with his peers and the man May not even be showing sign that he wants to do better.
Hardworking woman feel bad when they have husbands like this.

Wives get easily turned on with hard working husband. Even before the man steps foot into the house, the wife is already wet. It's the man that will be complaining that the wife wants to choke him with sex.
When you as a husband starts behind your wife for sex, check where you've taken short of bn a man and work on it.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by KingMack(m): 12:45am On May 27, 2023
Beebah321:
lafiya cheesy
Take am easy ooo, I no too Sabi Hausa lipsrsealed


Really!!! Where you from?
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Beebah321(f): 7:35pm On May 27, 2023
KingMack:



Really!!! Where you from?
Nasarawa lipsrsealed
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by KingMack(m): 2:16pm On May 28, 2023
Beebah321:
Nasarawa lipsrsealed



Nice one..never been there though, ina Kano, ever been there?
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by abimbawealth(f): 3:27pm On May 28, 2023
You have to sit her down and have a heart-to-heart talk with her. One thing I know about women is that their acceptance or refusal of sexual advances is usually emotionally triggered.

Are there ways you might be insensitive to her needs? Do you guys actually have a bonding time or is it only when you wanna do the do that you get close to madam? Do you fight her and yell at her over simple things? Does she find sex with you painful or enjoyable?

If it's no to all the above, then it might be for deeper reasons but having a conversation with her would go a long way.

God bless you
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Beebah321(f): 10:21pm On May 28, 2023
KingMack:




Nice one..never been there though, ina Kano, ever been there?
Nope. Only Kaduna
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Gloriao(f): 6:15am On May 29, 2023
primeredge:
Some men don't want to cheat, but some women, once they gave birth they started neglecting the man and hence give the men reasons to cheat and justify their actions


You feel that by the number of likes you got that you have made a very crucial point.
Have you ever asked why some women draw back when it comes to matter of the bedroom after birth?
They work tirelessly to take care of the new baby, without much or no physical and emotional and psychological support from the husband. He would always been expecting that his food be ready at the right time, expects his clothes to all be washed. Expects the woman to rush to the market, expects her to take care of Children all round the Clock. Why won't she refuse you?
She is not a robot. The moment you change your narrative on how you think marriage should be,you would see changes. it is not all about providing financial support to the family.
Taking part actively in the activities of the house would go a long way in relieving the wife an in all you do pour your love, you would be surprised how your wife would give you what you both want because part if her has been relieved from much stress.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Gloriao(f): 6:20am On May 29, 2023
Nation1:
Hello people,

Am married for 6 years with two kids. Some months ago, my wife started denying sex so much that we hardly have 2 times in a month. Because of this, I no longer disturb her this days cos it's better to let her be than to be rejected since most times I expected her to say no or give an excuse or the other which am always about 90 percent right about.

This days, I don't feel attracted to her sexually anymore. I have never cheated on her but this days, the thought of doing so is gradually creeping in. Have tried talking to her about this but no change. I don't want to start what extra marital affair but am tempted to.

I need your advise guys.

Dear OP,

Have you ever asked why some women draw back when it comes to matter of the bedroom after birth?
They work tirelessly to take care of the new baby, without much or no physical and emotional and psychological support from the husband. He would always been expecting that his food be ready at the right time, expects his clothes to all be washed. Expects the woman to rush to the market, expects her to take care of the Children all round the Clock. Why won't she refuse you?
She is not a robot. The moment you change your narrative on how you think marriage should be,you would see changes. it is not all about providing financial support to the family.
Taking part actively in the activities of the house would go a long way in relieving the wife an in all you do pour your love, you would be surprised how your wife would give you what you both want because part if her has been relieved from too much stress. A man who truly loves his wife would never allow her to be stressed over domestic chores because it is never one sided.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by DonroxyII: 10:47pm On Jun 08, 2023
SultanOfAbia:
God created side chicks for a reason
God created women to pleasure man

After God created Adam first
Then saw that Adam was bored
So he created pussy for Adam to fvck and enjoy.

That's why God made pussy so sweet
He created woman because He noticed that Adam konji was getting out of hand.
Adam was doing soapy every night alone and lonely.

That's the only reason God created woman. To satisfy Adam.

Olorburuku ... Adam ain't Bored, Adam was Depressed & Eve was Created to Provide Adam with Anti-depressant which are Boobs & Pvssy Unfortunately Same Enter into Adam's Head Enough to Be Manipulated into Chopping Forbidden Fruits Which Leads to Further Wahala wahala Wahala ... Anyway...

We Adam Children are Doing Better as we Don Build Skyscrapers & We Using Android & ios grin

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Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by ehay(f): 10:13am On Jun 10, 2023
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SaLongs1:
You dey lie Abeg.

Ok, just so you know, HPV causes anal cancer, throat cancer, cervical cancer, prostrate cancer,neck cancer, mouth cancer, nail cancer, anal cancer. You do not need to engage in anal sex to have it. Only cervical cancer can be prevented through leep surgical excision, ie if the lady goes for her pap smear yearly and it is detected at the precancer stage known as CIN1, 2 and 3. HPV test always comes back nill for men, only ladies can be tested. The two vaccines used in Nigeria only cover two strains that are responsible for 70% of cancers. The high resolution anoscopy for treating anal precancer or AIN1, 2,and 3, is not done in Nigeria.
Re: I Am Not Getting Attracted To Her Sexually by Exceed15: 5:55pm On Jun 16, 2023
Victor2707:
You got married thinking there will be unlimited sex.

She want to use sex to control you to do her bidding because she knows you love sex.

That's her weapon.

Don't ever ask her for sex anymore.

Marry another wife if you can finance it. A younger one to be precise.

Gbam!

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