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What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by hotwax: 7:48am On May 26, 2023
Polygamy is illegal in some European countries. Its legal in Arab/Muslim countries.

Although Polygamy is not totally legal in Nigeria thanks to the White wedding being arranged by the Customary court. However, Polygamy is allowed in Nigerian Islam settings (Muslims correct me if I am wrong).

The bottom line is, before the almagamation by Lord lugard, our fathers down south married more than 1 wife, regardless of their religion.
This works without any problem in the society. There was no feminist association e.t.c. From my own personal background, our great grandmother even asked our great grandfather to marry a younger wife who can take care of him better when he clocked 60.

Polygamy is a native African setting.

Despite all these, these generation of people lived longer than our current generation, our life expectancy is now down to 60years, whereas it was 80 during their time.

In addition, promiscuity, prostitution, hookup was not popular. There was reduced broken home. Nowadays some marriages don't even last 6months.

I can go on and on...

My Submission

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Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by Absuchat(m): 7:50am On May 26, 2023
My take is.... If you must be married in this generation, go for polygamy... Else remain single (that's if you really want to live upto the said life's expectancy)

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Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by hotwax: 8:03am On May 26, 2023
Absuchat:
My take is.... If you must be married in this generation, go for polygamy... Else remain single (that's if you really want to live upto the said life's expectancy)

they will soon come at you,..,

you know who..
Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by philiancoop(m): 8:28am On May 26, 2023
Nigeria is a confusion
Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by JOACHINpedro: 8:31am On May 26, 2023
Baby mamarism and paparism is modern polygamy and polyandry
Same old sh*t, just a rebrand

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Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by Absuchat(m): 9:03am On May 26, 2023
hotwax:


they will soon come at you,..,

you know who..
grin grin
I swear
Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by Reminderz: 9:31am On May 26, 2023
there's absolutely nothing wrong with polygamy, we have been deceived by the West who sees nothing wrong with homosexuality and tried to cancel out polygamy to enforce their other myopic ideologies on brainwashed souls... it's the plan of the new world order.. the thing is that many people don't think...

the plan is to replace kids with pets.. replace polygamy/monogamy with homosexuality... replace humans with bots.. reduce the number of critical thinkers... replace geniuses with dummies... destroy the family line, destroy civilisation from within, makes the masses easier to control...

check the countries and cities where there family line is in order and where they don't advocate all these nonsense the West is selling, they are more in control of their society and have sane beings leading them... they are also more powerful than their counterparts.. they thrive naturally compared to where these deranged and brainwashed souls are situated... it's a form of mass brainwashing and control and sadly, Africa is losing her heritage into threading that path..

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Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by fyzaila: 10:12am On May 26, 2023
Reminderz:
there's absolutely nothing wrong with polygamy, we have been deceived by the West who sees nothing wrong with homosexuality and tried to cancel out polygamy to enforce their other myopic ideologies on brainwashed souls... it's the plan of the new world order.. the thing is that many people don't think...

the plan is to replace kids with pets.. replace polygamy/monogamy with homosexuality... replace humans with bots.. reduce the number of critical thinkers... replace geniuses with dummies... destroy the family line, destroy civilisation from within, makes the masses easier to control...

check the countries and cities where there family line is in order and where they don't advocate all these nonsense the West is selling, they are more in control of their society and have sane beings leading them... they are also more powerful than their counterparts.. they thrive naturally compared to where these deranged and brainwashed souls are situated... it's a form of mass brainwashing and control and sadly, Africa is losing her heritage into threading that path..

Well said! Very Apt!

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Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by ednut1(m): 11:04am On May 26, 2023
No one stops you marrying two wives even in southern Nigeria. Polygamy was popular then as each family needed children that will work on farms na. These day’s life has become harder and expensive. The average man cannot take care of himself talk less of 2 or more wives. Alot of our parents/ grandparents grew up in polygamous homes and swore never to try it. There was jealousy, envy, maltreatment, juju etc in those homes

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Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by 1Sharon(f): 12:20pm On May 26, 2023
There's nothing wrong with polygamy. Just don't cheat and claim polygamy.

It's not done in secrecy.

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Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by frozen70(f): 12:36pm On May 26, 2023
Absuchat:
My take is.... If you must be married in this generation, go for polygamy... Else remain single (that's if you really want to live upto the said life's expectancy)

Why not take the lead since you can handle polygamous life

Stop misleading people, to handle just one wife is an issue talk more of more than one
Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by frozen70(f): 12:40pm On May 26, 2023
hotwax:
Polygamy is illegal in some European countries. Its legal in Arab/Muslim countries.

Although Polygamy is not totally legal in Nigeria thanks to the White wedding being arranged by the Customary court. However, Polygamy is allowed in Nigerian Islam settings (Muslims correct me if I am wrong).

The bottom line is, before the almagamation by Lord lugard, our fathers down south married more than 1 wife, regardless of their religion.
This works without any problem in the society. There was no feminist association e.t.c. From my own personal background, our great grandmother even asked our great grandfather to marry a younger wife who can take care of him better when he clocked 60.

Polygamy is a native African setting.

Despite all these, these generation of people lived longer than our current generation, our life expectancy is now down to 60years, whereas it was 80 during their time.

In addition, promiscuity, prostitution, hookup was not popular. There was reduced broken home. Nowadays some marriages don't even last 6months.

I can go on and on...

My Submission

Give me one reason why you are promoting polygamous marriage

Is it because you want many wives

Is it because you want women to keep fighting themselves and poisoning each other's children

Or because you want to marry them just to bear your name and there after then can breed like dogs and the children will become nuisance and liabilities at your old age
Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by hotwax: 1:52pm On May 26, 2023
frozen70:


Give me one reason why you are promoting polygamous marriage

Is it because you want many wives

Is it because you want women to keep fighting themselves and poisoning each other's children

Or because you want to marry them just to bear your name and there after then can breed like dogs and the children will become nuisance and liabilities at your old age

Ask those who are practicing it.
Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by Absuchat(m): 2:05pm On May 26, 2023
frozen70:


Why not take the lead since you can handle polygamous life

Stop misleading people, to handle just one wife is an issue talk more of more than one

The abnormal reasoning I've seen on this forum is next to none.
See as this one talked as if he lives next to my house.
Nawa oo... Maybe I will announce my next marriage like Ooni , Ned or Yul so you can rest
Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by marlow1962(m): 6:41pm On May 26, 2023
I see nothing wrong with that
Re: What Is Exactly Wrong With Polygamy? by Kobicove(m): 10:19am On May 27, 2023
Personally speaking I also do not see anything wrong with polygamy undecided

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