Greetings to you all.

Just as the topic says... "I HAVE NEVER SEEN A MAN CALLING HIS FELLOW MAN STINGY OR BROKE..." Whenever I hear the word stingy/broke, it's definitely coming from a lady.

I was in an eatery yesterday and close by where about 3 ladies discussing ladies things. But what caught my attention was when they keep describing one guy(probably dating one of the ladies) as been stingy and broke. That he keep going around in his fancy car but can't bring out money to spend on them. That the last time they went out with him, that he was telling them not to order something above 3k that he doesn't have much on him. The ladies just kept laughing. One of them now said that "who know if that's even his car" another responded "maybe he's just an Uber driver".

I was just wondering in my mind how ladies will sit and instead of discuss investment and future plans, na who stingy and broke dey their mouth.

Right from my school days till date, I have not seen or heard a fellow man call another man "stingy and broke".

Even as students, when we go to our friends hostel room and there is nothing to eat, we just take it in good faith, no one will start calling him stingy for not giving us food.

WHY SO LADIES LIKE USING THAT WORDS ON MEN.?

And of course there are guys are actually stringy..Na only banny dey see their money dey chop.... Their fellow guyman fit die because of ordinary #10 for their present..And dem go just lock up like say dem no get shishi on dem

The problem is will try to mix Western way with Africa way


Western way
Men and women spend, and both of them air their view equally

African Way
Men only spend
But when men are talking women keep shut


We want to take the tradition that favour us and then leave the part that don't favour us

U want only the men to spend but you want to rank shoulder with them


Before you practice any lifestyle make sure u observe the originating nation practicing it, and practice it fully

Are you a Nigerian? Mbaka called Peter Obi stingy.

If you observe those ladies u will discover that they are economically and mentally poor. Only ladies from a very poor background and have absolutely nothing to offer are always quick to call a prudent man broke.

It's because they are lazy and ignorantly made their selves parasite, they should be ashamed of their selves and take it as a challenge to help themselves, because where the guys are making their money has no gender discrimination, why can't they work hard and get theirs.

Rich4god:
Greetings to you all.

Just as the topic says... "I HAVE NEVER SEEN A MAN CALLING HIS FELLOW MAN STINGY OR BROKE..." Whenever I hear the word stingy/broke, it's definitely coming from a lady.

I was in an eatery yesterday and close by where about 3 ladies discussing ladies things. But what caught my attention was when they keep describing one guy(probably dating one of the ladies) as been stingy and broke. That he keep going around in his fancy car but can't bring out money to spend on them. That the last time they went out with him, that he was telling them not to order something above 3k that he doesn't have much on him. The ladies just kept laughing. One of them now said that "who know if that's even his car" another responded "maybe he's just an Uber driver".

I was just wondering in my mind how ladies will sit and instead of discuss investment and future plans, na who stingy and broke dey their mouth.

Right from my school days till date, I have not seen or heard a fellow man call another man "stingy and broke".

Even as students, when we go to our friends hostel room and there is nothing to eat, we just take it in good faith, no one will start calling him stingy for not giving us food.

WHY SO LADIES LIKE USING THAT WORDS ON MEN.?

You never dey near guys enough

Me wey dey stingy for secondary school sote my guys yab me say I dey stingy to myself

Abi na my pman and his friend/former roommate. Both of them get duplex and cars but Im friend go dey yab am say na poor man im be.

Abeg talk another thing

Yabbing ourselves is part of guy code. Igbos call it njakiri.

What you will say is that guys will not use it as a reason to dissociate from you but girls....dem need pampering so dem gats japa away.

They call me that..
then i own that shiit..
their papa no work money for my hand...

eddynaira125:
The problem is will try to mix Western way with Africa way


Western way
Men and women spend, and both of them air their view equally

African Way
Men only spend
But when men are talking women keep shut


We want to take the tradition that favour us and then leave the part that don't favour us

U want only the men to spend but you want to rank shoulder with them


Before you practice any lifestyle make sure u observe the originating nation practicing it, and practice it fully

Apt..

u want men to spend on u bt cant even bend a knee to serve his food...

One day try and tell a lady that she is fat and broke , hear what she and other ladies will say, all those rubbish they throw at men if you throw half of it to them There will be war in the whole world

Silentgroper:
They call me that..

then i own that shiit..

their papa no work money for my hand...

Your moniker sef look stingy.
Any man that can't cater for a woman is either broke or stingy. When you knew you v no money, why approach?
Dating isn't by force. Therefore, you and Rich4god are two talakanaires that has been told severally to go n make money legitimately!
Get out of here and stop bashing females. We aren't responsible for your woes!

Sonnobax15:

And of course there are guys are actually stringy..Na only banny dey see their money dey chop.... Their fellow guyman fit die because of ordinary #10 for their present..And dem go just lock up like say dem no get shishi on dem

But when a guys knows you are stingy, he doesn't use that as a reason to be insulting you because he knows that you owe him no obligation to give him money.

psucc:
Are you a Nigerian? Mbaka called Peter Obi stingy.

Lol....

diogo23:
One day try and tell a lady that she is fat and broke , hear what she and other ladies will say, all those rubbish they throw at men if you throw half of it to them There will be war in the whole world

I strongly agree with you.

Silentgroper:
They call me that..

then i own that shiit..

their papa no work money for my hand...

As long as you have the money to meet your needs and cravings, the ladies can keep calling you broke and stingy... It won't reduce your account balance.

Goodlady:

Your moniker sef look stingy.
Any man that can't cater for a woman is either broke or stingy. When you knew you v no money, why approach?
Dating isn't by force. Therefore, you and Rich4god are two talakanaires that has been told severally to go n make money legitimately!
Get out of here and stop bashing females. We aren't responsible for your woes!

Lol.... No comment.

Goodlady:

Your moniker sef look stingy.
Any man that can't cater for a woman is either broke or stingy. When you knew you v no money, why approach?
Dating isn't by force. Therefore, you and Rich4god are two talakanaires that has been told severally to go n make money legitimately!
Get out of here and stop bashing females. We aren't responsible for your woes!

are u a woman?

Black44:
are u a woman?

Am sure that's a lady.

Goodlady:

Your moniker sef look stingy.
Any man that can't cater for a woman is either broke or stingy. When you knew you v no money, why approach?
Dating isn't by force. Therefore, you and Rich4god are two talakanaires that has been told severally to go n make money legitimately!
Get out of here and stop bashing females. We aren't responsible for your woes!

ok..


i've heard u...

Silentgroper:
ok..


i've heard u...

Best response...

It's because only a handful of men feels entitled, and believes should eat off others

Being called stingy by a lady should be seen as a compliment. It means you are prudent and you have your priorities in order.

When you have gathered enough even your stinginess will be considered generosity as opposed to a generous broke man. Imagine you have 100m and assist a lady with 500k, would she not appreciate you over someone who has 150k, who gives her 50k?

Society has made women so entitled and ungrateful.... It's pathetic

It's just a form of blackmail

JJuanMiguel:
It's just a form of blackmail

Truth....

They use those words to blackmail men into parting with their money.

eazzzy1:
Being called stingy by a lady should be seen as a compliment. It means you are prudent and you have your priorities in order.

When you have gathered enough even your stinginess will be considered generosity as opposed to a generous broke man. Imagine you have 100m and assist a lady with 500k, would she not appreciate you over someone who has 150k, who gives her 50k?

Lol..... I like this.

There are stingy guys though. Being stingy to people is not really a problem to me but being stingy to yourself included.
Like you have money but instead you choose to borrow everything in life. You borrow cloth, charger, always beg someone to hotspot you, borrow basic things like toothpaste, soap. Can't bring out money to buy yourself sugar after giving you Garri. Always looking for food to beg like.... don't you have family members? Abi them don disown you?

And if you check well these guys are wasting their money on something like girls or betting. See eh, i don see different kind of people for this country.

there are plenty of stingy men out there and also plenty of stingy women too... THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING STINGY, its your money and you have all the rights to do what you want with it.

the foolishness is when other people want to dictate what YOU should do with your own money (because they want it from you)...BLASPHEMY!

Lol the way guys here lament over little things amazes me, and they say women are the emotional gender 🤣

Own your stingy trait and be at peace with yourself, very simple.

I spend for both parties, but we only get issues when you think I'm a fool because I'm spending on you.
Nowadays I hardly give out, yes call me stingy mother fucker, it is my money.
Bye bye

Wotoporiously speaking

I don't be hanging around them type of hoes that's why I don't be hearing this type of shit but I'm well aware

All the new bitches I Bleep with now, they appreciate the shit out of me even when I don't give them as much as them other nigga's be giving them, so they understand that shit when they're around me.

Generally, women want more than they can get, that's why they be calling a nigga stingy when he doesn't do much to their expectation.

Jodha:
Society has made women so entitled and ungrateful.... It's pathetic

As usual, blame anything/anyone other than the females involved ...

Everytime society this, society that ...
Since we're on the subject of society, did the African society also make women become feminist? ...

The answer is no, but are there feminist in Africa, the answer yes! ...

People are ungrateful and entitled simply because THEY WANT TO BE! - shikinah ...

@OP...
If a woman calls you broke or stingy, sincerely eh, see it as a compliment! ...

Don't allow their cheap emotional blackmail to make you path ways with your money ...

Since they're not broke why are they begging you for money? And since they're not stingy why aren't they going about feeding the poor?