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Re: Marry Your Friend by akpunda86: 3:11pm On May 28, 2023

Nice2023:

Your level of understanding is miles away from what the poster meant.

My wife is the greatest friend I have...my feelings for her can push a bulldozer.

People like you are myopic u cobdemed some one and praising Ur wife.best friend indeed

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Re: Marry Your Friend by Nice2023(m): 3:12pm On May 28, 2023

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Father of myopic and low grade thinker.

Re: Marry Your Friend by ozone0801(m): 3:13pm On May 28, 2023

Nice2023:

I am in my 8th year of marriage.

U guys married ur enemies and that is why u can't progress beyond the level u are presently. If ur marriage is not working,don't think others own are dead like urs.

Even if I have three girl friends now,the love I have for my wife is topnotch and unequalled.

Sorry for ur bad marriage...next time work on ur bad character before u propose to a woman.

Guy chill. No one is having a bad marriage here.
I'm also in my 8th year, I doubt you enjoy your marriage more than I do, infact I married the last beautiful soul among the women folks.
What I'm saying is " your wife cannot be your "greatest friend",, you can't place a woman on that pedestal. There aren't designed to handle a lot of life budding issues, let alone love a man till his dying day.
Talk to older men in their 70s, they'll tell you women slowly and unknowingly channel all that care and love to their children gradually as the marriage progresses, leaving the man to look out for himself.

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Re: Marry Your Friend by IJEYdiamond(f): 3:24pm On May 28, 2023

Before inko... na only Indians that dont marry friends as such... arrangee... things..

Re: Marry Your Friend by frankputer: 3:28pm On May 28, 2023

folake4u:
Imagine marrying someone who fights you cos you called him Ode.

That line shows you don’t even have respect for that person, and you have the propensity to even use more derogatory words on the person, it’s simply immature and absurd, pluse childish to use such term on people you respect and on people u are loyal to.

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Re: Marry Your Friend by randymirrors(f): 3:31pm On May 28, 2023

Nice2023:

Your level of understanding is miles away from what the poster meant.

My wife is the greatest friend I have...my feelings for her can push a bulldozer.

Your wife is the luckiest woman on earth. Your marriage is bound to last till the end of time.

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Re: Marry Your Friend by AZControversial(m): 3:35pm On May 28, 2023

Wonderful piece!

Re: Marry Your Friend by ObalendeCMS: 3:37pm On May 28, 2023

folake4u:
Imagine marrying someone who fights you cos you called him Ode.

My x gets really mad when I call her òdę.

And Na play i just dey play.

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Re: Marry Your Friend by SmartyPants(m): 3:40pm On May 28, 2023

mployer:
quality of spouse matters more.

Friendship is fickle, little challenge will destroy it.

I have friends of over 15 years. The youngest friendship I have is at least 6 years old. What kind of friends do you have that are so easily destroyed?

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Re: Marry Your Friend by Karlifate: 3:44pm On May 28, 2023

IJEYdiamond:
Before inko... na only Indians that dont marry friends as such... arrangee... things..

Yet, they're among the top 3 countries with lowest divorce rates.

Re: Marry Your Friend by Olaideolayemi(m): 3:46pm On May 28, 2023

Married to a friend,attimes doesn't bring peaceful home,I preferred a woman,who understands what institution of marriage entails,and ready to work it out..

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Re: Marry Your Friend by Dobodobo04: 3:46pm On May 28, 2023

I read somewhere that if you marry a friend, you are 70% less likely to divorce.

It makes sense because u two already know what you like and don’t like, so no surprises.

Buy then, people would say he/she is my friend because there is no sexual connection. In my experience, in some cases, the sexual connection can grow and if it does, marrying a friend isn’t actually a bad option.

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Re: Marry Your Friend by Nice2023(m): 3:48pm On May 28, 2023

randymirrors:

Your wife is the luckiest woman on earth. Your marriage is bound to last till the end of time.

Thanks so much.

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Re: Marry Your Friend by folake4u(f): 3:50pm On May 28, 2023

frankputer:

That line shows you don’t even have respect for that person, and you have the propensity to even use more derogatory words on the person, it’s simply immature and absurd, pluse childish to use such term on people you respect and on people u are loyal to.

Ah. All these grammar on top playful "Ode"?

Pele oh, serious mind.

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Re: Marry Your Friend by folake4u(f): 3:52pm On May 28, 2023

ObalendeCMS:

My x gets really mad when I call her òdę.

And Na play i just dey play.

Lol. I'm even surprised people get mad by such word.

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Re: Marry Your Friend by Kobojunkie: 3:53pm On May 28, 2023

IJEYdiamond:
Before inko... na only Indians that dont marry friends as such... arrangee... things..

Nigerian men who see their women as subordinates, na friendship that one be? undecided

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Re: Marry Your Friend by bewla(m): 3:58pm On May 28, 2023

Nice2023:

Your level of understanding is miles away from what the poster meant.

My wife is the greatest friend I have...my feelings for her can push a bulldozer.

Nice to hear that

But yooh to fill that way until

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Re: Marry Your Friend by OZIOGU1: 4:07pm On May 28, 2023

Trust me, the only path to a man's long life is marrying someone who is your friend... That's the secret of my marriage.

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Re: Marry Your Friend by Ndidi2: 4:11pm On May 28, 2023

Nice2023:

I am in my 8th year of marriage.

U guys married ur enemies and that is why u can't progress beyond the level u are presently. If ur marriage is not working,don't think others own are dead like urs.

Even if I have three girl friends now,the love I have for my wife is topnotch and unequalled.

Sorry for ur bad marriage...next time work on ur bad character before u propose to a woman.

did you say even if you have 3 girlfriends your love for your wife is top-notch?
If you are not kidding then you are a JOKE..

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Re: Marry Your Friend by mployer(m): 4:14pm On May 28, 2023

SmartyPants:

I have friends of over 15 years. The youngest friendship I have is at least 6 years old. What kind of friends do you have that are so easily destroyed?

Because real issues never come up.

Donjazzy and Dbanji were great friends

Atiku and Tinubu were great friends too.

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Re: Marry Your Friend by Whada: 4:14pm On May 28, 2023

Wodu89:

Intimacy is deepend in marriage. Intimacy develops from seeing and interacting with the same person everyday

Friendship builds deeper from daily presence in one another's life's.. We can meet people in a day, marry them on the same day and have the best of marriages. In the end, it's not about friendships but the quality of individuals in the game

Enough of these popular cliches that are not entirely absolute

How many things are entirely absolute in life? There's rarely any. Everything has context. About marrying your friend, if you don't who else would you rather marry?

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Re: Marry Your Friend by Kobojunkie: 4:15pm On May 28, 2023

Ndidi2:
did you say even if you have 3 girlfriends your love for your wife is top-notch?
If you are not kidding then you are a JOKE..

Being married to a friend does not mean the marriage will last forever or that it sures against adultery, after friends have others as friends too. undecided

Re: Marry Your Friend by isabi2lof: 4:16pm On May 28, 2023

Marry someone who you can play with , marriage isn't a military ground, over seriousness no dey help matter grin

If you too dey serious sef with me , nobody go tell you make you change before you change.

I have that kind of friend before,we discuss virtually everything one can imagine of .

Surprisingly I met him here on NL.

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Re: Marry Your Friend by Whada: 4:19pm On May 28, 2023

Olaideolayemi:
Married to a friend,attimes doesn't bring peaceful home,I preferred a woman,who understands what institution of marriage entails,and ready to work it out..

Then make such woman your friend before you commit to marriage. Head knowledge about what the institution entails is great but and being ready to work it out with you instead of other men out there requires a kind of friendship between you both

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Re: Marry Your Friend by Whada: 4:23pm On May 28, 2023

Marry your friend it's only an advice if you don't want to take it you can marry anybody you wish

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Re: Marry Your Friend by SmartyPants(m): 4:23pm On May 28, 2023

mployer:

Because real issues never come up.

Donjazzy and Dbanji were great friends

Atiku and Tinubu were great friends too.

Real issues never came up in 15 years? lol.

Maybe then the real test of friendship is that a strong bond prevents issues from becoming "real issues".

Re: Marry Your Friend by Nice2023(m): 4:25pm On May 28, 2023

Ndidi2:
did you say even if you have 3 girlfriends your love for your wife is top-notch?
If you are not kidding then you are a JOKE..

Be calming down.

Everyone mustn't be like u are already thinking.

Even if...is a probability and if I have one or more,the love I have for my wife is still excellent.

Re: Marry Your Friend by Tayorshd87: 4:32pm On May 28, 2023

sprints1:
In otherwords just marry the person u don dey date since primary school. All these ladies we meet in latter stages of life don dey delusional face mental and emotional problem.

Exactly d girl u guys have been together for long seems to be d best ..

But u see all this latest new meet babes ehn social media don turn all to olosho cool

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Re: Marry Your Friend by FlamingoCityTv: 4:50pm On May 28, 2023

NaijaMutant:
It is better you discover God's will for your life.

Some courted for several years but couldn't stay married for few years.

A test of Buhari popularity...
Share for this stone grin

Re: Marry Your Friend by Blake755: 4:58pm On May 28, 2023

folake4u:
Imagine marrying someone who fights you cos you called him Ode.

Op touch ur head and say make imagination no kill me grin

Re: Marry Your Friend by Menclothing: 5:15pm On May 28, 2023

This is it marry a woman that can cook and loving my Anambra woman so Swt

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