| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Bukola94: 1:42pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Aurelius1:
I got a job as a hotel manager some months ago.
The hotel is a bit far from my house and I spend an average of N600 on transportation daily and the salary is 45k per month. Right now I'm fed up with the job.
The director is a man who doesn't take advice from anyone. He insults me at will and he says I'm stealing his money, even though he has no proof. I always leave the scene whenever he's around because he always has something to say and insult me at will even when I am not at fault.
He has gone round telling everybody that I and the bar man usually connive to steal his money which is completely false. The worst part is that he always threatens me with sack.
If not for the fact that I have kids to feed I would have resigned. I usually have this feeling of fear whenever am leaving for work in the morning. Just this morning he deducted 12k from my salary just because the security man resigned and went away with a student matress.
Right now I am in real distress because I am just so, so sad.
I just need some words of encouragement/discouragement because I am gradually loosing it.
kip enduring, till u get a better offer. most hotels don't pay up to dat. the hotel way I once work pay the manager 30k to 35k. I was paid 15k to 20k.dem never pay at when due. they believe we do stole from them&give out rooms for short-term. manage till u get another job wey go dey give u peace of mind. What I enjoy about the hotel job is tips and customers relationship, I meet a lot of people has a bar man. 1 Like |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by olumaxi(m): 1:43pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
If u have kids to feel and u have a wife under your roof...I ll suggest u keep doing the work til u find another one..............cos d kain insult u wil receive from ur wife if u can't provide d little u are providing again wil be mind blowing |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Basicend: 1:43pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Walai:
I stopped pitying Nigerians a long time ago.
This present crop of politicians will continue this merry go round (I mean all of them irrespective of the party) while the sufferness continues
I will take Nigerians seriously when they are ready for real revolution.
Fact bro. . Most likely he is an APC supporter like that. . See ehh, leave Nigerians, let them harvest what they have sown. Even if most are given opportunities at high capacities, they will do worse that the greedy lots ruling us now. 1 Like |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Silentgroper(m): 1:48pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
you're the manager ..
how on earth did a security abscond with a student mattress on your watch....
The man is probably treating you like that because you're not doing your job well..
Btw, where do you work?? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Bukola94: 1:49pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Aurelius1:
I resume 7:30am and close 10pm so, learning a skill is not possible except an online skill. As for roaring back at him, that is out of the question. Just the other day he threatened to slap me. There are lots of things that I am currently passing through in that place that I can't say here I was treated worst, I received a lot of backlash, I go just dey smile sheepishly. it is 24hrs tin for me. one day on, one day off. after some times I quit. Later got job has an admin officer with peace of mind and freedom |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Youngsage: 1:51pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
If the manager is earning 45k, How much is the receptionist, or security man earning?  |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Aurelius1(m): 1:52pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Between Wednesday and today I've been ridiculed, insulted and bullied more than 20 times by the MD over very minor issues which is fault of mine. I have made up my mind I'm quitting on Monday before I develop high blood pressure. |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Bukola94: 1:53pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
GIDIBANKZ:
One REASON i LEFT my FORMER PLACE OF WORK….. you can’t THREATEN ME WITH SACK each time we have any Little misunderstandings and when i know i am at my RIGHT
I RATHER RESIGN and qo HOME than for you to SACK ME🙁🙁…. You wor spoil my CV for me
OP BETTER RESIGN for your own SANITY o…. Before we qo hear say ona two fiqht one day, you cor Kill am or e kill you😂😂😂
he dare not raise is hand on him,he is just threatening him. if he does,he fit sue him for harassment or physical assault. just don't retaliate, report him to the nearest police station. |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Aurelius1(m): 1:54pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Youngsage:
If the manager is earning 45k,
How much is the receptionist, or security man earning? The receptionist earns 35k while the security man earns 30k. |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Silentgroper(m): 1:54pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
olumaxi:
If u have kids to feel and u have a wife under your roof...I ll suggest u keep doing the work til u find another one..............cos d kain insult u wil receive from ur wife if u can't provide d little u are providing again wil be mind blowing isn't this the kind of situation where she really needs to play her role as a partner... 2 Likes |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Aurelius1(m): 1:56pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Silentgroper:
you're the manager ..
how on earth did a security abscond with a student mattress on your watch....
The man is probably treating you like that because you're not doing your job well..
Btw, where do you work?? I'm not doing my job well? How was I to know a security man would abscond with a matress given to him to be sleeping on? Bros you are saying this because you are not in my place. 2 Likes |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Watinhapen(m): 1:56pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
This is slavery job. You work 7:30 am to 10pm for 45k  as a man with kids?? How do you live on such chicken change. My advice is that you leave that job and focus on getting another. Except you’re making some money from the side. If all you get is 45k, I don’t see that as a job. |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Jefferyhi86(m): 1:57pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Bros am d same situation with u as a hotel manager, this is d same shittt I face from my MD, especially if the MD is a stack illiterate who end up in primary 6.they don't want your progress at all, they feel paying u such amount they're doin u a big favor. One of the reason some manager don't like working in a hotel where the MD spend most of his day at. Imagine me a manager washing bedsheets,cleaning room just because the MD refused to buy washing machine and housekeepers don't stay long due to d stress of working but he derive pleasure in bringing different ladies to the room. Me my hardwork and loyalty is not for free |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Jefferyhi86(m): 2:00pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Could you imagine the MD once deducted 5000 from me because I sleep in the room, so u expect the manager to always sleep on the bar chair all the time |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by azidomedogo: 2:03pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Aurelius1:
I got a job as a hotel manager some months ago.
The hotel is a bit far from my house and I spend an average of N600 on transportation daily and the salary is 45k per month. Right now I'm fed up with the job.
The director is a man who doesn't take advice from anyone. He insults me at will and he says I'm stealing his money, even though he has no proof. I always leave the scene whenever he's around because he always has something to say and insult me at will even when I am not at fault.
He has gone round telling everybody that I and the bar man usually connive to steal his money which is completely false. The worst part is that he always threatens me with sack.
If not for the fact that I have kids to feed I would have resigned. I usually have this feeling of fear whenever am leaving for work in the morning. Just this morning he deducted 12k from my salary just because the security man resigned and went away with a student matress.
Right now I am in real distress because I am just so, so sad.
I just need some words of encouragement/discouragement because I am gradually loosing it.
you are not alone bro. A lot of people are facing worse than yours. My own employer even worst. Keep applying and get hand work 1 Like |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Anticrime77: 2:03pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Even amazon go pay u more than that..if ure consistent. Just man up nd learn some skills. Go through youtube videos nd more. For yrs i cant remember wen i work for anyone.. No be say i rich.. But d skill settles every bills nd also allow me to hv investments. |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Rosaline5000: 2:04pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
ppogba:
One thing people do not know is that most medium scale business owners find it extremely difficult to pay salary. Whether the business makes sufficient profit in the month or not. The moment it is salary time, that is when they realize that the are the devil's " next of kin".
A few days ago, a woman wiith a shop being manned by a sales girl sacked the innocent girl. Wetin happen you might be tempted to ask.
The innocent girl has a monthly esusu that she pays with her monthly salary. Esusu man came on June 7. Girl took her salary from sales she made for the contribution. Madam owner came and said the girl should not have taken out of her sales because June 7 is not too late and that " some of her friends pay their workers on 15th or 16th of the month".
Can you imagine?
People beg madam employer, she said NO.
Things dey happen and most likely, employees in this type of employment will suffer more in the nearest future. That was what one woman is doing close to where I buy clothes from, she pays her sales girl in the middle of the month and her reason is that a lot of sale girl likes to leave after they collect their salary month ending but if she pays them middle of the next month, they might decides to stay to collect that month salary and so on and on they will keep staying. She said even if the sales girl decides to leave, it won't affect her because they have worked an extra 2 weeks for her. Some business owners are wicked 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Aurelius1(m): 2:06pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Oduok:
Never you share bad feelings you have about your boss again anywhere. With this attitude no one can employ you. I thought you would limit your write up to the low pay and exorbitant transport cost you are facing.
Feeling bitter about your boss and venting it only paint you with negative personality.
I am just letting off steam. You don't know the humiliation I go through on a daily basis. To make matters worse he's sleeping with one of the receptionist- a girl of 18. This girl has become something else. She has started acting like a small madam, refusing to do things I ask her to do. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by CANTICLES: 2:07pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Maxwell4404:
Bro I'm talking from experience, okay I did say thing like this, because why my Boss then sometimes act childishly, I take anything he was saying to me then, why because I want more savings and also I was planning ahead, he dropped me off the job oneday when my savings hasn't gone far to my expectations, Omo it wasn't a good experience at all, you working for someone you should know one thing, you have to tolerate anything that comes your way in your job, till you get a better job..
Dismiss you? |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Jefferyhi86(m): 2:09pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Na benin the hotel de, so all this MD dem Sabi threaten person with beating Aurelius1:
I resume 7:30am and close 10pm so, learning a skill is not possible except an online skill. As for roaring back at him, that is out of the question. Just the other day he threatened to slap me. There are lots of things that I am currently passing through in that place that I can't say here |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by kunle75(m): 2:12pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Aurelius1:
I got a job as a hotel manager some months ago.
The hotel is a bit far from my house and I spend an average of N600 on transportation daily and the salary is 45k per month. Right now I'm fed up with the job.
The director is a man who doesn't take advice from anyone. He insults me at will and he says I'm stealing his money, even though he has no proof. I always leave the scene whenever he's around because he always has something to say and insult me at will even when I am not at fault.
He has gone round telling everybody that I and the bar man usually connive to steal his money which is completely false. The worst part is that he always threatens me with sack.
If not for the fact that I have kids to feed I would have resigned. I usually have this feeling of fear whenever am leaving for work in the morning. Just this morning he deducted 12k from my salary just because the security man resigned and went away with a student matress.
Right now I am in real distress because I am just so, so sad.
I just need some words of encouragement/discouragement because I am gradually loosing it.
Leave ir look for another job and own your peace bro |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Jozilinn: 2:13pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
I feel your pain sir,from my 20k.salary If I remove miscellaneous like the uncalled for contribution, imagine private teachers paying tax in the school from this same salary... feeding transportation and others...I have being going through things this past 3 months now like this I have been pleading with nairalanders to help me this once... Access bank 1221869780...abeg 🙏🙏 |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Aurelius1(m): 2:15pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
emmykk:
Most hotel workers sleep at the hotel after closing,why is yours different.if you are sleeping there you will save transportation cost of 600X30=18,000
I also understand that hotel workers are capable to taking some booking money of people who checkout on time or came to lodge.if you succeed in collecting the money of 4 clients in a month assuming your hotel lodging fee is N5000 a night. That will cover for your transportation cost, why is your case different ..
These 3 businesses will help you get daily income and make you hate that your 45K job.
1.drycleaning business
2 Keke napep business
3 POS business
Find a way to start any of these. Initially, I was sleeping there but he started accusing me of sleeping in the room - something I've never done because I usually sleep under the staircase. It was then he told me to be going home after closing. |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Sirchiboy: 2:18pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
FairlyUSEDpussy:
Op..........do u stay in Lagos??
I'd advise u to save up and start Mobile clinic.........
U'd be making close to 90k to 100k on good day.........even on bad day sef u cud make 20k or more daily Oooo........
That's what have been doing since I finished my nysc.......... . How much do I need to startup and what is all about the business |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Blitzking: 2:18pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Aurelius1:
I got a job as a hotel manager some months ago.
The hotel is a bit far from my house and I spend an average of N600 on transportation daily and the salary is 45k per month. Right now I'm fed up with the job.
The director is a man who doesn't take advice from anyone. He insults me at will and he says I'm stealing his money, even though he has no proof. I always leave the scene whenever he's around because he always has something to say and insult me at will even when I am not at fault.
He has gone round telling everybody that I and the bar man usually connive to steal his money which is completely false. The worst part is that he always threatens me with sack.
If not for the fact that I have kids to feed I would have resigned. I usually have this feeling of fear whenever am leaving for work in the morning. Just this morning he deducted 12k from my salary just because the security man resigned and went away with a student matress.
Right now I am in real distress because I am just so, so sad.
I just need some words of encouragement/discouragement because I am gradually loosing it.
Start living in the hotel and visit home occasionally..cos that money is too small..ubdey try oo I still dey vex after saving 200k monthly after all expenses for this present nigeria |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Aurelius1(m): 2:20pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
emmykk:
Most hotel workers sleep at the hotel after closing,why is yours different.if you are sleeping there you will save transportation cost of 600X30=18,000
I also understand that hotel workers are capable to taking some booking money of people who checkout on time or came to lodge.if you succeed in collecting the money of 4 clients in a month assuming your hotel lodging fee is N5000 a night. That will cover for your transportation cost, why is your case different ..
I don't want to do this. Besides, the person who introduced me to the MD is a very nice dude and I don't want to bring disgrace to him. |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Silentgroper(m): 2:20pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Aurelius1:
I'm not doing my job well? How was I to know a security man would abscond with a matress given to him to be sleeping on? Bros you are saying this because you are not in my place. How do you relate with the staff below you Do they see you as the manager |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Aurelius1(m): 2:26pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Anticrime77:
Even amazon go pay u more than that..if ure consistent. Just man up nd learn some skills. Go through youtube videos nd more. For yrs i cant remember wen i work for anyone.. No be say i rich.. But d skill settles every bills nd also allow me to hv investments. Which particular skill did you learn? |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by CondemnBattery(f): 2:30pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
What qualifications do you have? What's your location? Aurelius1:
I got a job as a hotel manager some months ago.
The hotel is a bit far from my house and I spend an average of N600 on transportation daily and the salary is 45k per month. Right now I'm fed up with the job.
The director is a man who doesn't take advice from anyone. He insults me at will and he says I'm stealing his money, even though he has no proof. I always leave the scene whenever he's around because he always has something to say and insult me at will even when I am not at fault.
He has gone round telling everybody that I and the bar man usually connive to steal his money which is completely false. The worst part is that he always threatens me with sack.
If not for the fact that I have kids to feed I would have resigned. I usually have this feeling of fear whenever am leaving for work in the morning. Just this morning he deducted 12k from my salary just because the security man resigned and went away with a student matress.
Right now I am in real distress because I am just so, so sad.
I just need some words of encouragement/discouragement because I am gradually loosing it.
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| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by jackmrandy: 2:31pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Aurelius1:
I got a job as a hotel manager some months ago.
The hotel is a bit far from my house and I spend an average of N600 on transportation daily and the salary is 45k per month. Right now I'm fed up with the job.
The director is a man who doesn't take advice from anyone. He insults me at will and he says I'm stealing his money, even though he has no proof. I always leave the scene whenever he's around because he always has something to say and insult me at will even when I am not at fault.
He has gone round telling everybody that I and the bar man usually connive to steal his money which is completely false. The worst part is that he always threatens me with sack.
If not for the fact that I have kids to feed I would have resigned. I usually have this feeling of fear whenever am leaving for work in the morning. Just this morning he deducted 12k from my salary just because the security man resigned and went away with a student matress.
Right now I am in real distress because I am just so, so sad.
I just need some words of encouragement/discouragement because I am gradually loosing it.
don;t lose it bro. if you are dam sure you are not stealing from him and your hands are clean, except may be little tips you are getting from customers, just endure and look for another work.
untill there are prrrooves to back what he is saying, don;t retaliate.
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| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by Bukola94: 2:32pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Youngsage:
If the manager is earning 45k,
How much is the receptionist, or security man earning? They pay receptionist 25k to 30k & the security guard 20k or 15k,it depends on some factors. |
| Re: Fed Up With My N45k/month Job. by 43Ronin: 2:36pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
OP u better start stealing from him with the barman. If he sells drink for 500 per bottle, go and buy them outside for 200 and sell your own since him no wan get sense. Start allowing short-timers in the hotel and pocket the money. He will eventually sack you so take all you can from the wicked boss. |
