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Desist from cheating by Pinnup(op):
I have never double-dated before. Some of my friends do
Re: Desist from cheating by ITbomb(m):
Pinnup:
I have never double-dated before. Many of my friends do and even have up to 4-5 boyfriends.

I have a boyfriend that I truly love and he loves me too. I'm not cheating on him and he has vouched he never cheated on me before. But there's this other guy that is troubling my life to consider him, a mere thought of giving this other guy a chance to come in makes me feel guilt already.

I don't think it's something I can do without guilty conscience killing me.

So ladies and gentlemen, how una dey do am? How una dey take dey double date without feeling guilty?
Why they double date without guilt.

1. Lack of contentment
2. When the other partner is cheating
3. Lack of sex
4. Just for fun
5. Stuck in (you have been receiving gifts and favors and one day the macho start to demand return on investment and you feel boxed in)

If you are not having any of these scenario, don't start it
Re: Desist from cheating by nazicartel(m): 9:10am On Jun 13, 2023
It's just for fun
Re: Desist from cheating by PerfectStranger(m): 9:15am On Jun 13, 2023
Nigga is about to get served cry
Re: Desist from cheating by Pinnup(op): 1:49pm On Jun 13, 2023
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Re: Desist from cheating by advanceDNA: 2:29pm On Jun 13, 2023
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......as long as there is love..there is always guilt
.......No love...... no guilt....

...Over time ...pple master the habit of placing their pleasure or cheating gains over the guilt they feel.... which will eventually kill the love

No worry...when ur boyfriend use u do lord of the rings for 2 years without marriage... u sef go sabi cover ur guilt like ur remainig gender
Re: Desist from cheating by ThatrealestApex: 2:35pm On Jun 13, 2023
Pinnup:
I have never double-dated before. Many of my friends do and even have up to 4-5 boyfriends.

I have a boyfriend that I truly love and he loves me too. I'm not cheating on him and he has vouched he never cheated on me before. But there's this other guy that is troubling my life to consider him, a mere thought of giving this other guy a chance to come in makes me feel guilt already.

I don't think it's something I can do without guilty conscience killing me.

So ladies and gentlemen, how una dey do am? How una dey take dey double date without feeling guilty?
Double-dating is sweet for guys though, I think as a girl, it'll be hard to keep up smiley
Re: Desist from cheating by akube34: 3:07pm On Jun 13, 2023
Pinnup:
I have never double-dated before. Many of my friends do and even have up to 4-5 boyfriends.

I have a boyfriend that I truly love and he loves me too. I'm not cheating on him and he has vouched he never cheated on me before. But there's this other guy that is troubling my life to consider him, a mere thought of giving this other guy a chance to come in makes me feel guilt already.

I don't think it's something I can do without guilty conscience killing me.

So ladies and gentlemen, how una dey do am? How una dey take dey double date without feeling guilty?
dont do it
Re: Desist from cheating by eazzzy1(m): 7:31pm On Jun 13, 2023
You haven’t seen someone worth cheating with. The desire will overwhelm the guilt.
Re: Desist from cheating by frozen70(f): 9:31pm On Jun 13, 2023
Pinnup:
I have never double-dated before. Many of my friends do and even have up to 4-5 boyfriends.

I have a boyfriend that I truly love and he loves me too. I'm not cheating on him and he has vouched he never cheated on me before. But there's this other guy that is troubling my life to consider him, a mere thought of giving this other guy a chance to come in makes me feel guilt already.

I don't think it's something I can do without guilty conscience killing me.

So ladies and gentlemen, how una dey do am? How una dey take dey double date without feeling guilty?
I think the question you should ask yourself is

Why do you want to cheat ?

Is it to have a back up boyfriend

Is it to taste another guy and compare both of them

Is it because you want to know what it feels like to cheat

Is it because your peers are cheating and they are laughing at you for not cheating

If you don't have a good response to these questions or a good reason to cheat

Dont cheat
Rather practice how to be faithful to one partner so that you will learn how to be faithful to your husband when you marry
Re: Desist from cheating by Nobody: 10:00pm On Jun 13, 2023
Be honest with yourself by asking yourself how would you feel if your boyfriend was about to do the same thing to you with another girl.
Re: Desist from cheating by Nonywendy(m): 10:21pm On Jun 13, 2023
akube34:
dont do it
u r advising someone that is already giving it a thought. Once u HV d thought already u hv cheated. Why giving another guy a chance wen u hvnt parted ways with ur current bf
Re: Desist from cheating by Vision101(m): 10:57pm On Jun 13, 2023
No long story. Just chop and clean mouth 👄
Re: Desist from cheating by Splendid24SHOP(m): 12:56am On Jun 14, 2023
Your reason for cheating is invalid... Why are you in a relationship with someone else and wanting to cheat... If you are always faithful keep being faithful.. don't start what you would regret doing.... Ignore the bastard distracting you.
Re: Desist from cheating by Anny69: 1:47am On Jun 14, 2023
grin grin grin
Re: Desist from cheating by kaywhy09(m): 2:16am On Jun 14, 2023
Enjoy yourself
Re: Desist from cheating by Pinnup(op): 5:28pm On Jun 15, 2023
Samantha124:
Be honest with yourself by asking yourself how would you feel if your boyfriend was about to do the same thing to you with another girl.
I never said I'm cheating on him or concluded on an intention to cheat on him. The guilt is there and very strong. It can't allow me.
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