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fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!

I'm Fadila. I'm the fifth born in a family of four girls two boys.

The thing is, I have breast ptosis. Why are women with this condition shamed even when it's not something they have power over. I have had this condition ( still do) for has long as I can remember. It's been like that even when I was much younger, though I'm trying to better it. So, I don't know why someone should be shamed for something he or she have no control or power over. There's this erroneous misconception about having this condition. I won't it, but it's hogwash anyway. I'm pained because of what has been said to me and thought about me because of this. If I remember them, I feel so bad.

If you're one of those who abuse/bodyshame or shame anyone having this, you better desist from it. Just stop it! What would you gain doing that? Instead of shaming the person, why not profer solutions or remedies you think can better the condition? Why not that?

And if you're one of those still believing the erroneous misconception about having this condition, the earlier you stop believing in that the better for you.

Are you a woman here with this condition? Have you ever been shamed for it? How did that make you feel? How did/do you handle the situation?

And if you're a man here that has insulted someone with this condition, tell us why you did that.


Thanks!

Abeg, pictures for those of us wey no sabi wetin e be

Curtisaxel10:
Well, have you ever shamed a guy for having a small deek?

Why would I ever do that? Why would I even shame someone for anything? Especially what they have no power or control over? Why would I do that? What do I stand to gain?


Those involved in that should ask themselves the above questions.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!

I'm Fadila. I'm the fifth born in a family of four girls two boys.

The thing is, I have breast ptosis. Why are women with this condition shamed even when it's not something they have power over. I have had this condition ( still do) for has long as I can remember. It's been like that even when I was much younger, though I'm trying to better it. So, I don't know why someone should be shamed for something he or she have no control or power over. There's this erroneous misconception about having this condition. I won't it, but it's hogwash anyway. I'm pained because of what has been said to me and thought about me because of this. If I remember them, I feel so bad.

If you're one of those who abuse/bodyshame or shame anyone having this, you better desist from it. Just stop it! What would you gain doing that? Instead of shaming the person, why not profer solutions or remedies you think can better the condition? Why not that?

And if you're one of those still believing the erroneous misconception about having this condition, the earlier you stop believing in that the better for you.

Are you a woman here with this condition? Have you ever been shamed for it? How did that make you feel? How did/do you handle the situation?

And if you're a man here that has insulted someone with this condition, tell us why you did that.


Thanks!

When you wanted to remove your waist bids, you showed us pictures. Now your breasts don get pitosis (pardon my spelling) and you no wan show pictures. Abeg show us the pitosis biko

Nlfpmod, where are you? I hope you're not one of those doing this?

udede:
When you wanted to remove your waist bids, you showed us pictures. Now your breasts don get pitosis (pardon my spelling) and you no wan show pictures. Abeg show us the pitosis biko

I'm trying to post it, but it's not working. Maybe later. You can check my pictures on nairaland. I posted it here sometime ago.

AroOkigbo:
Abeg, pictures for those of us wey no sabi wetin e be

I'm trying to post it, but it's not working. Maybe later. You can check my pictures on nairaland. I posted it here sometime ago.

PlayerMeji:
And you didnt think it through to explain what Breast Ptosis is for the average layman on the street...?

Are you an average layman? Tell me if you are.

Breast Ptosis is the same thing as Sagging Breast. Ptosis is just a fancy medical name used in the Cosmetics Surgery Industry.

Breasts come in all shapes and sizes and we all fall victim to gravity sooner or later in life. However, some may experience breast ptosis (sagging) earlier in life than others. This can be due to weight loss, ageing, pregnancy, genetics or general skin elasticity. We have no control over the way our natural breasts sit, but we do have the power to change them!

Degrees of Ptosis (sagging)
As you can see in the image below, there are various degrees of breast ptosis...
https://www.cosmeditour.com/education/require-breast-lift/

https://www.cosmeditour.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/breast-ptosis.png.

Bigseven:
Pictorial examples for clarification pls

I'm trying to post it, but it's not working. Maybe later. You can check my pictures on nairaland. I posted it here sometime ago.

IkeIgboNile:
How can we help you without seeing what we're helping you with?

I'm trying to post it, but it's not working. Maybe later. You can check my pictures on nairaland. I posted it here sometime ago.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!

I'm Fadila. I'm the fifth born in a family of four girls two boys.

The thing is, I have breast ptosis. Why are women with this condition shamed even when it's not something they have power over. I have had this condition ( still do) for has long as I can remember. It's been like that even when I was much younger, though I'm trying to better it. So, I don't know why someone should be shamed for something he or she have no control or power over. There's this erroneous misconception about having this condition. I won't it, but it's hogwash anyway. I'm pained because of what has been said to me and thought about me because of this. If I remember them, I feel so bad.

If you're one of those who abuse/bodyshame or shame anyone having this, you better desist from it. Just stop it! What would you gain doing that? Instead of shaming the person, why not profer solutions or remedies you think can better the condition? Why not that?

And if you're one of those still believing the erroneous misconception about having this condition, the earlier you stop believing in that the better for you.

Are you a woman here with this condition? Have you ever been shamed for it? How did that make you feel? How did/do you handle the situation?

And if you're a man here that has insulted someone with this condition, tell us why you did that.


Thanks!

All your thread focus on what can arouse the interest of the opposite gender.

Fadilaaaa🗣️🗣️
I like your boobs. 🌚

fadilaMaikiriki
I'm trying to post it, but it's not working. Maybe later. You can check my pictures on nairaland. I posted it here sometime ago.

I have seen the other pictures but i don't know how breast ptosis looks like unless you show me.

sometimes young women who start smoking earl could suffer from this condition,but in most cases its caused by weight change and menopause . the only solution to this is breast lift surgery.

Babe, your breasts are beautiful
No stress yourself
How many time do you wanna talk about ur breasts.

Anyways, breast cancer is real sha 🤧

udede:
When you wanted to remove your waist bids, you showed us pictures. Now your breasts don get pitosis (pardon my spelling) and you no wan show pictures. Abeg show us the pitosis biko

Pitakwa

Na una dey make me dey addicted to nairaland

Better no let some people lure you to go for breast surgery, it will only but end in tears.

I do not know what that means ma but you should have add a picture for us to know

Killbillz:
Lol... I had to Google it ooo 😂

Same here
Just Dey stress the brain 🧠

If you decide to go for breast augmentation surgery, do NOT select silicone implants because they contain cancer-causing chemicals that can kill slowly or cause a host of mental problems, not to talk of the risk that horrendous infections can begin to take hold around those foreign objects. I know of one elderly woman who had silicone breast implants installed years ago, and the result has been a change in character that left the woman one of the nastiest and most vindictive human beings I have ever had the misfortune of knowing in my entire life. Be careful about what you wish for because there are side-effects associated with virtually all medical procedures.

The safest option for breast implants is SALINE or salt-water implants which resemble the bags of "pure water" sold on Nigerian streets, but are circular rather than rectangular in shape. Even with saline implants, there is still a risk that over time they could leak or rupture and deflate, which will require yet more surgery to replace the deflated bags.

You are absolutely right that deflated breasts can be a mood killer for many men. I am very particular about breasts and if they sag any more than is to be expected for natural breasts, or if they are rigid in appearance meaning they are fake, my interest in that woman dies instantly. All the same, any woman who is distressed about her saggy boobs can go the way of surgical implants which at least look good when she is fully dressed.

I copied the following picture of a Zulu woman in traditional topless attire, because in my opinion her breasts are absolutly perfect in every regard, but most important of all, they are 100% REAL and natural. I love them so much I made this my profile picture to remind myself that African women are just gorgeous when they shed their clothes

advanceDNA:
U still want to post it....madam u get issues oooo

I swear she seriously need a therapist cus her case is not an ordinary one
I never see who get low self esteem like her
Always seeking for online public validation before she can live her life
If she no complaint of breast today, she go complain of ass,or waist or how her boss no fit afford to get her phone
I just dey feel pity for the guy way dey date her

Maybe its due to too much sucking from ur boss and the way he rough handles it

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!

I'm Fadila. I'm the fifth born in a family of four girls two boys.

The thing is, I have breast ptosis. Why are women with this condition shamed even when it's not something they have power over. I have had this condition ( still do) for has long as I can remember. It's been like that even when I was much younger, though I'm trying to better it. So, I don't know why someone should be shamed for something he or she have no control or power over. There's this erroneous misconception about having this condition. I won't it, but it's hogwash anyway. I'm pained because of what has been said to me and thought about me because of this. If I remember them, I feel so bad.

If you're one of those who abuse/bodyshame or shame anyone having this, you better desist from it. Just stop it! What would you gain doing that? Instead of shaming the person, why not profer solutions or remedies you think can better the condition? Why not that?

And if you're one of those still believing the erroneous misconception about having this condition, the earlier you stop believing in that the better for you.

Are you a woman here with this condition? Have you ever been shamed for it? How did that make you feel? How did/do you handle the situation?

And if you're a man here that has insulted someone with this condition, tell us why you did that.


Thanks!

I emailed you, you didn't reply.
Why?

falcon01:
I'm convinced this account user has some mental problem!

Beyond reasonable doubt she is obviously psychologically subnormal, instead of talking about the solution to the problem alone she is asking "why men has body shamed women with such condition"

advanceDNA:
Dont mind them...they like claiming victims over petty issues...

The moment they heard of the medical anomaly of women not having hymen..all of them started claiming they dont have hymen.

Carry rotten fish smelling pvssy around..and be calling it condition....


Now..they've gone to look for name for this one too to make it a condition ..to have excuse for when boys don press am finish... modern women ..i just tire for thier BS

Same here. I'm tired of them playing victim. There's a reason why every subsequent generation of boys is becoming more misogynist than the one before it. We're all tired of women's bs.

You don't have any problem. It's just a sagging of the breast. Wear a fitted bra and carry yourself well. I m sure you are beautiful.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!

I'm Fadila. I'm the fifth born in a family of four girls two boys.

The thing is, I have breast ptosis. Why are women with this condition shamed even when it's not something they have power over. I have had this condition ( still do) for has long as I can remember. It's been like that even when I was much younger, though I'm trying to better it. So, I don't know why someone should be shamed for something he or she have no control or power over. There's this erroneous misconception about having this condition. I won't it, but it's hogwash anyway. I'm pained because of what has been said to me and thought about me because of this. If I remember them, I feel so bad.

If you're one of those who abuse/bodyshame or shame anyone having this, you better desist from it. Just stop it! What would you gain doing that? Instead of shaming the person, why not profer solutions or remedies you think can better the condition? Why not that?

And if you're one of those still believing the erroneous misconception about having this condition, the earlier you stop believing in that the better for you.

Are you a woman here with this condition? Have you ever been shamed for it? How did that make you feel? How did/do you handle the situation?

And if you're a man here that has insulted someone with this condition, tell us why you did that.


Thanks!

Arabinrin! Just say u get saggy boobs, which one be breast ptosis? Hiss

If it's fallen boobs, you can always get a boob job so yeah there is something you can do about it. Unlike men where you can't increase your high or dicƙ size. Every imperfections about women can always be easily corrected by plastic surgery. You can't exactly say the same for me. But we don't whine like you guys.

fadilaMaikiriki:
That was how I posted a picture of me the other day, and most people were just insulting me, talking about how my breasts have fallen. Someone was even asking if it's breasts that I have on my chest or slippers. Can you imagine that. Why would someone say that to another person? Just why? Haba!

You are suppose to understand there are thousands of crazies on nairaland as well as the real world.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!

I'm Fadila. I'm the fifth born in a family of four girls two boys.

The thing is, I have breast ptosis. Why are women with this condition shamed even when it's not something they have power over. I have had this condition ( still do) for has long as I can remember. It's been like that even when I was much younger, though I'm trying to better it. So, I don't know why someone should be shamed for something he or she have no control or power over. There's this erroneous misconception about having this condition. I won't it, but it's hogwash anyway. I'm pained because of what has been said to me and thought about me because of this. If I remember them, I feel so bad.

If you're one of those who abuse/bodyshame or shame anyone having this, you better desist from it. Just stop it! What would you gain doing that? Instead of shaming the person, why not profer solutions or remedies you think can better the condition? Why not that?

And if you're one of those still believing the erroneous misconception about having this condition, the earlier you stop believing in that the better for you.

Are you a woman here with this condition? Have you ever been shamed for it? How did that make you feel? How did/do you handle the situation?

And if you're a man here that has insulted someone with this condition, tell us why you did that.


Thanks!

Can I see the breast before I can drop my comment.

falcon01:
I'm convinced this account user has some mental problem!

She has issues with herself and everything around her

Most of her posts are out of point

Maybe e get as e bi for her

fadilaMaikiriki:
I'm not lying. Why would I? I've been wanting to create this thread, but I don't know why I've been drawing back from it. Check out the thread I made about my birthday outfit, then you'll get what I'm trying to say. I can send you a picture if you want. So, you can see I'm not lying for anything.

Perhaps you were quick to know what's up, don't know if you'll get the bolded correctly. Perhaps they were manhandled at infancy hence the right growth was retarded.
Who knows? No one cares anyway. You'll have to deal with it cos it turns my likes off.