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Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 4:44pm On Jun 21, 2023
True but they are not married yet

Vokallond1:
But a significant step before marriage
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by czarr(m): 4:45pm On Jun 21, 2023
Wordsfrombimpe:
Only the wise will comprehend it

I remember talking about this when I got viral on this space

People were busy talking this and that

I stated say no to premarital sex

If women wise up in this age

And say no to it

You are helping yourself

Untill he is married to you

If not you are OYO
As long as she is a virgin. If another guy has been there before me, e no work.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Icrave4u: 4:47pm On Jun 21, 2023
Only you create thread,only you dey respond.

Smart girl always creating thread to promote her businnes.

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Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 4:48pm On Jun 21, 2023
And you are not a virgin oh

czarr:
As long as she is a virgin. If another guy has been there before me, e no work.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 4:48pm On Jun 21, 2023
Hmmn

Icrave4u:
Only you create thread,only you dey respond.

Smart always creating thread to promote her businnes.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Nobody: 4:51pm On Jun 21, 2023
Odiegwu. Do people still do no sex before marriage. Only in Africa... Anyway, Africa is still upcoming lmao. Something we de lash anyhow. Person go come tell me say I no fit do. OYO na your name. Na you take style fire yourself.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by czarr(m): 4:53pm On Jun 21, 2023
Wordsfrombimpe:
And you are not a virgin oh

True but I'm not the one insisting on no sex before marriage.
Only virgins should say that. What of the guy who broke your hymen, why didn't you give him any rules. Why didn't he have to marry you, it's when marriage is on your mind you want to leverage sex for marriage. E no go work.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Olaideolayemi(m): 4:57pm On Jun 21, 2023
Changing after engagement, usually caused by a woman because of bad intention to courtship/marriage.. before being engaged to a man/woman..both will look whether they are compatible enough or not..if that works,even thus, pregnancy occurred both parties wouldn't feel bad,talkless of shamed of each other..Say No to sex just to protect yourself against marriage or relationship failure isn't the best for me.. Rather do your paperwork to prevent what you don't like.. Thanks
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:01pm On Jun 21, 2023
Read what you said

The women you disvirgin why didn’t you marry them

czarr:
True but I'm not the one insisting on no sex before marriage.
Only virgins should say that. What of the guy who broke your hymen, why didn't you give him any rules. Why didn't he have to marry you, it's when marriage is on your mind you want to leverage sex for marriage. E no go work.

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Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:02pm On Jun 21, 2023
Hmmn

Olaideolayemi:
Changing after engagement, usually caused by a woman because of bad intention to courtship/marriage.. before being engaged to a man/woman..both will look whether they are compatible enough or not..if that works,even thus, pregnancy occurred both parties wouldn't feel bad,talkless of shamed of each other..Say No to sex just to protect yourself against marriage or relationship failure isn't the best for me.. Rather do your paperwork to prevent what you don't like.. Thanks
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Tayorshd87: 5:02pm On Jun 21, 2023
talented321:
How can i marry you when you never carry my child, you are here talking of sex. You marry me because i am doing well or will u marry a broke man if no, then don't you also know that the only benefit i get in return for marrying you is the kids. (i don't want any weak man or woman to quote me and if you do i am ready for u)

God bless you times unlimited because that's how it works as at today
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:02pm On Jun 21, 2023
Lmao

Dogo246:
Odiegwu. Do people still do no sex before marriage. Only in Africa... Anyway, Africa is still upcoming lmao. Something we de lash anyhow. Person go come tell me say I no fit do. OYO na your name. Na you take style fire yourself.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Medianna(f): 5:14pm On Jun 21, 2023
Wordsfrombimpe:
Some men hide their family

Which even as a lady if you don't know his family you are dating yourself


Someone should come and help me with how true this statement is. Im lost
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by BabaIbo: 5:15pm On Jun 21, 2023
Wordsfrombimpe:
Men

And if you don’t love her after she is pregnant

Na single mum be that


For me to go as far as impregnating her means I love her and find her worthy to be kept, even making love with her shows I love her.

PS: I no dey lay anything under skirt.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by BabaIbo: 5:18pm On Jun 21, 2023
Wordsfrombimpe:
Some men hide their family

Which even as a lady if you don't know his family you are dating yourself



You too dey jump into conclusion eh.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by samsard(m): 5:21pm On Jun 21, 2023
Jamie1000:
You fit still change mind after engagement. Expecially when you ask yourself. Wetin I wan gain for this marriage 😆 🤣 😂
People also change their minds after marriage.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:25pm On Jun 21, 2023
Men and lies

This lies is what have turn many women to single mothers

Don’t fall for it ladies

BabaIbo:

For me to go as far as impregnating her means I love her and find her worthy to be kept, even making love with her shows I love her.

PS: I no dey lay anything under skirt.

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Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Bobxin: 5:26pm On Jun 21, 2023
talented321:
If i dey give you belle i know i will marry u, say u get.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:26pm On Jun 21, 2023
Is the fact

Men hide their families

If he truly love you he won’t

BabaIbo:

You too dey jump into conclusion eh.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:26pm On Jun 21, 2023
You just wan turn to women to be single mothers

Which it’s obvious

Tayorshd87:


God bless you times unlimited because that's how it works as at today
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:27pm On Jun 21, 2023
So you are saying that all the women who you put seed inside you for marry them

Hmmn

Men and lies


Bobxin:

As ehn, the moment I donate that seed purposely, my mind is made up. Most people without this mindset go into marriage and be waiting years after years for kids. Ah nor geh that time/strength abeg.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:28pm On Jun 21, 2023
If you know you know

I also stated that even some men that show up to their family also don’t guarantee he will end up with you

Most importantly we pray to meet good men

Medianna:

Someone should come and help me with how true this statement is. Im lost
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Bobxin: 5:29pm On Jun 21, 2023
Wordsfrombimpe:
Men and lies

This lies is what have turn many women to single mothers

Don’t fall for it ladies


Lies you say. I call it principles. And it works for both parties for the most part.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Bobxin: 5:31pm On Jun 21, 2023
Wordsfrombimpe:

If you know you know

I also stated that even some men that show up to their family also don’t guarantee he will end up with you

Most importantly we pray to meet good men

Yea, so true.

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Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Jamie1000: 5:31pm On Jun 21, 2023
samsard:
People also change their minds after marriage.


That one comes with a negative title
DIVORCEE... It's a set back. Some never recover forever.

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Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:32pm On Jun 21, 2023
Principles

To impregnate someone daughter without marrying her

You have all forgotten that you men at times think with your gbola and the heat of the pleasure let me put my seed inside of you and then she get pregnant many of you still question if truly you are responsible for it

Bobxin:


Lies you say. I call it principles. And it works for both parties for the most part.

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Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:32pm On Jun 21, 2023
Yes oh

Bobxin:

Yea, so true.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:32pm On Jun 21, 2023
Deep

Jamie1000:



That one comes with a negative title
DIVORCEE... It's a set back. Some never recovers forever.
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Bobxin: 5:34pm On Jun 21, 2023
Wordsfrombimpe:
So you are saying that all the women who you put seed inside you for marry them

Hmmn

Men and lies


If they're all liars, don't get married/date. He's aliar as well. Your mindset too is redundant. Men & Lies Na only men dey lie. Double standard
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by nony43(m): 5:35pm On Jun 21, 2023
larryking78:
@ Wordsfrombimpe.....

Let me tell you that, if it is Engagement proposal well it is still a journey ahead Into the engagement details where family and friends will gather. Ladies please try and use wisdom with men when you are at this stage because the truth is a lot of things goes on in his head, like, pressures girlfriend pressures, your beauty status compared to others he had, his finances, his jobs, his home, his family, his earnings, plans for future, .....etc if you now had insults join all of these for him he will begin to think of disposing the Relationship.

But guys, don't waste time, if you love a girl just go for her. Ladies if you love him, commit yourself to him. Love him and show him you truly love him. Go extra mile know his family. Be quick with your plans to settle with him. No time to check time.







All things bn said here are true.

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Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Wordsfrombimpe(f): 5:35pm On Jun 21, 2023
Lmao na your gender Dey lie pass
Abeg

Make we no argue this one

Because the rate of single moms is high

Bobxin:

If they're all liars, don't get married/date. He's aliar as well. Your mindset too is redundant. Men & Lies Na only men dey lie. Double standard
Re: Engagement Does Not Mean Marriage by Bobxin: 5:36pm On Jun 21, 2023
Wordsfrombimpe:

Lmao na your gender Dey lie pass
Abeg

Make we no argue this one

Because the rate of single moms is high

🚶🚶🚶🚶

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