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Hello family , please I need your advice , I went to learn an aspect of computer from a lady , we had a agreement its going to take one month, after spending more than one month , I was able to gather some funds , to start my own business as adult , but I sense she is not happy with my going deep inside her , but just happy facialy, her husband also want me to learn other aspect as well like they want me to stay longer , so I told her I will only visit her once in a whole cos she was nice to me to an extent during my stay , but whenever I didn't go there for a while , may be for long , she will always complain she didn't see me, seems she want me to get closer , but (1.) From experience I don't like make friends anyjow , I do not meet her through anyone , God is the only true friend , (2) when ever I go there she always like us to gist , to the extent I'm beginning to feel for her , and I don't want to have anything to do with a married woman, she also complain in present of her husband they didn't see me since why , so I'm sure he is aware of it as well, she doesn't have a secret she share anything with me and she expect me to do the same , which I'm not really comfortable with , if I try to avoid her , just try to call or text to communicate only she will ignore that , she might not pick the calls or reply the chat , but whenever she sees me again she will just active nice , laugh , jokes , I'm just confused what they are up to ... Like she prefer i come than communicating through phone , she will even entertain me with food if possible..... It doesn't cost me anything to ignore them for life , but I don't want to be an ingrate , cos when I met her she acted so nice and she didn't bill me so much money , even though she didn't teach me everything just trying to develop on my self ... What's your suggestions on this family. Thanks

So what's ur point exactly?

I'm thinking of avoiding her , cos I had a dream her husband said I've already learnt what I came to learn , what am I still looking for , but she want me to keep coming, and I don't want a story that touches , my point is can I free her completely.

AsomStructures:
So what's ur point exactly?

bendaniel1616:
I'm thinking of avoiding her , cos I had a dream her husband said I've already learnt what I came to learn , what am I still looking for , but she want me to keep coming, and I don't want a story that touches , my point is can I free her completely.

Work on your mindset, the fact that she's been nice to you doesn't mean she's flirting or have interest in you.

No, don't miss understand me I'm not saying she wants to flirt not that kind of woman, but 1. I think there should be limit to somewhere wife to avoid temptation, no one is above temptation.
2. It's not advisable to get to close with someone you met on the street , you don't know what's in anyone mind , just calm down bro , the way some people reason so fast self , as if all is about pleasure and sex .

AsomStructures:
Work on your mindset, the fact that she's been nice to you doesn't mean she's flirting or have interest in you.

bendaniel1616:
No, don't miss understand me I'm not saying she wants to flirt not that kind of woman, but 1. I think there should be limit to somewhere wife to avoid temptation, no one is above temptation.
2. It's not advisable to get to close with someone you met on the street , you don't know what's in anyone mind , just calm down bro , the way some people reason so fast self , as if all is about pleasure and sex .

You're contradicting yourself already. Like i stated earlier, work on your mindset

Okay sir, thank you, I appreciate your comments cos sems you don't understand the whole story .anyway thanks for your concern.

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You're contradicting yourself already. Like i stated earlier, work on your mindset[/quote]