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Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by labake1(f): 1:24pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: Tricky question You have to consider ASUU strike if you consider education first, they can make 4 years course to be 6 years. And at age 30, if you have to think about menopause. So my advice is, if the guy seems supportive and ready, you can do the two. I have course mates that are married then. Tell that relative that you are no longer getting younger and you are a woman. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by StrikeBack(m): 1:24pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Education Education More education 4 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Lonestar124: 1:24pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Go and marry!! 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by bluefilm: 1:24pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
madridguy: School can wait. Biological clock cannot. A word is enough for the truly wise. 5 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Khastro(m): 1:25pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Marry first. But discuss your progression extensively with your to-be partner, and in the presence of your family. When God willing you're done having kids, or while it is convenient for you, start education- Could even be Open University. Either way, be sure to not make desperate moves. Discuss EXHAUSTIVELY with your family, and your spouse to be. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by madridguy(m): 1:27pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Nothing like biological clock again with the latest success in the health sectors. Majority of broken home today na financial wahala dey tear it. bluefilm: 6 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Loadedtheory: 1:27pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Omakraid: Is marriage symbolical to school? Or is it trophy? 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by toluleke(m): 1:27pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Never go into anything with uncertainty 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by WantsandMore: 1:27pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie:your potential husband can enter into a prenuptial legal agreement that allows to school funded by your relative or partly by him. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by lexy2014: 1:28pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Foodqueen: are you sure education doesnt fail 3 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Princeton92(m): 1:28pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Omakraid: Is that what you're thinking for yourself and suggesting to her? |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by IntelligentGoat: 1:28pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Before you go to school make sure you have a business that will keep your engine running in school even if you have a relative that wants to pay. Gentle reminder PEOPLE CHANGE What if your relative goes bankrupt and can't afford then you drop out or you get the government loan and if you can't pay after graduation you go to jail. If you choose to marry The best! But make sure you still a business or something that fetches you money JennyJossie: 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by ThatCEO: 1:28pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Samantha124: He will wait 4 years because he is serious for a girl who is already 30 Make all of us just dey play jare 10 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by bluefilm: 1:29pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
madridguy: Please don't make me laugh |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by heroshark(m): 1:30pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Nazgul: I am more interested in knowing what happened that you are thinking of starting school at 29? I know our circumstances are all different, but if you really value education that much, why haven't you pursued it for the last 29years? And where is that your relative all those times ? Nobody here will be able to give you the right answer, we don't know your personal circumstances, your motivation or even your suitor and relative's motivation. Sit down, had a deep reflection on what you want for yourself and what you consider the most important to you and go with it. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Adewale1603(m): 1:30pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
What's the purpose of education in Nigeria, if not for the b.sc or b.tech results/ certificates. Certificates that are now being bought with money. Results that students bribe their way through their lecturers to get either in cash or in kind. Certificates that still doesn't guarantee automatic Job employment. People just go to school to obtain the certificate. 4 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by kernniejay(m): 1:30pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie:Whichever way, school first. Who wants to marry a nonentity or a liability? 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by luckyz4rea(m): 1:31pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Kemadealadire: Did you do the same? |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by IntelligentGoat: 1:31pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Being married gives one a leaverage and opportunity in so many ways No dey dey do slayer be it man or woman Menupus is 40 now for women with some 35 yrs Join the two both marriage and school. But dont go to a fa distance school Loadedtheory: 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by pfadom: 1:32pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Why marriage before education. Settle the basic education required tp support the home, before marriage. Why should you but a car, before learning to drive? 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by luckyz4rea(m): 1:32pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Adewale1603: So it is marriage that guarantees all you’ve said, right? 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by saveman91(m): 1:34pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Education is the answer so that you will learn what marriage is all about at the age of 33/35 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Monaboo(m): 1:35pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
Let ur Relative train you. Get Educated first. That one u are sure. An Educated Woman is a NEVER a liability. Marriage will come later. Even you will be of a more value after school. 2 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Omoapena(m): 1:35pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: Since your relative is sure to train you in school, goto school and tell your fiancé if he truly wants you, then he should wait for you and that's if you truly worth waiting for... |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Adewale1603(m): 1:36pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
luckyz4rea:not marriage. But we do put priority too much on school/ certificate. As if they're not other things in life one can venture into, like vocational trade, skills, handwork, business e.t.c 1 Like |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by dinodangana(m): 1:37pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
By what I’ve read so far in this thread, there are many inexperienced possibly under 20 slay queen wannabes who possibly look up to feminists and women who have divorced 5 times due to their inability to maintain a home as idols. A woman of your age WILL NOT advise you to prioritize education more than building a home… A university education these days is a waste of time, learning a skill is what pays, which you can do in your husband’s house. At this age suitors will naturally be on a decline meanwhile NUC is accrediting new universities everyday. Use your head JennyJossie: 4 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by ANGELBOLD(m): 1:37pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: Choose marriage first after your full kyc and d cipher you and your guy are compatible. |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by Omoapena(m): 1:37pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
ThatCEO: True though but I don't understand why the relative will withdraw the sponsorship if she's willing to study while being married... It would have been better if she marry and goto school at the same time... |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by luckyz4rea(m): 1:37pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: I quitted marriage for school and I’m filled with God’s joy rather than regrets. If you have what it takes to go to school please do. Go after enlightenment. When you are enlightened, you’ll be better informed about life, you’ll be better positioned for marital decisions with God helping! 5 Likes |
Re: At Age 29 to 30 What First Marriage Or Education? by ottersberger(m): 1:38pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
JennyJossie: School. Come into a marriage as an asset, not a liability. 2 Likes |
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