UyaiIncomparabl:


One of the easiest way to become wealthy is to be skilled, aunty. Have very valuable and sellable skills that can endear people to you. Especially in this part of the clime wey be say nothing for you if you no stretch. So many graduates out there working and living on peanuts. Shey na 200k job wan make you rich? Or what exactly is your definition of wealth?

Education will take you far, but your skills will take you further if not farthest.

It all depends on what works for u. Some pple earning massive salary are far better and wealthier than some pple who learnt a skill.
While some pple who learnt a skill are better and wealthier than some pple who are earning little salary.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Club Cubana is the answer. I worked there. If you have ever been there or clubbed there, then you'd understand how making thousands could be easy peasy in one night. I could make as much as 500k on a weekend. Then, I was like LAPO to family and friends. If you met me then to borrow you 1M, it would be readily available.

I was a teenage girl, naive and impressionable. I felt everyone had a good heart — like me. I would always help anyone who came to me having money problems. Anyone. I'd make sure you live la Vida loca as far as you came to me for help and I know you.

I had an admission to study in Finland, and then I got duped of over 5Ms by an agent. Sadly, this person was introduced to me by family. Till now, I don't know her whereabouts. I doled out uncountable monies doing giveaways without plans because I felt it would always be there. Even my parents were no good.

Do you know what it feels like to have over 9M in one minute and be stark broke in another? Sometimes, I sit and stare forlornly and just think I have nothing else to live for. When I tell people I'm depressed, they laugh at me and call me bipolar or make jest of me about being depressed. You don't understand it, mate. Like another Nairalander said, maybe I'm just still very weak and playing cowardice to snuff life out of me. Or maybe, I'm still very undecided. Time will tell.

Mind you, I have things going on for me but I can't forking move on. I hate everyone who I ever was there for. I hate them. I regret every forking thing I ever did for them. 😭. Maybe, I just had too many expectations. Just maybe. But, why should I not? I forking cared for them. Why shouldn't I?

I'm sorry about the epistle.

I'm loving the read tonight and this one cot my attention because its like a summary of most of the regrets I have read so far.

I learned at an early age that "people who do the most -wanna make everyone please" kinda thing are people who are scared of tomorrow.

My moto is let tomorrow fvckn come!...
You are overly nice to everybody because you believe in that "ladder theory" thing of help people on your way up incase tomorrow blablabla...

Why are you scared of tomorrow?
Why do you even have to fall and even if you do? Can't you get back up on your own?
( if you have a bag of precious stones with you on your way up the ladder and you fall... You will pick up your stones and begin the climb back up BUT when you give every Tom, dick and Harry a piece of your stones on your way up, you will fall with an empty bag and start all a fresh!)

Kindness is beautiful but it's not for everyone.
It pays some and doesn't pay a lot others.

It should be more, "we rise by lifting others"!

Antihelminth:
Wasting time in school instead of selling spare parts inside market 😂😂

Hahaha 🤣

professore:
how old?

37

eedimo:

That family part is still on me right now.
I hope i can free my self.

My wife yet to learn..
Sometimes, I just regret marrying 1st born/1st daughter.
Its no child's play.

pacesetting:
Same thing here. Mine is even worse. I'll be 40 this year, but still unmarried. The challenge now is getting a wife.

All the girls I've been meeting have significantly flawed characters. Such is life.

The problem is you.

tonididdy:

I'm loving the read tonight and this one cot my attention because its like a summary of most of the regrets I have read so far.

I learned at an early age that "people who do the most -wanna make everyone please" kinda thing are people who are scared of tomorrow.

My moto is let tomorrow fvckn come!...
You are iverly nice to everybody because you believe in that "ladder theory" thing of help people on your way up incase tomorrow blablabla...

Why are you scared of tomorrow?
Why do you even have to fall and even if you do? Can't you get back up on your own?
( if you have a bag of precious stones with you on your way up the ladder and you fall... You will pick up your stones and begin the climb back up BUT when you give every Tom, dick and Harry a piece of your stones on your way up, you will fall with an empty bag and start all a fresh!)

Kindness is beautiful but it's not for everyone.
It pays some and doesn't pay a lot others.

It should be more, "we rise by lifting others"!

Your head correct well-well.
I normally thing i a messiah send to this world to come and assist everyone but I'm fvcking wrong. Its all bullshit and doesn't make any sense thing about lifting others because of tomorrow.
Its all trash. One of my wife kiddo made me realised that, just act aggressive when you're supposed to and act calm/friendly when you're suppose to.

Chidolalar:

It all depends on what works for u. Some pple earning massive salary are far better and wealthier than some pple who learnt a skill.
While some pple who learnt a skill are better and wealthier than some pple who are earning little salary.

Skills are different from skills. And I still stand by my words.

Going to school to get a degree instead of learning a skill or vocation

Welder

NBAjunior:


Please advice me what skill should I learn?

rowosky:
My biggest regret ever is Gambling
I lost like 1.5 million I made from surveys.
But I’m recovering.
I learnt a hard lesson the hard way.
Bleep you sportybet.

drop your number i got a question for you

MN07:


I wanted to leave the country back then.

Got admissions everywhere England, Usa, and Poland I felt finally I have arrived but unfortunately I got dupped.

Lost every penny in a flash, I couldn't even afford to feed myself.

That day I died inside and till today I will never recover from the shock.

The only reason I'm still is because I'm a coward that can't bear a little pain to end it all.

I wish I could go to bed and never wake up.

My brother...there's light at the end of the tunnel.
When life still there....
Anything can still happen
Thank God u no get terminal disease..
Wey go gulp money or mk family abandon u
U for dey thank God oooo..
No lose hope

UyaiIncomparabl:


Club Cubana is the answer. I worked there. If you have ever been there or clubbed there, then you'd understand how making thousands could be easy peasy in one night. I could make as much as 500k on a weekend. Then, I was like LAPO to family and friends. If you met me then to borrow you 1M, it would be readily available.

I was a teenage girl, naive and impressionable. I felt everyone had a good heart — like me. I would always help anyone who came to me having money problems. Anyone. I'd make sure you live la Vida loca as far as you came to me for help and I know you.

I had an admission to study in Finland, and then I got duped of over 5Ms by an agent. Sadly, this person was introduced to me by family. Till now, I don't know her whereabouts. I doled out uncountable monies doing giveaways without plans because I felt it would always be there. Even my parents were no good.

Do you know what it feels like to have over 9M in one minute and be stark broke in another? Sometimes, I sit and stare forlornly and just think I have nothing else to live for. When I tell people I'm depressed, they laugh at me and call me bipolar or make jest of me about being depressed. You don't understand it, mate. Like another Nairalander said, maybe I'm just still very weak and playing cowardice to snuff life out of me. Or maybe, I'm still very undecided. Time will tell.

Mind you, I have things going on for me but I can't forking move on. I hate everyone who I ever was there for. I hate them. I regret every forking thing I ever did for them. 😭. Maybe, I just had too many expectations. Just maybe. But, why should I not? I forking cared for them. Why shouldn't I?

I'm sorry about the epistle.

Sorry to ask, u worked there as what as to be making over 500k on weekends?

My greatest regret in life is wasting 6years of my life with someone who is a Nacirssist.Imagine dating someone for 6years and when you initiated the conversation to settle down,she said ..is it because you are getting old you want us to marry.Just fucking imagine that statement,so,6years is not enof.i shud keep waiting.And was ready financially,emotionally and all.Its my biggest regret because ,I ignored a lot of ladies who were interested in me because of her.I try not to remember

Chidolalar:

Sorry to ask, u worked there as what as to be making over 500k on weekends?

You have never worked in a bar before to know how waitresses make tips? Not to even talk of an elite club?

tonididdy:

I'm loving the read tonight and this one cot my attention because its like a summary of most of the regrets I have read so far.

I learned at an early age that "people who do the most -wanna make everyone please" kinda thing are people who are scared of tomorrow.

My moto is let tomorrow fvckn come!...
You are iverly nice to everybody because you believe in that "ladder theory" thing of help people on your way up incase tomorrow blablabla...

Why are you scared of tomorrow?
Why do you even have to fall and even if you do? Can't you get back up on your own?
( if you have a bag of precious stones with you on your way up the ladder and you fall... You will pick up your stones and begin the climb back up BUT when you give every Tom, dick and Harry a piece of your stones on your way up, you will fall with an empty bag and start all a fresh!)

Kindness is beautiful but it's not for everyone.
It pays some and doesn't pay a lot others.

It should be more, "we rise by lifting others"!

I used to believe so. Now, I know better.

Thanks for the advice.

Trusting people

EMMARNUEL:
My biggest regret is not learning a digital skill when i finished secondary school years ago..

You mean you won't advise anybody to further his education after Olevel

Figger:
Attending higher institution instead of learning a skill after my O level

One of the best quotes . University isn’t for everyone. Find your calling early you make it great later

UyaiIncomparabl:


Actually, parents are the ones to blame. They procreated and made you. Not God. We didn't ask to be birthed, they choose to do so out of our free will. Sucks.

But, I agree with you. Taking one's life will always be an option. How long exactly should someone keep hoping for?

God is solely and 100% to blame bcuz he made humans come into existence in d first place without their permission or consent by creating Adam d first human on earth which we all dealscended from And subsequently produce generations upon generations thereafter till this present time and beyond.
As long as u feel there is no need to hope for anything again or to live for anything again then taking ones life becomes d only option.
But d problem is d fear of d pain and agony that comes with taking ones life.
Had it been there is a button one can press to take ones life without any iota of pain and agony, I bet d rate of suicide must have completely put humans into extinction

Mine are
1. Not jumping on bitcoin bandwagon early.
2. Not fvcking enough my body count is just 100

Microwhy:

My wife yet to learn..
Sometimes, I just regret marrying 1st born/1st daughter.
Its no child's play.

I think you just need to constantly and lovingly talk her out. It's not going to be easy though.

It's affecting me too...
I barely take any step forward without looking back because i think i will be living my parents behind, and it's affecting my growth.

She will change.

Aaaaarghmed:
My greatest regret in life is wasting 6years of my life with someone who is a Nacirssist.Imagine dating someone for 6years and when you initiated the conversation to settle down,she said ..is it because you are getting old you want us to marry.Just fucking imagine that statement,so,6years is not enof.i shud keep waiting.And was ready financially,emotionally and all.Its my biggest regret because ,I ignored a lot of ladies who were interested in me because of her.I try not to remember

This cracked me up...no jokes.

Seem to me like you've been dating an immature girl.

Brings me to the question...what have you two been discussing for the six years? Discussion to settle down is not a one-off thing...

I really can't put my words together rn...not in a good frame of mind.

southsouthking:
The greatest regret of my Life is been basically because of Relationship, and the fact that i trust and Love them and I'm a true Romantic and i fell for it at least twice and i never forgave myself for the second fall, and it is the regret that i carry with me till this day, so that's probably the regret I've been rising since.

It's not about you, it's about them. Learn the lessons you need to learn and move on. Don't give them too much power over you.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Skills are different from skills. And I still stand by my words.

Same way salary earner is different from salary earner. So d ultimate thing still depends on what works for u

UyaiIncomparabl:


You have never worked in a bar before to know how waitresses make tips? Not to even talk of an elite club.

I know waitress make tips from customers but not to d extent of making such a huge amount of money irrespective of how big and massive d club is in Nigeria.

seanwilliam:
lol
100% wrong o

It is Okay to disagree, there is no set rule for everyone in this life

OkwuMajesty:
My regret: being too anxious and not assertive enough, I regret not coming out sooner. Wasted years worrying about it, worrying about pretty much everything. All the time,being too afraid to live.

I used to think my family can't survive without me, so I wasted enough time trying to be almost everything possible for them, but I was totally wrong.

What's yours

First born ?

Nackzy:
Not getting married, I am working yet still not seen the right person, I feel bad about it everyday

how about you don't search for these 'Qualities of a right person " and just go out there and be happy , mould her and accept her flaws ( there always is)there really is nothing like a perfect woman, genuinely wish you the best on your endeavour

southsouthking:
The greatest regret of my Life is been basically because of Relationship, and the fact that i trust and Love them and I'm a true Romantic and i fell for it at least twice and i never forgave myself for the second fall, and it is the regret that i carry with me till this day, so that's probably the regret I've been rising since.

there's no need to regret buddy its life , we all have to pass through the average ones before we seem to get the rare ones , you just need to keep up holding on to the strongest human energy force love , though its delusional but worth fighting for

iHateFraudsters:
No regrets.

Everything (good and bad) happened as it was supposed to be.

My actions have made me more aware of consequences of different actions I take.

Exactly! Spoken like a FreeThinking Taoist. How's your day so far

Likoya:
My biggest regret in life is following the advice of my parents instead of my passion. Now wey everything don burst, it's my fault and I just hope I don't commit suicide soon.

Can I ask why Sucide is an option?

It is of course but why should it be an option for you? There's a saying that when things are good remember there will be times that are also bad and when times are bad remember times will be good , basically everything in a cyclical phase even though the present always seems infinite lol its not , tell me this would this "problem" making "sucide" an option for you still be a problem with such intensity that you would warrant your life brother?