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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by SHiNJA4RMDWEST: 10:12pm On Jun 27, 2023
Hisbah:
I don't want him didgraced publicly. He is my elder brother.

Since u r hisba..He should join bokoharam...

Bokoharams do pay well ...
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by chudyprince: 11:09pm On Jun 27, 2023
Three things are usually behind it
1, promiscuity at early age probably during or after secondary school
2. Pornography adiction (life behind closet)
3. spiritual attack (destiny killers)

Solution: Take him to a strong man of God for deliverance.
Note: do not subject him to a psychological torture, show him love otherwise he will refuse to cooperate

There is always a SECOND CHANCE in Christ Jesus....Shalom!

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by Waffarianman(m): 7:06am On Jun 28, 2023
@Op shee D's matta don arise before and we iron🧇 for you why coming up with same issues again. Obi respect yasef oo
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by henrimoto(m): 7:06am On Jun 28, 2023
gaby:
The best you could do for him, yourself, and your entire family, is to drop his moniker here make we help you advice am.
.... Bros! You say wetin ? ....Bros Gaby, e get as e be o , you no think say the guy go change Monika so
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by sageb: 9:51am On Jun 28, 2023
Hisbah:
Hello family, my elder brother has decided to be totally useless. He doesn't want to do anything. Just idling around and eating mama thank you. At age of 49 he is yet to get married. The only thing he does is pressing his phone from morning till night. He is a popular person here. He spends his entire time on this forum. Our aged parents are extremely worried about this unwanted development. Everyone in both our immediate and extended family have talked to him about getting any job but he is stubbornly rejecting every help offered to him. Pls house, what's the best way to go about this. He is my elder brother and I don't want him to end up useless for life.

He needs counselling and re-orientation
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by sisisioge: 11:44am On Jun 28, 2023
helinues:


Yes I am here, the elder brother who is jobless guy.

Thank you my unuseful/unproductive younger brother who cares much about his elder brother joblessness but worry less about the spirit of the trolling that has been tormenting him for years. You have created hundred if monikers in years just to be doing this futility exercise yet I still dey gidigba.

If you are proud about your activities on this forum, tell NL'S how many monikers you have switched to to be talking to yourself in this thread alone

Walahi, you need more than job, you need a meaningful life

This isn't about his several monikers, this is about you getting a job and stop leeching on your old parents. It is that simple fa.

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by Cassandraloius: 11:48am On Jun 28, 2023
Only Him can help himself.
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by helinues: 12:01pm On Jun 28, 2023
sisisioge:


This isn't about his several monikers, this is about you getting a job and stop leeching on your old parents. It is that simple fa.

Are they your parents? Or your parents are complaining of me leeching them?

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by sisisioge: 12:51pm On Jun 28, 2023
helinues:


Are they your parents? Or your parents are complaining of me leeching them?

No sir,I just felt bad for them. They shouldn't have to be fending for a 49yo like an invalid ni. Please think about it.

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by faithfull18(f): 1:40pm On Jun 28, 2023
How does he get data

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by ahnie: 2:19pm On Jun 28, 2023
sisisioge:


No sir,I just felt bad for them. They shouldn't have to be fending for a 49yo like an invalid ni. Please think about it.
49yrs fa!
It's finished

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by Corridon: 5:31am On Jun 29, 2023
ahnie:

49yrs fa!
It's finished
Helinues is the one the OP is talking about. Don't you think he is the one judging by his activities here?
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by ahnie: 10:29am On Jun 29, 2023
Corridon:
Helinues is the one the OP is talking about. Don't you think he is the one judging by his activities here?
That absolutely is non of my business,I m not idle to be policing people's activities on this space.



Bye!

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Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by Purvan(m): 12:43pm On Jun 29, 2023
Village peeps @ work


Jee jụọ ese gbasara nwanne gi
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by ahnie: 1:42pm On Jun 29, 2023
faithfull18:
How does he get data
They're trolling helineus,just to spite him.
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by BscHolder: 12:32pm On Jul 01, 2023
gaby:
The best you could do for him, yourself, and your entire family, is to drop his moniker here make we help you advice am.
his moniker is daddytime grin
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by GodWrites: 2:19am On Jul 02, 2023
Hisbah:
Hello family, my elder brother has decided to be totally useless. He doesn't want to do anything. Just idling around and eating mama thank you. At age of 49 he is yet to get married. The only thing he does is pressing his phone from morning till night. He is a popular person here. He spends his entire time on this forum. Our aged parents are extremely worried about this unwanted development. Everyone in both our immediate and extended family have talked to him about getting any job but he is stubbornly rejecting every help offered to him. Pls house, what's the best way to go about this. He is my elder brother and I don't want him to end up useless for life.

Your brother is already useless. I will blame your parents for making him too comfortable by feeding him. If hunger deal with him, nobody will tell him to look for work, even if it's construction work. The only justification is if he's disabled.
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by xenten: 5:21am On Jul 17, 2023
he is already irredeemable. only God or a shock treatment can wake him up. even then, what can he do with his already exhausted life? he may end-up creating more wahala for you people.
Re: Help, My Elder Brother Doesn't Want To Work. by makaveli902: 4:19pm On Jul 19, 2023
Hisbah:
Hello family, my elder brother has decided to be totally useless. He doesn't want to do anything. Just idling around and eating mama thank you. At age of 49 he is yet to get married. The only thing he does is pressing his phone from morning till night. He is a popular person here. He spends his entire time on this forum. Our aged parents are extremely worried about this unwanted development. Everyone in both our immediate and extended family have talked to him about getting any job but he is stubbornly rejecting every help offered to him. Pls house, what's the best way to go about this. He is my elder brother and I don't want him to end up useless for life.

Helinues undecided

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