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I'm So Confused by Dexlomo: 5:14pm On Nov 10, 2009 |
Hello NLanders, I just finished my Masters not too long ago and my dad helped resecured my job in one of the 24 banks in the country. However, I got my greatest shocker from him . I am single and still searching but he has given me a mandate to introduce my fiancee not later than next Val's day as he claimed he has done what is expected of a responsible father and I should now act as a responsible son. To make matters worse, he is now comparing me with my younger brother who just started his masters and is planning is planning getting married once he comes back. I am still new in the game as I was exposed during my MSc days and can't thank my friends enough for this. However, I have not really found my dream girl as the girls I meet are those who want me because I want them and we are busy giving ourselves nice times. I believe my dad is failing to understand that I just started enjoying life and it will be most advisable I enjoy it to the fullest before getting married. I am thinking of moving out of the house because he has offered me our 2 bedroom BQ ever since I came back but would that free me from his ultimatum? |
Re: I'm So Confused by mrperfect(m): 5:30pm On Nov 10, 2009 |
As far as the Ego/owo dey to cater for both of you, just fight a desperate battle and get one babe is not all that hard if you focus. But Man, don't make mistake if you can find one, just tell your daddy to give you sometime. |
Re: I'm So Confused by Radiant(f): 6:05pm On Nov 10, 2009 |
You can only marry when you find your "missing rib". Seriously, what's with all these parents? Marry marry as if it's a damn piece o' cheesecake. Tell the man he go wait tire. My parents dare not. |
Re: I'm So Confused by Fhemmmy: 6:46pm On Nov 10, 2009 |
The last i saw this, was in a movie and it backfired |
Re: I'm So Confused by SeanT21(f): 7:00pm On Nov 10, 2009 |
He needs to leave U alone. Take your time. |
Re: I'm So Confused by Pharoh: 9:47pm On Nov 10, 2009 |
Talk to him to give you more time and see reasons why you have to be careful about this marriage thing. Going out of his comfort at this time because of this issue is a slap on the contribution he has made for you to be where you are today. So please respect him and talk to him like a father and i am sure he will understand. |
Re: I'm So Confused by Dexlomo: 2:45pm On Nov 11, 2009 |
Pharoh:It's not dat I can't talk to him but U shd understand dat our parents blive dey have d final say. He usually claims I have all it takes to find myself a wife n doesn't want to blive dat it's rily not yet my time. I am convinced y he is getting too serious about al dis is because of my younger broda who wants to get married after his Masters. He is d gud boy who is loyal n is responsible unlike me who after my education isn't settling down yet. Gues, I wil have to run to UK since they neva bodad getting back my British passport from me ever since I came back in September and den come back wen I am ready. This is because I know dey wil surely cal for me once I abscond. Radiant:Babe, please don't think so because I neva blived my parents cud say this. Dey decieved me wit too much morals wen I was growing up n neva allowed me do d things my peers were doing. mrperfect: APerfect, D mony is not d problem but dey don't want me to enjoy myself. I wil run away alone. |
Re: I'm So Confused by netotse(m): 3:01pm On Nov 11, 2009 |
lngkmd. . .u've finished a masters and come back and you're wondering why your parents havent collected your passport?. . .how old are you? |
Re: I'm So Confused by Fhemmmy: 3:27pm On Nov 11, 2009 |
netotse: ooouuucccchhhhh that was below the belt. |
Re: I'm So Confused by Pharoh: 4:55pm On Nov 11, 2009 |
Fhemmmy: Yeah below but it is relevant because i am also shocked by that statement, i know he his a daddy's boy thats why i gave him that advice. I also considered that they were his sponsors unlike some of us who sponsored ourselves. But the truth still remains that he has to call the shots right now or else they will even poke nose into his married life, the signs are just self evident in the way he is writting here. |
Re: I'm So Confused by Fhemmmy: 5:12pm On Nov 11, 2009 |
You cld have a point there. I think the guy is just using style to find woman for nairaland for fun. . . . sorry dont blv that kinda things still happens. |
Re: I'm So Confused by Nobody: 5:26pm On Nov 11, 2009 |
Re: I'm So Confused by Fhemmmy: 5:28pm On Nov 11, 2009 |
chaircover: Me no dey for that one oh. |
Re: I'm So Confused by Radiant(f): 8:16pm On Nov 11, 2009 |
chaircover: Is this the latest excuse? |
Re: I'm So Confused by Fhemmmy: 8:17pm On Nov 11, 2009 |
^^^ Lol |
Re: I'm So Confused by netotse(m): 1:40pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Radiant: until his parents find a pastor that can deliver him from the demon of homosexuality. . .lol |
Re: I'm So Confused by Fiona0007: 3:37pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
chaircover:I see the point. But I don't think he needs to tell a lie to his pushy parents. Suggestion: Better find a job and try to stand on his own feet first before making any commitment. |
Re: I'm So Confused by Fhemmmy: 3:42pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
netotse: And i am sure there would be enuf of those in Nija |
Re: I'm So Confused by Pharoh: 3:58pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Where is the poster? |
Re: I'm So Confused by Radiant(f): 4:39pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Convincing his parents to let him "have fun" |
Re: I'm So Confused by Fhemmmy: 4:39pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Radiant: hahahahaha |
Re: I'm So Confused by Pharoh: 4:59pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Radiant: Hahaha , its taking too long or did they sized his laptop instead of his passport so he couldn't post here anymore. Maybe they have tied him down at home i guess |
Re: I'm So Confused by Radiant(f): 5:26pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Breaking news. . . . Poster Has Been Grounded |
Re: I'm So Confused by Fhemmmy: 5:28pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Radiant: You are so meannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn |
Re: I'm So Confused by Pharoh: 5:36pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Radiant: Untill Further Notice By Honorable Radiant |
Re: I'm So Confused by Radiant(f): 10:02pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Re: I'm So Confused by Fhemmmy: 10:21pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Pharoh: You people are mean oh |
Re: I'm So Confused by Pharoh: 11:19pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Fhemmmy: You think so check him out here for yourself lol https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=351095.msg4912746#msg4912746 |
Re: I'm So Confused by Fhemmmy: 11:25pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
Pharoh: haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa I think the dude is messed up big time |
Re: I'm So Confused by Radiant(f): 11:45pm On Nov 12, 2009 |
And he's supposed to present a wife to his parents in 3 months time? |
Re: I'm So Confused by Nobody: 5:32pm On Nov 13, 2009 |
the horrors of apron strings dad financed masters, dad got him the job he lives in dad's compound, @ op, sorry, but unless u start doing stuff for yourself - ur old man will keep seeing you as a teenager who he can push around |
Re: I'm So Confused by victorazy(m): 7:09pm On Nov 13, 2009 |
the poster is a lier |
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