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My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by Demigod22(op): 6:43am On Jun 28, 2023
My girlfriend have been swearing her life out about how much she loves me and can go to any length to make the relationship works, but the relationship ended last night.

She stays in GOKANA, so yesterday she decided to go to bank in Port Harcourt, oil mill UBA. She couldn't access the account she went for unless she do account upgrade. Now she said she didn't have to go back to GOKANA. She saved money with her boss, she didn't call her boss to transfer one thousand naira for her or lend her, she didn't call her father either.

She decided to go to her friend's house. I asked for her account she refused and said she will sort it out. She later went to her friend's house according to her, I asked if she got the money from her friend, she said not yet, that the friend didn't see any money to give her yet. Later she called to tell me that rain was falling and she can't go home that day that she is sleeping in her friend's house.

Early in the morning, she called to tell me that she is already on her way home that her friend was able to give her the money.

She has lived in Port Harcourt before, she told me the kind of life she lived there, even when I was with her, some of these guys do call her with different numbers even when she block one, or chat her up on Facebook or WhatsApp telling her how they want to sleep with her. Before she went to Port Harcourt, I personally warned her to go to bank straight and return immediately, she shouldn't go anywhere else.

Now she is crying and swearing that she didn't visit any man or sleep with any man that yesterday. I told her even though she didn't do it, I am no longer interested in the relationship, I don't want distance relationship again.

PS: she stays in Rivers state while I am in Abuja.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by Ifiegboria(m): 6:46am On Jun 28, 2023
Hmm
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by siofragspot:
Op its you and not copied from anywhere.



Anyway don't take that long distance relationship thing too seriously with such partner. Many of them cheat over a long distance relationship. Leave lazy broke hoes alone...they are meant to make money through only fvcking and giving heads.


''She decided to go to her friend's house. I asked for her account she refused and said she will sort it out''

Red red flags everywhere.

Op but talk true say you sef no dey cheat for Abuja like your girlfriend dey cheat for PH?


See this survey below


https://www.channelstv.com/2012/07/16/nigerian-women-are-most-unfaithful-in-the-world-durex/

grin
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by Kingpin1000: 7:04am On Jun 28, 2023
Normally, wetin carry you leave all the girls for Abuja come PH?
Are you a man with low self esteem that you'll rather be with someone with questionable character, just because you want be among those who have girlfriend.
In-between, there is no substantial evidence of she having an affair, unless you're telling us part of the story.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by libertyfather(m): 7:07am On Jun 28, 2023
Guy u dey vex oooo, what if that girl is saying the truth? It can't be true anyway, inside your mind sef she slept over in a man place.....bro be calming down
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by Recardo(m): 7:12am On Jun 28, 2023
Demigod22:
My girlfriend have been swearing her life out about how much she loves me and can go to any length to make the relationship works, but the relationship ended last night.

She stays in GOKANA, so yesterday she decided to go to bank in Port Harcourt, oil mill UBA. She couldn't access the account she went for unless she do account upgrade. Now she said she didn't have to go back to GOKANA. She saved money with her boss, she didn't call her boss to transfer one thousand naira for her or lend her, she didn't call her father either.

She decided to go to her friend's house. I asked for her account she refused and said she will sort it out. She later went to her friend's house according to her, I asked if she got the money from her friend, she said not yet, that the friend didn't see any money to give her yet. Later she called to tell me that rain was falling and she can't go home that day that she is sleeping in her friend's house.

Early in the morning, she called to tell me that she is already on her way home that her friend was able to give her the money.

She has lived in Port Harcourt before, she told me the kind of life she lived there, even when I was with her, some of these guys do call her with different numbers even when she block one, or chat her up on Facebook or WhatsApp telling her how they want to sleep with her. Before she went to Port Harcourt, I personally warned her to go to bank straight and return immediately, she shouldn't go anywhere else.

Now she is crying and swearing that she didn't visit any man or sleep with any man that yesterday. I told her even though she didn't do it, I am no longer interested in the relationship, I don't want distance relationship again.

PS: she stays in Rivers state while I am in Abuja.

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So my guy where is your proof that she slept with a guy Tru d night? Do you have proof that the friend she go visit na guy? Because if not, you are just one insecure pussy.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by Curious346: 7:21am On Jun 28, 2023
Nigerian ladies are piece of shit
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by Nobody: 7:29am On Jun 28, 2023
I no dey talk for woman matter oh. Na only when we dey together Naim I know say I fit boast say na only me dey chop d honey pot. Outside this, I no dey put hand and leg. T*t* no get pre paid and postpaid meter
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by JeffreyD1(m): 7:57am On Jun 28, 2023
Long distance relationship mitcheww

Where for Abuja you dey boss make we take Heineken and forget the babe
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by MarketDispatch: 8:10am On Jun 28, 2023
Subsidy is Gone!
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by PureFace1(m): 8:49am On Jun 28, 2023
long distance relationship is a no no
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by zed7: 9:41am On Jun 28, 2023
If you're not engaged then you're just having fun. Nobody wants to be tied down to another who will not take them seriously. I only take infidelity amongst the engaged and married seriously.

When I was still a single man, one unserious girl can't be tying me down when she has nothing to offer.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by Theboss001: 11:40am On Jun 28, 2023
Recardo:
So my guy where is your proof that she slept with a guy Tru d night? Do you have proof that the friend she go visit na guy? Because if not, you are just one insecure pussy.
There's no proof she slept with a guy thru the nite,
but we gave proof that you were catering for a single hoe and her baby with your recharge card business 😂😂.

But come oooh what was the sharing formulae from the gain of 10 10 naira, I wanna know how you 3 share the proceeds of the recharge card 😁😁
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by farem: 12:03pm On Jun 28, 2023
Demigod22:
My girlfriend have been swearing her life out about how much she loves me and can go to any length to make the relationship works, but the relationship ended last night.

She stays in GOKANA, so yesterday she decided to go to bank in Port Harcourt, oil mill UBA. She couldn't access the account she went for unless she do account upgrade. Now she said she didn't have to go back to GOKANA. She saved money with her boss, she didn't call her boss to transfer one thousand naira for her or lend her, she didn't call her father either.

She decided to go to her friend's house. I asked for her account she refused and said she will sort it out. She later went to her friend's house according to her, I asked if she got the money from her friend, she said not yet, that the friend didn't see any money to give her yet. Later she called to tell me that rain was falling and she can't go home that day that she is sleeping in her friend's house.

Early in the morning, she called to tell me that she is already on her way home that her friend was able to give her the money.

She has lived in Port Harcourt before, she told me the kind of life she lived there, even when I was with her, some of these guys do call her with different numbers even when she block one, or chat her up on Facebook or WhatsApp telling her how they want to sleep with her. Before she went to Port Harcourt, I personally warned her to go to bank straight and return immediately, she shouldn't go anywhere else.

Now she is crying and swearing that she didn't visit any man or sleep with any man that yesterday. I told her even though she didn't do it, I am no longer interested in the relationship, I don't want distance relationship again.

PS: she stays in Rivers state while I am in Abuja.

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Hmnn

Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by fecoleef123(m): 12:09pm On Jun 28, 2023
Just dey play
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by Rexymania(m): 1:09pm On Jun 28, 2023
So what's my business? ❓🤨🤨
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by Enice(m):
siofragspot:
Op its you and not copied from anywhere.



Anyway don't take that long distance relationship thing too seriously with such partner. Many of them cheat over a long distance relationship. Leave lazy broke hoes alone...they are meant to make money through only fvcking and giving heads.


''She decided to go to her friend's house. I asked for her account she refused and said she will sort it out''

Red red flags everywhere.

Op but talk true say you sef no dey cheat for Abuja like your girlfriend dey cheat for PH?


See this survey below


https://www.channelstv.com/2012/07/16/nigerian-women-are-most-unfaithful-in-the-world-durex/

grin
I have noticed that men don't like women who tell them the truth. Me too, I fall into this category. Oga, you are in Abuja, she is in PH. If she doesn't tell you anything, you will not know. So respect her for telling you wherever she goes.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by westlius(m): 6:25pm On Jun 28, 2023
Enice:
I have noticed that men don't live women who tell them the truth. Me too, I fall into this category. Oga, you are in Abuja, she is in PH. If she doesn't tell you anything, you will not know. So respect her for tell you wherever she goes.
U talk truth my brother
Tell the Ops abeg
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by MoneyMustBMade(m): 6:41pm On Jun 28, 2023
So you concluded from the Abuja you're right
You're insecure type, stop that nonsense.

Allow someone daughter to breat
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by valentineuwakwe(m): 7:28pm On Jun 28, 2023
This your story is just childish and beside you dey Abuja and she resides in PHC, how will it work?

His kind of story tells you both might even be teenagers too but pls dat be upset with this...your kind of story does not show any maturity and if you can have the mind to keep a long distance relationship, then get mind to face and bear any consequences!
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by okoroemeka(m): 7:53pm On Jun 28, 2023
Demigod22:
My girlfriend have been swearing her life out about how much she loves me and can go to any length to make the relationship works, but the relationship ended last night.

She stays in GOKANA, so yesterday she decided to go to bank in Port Harcourt, oil mill UBA. She couldn't access the account she went for unless she do account upgrade. Now she said she didn't have to go back to GOKANA. She saved money with her boss, she didn't call her boss to transfer one thousand naira for her or lend her, she didn't call her father either.

She decided to go to her friend's house. I asked for her account she refused and said she will sort it out. She later went to her friend's house according to her, I asked if she got the money from her friend, she said not yet, that the friend didn't see any money to give her yet. Later she called to tell me that rain was falling and she can't go home that day that she is sleeping in her friend's house.

Early in the morning, she called to tell me that she is already on her way home that her friend was able to give her the money.

She has lived in Port Harcourt before, she told me the kind of life she lived there, even when I was with her, some of these guys do call her with different numbers even when she block one, or chat her up on Facebook or WhatsApp telling her how they want to sleep with her. Before she went to Port Harcourt, I personally warned her to go to bank straight and return immediately, she shouldn't go anywhere else.

Now she is crying and swearing that she didn't visit any man or sleep with any man that yesterday. I told her even though she didn't do it, I am no longer interested in the relationship, I don't want distance relationship again.

PS: she stays in Rivers state while I am in Abuja.

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unnecessary headache just find woman close to you in Abuja and be nacking and stop monitoring women for your health and sanity
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by Caramia2020(m): 2:22am On Jun 29, 2023
You change person hubby when u de stay for miles away, no wahala. But if she says nothing happens despite giving the details of her movement n u don't believe her, please follow your mind. You guys will still settle.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me. by Namdeenero(m): 10:08am On Jun 29, 2023
You have insecurity issues and still doing long distance relationship 🤦🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️.. Seems you don’t value your peace of mind
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