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Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Dimaya(op): 2:53pm On May 12, 2023

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eR3MCsqxBvA


In Nigeria today, the banks and financial institutions are full of beautiful successful women with dating issues.

According to the career ladies in this video, there's a big issue around women in banking and dating. It's really difficult for them.

While many of them are high earners at work, they struggle to find men who match them intellectually and financially.

Considering the minimum wage and unemployment rate in Nigeria, do you think they have a point or do they just have unrealistic standards for men?

Watch and share your opinion
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Zigzagman: 3:05pm On May 12, 2023
It's the girl at the beginning for me grin grin grin

great video. still watching though. These women are hilarious grin grin grin grin
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Nobody: 3:08pm On May 12, 2023
Not again.

Women women women
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Dimaya(op): 3:11pm On May 12, 2023
Persephone1:
Not again.

Women women women
grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by pansophist(m): 3:14pm On May 12, 2023
Persephone1:
Not again.

Women women women
Aunty go to the cooking section na. Which one is your sef?
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by pansophist(m):
Is it just career women? Dating is worse for every gender. The rot affect most people equally.

But specifically on this, men love language is respect. If he perceives a woman as an ally, instead of a competitor, you can make him do anything. A feminine, respectful, youthful woman makes men weak. No matter how macho.

Furthermore, hypergamy is a woman's best friend, and her worse enemy. If she is a high status/earning woman, then the selections of men will be fewer. Average earning woman? Then the selection of men will be many.

So it's either this women sacrifice their hypergamy for a good average man, just as men have always done by marrying low. And for men, the top always feels better because as he rises in finances, his pool of women increases.

It's no brainer that a man in his 30's for example will go for a 23 years old chick, than his colleague who are of his age range and single. Youthfulness is really important to men, not a woman's status.
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Zigzagman:
pansophist:
Is it just career women? Dating is worse for every gender. The rot affect most people equally.

But specifically on this, men love language is respect. If he perceives a woman as an ally, instead of a competitor, you can make him do anything.

Furthermore, hypergamy is a woman's best friend, and her worse enemy. If she is a high status/earning woman, then the selections of men will be fewer. Average earning woman? Then the selection of men will be many.

So it's either this women sacrifice their hypergamy for a good average man, just as men have always done by marrying low. And for men, the top always feels better because as he rises in finances, his pool of women increases.

It's no brainer that a man in his 30's for example will go for a 23 years old chick, than his colleague who are of his age range and single. Youthfulness is really important to men, not a woman's status.
The part that got to me was the pretty female banker complaining she didn't have time to find love.

In this lagos where love plenty berekete


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lT62gdKcI0c
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Nobody: 3:37pm On May 12, 2023
pansophist:
Aunty go to the cooking section na. Which one is your sef?
Won't it feel nice if women carry men's matter on their heads as guys do here? grin
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by pansophist(m): 3:44pm On May 12, 2023
Persephone1:
Won't it feel nice if women carry men's matter on their heads as guys do here? grin
Women do carry men matter for head regularly, they do it on TikTok, Instagram and in churches. Writing platforms have always attracted men, unlike women where it's visual platforms such as Instagram to show their ass. Lol
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by FalseProphet1(m): 3:45pm On May 12, 2023
Persephone1:
Not again.

Women women women

Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Nobody: 3:53pm On May 12, 2023
pansophist:
Women do carry men matter for head regularly, they do it on TikTok, Instagram and in churches. Writing platforms have always attracted men, unlike women where it's visual platforms such as Instagram to show their ass. Lol
I don't know about Instagram but must female tiktok users I follow are either into sales, skit makers, arts, interior deco, dance and only random shake yansh. They really don't focus on men do this, men should do that, men are this, men are that. grin grin cheesy. They have lives.
No, it is the only writing forum that discusses women like petrol price. grin

Romance discourse should be mutual nah angry
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Nobody: 3:54pm On May 12, 2023
[quote author=FalseProphet1 post=123094633][/quote]Maybe we should cut it off cheesy grin
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by FalseProphet1(m): 3:55pm On May 12, 2023
Persephone1:
Maybe we should cut it off cheesy grin
So how do you expect me to perform my duties as a husband if we cut it off? sad
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Nobody: 3:56pm On May 12, 2023
FalseProphet1:
So how do you expect me to perform my duties as a husband if we cut it off? sad
You are my 101th concubine, you don't need it grin
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by FalseProphet1(m): 3:59pm On May 12, 2023
Persephone1:
You are my 101th concubine, you don't need it grin
That's the dark forces speaking through you. You're due for another deliverance and river bathing. Don't worry this time I'll make sure that you're completely delivered.
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Nobody: 4:03pm On May 12, 2023
FalseProphet1:
That's the dark forces speaking through you. You're due for another deliverance and river bathing. Don't worry this time I'll make sure that you're completely delivered.
Ah

Wahala .

Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by FalseProphet1(m): 4:09pm On May 12, 2023
Persephone1:
Ah

Wahala .
wink
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Zigzagman: 4:26pm On May 12, 2023
Persephone1:
I don't know about Instagram but must female tiktok users I follow are either into sales, skit makers, arts, interior deco, dance and only random shake yansh. They really don't focus on men do this, men should do that, men are this, men are that. grin grin cheesy. They have lives.
No, it is the only writing forum that discusses women like petrol price. grin

Romance discourse should be mutual nah angry
women discuss men matter for inside hair salon. If you hear where dem begin finish man eh, you go fear fear undecided[color=#990000][/color]
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by ABenny101: 4:34pm On May 12, 2023
Persephone1:
Ah

Wahala .
grin

Bros na ooyi u do so.
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Zigzagman: 5:16pm On May 12, 2023
Persephone1:
I don't know about Instagram but must female tiktok users I follow are either into sales, skit makers, arts, interior deco, dance and only random shake yansh. They really don't focus on men do this, men should do that, men are this, men are that. grin grin cheesy. They have lives.
No, it is the only writing forum that discusses women like petrol price. grin

Romance discourse should be mutual nah angry
why don't you open a post on what men must do?
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Dimaya(op): 10:39pm On May 12, 2023
Zigzagman:
why don't you open a post on what men must do?
Career driven men do not experience the same problems that women face. Every woman wants a working husband. I'm not sure the same can be said about men.
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Zigzagman: 2:13pm On Jul 07, 2023
Dimaya:
Career driven men do not experience the same problems that women face. Every woman wants a working husband. I'm not sure the same can be said about men.
una no dey rest on top this dating matter?
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Klington: 3:32pm On Jul 07, 2023
embarassed
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by BiGVEEN58(m): 3:33pm On Jul 07, 2023
Dimaya:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eR3MCsqxBvA


In Nigeria today, the banks and financial institutions are full of beautiful successful women with dating issues.

According to the career ladies in this video, there's a big issue around women in banking and dating. It's really difficult for them.

While many of them are high earners at work, they struggle to find men who match them intellectually and financially.

Considering the minimum wage and unemployment rate in Nigeria, do you think they have a point or do they just have unrealistic standards for men?

Watch and share your opinion
People wey dey find yahoo boys. Lol
You don't know what is going on.
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by MrBachelor: 3:33pm On Jul 07, 2023
cool
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by sofeo(m): 3:33pm On Jul 07, 2023
Alright
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Mikelarteta(m): 3:34pm On Jul 07, 2023
Most of dem end up on dating Apps.
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by bouncin04(m): 3:34pm On Jul 07, 2023
grin
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by Nobody: 3:34pm On Jul 07, 2023
Illiterate women over career women is what real alfa mail go for...
Who needs them when you can go to the village and pick one submissive girl?
Re: Career Women And Their Dating Problems by FalseProphet1(m):
If you want to enjoy your marriage, never marry a career woman. Know this and have peace.

This I have seen.
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