In recent times, domestic violence is being frowned upon.

Of course, that's a good thing because it's practically wrong to hit a woman. I'm totally against it.

But here's the down side of this:
Women do not have any FEAR anymore.
The average woman now challenge her Man and go into a fierce verbal battle with him because she knows the society will back her if he hits her.

The other day I saw a couple in a serious conflict. The husband who was very angry was like, "Woman, you better watch your tongue...you are getting on my nerves."

The wife responded harshly in a confrontational manner, "What are you going to do? Oh, you want to hit me? Hit me, and I'll tell the world you are a woman beater. Hit me, I dare you to hit me."

I felt a bit pity for this man because he seemed emasculated. That woman seem to be actually getting on his nerves.

In the olden days, the woman will never challenge her Man and go into a fierce verbal battle with him because she knows he will immedately discipline or instill fear by physically hitting her.

In the olden days, there was no law against domestic violence, so our forefathers keep their women in check by physically hitting them...this why their women will never talk back at them.

In recent times, men aren't allowed to discipline or instill fear in a woman by physically hitting her like in olden days... because they'll be shamed for it and they might be at risk of facing charges.

So never physically hit a woman.

Now, what's the solution?

When your woman seriously offend you, the best way to hit her is through her emotions. Women are highly emotional creatures. So never waste your time hitting her physically, just give her emotional hits... and the job will be get done.

There two ways you do that:

#1 Hit her verbally.

Remember, women say things to hit your ego, so you must also learn to say things to hit their ego so that the ground will be leveled.
Now, I don't mean arguing with her. Again, I don't mean angrily straight up insulting her by saying things like, "you are useless woman," or "you are fool." Or anything like that.

That won't work. Instead verbally hit her a way that throw her off balance a little bit.
The way to do it is to just be blunt with her.

Tell her the truth. Remember, the truth hurt. Women love lies because lies massage her ego and make her feel good about herself. But the truth hit ego and get her to start questioning her values has a woman.

For example, Tell her..."You are lucky you have those boobs, otherwise no man will want to associate with your kind person."

OR. "If it weren't for your ass, men would just ignore you because you got a very poor attitude."

I can give more and more examples. But I believe you get the point. Make sure you say that in a very cool, calm and collected manner. That way she knows you are not being emotional...you are simply logically passing a vital information to her about her behaviour.
This will hit her emotions. This is more effective than physically hitting her.



#2 Hit her with emotional unavailability.

Emotional unavailability is a brutal way to hit a woman.

Here's why...

Remember, Relationship isn't so much of a physical experience, but more of an emotional experience. That's why many couples can still maintain a long distance relationship for months or years. This is because, even though there's physical experience lacking, the emotional experience is still fire blazing. They still feel emotionally connected.

That's also why many couples can be living few blocks away from each other or living under the same roof but still feel disconnected.

This is because, even though there's physical experience, the emotional experience is poor.

Hitting her with your emotional unavailability means still being physically present with her but not giving her that special care and attention you'd normal give to her. And not allowing her have access to your resources anymore. And not meddling in her business...

You'll give her the emotional unavailability unless she change or improve on her behaviour towards you.


In summary, never hit her physically...hit her emotionally.

Pukkalolo:
In recent times, domestic violence is being frowned upon.

Of course, that's a good thing because it's practically wrong to hit a woman. I'm totally against it.

But here's the down side of this:
Women do not have any FEAR anymore.
The average woman now challenge her Man and go into a fierce verbal battle with him because she knows the society will back her if he hits her.

The other day I saw a couple in a serious conflict. The husband who was very angry was like, "Woman, you better watch your tongue...you are getting on my nerves."

The wife responded harshly in a confrontational manner, "What are you going to do? Oh, you want to hit me? Hit me, and I'll tell the world you are a woman beater. Hit me, I dare you to hit me."

I felt a bit pity for this man because he seemed emasculated. That woman seem to be actually getting on his nerves.

In the olden days, the woman will never challenge her Man and go into a fierce verbal battle with him because she knows he will immedately discipline or instill fear by physically hitting her.

In the olden days, there was no law against domestic violence, so our forefathers keep their women in check by physically hitting them...this why their women will never talk back at them.

In recent times, men aren't allowed to discipline or instill fear in a woman by physically hitting her like in olden days... because they'll be shamed for it and they might be at risk of facing charges.

So never physically hit a woman.

Now, what's the solution?

When your woman seriously offend you, the best way to hit her is through her emotions. Women are highly emotional creatures. So never waste your time hitting her physically, just give her emotional hits... and the job will be get done.

There two ways you do that:

#1 Hit her verbally.

Remember, women say things to hit your ego, so you must also learn to say things to hit their ego so that the ground will be leveled.
Now, I don't mean arguing with her. Again, I don't mean angrily straight up insulting her by saying things like, "you are useless woman," or "you are fool." Or anything like that.

That won't work. Instead verbally hit her a way that throw her off balance a little bit.
The way to do it is to just be blunt with her.

Tell her the truth. Remember, the truth hurt. Women love lies because lies massage her ego and make her feel good about herself. But the truth hit ego and get her to start questioning her values has a woman.

For example, Tell her..."You are lucky you have those boobs, otherwise no man will want to associate with your kind person."

OR. "If it weren't for your ass, men would just ignore you because you got a very poor attitude."

I can give more and more examples. But I believe you get the point. Make sure you say that in a very cool, calm and collected manner. That way she knows you are not being emotional...you are simply logically passing a vital information to her about her behaviour.
This will hit her emotions. This is more effective than physically hitting her.



#2 Hit her with emotional unavailability.

Emotional unavailability is a brutal way to hit a woman.

Here's why...

Remember, Relationship isn't so much of a physical experience, but more of an emotional experience. That's why many couples can still maintain a long distance relationship for months or years. This is because, even though there's physical experience lacking, the emotional experience is still fire blazing. They still feel emotionally connected.

That's also why many couples can be living few blocks away from each other or living under the same roof but still feel disconnected.

This is because, even though there's physical experience, the emotional experience is poor.

Hitting her with your emotional unavailability means still being physically present with her but not giving her that special care and attention you'd normal give to her. And not allowing her have access to your resources anymore. And not meddling in her business...

You'll give her the emotional unavailability unless she change or improve on her behaviour towards you.


In summary, never hit her physically...hit her emotionally.

So many things is wrong with this write up.

Why should a woman FEAR A MAN? Especially HER MAN? What do y'all benefit from becoming an ABUSIVE PARTNER?!

Our forefathers didn't practice healthy relationships. If it's respect you want from a woman you have to EARN it.

It's normal to have a fight in a relationship, if you feel offended as a man the best thing you can do is to be calm, listen to her rants, try to understand her and tackle the conflict between the both of you. It's not called SIMPING like some alfa meil call it here. Gragra doesn't solve things... It'll just make the relationship TOXIC.

My final words on this is that domestic violence isn't the only form of spousal abuse. Emotional abuse is also a form of spousal abuse; which according to you is the best way to treat a woman one is quarrelling with. And you're totally WRONG.

!

Hit a woman?

For what?

Anny69:
So many things is wrong with this write up.

Why should a woman FEAR A MAN? Especially HER MAN? What do y'all benefit from becoming an ABUSIVE PARTNER?!

Our forefathers didn't practice healthy relationships. If it's respect you want from a woman you have to EARN it.

It's normal to have a fight in a relationship, if you feel offended as a man the best thing you can do is to be calm, listen to her rants, try to understand her and tackle the conflict between the both of you. It's not called SIMPING like some alfa meil call it here. Gragra doesn't solve things... It'll just make the relationship TOXIC.

My final words on this is that domestic violence isn't the only form of spousal abuse. Emotional abuse is also a form of spousal abuse; which according to you is the best way to treat a woman one is quarrelling with. And you're totally WRONG.

leave this place immediately...


typical Nigerian woman

women instigate emotional abuse in relationships
emotional blackmail.
they Insult you at every opportunity, behaving like children that require flogging to reason properly..
you ignore them, the insult doubles,

you stay away from the house the problem triples with accusations.

Op you are right, leave this one wey de talk crap .

I once talked blunt to a lady that pushed me to the wall,
she cried through the night, after weeks she still talks about it,
I felt really good, without lifting a finger I hit her real good..

PapaNnamdi:


leave this place immediately...


typical Nigerian woman

women instigate emotional abuse in relationships
emotional blackmail.
they Insult you at every opportunity, behaving like children that require flogging to reason properly..
you ignore them, the insult doubles,

you stay away from the house the problem triples with accusations.

Op you are right, leave this one wey de talk crap .

I once talked blunt to a lady that pushed me to the wall,
she cried through the night, after weeks she still talks about it,
I felt really good, without lifting a finger I hit her real good..

Papa Nnamdi, I'm going no where.

Hurting her emotionally is still domestic abuse.

Just walk away and give her silence treatment throughout that day, she will adjust

Pukkalolo:
In recent times, domestic violence is being frowned upon.

Of course, that's a good thing because it's practically wrong to hit a woman. I'm totally against it.

But here's the down side of this:
Women do not have any FEAR anymore.
The average woman now challenge her Man and go into a fierce verbal battle with him because she knows the society will back her if he hits her.

The other day I saw a couple in a serious conflict. The husband who was very angry was like, "Woman, you better watch your tongue...you are getting on my nerves."

The wife responded harshly in a confrontational manner, "What are you going to do? Oh, you want to hit me? Hit me, and I'll tell the world you are a woman beater. Hit me, I dare you to hit me."

I felt a bit pity for this man because he seemed emasculated. That woman seem to be actually getting on his nerves.

In the olden days, the woman will never challenge her Man and go into a fierce verbal battle with him because she knows he will immedately discipline or instill fear by physically hitting her.

In the olden days, there was no law against domestic violence, so our forefathers keep their women in check by physically hitting them...this why their women will never talk back at them.

In recent times, men aren't allowed to discipline or instill fear in a woman by physically hitting her like in olden days... because they'll be shamed for it and they might be at risk of facing charges.

So never physically hit a woman.

Now, what's the solution?

When your woman seriously offend you, the best way to hit her is through her emotions. Women are highly emotional creatures. So never waste your time hitting her physically, just give her emotional hits... and the job will be get done.

There two ways you do that:

#1 Hit her verbally.

Remember, women say things to hit your ego, so you must also learn to say things to hit their ego so that the ground will be leveled.
Now, I don't mean arguing with her. Again, I don't mean angrily straight up insulting her by saying things like, "you are useless woman," or "you are fool." Or anything like that.

That won't work. Instead verbally hit her a way that throw her off balance a little bit.
The way to do it is to just be blunt with her.

Tell her the truth. Remember, the truth hurt. Women love lies because lies massage her ego and make her feel good about herself. But the truth hit ego and get her to start questioning her values has a woman.

For example, Tell her..."You are lucky you have those boobs, otherwise no man will want to associate with your kind person."

OR. "If it weren't for your ass, men would just ignore you because you got a very poor attitude."

I can give more and more examples. But I believe you get the point. Make sure you say that in a very cool, calm and collected manner. That way she knows you are not being emotional...you are simply logically passing a vital information to her about her behaviour.
This will hit her emotions. This is more effective than physically hitting her.



#2 Hit her with emotional unavailability.

Emotional unavailability is a brutal way to hit a woman.

Here's why...

Remember, Relationship isn't so much of a physical experience, but more of an emotional experience. That's why many couples can still maintain a long distance relationship for months or years. This is because, even though there's physical experience lacking, the emotional experience is still fire blazing. They still feel emotionally connected.

That's also why many couples can be living few blocks away from each other or living under the same roof but still feel disconnected.

This is because, even though there's physical experience, the emotional experience is poor.

Hitting her with your emotional unavailability means still being physically present with her but not giving her that special care and attention you'd normal give to her. And not allowing her have access to your resources anymore. And not meddling in her business...

You'll give her the emotional unavailability unless she change or improve on her behaviour towards you.


In summary, never hit her physically...hit her emotionally.

Shut up!

Anny69:
Papa Nnamdi, I'm going no where.

I just like the way OP ignore you.. nonsense!

And the gender wars continue. Men will sure use this and women will sure come up with another way to counter this and it goes on and on and on and on
Wetin I dey talk sef

The best thing to do is to just ignore her and her food for days but make sure you still provide food in the house

May we never end up with the wrong wife because this creatures dey one kind

Bible, don’t beat your wife


Quran, don’t beat your wife

Your wife, if you are man enough beat me 😭😂

Gender wars seems to have peaked lately, dealing with women is an awful lot to do.
Just pray that you find a reasonable one with lesser capacity of inviting troubles.


Na agbo me I wan sell ooo

just last night, a woman was harassing her husband that even the people separating them self got angry with the woman because she kept insulting the man and asking him to hit her, i just left them and waka cuz lass lass they will both still end up in the same bed fucking each other.
That woman was just crazy no matter what the man had done, he accepted and begged her to go her way but the woman no gree and refused to give the man his money which happened to be the reason of their argument

labake1:
Hurting her emotionally is still domestic abuse.

Just walk away and give her silence treatment throughout that day, she will adjust

Wow just wow
Hurting her emotionally is still domestic abuse.
ONA wan really use men do rag buy all means.

labake1:
Hurting her emotionally is still domestic abuse.

Just walk away and give her silence treatment throughout that day, she will adjust

You appear to be subtly contradicting yourself by reechoing the OP's point on hitting the erring spouse with "emotional unavailability". Walking away or giving the silent treatment can be construed as emotional manipulation, which if not well managed, can tend to spousal abuse.

Good one, but to me any woman wey mumu na to chase her away

Who post this yeye topic abeg?

Pukkalolo:
In recent times, domestic violence is being frowned upon.

Of course, that's a good thing because it's practically wrong to hit a woman. I'm totally against it.

But here's the down side of this:
Women do not have any FEAR anymore.
The average woman now challenge her Man and go into a fierce verbal battle with him because she knows the society will back her if he hits her.

The other day I saw a couple in a serious conflict. The husband who was very angry was like, "Woman, you better watch your tongue...you are getting on my nerves."

The wife responded harshly in a confrontational manner, "What are you going to do? Oh, you want to hit me? Hit me, and I'll tell the world you are a woman beater. Hit me, I dare you to hit me."

I felt a bit pity for this man because he seemed emasculated. That woman seem to be actually getting on his nerves.

In the olden days, the woman will never challenge her Man and go into a fierce verbal battle with him because she knows he will immedately discipline or instill fear by physically hitting her.

In the olden days, there was no law against domestic violence, so our forefathers keep their women in check by physically hitting them...this why their women will never talk back at them.

In recent times, men aren't allowed to discipline or instill fear in a woman by physically hitting her like in olden days... because they'll be shamed for it and they might be at risk of facing charges.

So never physically hit a woman.

Now, what's the solution?

When your woman seriously offend you, the best way to hit her is through her emotions. Women are highly emotional creatures. So never waste your time hitting her physically, just give her emotional hits... and the job will be get done.

There two ways you do that:

#1 Hit her verbally.

Remember, women say things to hit your ego, so you must also learn to say things to hit their ego so that the ground will be leveled.
Now, I don't mean arguing with her. Again, I don't mean angrily straight up insulting her by saying things like, "you are useless woman," or "you are fool." Or anything like that.

That won't work. Instead verbally hit her a way that throw her off balance a little bit.
The way to do it is to just be blunt with her.

Tell her the truth. Remember, the truth hurt. Women love lies because lies massage her ego and make her feel good about herself. But the truth hit ego and get her to start questioning her values has a woman.

For example, Tell her..."You are lucky you have those boobs, otherwise no man will want to associate with your kind person."

OR. "If it weren't for your ass, men would just ignore you because you got a very poor attitude."

I can give more and more examples. But I believe you get the point. Make sure you say that in a very cool, calm and collected manner. That way she knows you are not being emotional...you are simply logically passing a vital information to her about her behaviour.
This will hit her emotions. This is more effective than physically hitting her.



#2 Hit her with emotional unavailability.

Emotional unavailability is a brutal way to hit a woman.

Here's why...

Remember, Relationship isn't so much of a physical experience, but more of an emotional experience. That's why many couples can still maintain a long distance relationship for months or years. This is because, even though there's physical experience lacking, the emotional experience is still fire blazing. They still feel emotionally connected.

That's also why many couples can be living few blocks away from each other or living under the same roof but still feel disconnected.

This is because, even though there's physical experience, the emotional experience is poor.

Hitting her with your emotional unavailability means still being physically present with her but not giving her that special care and attention you'd normal give to her. And not allowing her have access to your resources anymore. And not meddling in her business...

You'll give her the emotional unavailability unless she change or improve on her behaviour towards you.


In summary, never hit her physically...hit her emotionally.

Na so. Hit her verbally and emotionally abi. Have you not heard of emotional abuse? It is now a reason for divorce. Some ladies now present emotional abuse as grounds for divorce and separation. If your wife is becoming a fool stay away from her. Leave the house and protect your sanity. No matter how strong you think you are emotionally and verbally bad women or women in their bad mood are capable of bringing out the beast in you. So instead of staying around a woman when her toxicity reaches fatal levels, just leave her and go and chill some place else where you can regain your sanity and act rationally. Make it habit to leave when she is toxic and you will escape the accusation of domestic violence and emotional abuse.

labake1:
Hurting her emotionally is still domestic abuse.

Just walk away and give her silence treatment throughout that day, she will adjust

That also is domestic abuse if u care to know

Anny69:
So many things is wrong with this write up.

Why should a woman FEAR A MAN? Especially HER MAN? What do y'all benefit from becoming an ABUSIVE PARTNER?!

Our forefathers didn't practice healthy relationships. If it's respect you want from a woman you have to EARN it.

It's normal to have a fight in a relationship, if you feel offended as a man the best thing you can do is to be calm, listen to her rants, try to understand her and tackle the conflict between the both of you. It's not called SIMPING like some alfa meil call it here. Gragra doesn't solve things... It'll just make the relationship TOXIC.

My final words on this is that domestic violence isn't the only form of spousal abuse. Emotional abuse is also a form of spousal abuse; which according to you is the best way to treat a woman one is quarrelling with. And you're totally WRONG.

Why didn't you contribute the right method since he is totally wrong according to you.

DaddyRochie1642:




Why didn't you contribute the right method since he is totally wrong according to you.

I already did.

If she hit me, she is getting hit in return. She's free to use her mouth, but she should never dare to hit me, because I will defend myself by reciprocating the gesture. That was how a woman gave someone I know a slap, and the man returned the slap at once and she was stunned. In her life she wouldn't try that play again. Men, stop being simps. Don't hit a woman, but if she hit you, don't be shy to hit back. You are justified.

labake1:
Hurting her emotionally is still domestic abuse.

Just walk away and give her silence treatment throughout that day, she will adjust

Yeah...woman slap, abuse, insult, manipulate, and do all sorts of domestic abuse to her husband......u women dont like being paid back in ur own coin.....all u women would say the man should not do anything, he should always be a door mat and wait for her to adjust...


If n una turn....call the police, get him arrested, sleep with another man, get pregnant with another man's child, destroy his car, divorce him, take all his property ...

una well done .....na only man sabi suffer

I beat women, i beat women well well whatever you say is your business, even the one that ate my money i dealt her blows to the ribs, stomach and head.
Your opinions can't last 1 seconds in my mind

Anny69:
I already did.

You did not

DaddyRochie1642:




You did not

Read it again.

Anny69:
Read it again.

I have read it again, you did not.

helinues:
Hit a woman?

For what?

Because Quran 4:34 says you should beat your wife.

Or you don't know what your own Quran said?

Don't tell me you promoted a Muslim muslim presidency without understanding the religion you are promoting?

DaddyRochie1642:



I have read it again, you did not.

Okay.

efficiencie:


Na so. Hit her verbally and emotionally abi. Have you not heard of emotional abuse? It is now a reason for divorce. Some ladies now present emotional abuse as grounds for divorce and separation. If your wife is becoming a fool stay away from her. Leave the house and protect your sanity. No matter how strong you think you are emotionally and verbally bad women or women in their bad mood are capable of bringing out the beast in you. So instead of staying around a woman when her toxicity reaches fatal levels, just leave her and go and chill some place else where you can regain your sanity and act rationally. Make it habit to leave when she is toxic and you will escape the accusation of domestic violence and emotional abuse.

You're contradicting yourself still. Your leaving the house or staying away from your spouse is a tactic meant to ultimately subject them to emotional manipulation — which again buttresses the OP's second point on emotionally unavailability.

I support the OP's views on the subject matter but I also feel it should apply to insecure, emasculate men who tend to make life unnecessarily difficult for their innocent spouses. What's good for the goose is good for the gander.

DaddyRochie1642:




You did not

Loool. She did. I just feel the success of her "methods" would depend on the emotional maturity of the parties involved. Some can be very immature/irrational in their show of displeasure/anger. You wouldn't want to listen to what a raging "lioness/lion" has to say in the heat of an argument. You'd have to choose safety first.

tonytony208:


Because Quran 4:34 says you should beat your wife.

Or you don't know what your own Quran said?

Don't tell me you promoted a Muslim muslim presidency without understanding the religion you are promoting?

Stop talking nonsense.

Which your Quran?