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Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by ITbomb(m): 12:30pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
The people who brought the western idea of sanctity of marriage have misaligned it, so what do you expect. We have to go back to our own system of marriage, anyone with the resources to marry more than one should please go ahead. There should be a law to guarantee education for your children at least up to School cert order else you are drafted into the military recruit with hard labor and government takes over the education of your children 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by PhoneSaviour(m): 12:30pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Do people still marry ? |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by magabounce(m): 12:30pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
It's always been there!!! Social media just made it more pronounced!!! Travel down to Delta/PH/CRS and see what both married genders do!!! 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by CartelKenneth: 12:31pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Marry at your own peril Mumu peopleš¶ 1 Like |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
LadyTara: madam omotara...however you want to twist it...social media can still influence some people into accepting foolish ideologies..and women are especially easily influenced by trending things.. e.g some girls who never fancied leg chains can begin to wear such just because shes seeing a lot of her friends do it. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by duro4chang(m): 12:33pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
LadyTara:I agree to some extent. Take for instance a married man who happens to find an old school girl friend on the net, as a result of constant interaction, the old lust may be ignited. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by TUTU147: 12:33pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
It is as a result of lack of the fear of God, lack of the word of god.until we start doing what God Almighty instructed us to do, things like this we continue to happen. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by juman(m): 12:37pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
There was no time people respect sanctity of marriage. Manage your life. Social media easily sway peoples mind. Work harder on your marriage. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by LadyTara(f): 12:37pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Rayban25:So I guess , going by your logic, people can also be influenced to become serial killers. |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by LadyTara(f): 12:40pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
duro4chang:And if he met her in real life ,would the old lust not still be ignited? . Social media just made it easy for humans to convey their innate character and subconscious traits without the eyes of the world on them. The internet provided a perfect "behind the curtain" scene of humans. And now we want to blame the internet for it |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by OnlineArchitect: 12:45pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Oizee: I respect women that respect themselves.. Well-done ma'am 1 Like |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by duro4chang(m): 12:45pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
LadyTara:There are many of my school mates that we have never met since graduation that even if we meet may not recognise one another but through social media we are very close. |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by Nobody: 12:45pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
LadyTara: humans can be influenced without knowing..have you asked why small children in america go and snoop around their parents rooms and look for handguns? some of them that shot people said they were influenced by playing violent games. it can also be movies too or music and if you constantly feed yourself with mainstream culture you will imbibe it without knowing everyone knows fornication is a sin but people even in church have tried to make it look like a normal thing. thats woke mainstream culture for you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by Puss360(f): 12:48pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
taylor89:Be calming down ..... Why should a colleague call someone "Video call" by that time If it were that important why can't he send message... Abi the colleague no Sabi type Rubbish.. That's how you people will be encouraging promiscuity 6 Likes |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by LadyTara(f): 12:51pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Rayban25:okay. |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by LadyTara(f): 12:52pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
duro4chang:If you say so. |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by 3seriez(m): 12:53pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
taylor89: Video call at 9:30 pm to a married woman that is not your relative doesn't fall under guise of safety call. There are boundaries. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by duro4chang(m): 12:54pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
LadyTara:Though it is not the only reasons but one of the major reasons |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by AZControversial(m): 12:55pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Coz unfortunately, many are not mentally prepared for it. Many, among other reasons, rush into marriage because they don't want to be 'left behind'. Some don't even see themselves as adults until they are married. So when they rush into it, barrages of inappropriateness and mistakes follow. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by XTHRONE(m): 12:58pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Blueseaa51: Naso u love Nigeria reach, u no like to travel to Canada |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by LadyTara(f): 1:06pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
duro4chang:when we are ready to talk about the real issues as humans especially Nigerians,we will ,but for now ,let keep blaming everything else including the devil. |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by Miarose: 1:07pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Because SANCTITY only applies to Christian marriages. Christian in this context, is marriage by 'Christians' not sycophants. Example, In the Catholic church, marriage is a holy sacrament(SACRED), hence the expectation of sacredness. Worldly marriages , which are just legal contracts, are not sacred. It is a business contract for most, if they are honest to themselves. The expectation of sanctity does not apply. Traditional marriages also, do not have the expectation of sanctity. All man should guide their expectations according their tenets within which they live their lives. Thank you. |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by Fiscus105(m): 1:07pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
taylor89: Video calls for safety? If she goes other way round now, you will also be in forefront to blame and attack her for collapse in marriage. May God saves us from attackers ooo 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by duro4chang(m): 1:11pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
LadyTara:In that case I will still blame human beings especially those who practise it. Even the social media is being run by human being. |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by Lama70(m): 1:14pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Cheating has been part of marriage from the days. Bad as it may sound. Reasons are unexplainable. From the trivial to the serious. But one thing is as sure the sun rising in the morning. There are faithful men and women. Not necessarily religious people. May God help us. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by Ashirioluwa: 1:15pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Marriage is nothing these days. Those parties that involve in marriage donāt respect the marriage vows anymore. Now everyone is doing what they like. The husband is happy with girlfriends, the wife is messing with neighbors or workplace colleagues. These days, some guys are even proud to say it that they only date āmarried or pregnant womenā. Marriage institution has long lost its respect. Marriage is now businesslike. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by crossbreedwears(m): 1:20pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
You've never seen any good thing in your life! If you continue this way, you might not succeed. This is all i have seen! FalseProphet1: 1 Like |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by maasoap(m): 1:26pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
LadyTara: Stop applying wrong logic. Many people are influenced by what they see or hear constantly. That social media is not playing an influential roles in many homes is like one doesn't want to look at the obvious |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by Righthussle: 1:29pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
FalseProphet1: You're really pained. sorry |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by DrDunamis(m): 1:32pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
PapaGfad:You're not overthinking most of them nowadays skip premarriage counselling sessions |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by LadyTara(f): 1:34pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
maasoap:If you say so. |
Re: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by bonnyhope: 1:55pm On Jul 10, 2023 |
Oizee: Why calling u on video Some men find joy in digging someone s wife |
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