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As a young man, just know that yuh MUST settle bills whether yuh like it or not!
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This is non negotiable! Money must come out of your pocket to foot bills!

The earlier yuh realise this, the better for yuh.... Be intentional about your life!

Yuh will become a full grown man One day and nobody is coming to take full responsibily for yuh! Nobody is coming to save yuh from yourself!

Nobody is coming to save yuh from the nagging of your wife and children!
Yuh MUST foot their bills, yuh MUST make life easy for them! Yuh MUST be a tap that runs water for the whole house!

Whether yuh bite a snake or not, when yuh step on it the snake must bite yuh!
The clock is ticking and your beards are growing! Those beards are signs!
Those beards are indirectly telling yuh it's about time!
It's about time to be ushered into the life of DEBITS!
Whether yuh plus or not, yuh must minus!
Whether yuh hustle or not, yuh must remit!
The day yuh stop remitting, yuh start loosing your home!
That's the price to pay as a man!
That's a cross to bear!
The cross will be more easier to carry if yuh start gathering momentum at a young age!
The life of chasing more than one woman at a tender age and calling it fun is a waist of energy, time and resources!

The life of drinking too much alcohol,weed and smoking is not fun but slavery....yuh are enslaving your future...

Most especially if yuh come from a home where you don't have a solid foundation laid for yuh.... Yuh must quit all life of luxury and Bend your head and start digging that foundation now that you have TIME!
Life no get pity and e no get partiality, anything yuh give am e go give yuh back!

Cut down the extravagant life and cut down unnecessary "Outings" and "Life of partying" until yuh get things right!

Be intentional about your life!
You are the man!
You are the prize!
You are the crown!

#BLAZE

blazepascal:
As a young man, just know that yuh MUST settle bills whether yuh like it or not!
,,
This is non negotiable! Money must come out of your pocket to foot bills!

The earlier yuh realise this, the better for yuh.... Be intentional about your life!

Yuh will become a full grown man One day and nobody is coming to take full responsibily for yuh! Nobody is coming to save yuh from yourself!

Nobody is coming to save yuh from the nagging of your wife and children!
Yuh MUST foot their bills, yuh MUST make life easy for them! Yuh MUST be a tap that runs water for the whole house!

Whether yuh bite a snake or not, when yuh step on it the snake must bite yuh!
The clock is ticking and your beards are growing! Those beards are signs!
Those beards are indirectly telling yuh it's about time!
It's about time to be ushered into the life of DEBITS!
Whether yuh plus or not, yuh must minus!
Whether yuh hustle or not, yuh must remit!
The day yuh stop remitting, yuh start loosing your home!
That's the price to pay as a man!
That's a cross to bear!
The cross will be more easier to carry if yuh start gathering momentum at a young age!
The life of chasing more than one woman at a tender age and calling it fun is a waist of energy, time and resources!

The life of drinking too much alcohol,weed and smoking is not fun but slavery....yuh are enslaving your future...

Most especially if yuh come from a home where you don't have a solid foundation laid for yuh.... Yuh must quit all life of luxury and Bend your head and start digging that foundation now that you have TIME!
Life no get pity and e no get partiality, anything yuh give am e go give yuh back!

Cut down the extravagant life and cut down unnecessary "Outings" and "Life of partying" until yuh get things right!

Be intentional about your life!
You are the man!
You are the prize!
You are the crown!

#BLAZE

Whoever you are, God bless you. I wish I knew this earlier in life

Hold on to God.Sometimes,life does not go how you planned it.

How can I start gathering this momentum now.... Help a brother

U ve said it all

Let me add this: as a young man, let your focus be on building yourself through making financial sacrifice and investment that will secure your future. Forget about all those nairaland girls that call men stingy, broke and all that nonsense because if you spend all you have on a girl just to prove you are not broke, the day the money finish she jumps to the next guy.

So if you are a young guy still struggling to build a future, let all the girls gather to broke-shame you, pay absolutely no attention to them, because by the time you are done building yourself, all those girls will gather and you will bend down select the one you want.

My two Kobo

Thanks for this @Op.
Insightful indeed