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Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Tunde835(m): 9:27pm On Jul 15, 2023
Getting married for men is introduction to a world of responsibilities, sex starvation, your wife potentially cheating on you, your kids eventually abandoning you at old age, nagging and if you live in the western world divorce. There are men in the western world who are sitting in jail cause they missed out on child support payments. As a man you can have children, take care of them but don't get married. There's a reason men die earlier while women who have almost no responsibilities outlive them. There is nothing you can achieve in a marriage that you can't achieve single as a man. Imagine raising someone else's child for 20 years and the wife fully knows its not your child.

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Nobody: 9:43pm On Jul 15, 2023
Tunde835:
Getting married for men is introduction to a world of responsibilities, sex starvation, your wife potentially cheating on you, your kids eventually abandoning you at old age, nagging and if you live in the western world divorce. There are men in the western world who are sitting in jail cause they missed out on child support payments. As a man you can have children, take care of them but don't get married. There's a reason men die earlier while women who have almost no responsibilities outlive them. There is nothing you can achieve in a marriage that you can't achieve single as a man. Imagine raising someone else's child for 20 years and the wife fully knows its not your child.
Na true talk be dis

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:34pm On Jul 15, 2023
Tunde835:
Getting married for men is introduction to a world of responsibilities, sex starvation, your wife potentially cheating on you, your kids eventually abandoning you at old age, nagging and if you live in the western world divorce. There are men in the western world who are sitting in jail cause they missed out on child support payments. As a man you can have children, take care of them but don't get married. There's a reason men die earlier while women who have almost no responsibilities outlive them. There is nothing you can achieve in a marriage that you can't achieve single as a man. Imagine raising someone else's child for 20 years and the wife fully knows its not your child.

sorry to be the bearer of bad news.... but all the above you mentionned can happen to you, whether you are married or not.
- you can be cheated on without being married
- your children can abandon you at old age, whether you are married to their mother or not
- women nag whether you are married to them or not
- if you miss out paying child support (even though you aint married to babymama) you will still go to jail
- you can raise a child for 20yrs (while not being married to babymama) and learn after 20yrs that the child is not yours.


marriage is irrelevant to the above facts you mentionned.

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jul 15, 2023
Tunde835 e pele my dia. Take heart. All your threads bash women. Now you decided not to marry.

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by TheFreshVanilla: 12:05am On Jul 16, 2023
Your mates are making good use of their time learning, exploring AI and making money while you are here talking rubbbiissh.

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Tunde835(m): 12:33am On Jul 16, 2023
Jazmine10:
Tunde835 e pele my dia. Take heart. All your threads bash women. Now you decided not to marry.
I only hold women accountable

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Nobody: 1:25am On Jul 16, 2023
Tunde835:
I only hold women accountable
Women this, women that. Accountable for what exactly?

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by luminouz(m): 2:57am On Jul 16, 2023
Jazmine10:
Women this, women that. Accountable for what exactly?

Keep quiet...

Address his concerns,not him

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Nobody: 3:25am On Jul 16, 2023
luminouz:


Keep quiet...

Address his concerns,not him
and what exactly were his concerns? The women world over or in Nigeria lack accountability ? undecided All these redpillers sef doing bone to bone under guise of redpill sef, mtcheew. lipsrsealed tongue

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by kalufelix(m): 5:55am On Jul 16, 2023
i don't know what year it is but marriage sounds so outdated to my ears..

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by okoroemeka(m): 6:17am On Jul 16, 2023
Tunde835:
Getting married for men is introduction to a world of responsibilities, sex starvation, your wife potentially cheating on you, your kids eventually abandoning you at old age, nagging and if you live in the western world divorce. There are men in the western world who are sitting in jail cause they missed out on child support payments. As a man you can have children, take care of them but don't get married. There's a reason men die earlier while women who have almost no responsibilities outlive them. There is nothing you can achieve in a marriage that you can't achieve single as a man. Imagine raising someone else's child for 20 years and the wife fully knows its not your child.
you will speak for yourself and ethnicity and not generalize,In my community and kindred in imo state it is unheard of and a taboo for a man not to get married,no matter the scale of your achievement in life if you are not married you will still be regarded as a child,,excluded from many activities and when you die you will be buried as a child and all your assets is owned by your brothers,95% of our men in imo state in particular get married before 40years,it is not even a matter of choice,the stress alone that comes from not marrying is not worth it in my location,also we have very beautiful women which makes marriage not a bad idea afterall

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Tunde835(m): 6:29am On Jul 16, 2023
Jazmine10:
Women this, women that. Accountable for what exactly?
You do realize that insulting is a two way street. If you start attacking me I could do the same. I'm only holding non virgin females like you accountable to protect Innocent men from being trapped in a union with someone like you who will stress them and cut their life span short

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Tunde835(m): 6:39am On Jul 16, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


sorry to be the bearer of bad news.... but all the above you mentionned can happen to you, whether you are married or not.
- you can be cheated on without being married
- your children can abandon you at old age, whether you are married to their mother or not
- women nag whether you are married to them or not
- if you miss out paying child support (even though you aint married to babymama) you will still go to jail
- you can raise a child for 20yrs (while not being married to babymama) and learn after 20yrs that the child is not yours.


marriage is irrelevant to the above facts you mentionned.
If someone cheats on you and you were not married to them she wasn't cheating on you it's different when you've paid bride price. My neighbors wife has a crush on me and been giving me green lights for years and I didn't respond to them because I feel bad for her husband. Women cheat very easily they don't even care about their marriage. No woman I'm not married to or dating can nag me

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Nonexisting1: 7:15am On Jul 16, 2023
After religion, marriage is the next biggest scam of this century. I've sworn never to domesticate the street dogs we have in this country now. If marriage hungry me too much, I'll go with a prophet to the cemetery and exhume a vaginarian of 17th century and marry. Only among the dead will you see virtuous women in this country.

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Baronthecelebri: 7:29am On Jul 16, 2023
Even me self, I'm not getting married

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by izonborn098(m): 7:35am On Jul 16, 2023
Get a single mom, take the kid for dna and live with only your kid together, let the mother go back to where she come from

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by emoboy4u: 7:36am On Jul 16, 2023
I don't know where you guys meet these kinds of women oo.

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by linearity: 7:53am On Jul 16, 2023
Tunde835:
Getting married for men is introduction to a world of responsibilities, sex starvation, your wife potentially cheating on you, your kids eventually abandoning you at old age, nagging and if you live in the western world divorce. There are men in the western world who are sitting in jail cause they missed out on child support payments. As a man you can have children, take care of them but don't get married. There's a reason men die earlier while women who have almost no responsibilities outlive them. There is nothing you can achieve in a marriage that you can't achieve single as a man. Imagine raising someone else's child for 20 years and the wife fully knows its not your child.

All your reasons against marriage and for advocating for men to be single also affect single men, every one of them:

1. Single men also have lots of responsibilities, some even more their married counterparts.
2. Single men still go through sex starvation.
3. Single men still get cheated on.
4. Single men still get abandoned by their kids, more so than married men.
5. There are single men sitting in jails today because they could not pay child support.
6. Men on average, single or married die earlier than women.
7. Single men still raise other men kids.
8. Single men still get nagged at.

So, what is your point actually?

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Nobody: 8:57am On Jul 16, 2023
Tunde835:
You do realize that insulting is a two way street. If you start attacking me I could do the same. I'm only holding non virgin females like you accountable to protect Innocent men from being trapped in a union with someone like you who will stress them and cut their life span short
Insult you? How did i insult you? Why would i do that? Back to the matter, holding non virgin females like myself accountable? So you know i am not a virgin? Now all non virgins are evil and want to stress and kill the men? And only virgins are good women?
Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Nobody: 9:00am On Jul 16, 2023
linearity:


All your reasons against marriage and for advocating for men to be single also affect single men, every one of them:

1. Single men also have lots of responsibilities, some even more their married counterparts.
2. Single men still go through sex starvation.
3. Single men still get cheated on.
4. Single men still get abandoned by their kids, more so than married men.
5. There are single men sitting in jails today because they could not pay child support.
6. Men on average, single or married die earlier than women.
7. Single men still raise other men kids.
8. Single men still get nagged at.

So, what is your point actually?
Tunde835 is heartbroken hence this post. He will come around except he wants to spend the rest of his life with a Chidi cheesy lipsrsealed tongue na play i dey play oh before pesin papa say i dey insult am wink
Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Tunde835(m): 9:14am On Jul 16, 2023
linearity:


All your reasons against marriage and for advocating for men to be single also affect single men, every one of them:

1. Single men also have lots of responsibilities, some even more their married counterparts.
2. Single men still go through sex starvation.
3. Single men still get cheated on.
4. Single men still get abandoned by their kids, more so than married men.
5. There are single men sitting in jails today because they could not pay child support.
6. Men on average, single or married die earlier than women.
7. Single men still raise other men kids.
8. Single men still get nagged at.

So, what is your point actually?
Bro you know I'm right. How many married men are happy with their marriage ten years down the line

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by descartes400: 9:23am On Jul 16, 2023
Nonexisting1:
After religion, marriage is the next biggest scam of this century. I've sworn never to domesticate the street dogs we have in this country now. If marriage hungry me too much, I'll go with a prophet to the cemetery and exhume a vaginarian of 17th century and marry. Only among the dead will you see virtuous women in this country.

grin grin weyrey
Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Tunde835(m): 9:31am On Jul 16, 2023
kalufelix:
i don't know what year it is but marriage sounds so outdated to my ears..
Marriage only benefits females that are looking for a provider after wasting their good years

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Nobody: 9:33am On Jul 16, 2023
Nonsense and finished men everywhere. I keep wondering which type of lady agrees to date all these wasted men we have around today.

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by kalufelix(m): 9:55am On Jul 16, 2023
Tunde835:
Marriage only benefits females that are looking for a provider after wasting their good years
But i thought every human being has five(5) sense organs, four(4) limbs and a single head...why will one be looking for a provider, not even a heads start but a life time provider...are they incapacitated or what? i am not understanding..
Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Tunde835(m): 10:04am On Jul 16, 2023
kalufelix:
But i thought every human being has five(5) sense organs, four(4) limbs and a single head...why will one be looking for a provider, not even a heads start but a life time provider...are they incapacitated or what? i am not understanding..
Women only care about money not love. The sad truth is the vast majority of men would never find a woman that loves them for real. Whenever a celebrity becomes very successful the only person they thank is their mother. During mothers day mothers are praised unconditionally while on father's day fathers are barely wished and they only direct to 'responsible' fathers. Mothers don't have to be categorized as responsible before being praised but men have to. If your child becomes a very famous person there's a chance only his mother would benefit from it while your child would abandon you

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by imagrg(m): 10:48am On Jul 16, 2023
Talk true...

You simply don't have enough money for a marriage ceremony.

One who cannot afford to buy antelope meat would always insinuate that antelope meat is not sweet. grin

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by luminouz(m): 11:04am On Jul 16, 2023
Jazmine10:
and what exactly were his concerns? The women world over or in Nigeria lack accountability ? undecided All these redpillers sef doing bone to bone under guise of redpill sef, mtcheew. lipsrsealed tongue
K!!
Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by luminouz(m): 11:08am On Jul 16, 2023
linearity:


All your reasons against marriage and for advocating for men to be single also affect single men, every one of them:

1. Single men also have lots of responsibilities, some even more their married counterparts.
2. Single men still go through sex starvation.
3. Single men still get cheated on.
4. Single men still get abandoned by their kids, more so than married men.
5. There are single men sitting in jails today because they could not pay child support.
6. Men on average, single or married die earlier than women.
7. Single men still raise other men kids.
8. Single men still get nagged at.

So, what is your point actually?

Lol,most of these points hold no water!!!

Be logical na!!! Yet your moniker is linearity and you can even align your points well!!!πŸ™‚πŸ™‚πŸ™‚

Let me help your life.
Points 1,4,5(at least for naija), 6,7,8 are way off the correct line.

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by luminouz(m): 11:10am On Jul 16, 2023
Tunde835:
If someone cheats on you and you were not married to them she wasn't cheating on you it's different when you've paid bride price. My neighbors wife has a crush on me and been giving me green lights for years and I didn't respond to them because I feel bad for her husband. Women cheat very easily they don't even care about their marriage. No woman I'm not married to or dating can nag me

Leave brownjay alone... Naso he dey jump enter thread like antelope with no direction

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by Khd95(m): 11:12am On Jul 16, 2023
As a man you don’t need to be married to feel fulfilled or accomplished, make money, travel the world, visit new places meet strange people and learn their cultur, attend World Cup or international games, wear nice clothes and smell sweet, drive nice cars and if you desire get someone pregnant and have your kids without marriage Wahala and limitations, They may call you unserious and what ever, but your happiness is your responsibility, marriage has outlived it importance 😎😎

This is for people who understand how manipulative women can be, as for you that doesn’t understand, you can go ahead and marry I pray it Favour you and your family

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Re: Men Need To Stop Getting Married by luminouz(m): 11:14am On Jul 16, 2023
okoroemeka:
you will speak for yourself and ethnicity and not generalize,In my community and kindred in imo state it is unheard of and a taboo for a man not to get married,no matter the scale of your achievement in life if you are not married you will still be regarded as a child,,excluded from many activities and when you die you will be buried as a child and all your assets is owned by your brothers,95% of our men in imo state in particular get married before 40years,it is not even a matter of choice,the stress alone that comes from not marrying is not worth it in my location,also we have very beautiful women which makes marriage not a bad idea afterall

Imo state? Many of your women are beautiful no doubt but very raucous and contentious. There are many ENPs among them and many are not even fit to be wifed up. Please don't assume all igboland is like imo state. Mark my words, 10 years from now, the moral decadence of olosho and yahoo boiz syndromes will shatter whatever illusion you still have about marriage in imo state.

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