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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by blueghost(m): 4:27pm On Jul 18, 2023
Abee79:


This looks like something ChatGPT would spew out grin grin grin

grin grin grin
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by phorget(m): 4:31pm On Jul 18, 2023
1st rule is to always prepare yourself for betrayals

2nd rule is to always think first of yourself before others cos the book says “love your neighbor as you love yourself”. You just have to love yourself FIRST!

3rd rule is to do the little you can do cos you wont have to burn yourself just to provide heat for others.

4th rule ...The truth is that some people are perpetual beggars so it's better you do more for those people that has the tendency to grow cos you'll stand a chance to pick up through them but those perpetual beggars will jump straight to the next available host since they are some kind of parasite.

5th rule is for you to use your sense before they use you. Some people only see you as a fool and despite them having more than you have they will still collect out of the little you are managing.

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Peterpanny: 4:32pm On Jul 18, 2023
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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by merrymike47(m): 4:32pm On Jul 18, 2023
Even Jesus was betrayed. I've been betrayed too but I never allow it really put me down, I didn't allow it change who I am, though it's not always easy but the reward of being good to others keep me going.
I now have a rule though. I won't allow you feel entitled to what I have to offer and I won't allow you manipulate me, I took time to know who the needy really are and I follow my mind in helping, no emotional blackmail. Recently I help strangers and kids the most.

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by bukkysam(f): 4:32pm On Jul 18, 2023
Can share with us the story of people you have betrayed?

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Kreddy: 4:42pm On Jul 18, 2023
INSTANTCASH345:


What do you mean?

This is real bro. Do you know how much is made in a week of trading volatilities in crypto?

I can show you someone who deposited a week ago and over $100 has claimed it



This is how CALA dubbed me of my hard earned money realized through teaching in private school.
It shall not be well with scammers

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Nobody: 4:51pm On Jul 18, 2023
I expect betrayals from my friends so i prepare how am going to react to it in advance. Betrayal can be very painful thats why you shouldnt expect so much from anybody no matter how close they are to you.
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Peterpanny: 4:59pm On Jul 18, 2023
INSTANTCASH345:


What do you mean?

This is real bro. Do you know how much is made in a week of trading volatilities in crypto?

I can show you someone who deposited a week ago and over $100 has claimed it
story story
Na the gullible people wa go enter una trap I day pity for.
If you quote me again I go report you for scamming people on this platform.

I don't know what you guys aim to achieve with this lifestyle.
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by zomby(m): 5:06pm On Jul 18, 2023
A great study case regarding close betrayal is:

Oshibajo vs Tinubu

Or

Buhari vs Tinubu

If you have an open mind and take a close look at bother scenarios, you will learn a vital lesson.

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Engrgreat: 5:18pm On Jul 18, 2023
Everybody done suddenly turn victim of betrayal. Who come be the betrayer?

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by ebuka10box(m): 5:45pm On Jul 18, 2023
Gagare1:
Mine is too painful to recount. But I'll try.

I was betrayed by my blood brother (elder) with whom I shared my business plans, not knowing that he was making his own calculations on how to snatch the business from me.

He convinced me to borrow money from our parents and add to mine, thereby making the family have a say in it. Then he used our family to force my hands into letting him manage the business with me. He ruined the business and I lost everything.

Six years now, I am still struggling to recover even a fraction of what I used to be worth. No apology came from him or anyone.

I noticed that, even the little progress I am struggling to make doesn't go down well with him. This was a guy I was helping out with cash and what not, not knowing that he was not okay with his younger brother doing better than him. I found out the hard way.


Beware of siblings.
bro ur case is similar to mine , I lost both parents and became head of my family 2 years back, I've done everything out of love,risked my finances without saving for same family, took loans and done other things I wouldn't do cos of family. Sometime this year ,I had an argument with my younger bro .
He teamed up with my younger sis and claimed I've done nothing for them , Ive decided not to spend a dime on them . Make God judge them

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Gagare1(m): 5:49pm On Jul 18, 2023
ebuka10box:
bro ur case is similar to mine , I lost both parents and became head of my family 2 years back, I've done everything out of love,risked my finances without saving for same family, took loans and done other things I wouldn't do cos of family. Sometime this year ,I had an argument with my younger bro .
He teamed up with my younger sis and claimed I've done nothing for them , Ive decided not to spend a dime on them . Make God judge them

Sad.
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by cassyrooy(m): 6:15pm On Jul 18, 2023
Gagare1:
Mine is too painful to recount. But I'll try.

I was betrayed by my blood brother (elder) with whom I shared my business plans, not knowing that he was making his own calculations on how to snatch the business from me.

He convinced me to borrow money from our parents and add to mine, thereby making the family have a say in it. Then he used our family to force my hands into letting him manage the business with me. He ruined the business and I lost everything.

Six years now, I am still struggling to recover even a fraction of what I used to be worth. No apology came from him or anyone.

I noticed that, even the little progress I am struggling to make doesn't go down well with him. This was a guy I was helping out with cash and what not, not knowing that he was not okay with his younger brother doing better than him. I found out the hard way.


Beware of siblings.
I understand.

You trusted him by default, and he played you into his hands through family authority but for his own selfish interests.

Next time, watch him closely and sabotage him before he can make any moves that will thwart your plans in life.

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Nasri100(m): 6:15pm On Jul 18, 2023
ebuka10box:
bro ur case is similar to mine , I lost both parents and became head of my family 2 years back, I've done everything out of love,risked my finances without saving for same family, took loans and done other things I wouldn't do cos of family. Sometime this year ,I had an argument with my younger bro .
He teamed up with my younger sis and claimed I've done nothing for them , Ive decided not to spend a dime on them . Make God judge them

I am surprised this shit is happening between blood siblings embarassed

I am sorry my bro.

They are even lucky you played a role. Some elder ones don't do jack shit and funny thing is they end up respecting that person when they do the least of things.

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Exceed15: 6:27pm On Jul 18, 2023
I have been there and it was tough forgiving. One day while I was praying about it , I heard "Sometimes God allows the depth of hurt to test your height of forgiveness.

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Peterpanny: 6:36pm On Jul 18, 2023
INSTANTCASH345:


You are a fool to think everyone you see and ads run here are for scam.

Just read and go if you are not interested 😉. After all,no one force you to comment.

Check my history,I am freelancer,crypto trader and farmer. If you don't know something,get clearance on how it works.

I have properties earned from trading and freelancing. Your type don't even have a tire of a car let alone having a house and you will come here insulting and generalising someone who is more than you.

Instead of you to humble and ask how it's achieved,you are here gnashing your dirty teeth.
CALA agent,you are a local thieve.stupeed rabbit.
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Peterpanny: 6:38pm On Jul 18, 2023
INSTANTCASH345:


You are a fool to think everyone you see and ads run here are for scam.

Just read and go if you are not interested 😉. After all,no one force you to comment.

Check my history,I am freelancer,crypto trader and farmer. If you don't know something,get clearance on how it works.

I have properties earned from trading and freelancing. Your type don't even have a tire of a car let alone having a house and you will come here insulting and generalising someone who is more than you.

Instead of you to humble and ask how it's achieved,you are here gnashing your dirty teeth.
go and introduce it to your family members or your village people or your family members no need the $100.

Ozuow.
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by TheBillyonaire: 6:54pm On Jul 18, 2023
Betrayal is a built-in functiion in the universe. How you respond to it determines your scores. Settle your scores better and you become a corner piece in the prime matrix.

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Chidolalar: 6:57pm On Jul 18, 2023
All man to him or herself.
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by olisamax(m): 7:02pm On Jul 18, 2023
one is have learnt about life,do your best and leave the rest.
love yourself
make yourself a top priority
live the best of your life without minding the opinions of others
thank me later.

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Gagare1(m): 7:04pm On Jul 18, 2023
cassyrooy:
I understand.

You trusted him by default, and he played you into his hands through family authority but for his own selfish interests.

Next time, watch him closely and sabotage him before he can make any moves that will thwart your plans in life.

I simply withdrew from him and vowed NEVER to join my money with family money for business. I also prefer to borrow elsewhere than from family.

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Gagare1(m): 7:36pm On Jul 18, 2023
RedPiller:
Ashe makashinka nna nan tare dakai.....

Munafukinka na gindinka.....


As said by Hausa

Wannan magana haka take.

Ina gaisuwa!!!
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by IketownNigeria: 7:53pm On Jul 18, 2023
You can’t betray me because I be Lone Ranger , I no send anybody, I see you from a mile away , and I think carefully before doing things , I give no room for betrayal because I’m close to no one ,blood or water

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jul 18, 2023
Peterpanny:
go and introduce it to your family members or your village people or your family members no need the $100.

Ozuow.

I have gone through your username and found you are a kid from the trench looking at the way you reply people on NL and there is no need dragging with you.

Me and you no be mate. Get off my mention ,learn a trade and be busy not quoting everybody on NL to pass your stupidity. Mumu 👦
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by fineberry(m): 8:39pm On Jul 18, 2023
Me oo, by my nature I'm always ready for any betrayal, bcus I don't trust anybody God knows I don't care whether u fall my hand or not.

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Nappyhair: 8:41pm On Jul 18, 2023
bukkysam:
Can share with us the story of people you have betrayed?

Lol, if I hear, it’s just like when that video of Joyner Lucas and rotimi’s song titled broski dropped, a song about a friend’s betrayal, entitlement and the likes, every guy in the comment session was saying they’ve had someone like that , nobody admitted of ever being one themselves

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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by delishpot: 9:03pm On Jul 18, 2023
Family betrayal. The hurt can tear down the strongest of hearts. Pray and work towards rising again. Learn your lesson and don't fall.
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by NoToPile: 10:01pm On Jul 18, 2023
Learnt long time ago that family and money /business do not mix

Sibling rivalry is real and it extends to their children as cousins.
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by bukkysam(f): 10:19pm On Jul 18, 2023
Nappyhair:


Lol, if I hear, it’s just like when that video of Joyner Lucas and rotimi’s song titled broski dropped, a song about a friend’s betrayal, entitlement and the likes, every guy in the comment session was saying they’ve had someone like that , nobody admitted of ever being one themselves
That is life for us
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by dedoz: 11:14pm On Jul 18, 2023
I suffered the worst betrayal ever some months ago...I never saw it coming....chai!! I trusted too much...Trust no one....I am still yet to recover fully from it.

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