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Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Ed12(m): 5:29am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Betrayal from siblings are the worst in my opinion... My very good found out almost a year after that Thier eldest son have sold their Inheritance.. They both live in the same city, not too far from each other. But the guy sold the house said nothing about it.. According to him, he never believed he could that, and funny thing was that they are only getting back to talking terms because this his brother sold the new generator the my friend bought and keep at his place. When it was time to go and carry the gen, his brother said he had sold.. guy called me and spoke about the gen stuff to me, he was very angry but I was calming him to just take it easy with him, that it's God will . Not Knowing that the brother has already sold the inheritance before the gen saga sef.. He received a called one day from their paternal uncle accusing him that they have sold their fathers house without knowledge of the family.. sold what!! him exclaimed back. He called his elder brother and the dude said it's true that he had sold the house.. my guy was very perplexed, He felt betrayed, honestly In his voice.. It's not even about, it is the bad and betrayal attitude that is brother is displaying that making him angry. The day he narrated everything to me, I weak. 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Creativity22: 7:19am On Jul 19, 2023 |
zomby:Rubbish. A great example of betrayal is between nigerians that voted for mr buhari in 2015 and nigerians |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Xammie001(m): 7:52am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Gagare1: SORRY BROTHER THAT'S WHY I DON'T LOOSEGUARD AROUND ANYBODY, I DON'T TRUST ANYONE NOT EVEN MY MOTHER,I DON'T TAKE ANY FORM OF SHIT FROM ANY ANGLE AND I MOSTLY KEEP MY THINGS TO MYSELF AS IDAN. I HAD TO FIGHT WITH MY MOM FOR MONTHS BECAUSE SHE BETRAYED ME AT THE EXPENSE OF MY LIFE |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Gagare1(m): 8:02am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Xammie001: Your Mom betraying you and putting your life in danger? Omo, your own pass my own oh. Hard luck. But las las, we go dey okay. 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Xammie001(m): 8:07am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Gagare1: OMOOR LAST YEAR WORSE FOR ME TILL I PACK HER ONE SIDE AND MADE HER SEE WHAT SHE DID BECAUSE IT BACKFIRED AND SHE REGRETTED AND STILL REGRETTING BUT WE THANK GOD FOR LIFE 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Dwightventures(m): 8:26am On Jul 19, 2023 |
Betrayals exist because society doesn't punish it adequately. The penalty for Treason is Death, that's why coups don't happen everyday and if it does and fails, you MUST face that death. Go and ask Mamman Vatsa. It is a measure of a failed society that those of us who follow this principle are the ones punished by society for being "unforgiving". Foolish people! |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Lance008(m): 12:16pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Drbarmes:Bro Omo it's shocking truth am still shocked how will someone hate his helper To help they fear me now 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by EmmyMaestro(m): 12:54pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
slawomir:And they will want you to keep sacrificing for them and some behave like like it is their right. |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Austriaopen(m): 1:03pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Peterpanny: You have no manners and decorum. Why coming online to form nuisance? Have you seen the guy commit any fraud or scam before? Why are you so pained? What’s your business with him or he collect your gf? Go and meet those who scammed you or those have hurt you and stop trolling. The person you Dey quote now and Dey bully online,so you think he can’t track you? How some kids behave here amaze me so much. |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Peterpanny: 1:13pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Austriaopen:you have switch to your alternate account,if you guys do not change and amend your ways,you will die a slow and painful death,you are very comfortable ripping people off and you think it will be well with you.your death will slow painful and pathetic. $1000 kee you dia. Useless CALA agent. Ozour. |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Drbarmes(m): 2:47pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Lance008:and if u no help na another wahala |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Lance008(m): 3:02pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Drbarmes:Bro if u no help for this present generation u are free from problem than to help You can continue helping a friend that need help and he will accuse u of using his destiny No joke 1 Like |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Dimaya: 5:34pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Lance008: This is some hard stuff. You need to watch that video |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by 1forall: 6:56pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
Long story. My eldest brother unjustifiably continues to make himself my enemy because such situation pays his pocket. He has more or less fractured what's left of our family, after losing two siblings and our mum. He has also succeeded in sowing seeds of hatred against me into our only other brother who's been resident outside the country for ages - they're closer in age than I am with them, and the guy abroad himself apparently had historical beef with me of which I was oblivious, until lately - so it was easy for him to believe the lies, misrepresentations and mischaracterizations. Now that we've lost two siblings over the years, and our mum passed away more recently, you would have thought such experiences would bring us closer together, but rather it's torn us apart because of inheritance, greed and self-aggrandisement. However, the situation pays him because - if we're not on terms it allows him to continue to run things without question, because the abroad guy doesn't really know what's up. Enough said. 2 Likes |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Lance008(m): 7:05am On Jul 20, 2023 |
Dimaya:Am only saying this due to my real life experience and not a video Have helped someone to be strong eventually I went a bit broke and went back home from city u believe say those people am helping at the village no even fit go my message talk less of helping me |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Zigzagman: 11:38am On Jul 21, 2023 |
Lance008: so sad |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by ideamonster: 12:25pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
janeedema: how could you tell? |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by pansophist(m): 1:40pm On Jul 21, 2023 |
Betrayal will hurt you less if you understand human nature. If you betray me for example, I will just be pissed off why you didn't do it earlier. Why waste my time investing in this sinking ship called friendship/relationship? On the good side, what do you want? An enemy disguised as friends because uncovering their betrayal will be heartbreaking, or to just see the cold hard fact of what people are? One thing you must know is that human operations are guided by their self-interest, and if their interest conflicts with their moral obligation towards you, they will always choose themselves. Make peace with the above fact, and peace shall be with you. But one thing you must do to avoid the chance of betrayal and even if it happens, it won't hurt is to depend on yourself in every area that matters. If God regretted after creating humans, what more you? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Lance008(m): 6:18am On Jul 22, 2023 |
Zigzagman:The most shocking part be say the family member I helped to the city left me and follow another person mak I introduced am to When everything red for me I pack my things and left the city, the guy I introduced him to also introduced him to business that made him a bit rich This my family member no look my face at all the guy have lost his life from an outing Dey went to in one of the Africa country up till date family no see him corpse even if dem see dem no get money tak carry am come house Life Na Sense |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by ideamonster: 8:26pm On Jul 22, 2023 |
No truer words have been spoken here today. Very true. |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by NOETHNICITY(m): 5:06pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
pansophist:Regret is a human trait. And since God isn’t human then it is not possible that He makes mistakes. In my religion we believe that God is omniscient - the ‘all-knowing’. |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by Dimaya: 8:43pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
NOETHNICITY: Some betrayals are needed. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by pansophist(m): 11:45pm On Jul 23, 2023 |
NOETHNICITY: Man, na pastor you go ask that one o. I know God regretted creating not just humans, but every living thing. (Genesis 6.6-7). But to harmonize being omniscient and regretful, I don't know how bible scholars will do it. This was the point one atheist was using to argue with me, and I honestly do not have a rebuttal. He always says that if God knows everything, why create evil people, or why make evil a possibility in the first place? You (God) created evil, you now created hellfire to punish those that used evil to realize their goal? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How To Handle Close Betrayal From Close Family Members [like A BOSS] by ideamonster: 8:16pm On Aug 24, 2023 |
Zigzagman: accept the inevitability of life |
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