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I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Fuckallmods: 11:56am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Good day… First of all, my friends aren’t saint… they’re not the most good looking, nor the richest, but I feel very comfortable with the kind of friends I keep. Im not perfect either. Also, my girlfriend is very loving, like, she calls me more than I do her, and even wants to spend on me which I deny most times. But the saying: “you can only be sure of the love you give, not what you receive” always kicks in and I’m also ready to love her to the moon and back. Now this is the problem: My friends are into tech. like we’re all into tech, and you’ll agree with me that at some time we should have a meet up and spend time together, developing a concept or designing a system. My babe would always say she doesn’t like this person or that out of my crew and she wouldn’t give any credible reason when I ask. I got to find out from her after a while that one of my friends made advances towards her before I met her… that’s probably why she’s uncomfortable towards him. But what of the rest? Why doesn’t she like them? It’s even worse that she invites me over to her place and all or most of her friends are there. Meaning, she wants me to relate with her friends, but she hates mine. And did I mention how most of my acquaintances and colleagues know who my babe is, or they’ve had an encounter at least once? Im confused guys, I’ve started giving her space for now. I want to break up, but I don’t want a situation of later regrets… please help 1 Like |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by ThatrealestApex: 11:58am On Jul 26, 2023 |
Without any tangible reason(s)? She's beginning to measure you to know what you can tolerate or not. She's the kind of Girlfriend that'll hate your family members, wouldn't like them to visit, But would want you to be very comfortable with hers. Try doing same to her by telling her to cut-off some of her friends that you simply don't like them too and you'd be shocked of her response/reaction She's already beginning to dictate to you who to be in your life or not. It won't end here, the ball is in your court, 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Nobody: 12:07pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Small issue breakup mtcheww. Go and cheat in peace and stop stressing yourself unnecessarily. Shebi you've had sex with her, it's the reason you making this quick decision of breaking up else you would have still stuck no matter the shege she's showing you. I didn't lie with this comment, it's the bitter truth |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by nnadychuks(m): 12:07pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
How useful is your babe compared to your friends? 7 Likes |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Offpointng: 12:08pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
AJS used to say Humans are God's greatest assets cuz he uses them for his own Glory. and if God will bless you, he'll use humans. Now you have a career and these people are helping your career and also helping you grow and it's not as if they're making you go wayward, now someone wants to detach you from them, if you ask me, those are the antics and nature of "A Witch" and the Bible says "Suffer not a Witch to live." OP you know what to do 4 Likes |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Fuckallmods: 12:14pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
IconicR:Hmm not everyone wants to cheat… I have Few female friends which bothers my babe, but they’re either just friends or colleagues… If I want to have several women at my disposal, that wouldn’t be a problem for me. I needed something real, cos I wouldn’t want to develop the habit now and continue to adultery. I don’t know how she’ll react if she gets to meet my siblings, that’s if I finally want to tie the knot… I just can’t tolerate the attitude of having someone who can’t bear the presence of my friends 1 Like |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Offpointng: 12:17pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
IconicR: Can you read at all 5 Likes |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Fuckallmods: 12:18pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ThatrealestApex:I was thinking she might have a problem with my siblings too if I take things far… but should I really tell her to cut off her friends? |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Fuckallmods:Is her attitude towards all your friends or just a particular one? If it's all your friends then talk to her about it and tell her where you stand but if it's about just a particular one then she must have her reasons and it shouldn't warrant a breakup. The way you people are quick to break a relationship/marriage these days is worrisome |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Fuckallmods: 12:24pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Offpointng:I’m getting emotional lol… breaking up is really difficult, especially for what we’ve shared |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by brain54(m): 12:26pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ThatrealestApex:You are right… She is just gauging him. She might turn out to be a control freak. My advice to OP is don’t break up with her if that is her only fault. If she feels uncomfortable then let her do the breaking. But don’t bulge either by submitting to her will. And make it clear you won’t succumb. By being firm. Don’t start what you cannot finish… except you be finidi. Disclaimer: I am no relationship expert. My advice… your risk! 6 Likes |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by ipobarecriminals: 12:26pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Nonsense ! Your friends can make or mar you. She already told you to be careful of this/that but u are here threatening hell/brimstone. Bia ! If u leave her,she'll get a listening guy to marry 1 Like |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Fuckallmods: 12:27pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
IconicR:it’s not just one of my friend she has a problem with, it’s just she has a reason for one of them… so what’s your honest advise, cos I’ve spoken with her regarding this countless time. Her attitude towards them still won’t change |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Fuckallmods:There's always a good and bad side in every human, it's best to know the bad side and see if it's something you can cope with, so weigh your options and take your decisions. Men/women who are truly good and not faking it are not much in this world again. What guarantee do you have that the next person won't come with her own wahala. |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Offpointng: 1:19pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Fuckallmods: I'm not actually asking you to break up with her but you gotta make sure you put yourself in a place no lady can't just be deciding for you what to do. be firm and make your stand known to her that she can't decide who to be and who's not to be your friend From the look of things, you seem to be a gentle and a quiet typa guy 1 Like |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Sonnobax15(m): 2:31pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
First orientation matters alot..... The first orientation I instilled on my banny when we first met was that--"She must respect my friends,as much as she respects me and my family members". That's if she wants our relationship to grow,she mustn't depart from it,and of course, I'll equally respect hers too..... And trust me,it's been going well between us..... 3 Likes |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 2:38pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Is her toto still tight? Your answer to this question will determine my advise to you |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by anthonyuncle(m): 2:55pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
RED FLAG |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by zed7: 3:33pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
If you want to have a smooth relationship, better keep your relationship away from all your friends. Only your inner circle should have any business with your partner. Any sensible person shouldn't have more than 3 people in their inner circle. It's kids who take their partners around to meet every acquaintance. |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Fuckallmods: 5:16pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Offpointng:You don’t understand… I’ve made it clear that she can’t have a say towards the kind of friends I keep. It’s non negotiable… when she decides to neglect everything I say do I raise my hands on her? She’s not yet a wife, yet she won’t even let me relate with my friends like I want to… I’ve done everything within my power, to no avail… I really don’t understand what u mean by gentle… but if gentle is someone that doesn’t raise his voice or beat his woman, then I’m gentle 1 Like |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Fuckallmods: 5:19pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Sonnobax15:congrats my gee… people wish for what you have and I respect the first impression u instilled on her. Im taking notes |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Savedday2: 5:22pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
When a 9ja girl is behaving dramatic, know that there is something she is up to. I believe one of your guy have knack her or have seen her in a way she doesn't want you to know. Hence she fear her secret will be out. Or You know 9ja girls are all ashawo, she may be having eyes for some of your friends and she is afraid she may lose guard. Let me tell you the truth, most times when she meet some of your guys, her kpekus do raise, if you are very observant, you will notice. 1 Like |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by nnadychuks(m): 5:25pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
zed7:so as I get babe na make I discard all my friends Abi? |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by stacyadams: 6:12pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Fuckallmods: This one don carry olosho do girl friend..kontinue |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Offpointng: 6:13pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Fuckallmods: I can see that this gentle of a thing is giving you some issues take a chill pill here bro cuz obviously you can't raise your hand on someone who don't like your friends but I'm simply saying you create some standard, if that standard is in place you shouldn't be having this problem. 1 Like |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by richidinho(m): 6:21pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Savedday2: God bless you reaaaaaaal good, it is what it is....you are the real niggar bro✌ |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Karlifate: 6:59pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
ThatrealestApex: Exactly! 💯 |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Fuckallmods: 8:34pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
anthonyuncle:what’s that |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by obinna58(m): 8:42pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
What’s her attitude like towards your friends? |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by WeirdAlien: 10:16pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
When a woman wants to deal with you. The first step is to isolate you from your friends. Your family comes up second. After that your idiot meter will go off the scale! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by MrColdsweat: 10:21pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
It's a trap. You cut your friends off, you become emotionally dependent on her and you become blind to everything. When she leaves you will be emotionally destabilized. 1 Like |
Re: I Might Break Up; She Hates My Friends by Khd95(m): 11:15pm On Jul 26, 2023 |
Dem dey set traps for you This was how a girl told me that if we date she was going to take me away from my friends both male and female, that she won’t let them be too comfortable around me until they get the drill that she doesn’t want her man’s atte stain divided I told her straight up I am not an object to be taken just like that by anyone for no reason, she better drop such crazy idea or she would be the one to be dropped, because these are friends I have know for a long time and have impacted in my life in different ways and you now want to separate me and them, bexause of pussy,Dey play So op stand your ground and not let her remove you from your guys oo, even if I get betrayed by my fellow guy I still feel more comfortable to relate with him again in a guy man level, but if a girl betray me, that’s the end of it, so your real guy are the one oo, the girl may meet another man she consider better than you and dump you without thinking twice, but most times your guys, especially the ones you make money with, share productive times with etc won’t dump you, give your self brain 4 Likes |
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