My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, I made plans to prepare her and put her in school, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left.
Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime? We both thought we are adults capable of making our choices.

This matter strong sha, lets wait for the elders..

Efna55:
This matter strong sha, lets wait for the elders..

The Elders are not coming cos the matter is a cock and bull story.

What you're facing is an ice drop compare to what you will face if that girl eventually dies I. Your custody when you've not officially asked her hands in marriage.

Your own adulescence stage of misbehaving came late. I supposed at your age, you don't know what you're doing but you are thinking that you're an adult to kidnap someone's daughter and be molesting her in the name of loving her.

I hope you'll accept this, if someone does it to your own daughter.

Court marriage'''
18 and 19years'''
People dey play for this country sha'''
Sha ur story is emotional' take heart and try ur best to give the girl space for now'' those are normal stuffs i have face this ur kind of problem twice but i was not arrested and beaten.

Her mother never want her to follow a yahoo boy like you.


Oya prove me wrong that you’re not living on fraud let me bless you with some prayer 🙏 kiddo

Tyg3rFvry:
My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, I made plans to prepare her and put her in school, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left.
Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime? We both thought we are adults capable of making our choices.

Go to Google look for the police PRO in ABUJA
REPORT the case to him via twitter with the police station located also tag some Nigerian Celebrities.
Then go and lay a complain to ur state head command with evidence.
U will see how the police will beg u

As long as u both are more than 18 years she can stay anywhere she wishes.
Report those Bastard cops who only know how to intimidate unharmed civilians.
Also get a lawyer sue the Bastard DPO

You camped a lady whom you haven't paid her bride price in your room all in the name of love? Dem no beat you well well

If you are a yahoo boy, you better let it slide and avoid the police, but if you earn legitimately, then drag their f*cking *ss

See ur mouth like fiancee,..okpo

Ornye: de kwa la

Oparni use your head anya oooo

First you no try but na love cause am.

Go and take care of your mum make her happy for what you just let her pass through.

It's clear even to the blind that...

You've not been good in the neighborhood for them to do all these to you and nobody raise an eyebrow.

If you've been good even police for lock those vigi wey come beat you.

You're probably doing Yahoo and the lie wey make them mend you be say you don jazz her for ritual purpose.

Don't push your luck, find another girl to love there are many girls out there.

you and i know why I dey tell you ooo.

However, if you do like say you too stubborn and want to follow up.

Here's what will happen.

Them go turn you to office or police make you scapegoat for trying to take Bread from their mouth.

na you carry your hand go find trouble

Tyg3rFvry:
My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, I made plans to prepare her and put her in school, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left.
Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime? We both thought we are adults capable of making our choices.

LAMBA.

Are you related to Peter Obi because you can lie for Africa

JASONjnr:
What you're facing is an ice drop compare to what you will face if that girl eventually dies I. Your custody when you've not officially asked her hands in marriage.

Your own adulescence stage of misbehaving came late. I supposed at your age, you don't know what you're doing but you are thinking that you're an adult to kidnap someone's daughter and be molesting her in the name of loving her.

I hope you'll accept this, if someone does it to your own daughter.

James Ibori (the thief) slave...

Tyg3rFvry:
My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, I made plans to prepare her and put her in school, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left.
Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime? We both thought we are adults capable of making our choices.

You are being harassed unjustly. You were also robbed. Talk to a lawyer who is a human rights activist. Sue.

Just get money and na she go bring her daughter come back...

it was not wise to take her in without talks with her family. Well many african cultures have tradition of beating or flogging a prospective groom so take it as a similar test if you still wanna go on with her. Do it right visit her parents , apologise and go ahead, I hope you are ready financially, lol me that I'm twice your age I never marry yet, God dey

There's a proper way to do things, Uno fit just carry person 19 year old daughter without consent and talks

Nigha,if that banny's mom say her daughter shouldn't leave with you, it'd be for your own good to let her go now.......Cuz, should anything happen to her,they have every right to nail you with a murderer case.......Even right now,they can even nail down that you kidnapped their daughter and you will go to jail for it.......

Not all helps should be rendered....... you won't understand now,but with time,I believe you will....... LET THAT BANNY GO NOW...

Crystallon:
You camped a lady whom you haven't paid her bride price in your room all in the name of love? Dem no beat you well well

He did no wrong. It's not his fault you are unloved

LordBillionz:

He did no wrong. It's not his fault you are unloved

. No worry,make that banny quench under his roof first,na then you go know whether "he did no wrong" or not....

What a pity!

So you suffer all these for kpekus?

If you like, use your mother, father to do sacrifice, a time will come when she will ask you "what have you ever done for me?"

Infact, get ready for more trouble!

Am crying for you!

What value can a liability add to you life, to warrant sacrificing the life of your family?

JASONjnr:
What you're facing is an ice drop compare to what you will face if that girl eventually dies I. Your custody when you've not officially asked her hands in marriage.

Your own adulescence stage of misbehaving came late. I supposed at your age, you don't know what you're doing but you are thinking that you're an adult to kidnap someone's daughter and be molesting her in the name of loving her.


I hope you'll accept this, if someone does it to your own daughter.

Don't you know the meaning of Kidnapping and molesting? If you do you won't say these on your write-up.


We need to introduce legal education at least in the secondary school level. A lot of adults in Nigeria don't know the basics as regards age of consent as well as what consent means in the act of sex making.

The OP neither kidnapped nor molested the girl in question because she is an adult and consented to having sex and has the sole right to determine where she wants to live. If she was less than the age of consent then the guy needs permission to harbour her at his abode.


Critical thinking skills should be put on the line at all times. People like you will convict innocent people as been guilty of an offense they never committed.

If this assertion was made in real life, a libel suit can be thrown at you

Tyg3rFvry:
My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, I made plans to prepare her and put her in school, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left.
Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime? We both thought we are adults capable of making our choices.

Hope it's not a case of molestation, or kidnapping.. I think the woman was pained because u wanna hijack her daughter from her untimely though I ddnt support the way they wiped u and also destroy ur properties. I can give u Assistant Supritendent of police Muyiwa Adejobi official phone no. If ur hands is so pure on ds case make u report all wat happened to him.

I know you did wrong by taking in their daughter without consent, but what they did is not right too. And as the police have introduced violence, you should also do same. Go visit any military personnel you know or go on the road and beg those ones that stay at checkpoints for help. You can visit the closest military barracks and if possible cry to show the extent of harm done to you, even show them your wounds too. Give them some money, they will follow you to those vigilante and police station to recover your properties plus possible damages.

After this please return the girl to her parents and do the right thing should you feel you still want to go on with her. But I will advise you severe ties with her and focus on your life, you are too young to enter the trap called marriage.

Tyg3rFvry:
My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, I made plans to prepare her and put her in school, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left.
Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime? We both thought we are adults capable of making our choices.

Do you understand what it means to be an adult? Do you know what is called "Parental Responsibility and when it ends?

A couple have parental responsibility for their child ( feed, educate, love, care, make decisions on behalf of the child). On the 18th date of birth, that child stops being a child and becomes an adult ( male or female), able to make their own decisions as to where they will live and who they will live with. That adult may or may not consult her parents . She may decide to sever ties with her parents. It is her right to go live wherever she wants and with whomsoever she wants.

Nigeria is mainly an illiterate society where even those who can read and write ( however well) do not have a grasp of the meaning of these terms. It has caused a lot of problems, including death and will continue to do so, until each KNOWLEDGEABLE individual enforces their rights.

It is not surprising what the Police did. The Nigeria Police is the paramilitary arm of the Organised Crime Group called Federal Government of Nigeria. It has been like that for the last thirty years.

Let's start educating ourselves on these things. They are part of the reasons why rain has been pouring on that country relentlessly, without let up.

Sablexxxtoons:
it was not wise to take her in without talks with her family. Well many african cultures have tradition of beating or flogging a prospective groom so take it as a similar test if you still wanna go on with her. Do it right visit her parents , apologise and go ahead, I hope you are ready financially, lol me that I'm twice your age I never marry yet, God dey

There's a proper way to do things, Uno fit just carry person 19 year old daughter without consent and talks

ExudeLoveToAll:




Don't you know the meaning of Kidnapping and molesting? If you do you won't say these on your write-up.


We need to introduce legal education at least in the secondary school level. A lot of adults in Nigeria don't know the basics as regards age of consent as well as what consent means in the act of sex making.

The OP neither kidnapped nor molested the girl in question because she is an adult and consented to having sex and has the sole right to determine where she wants to live. If she was less than the age of consent then the guy needs permission to harbour her at his abode.


Critical thinking skills should be put on the line at all times. People like you will convict innocent people as been guilty of an offense they never committed.

If this assertion was made in real life, a libel suit can be thrown at you

Don't mind them. They even ignored the fact that the girl is still being physically abused at home at that age. Who does that?

Stop saying what is manifestly untrue under Nigerian law. He did not do any wrong by taking in an adult. He does not need to consult with her parents or siblings or any one else.

In a country where human beings live, all of the policemen involved will be fired and prosecuted and the girl's mother or whoever invaded their home will be prosecuted. These are some of the fundamental lack of understanding of the legal status and rights of individuals which is holding that country back.

Let's try and research things before we make statements that seem to be authoritative. it is not right to simply make a statement out of the air.

SUPERPACK:
I know you did wrong by taking in their daughter without consent, but what they did is not right too. And as the police have introduced violence, you should also do same. Go visit any military personnel you know or go on the road and beg those ones that stay at checkpoints for help. You can visit the closest military barracks and if possible cry to show the extent of harm done to you, even show them your wounds too. Give them some money, they will follow you to those vigilante and police station to recover your properties plus possible damages.

After this please return the girl to her parents and do the right thing should you feel you still want to go on with her. But I will advise you severe ties with her and focus on your life, you are too young to enter the trap called marriage.

Wow

Tyg3rFvry:
My 18 year old fiancee (turning 19 in October), after constantly receiving physical abuses at home and no intention from her divorced parents to take her education serious, informed them she was leaving then she moved in with me voluntary on her own will, I am just a year older than her, I am 19 and turning 20 soon, I already proposed to her which she accepted earlier this year and she proposed the idea of court marriage to me, I made plans to prepare her and put her in school, we lived comfortably and fine without problems until her mother brought vigilantes to my residence, they beat me up with metals, heavy log of wood, they forced their way into my room took my two laptops, phone and tab, took my apple airpods pro, tore my shirt and paraded me on the streets like a criminal, threatened me with weapons and violence to unlock my phone, my mother and I were locked in a police cell for more than 24 hours, paid a lot of money as bail before we left.
Police kept beating my fiancee to reduce her age while writing her statement because her mother whom often abused her wanted to make a case to put me in prison. My fiancee was slapped by police officer and forced to make untrue statements but she didn't give in. My fiancee cried that she wanted to continually stay with me but she received beating for saying it, she cried and later revealed to me that a policeman attempted to rape her at the counter after sending out a junior officer, she even said the man was masturbating and cum. At the end of the day my left ear is blown and I can't hear from it, police forced me to write an undertaking to call off my relationship before letting me go on bail. My mother is not feeling fine after spending time in cell for what is not her business, Did I do any wrong allowing a lady who will be turning 19 soon come live in my residence out of her own free will? Is love a crime? We both thought we are adults capable of making our choices.

So how are u faring now?

NemoDatQuod:
Stop saying what is manifestly untrue under Nigerian law. He did not do any wrong by taking in an adult. He does not need to consult with her parents or siblings or any one else.

In a country where human beings live, all of the policemen involved will be fired and prosecuted and the girl's mother or whoever invaded their home will be prosecuted. These are some of the fundamental lack of understanding of the legal status and rights of individuals which is holding that country back.

Let's try and research things before we make statements that seem to be authoritative. it is not right to simply make a statement out of the air.

Okay let's assume you are right. Should this guy in question get her pregnant and decide not to take responsibility won't she return home to seek shelter under her parents? All the parents are fighting for is a better ending for their child. Will you take her in when the boy and the Nigerian society deny her in future?