| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Karleb(m): 12:50pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
As long as they are not feeding you, they can shove their opinions up their asses.
Just do your thing and ignore them. Na their children dey worse pass. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Daxray07(m): 12:50pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Next time just ask her politely, "Neighbor oh abeg no vex have you been to heaven before? How do you know the kind of hair they do there? Where in the bible is It mentioned that braiding my hair will disqualify me from heavenly race? Do you know if I'm even tired of the race sef? Are you the race referee? Where is your whistle? Do you know that judging people is a sin and that You just sinned by judging me on how I wear my hair? Do you know that Samson in the bible had a braided hair? What if I'm a descendant of Samson?"
Be staring straight into her eyes while asking her these questions and trust me that would be the last time she'll caution you again. 1 Like |
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| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by mabea: 12:52pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
I like her message but I don't like her style though.
Just let her know how much you appreciate and enjoy her preaching. I can assure you she won't bother you again. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by enemyofprogress: 12:53pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Tell her your piece of mind and end it by telling her to fok off. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Solsix(m): 12:53pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
BarrElChapo:
Keep giving her the opportunity for her two minutes of fame, If you don’t want be rude by walking out in her Walking out won't be enough for those kind of people, giving them serious warning helps reset her brain 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Redman44(m): 12:59pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Tell her you like her a lot  . And look deeply into her eyes. She will start avoiding you. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by ibinaboonline: 12:59pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Very funny. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by koxi: 1:00pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.
My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.
Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.
Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.
How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that? Oga/madam, I Dey even vex for you. That fact that you stood there all that time to listen to all that crap is even worse. Like you said, self-improvement starts with you and your total outward appearance counts. You don’t need validation from anyone. You don’t need the opinions of others, good or bad. You only need to keep being you (in a good way though). So you have my vote, next time, simply walk away. It will send the message. You don’t have to say anything |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by happney65: 1:02pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Fvck her
Her body go calm down
Don't know wetin concern her. Rubbish |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Nnecky(f): 1:03pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
GloriousGbola:
See as religious fanatics don flood the thread.
Op, shave that devils mop on your head if you want to make heaven You're one of them |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by MadamExcellency: 1:12pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
The young chap is complaining about the preaching and 50% of the people here are still preaching to him on top of that one he felt insulted and angry. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Okeatu(m): 1:16pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Picture please |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Kobojunkie: 1:18pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Puss360:
■ She means well for you... She means no harm...Just smile it off... Anytime she calls you to preach, give her that attention.. then say "Okay".. Just humour her...
Life's not so bad that we get angry for every little thing...Just smile and move on... A day will come that instead of her preaching, she will call you and ask "If you are ready to change that she's tired".. lol..
So humour her... Na person wey remember person give advice even if the advice is not needed Humor her in her delusions? No wonder these people continue to do this even to this day in 2023. How can they know they need to change when no one even attempts to explain to them that there is a problem with their line of reasoning?  |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by fx45(m): 1:19pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.
My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.
Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.
Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.
How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that? You're treating your hair and doing self-improvement bla bla bla and you're a man  Next is to start applying lipstick and fake eyelashes. Make God have mercy on woke Gen-Z |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Kobojunkie: 1:20pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
DamianDd:
■ I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.
My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.
Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.
Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.
How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that? If you believe in Jesus Christ yourself, then do your own research to learn that Jesus Christ never said anything about hairdo being involved in qualificatiin for either heaven or hell. Counter her delusion by using knowledge and she will never again approach you with such delusions. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by fakawer: 1:20pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.
My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.
Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.
Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.
How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that? she wan fuk u, simple |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by slimmax: 1:31pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.
Show her scriptures with handsome men that have long/braided hair -Samson, Absolom etc
How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that? |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by ecolime(m): 1:32pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
LikeAking:
What will he gain if he becomes a born agian.
Will he bacome rich as Dangote or become the next President?
All those born agian things are the chains of colonialism.
He who gains the world (120 years max) and loses heaven (eternity) is the real loser. A life without Christ is the true definition of chains and bondage. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by omojeesu(m): 1:35pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.
My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.
Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.
Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.
How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that? 1. Jesus didn't come because of and to talk about hair. 2. He came to set you free from the control, consciousness and consequences of sin. 3. Being saved is not about hair buy about your soul primarily. 4. Ignore this woman but are you born again? 5. If not, please I beg you do! I did so in 1983. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by SmileDance(f): 1:35pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Talk to her husband to help you beg his wife to let you be. Why should a married woman be concerned about another man's hairstyle? 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by KaptainAfrika: 1:44pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Give that her big b00ty sumn good doggy ! |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by LikeAking: 1:47pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
ecolime:
He who gains the world (120 years max) and loses heaven (eternity) is the real loser.
A life without Christ is the true definition of chains and bondage. Dey play. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Failure44: 1:57pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.
My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.
Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.
Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.
How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that? Are you child Tell them to mind their business |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by DamianDd: 1:57pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
fakawer:
she wan fuk u, simple Haha what if? She was telling me I'm a fine boy |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by DamianDd: 1:59pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
MadamExcellency:
The young chap is complaining about the preaching and 50% of the people here are still preaching to him on top of that one he felt insulted and angry. Regardless of the fact I stated I'm already a Christian |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by sterlingD(m): 2:01pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
DamianDd:
Haha what if? She was telling me I'm a fine boy Are you serious? |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by DamianDd: 2:02pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Karleb:
As long as they are not feeding you, they can shove their opinions up their asses.
Just do your thing and ignore them. Na their children dey worse pass. I vibe with this, I see no reason in engaging in a debate. I'm very not much in the mental state for a religious debate or for it to turn into another issue. Planing on moving out of my parents house so there really is no need |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by DamianDd: 2:04pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
sterlingD:
Are you serious? Her friend said "This boy na fine boy oo" she's like yes na very fine boy, said it again to before I left. "You know you're a very fine boy so this hair nor work" I doubt there's any meaning to it, I just feel these women are bored and very big gossips |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by DamianDd: 2:13pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
EmyGod:
I see nothing wrong in what the ladies are saying, my brother Christianity should be Christlike and any life that does not present Christ to the world or being worldly is not for Christ and there is no way someone will take you serious with such hair imagine talking to the world to accept Jesus Christ with such hair ? That person will never take you serious because he or she sees you as a carnal or worldly man and being worldly will never convert any soul to God neither will it give God glory. If you like such hair then tream it to moderation that my candid advice but for that hair it is not good hair style as a Christine. You'll realize soon that people really don't care what you look like. I'm very much principled in my ways and dealings, that is enough. I will not let people put me inside a box of imaginary eyes watching my every move like when I was young that gave me low self esteem. It took me time to scrawl out of that self doubt and inward sadness and I'm still get rid of it, you Nigerian christians give your children traumatic experiences and narcissistic experiences when they are younger that depletes their self esteem and when they mixed up in the wrong peer group that let's them out of that cage they go rouge and enter into the life of sin that you've been so careful about. Instead of teaching them how to navigate in a sinful world you teach them how to avoid the sinful world which is wrong in all ways. That's why we have bad youths of today and the elders still do not realize that it's these upbringings that affected this current generation, now they've dug out of the shell you put them in and took on the shell of what they consumed and because they were not taught how to navigate through the negative force of this wicked world, they consumed the negativity and are now a projectile of that very negative force |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by sterlingD(m): 2:13pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
DamianDd:
Her friend said "This boy na fine boy oo" she's like yes na very fine boy, said it again to before I left. "You know you're a very fine boy so this hair nor work"
I doubt there's any meaning to it, I just feel these women are bored and very big gossips Hmmmm okay o .Everytime you happen to come across her only or her and her friend guide and guard yourself |
| Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Bobbiee: 2:14pm On Aug 03, 2023 |
Don't listen to them. Almost all Nigerians are going to hell. Definitely any hypocrite that wants to dictate what you should or shouldn't do is going to hell. People like that often have the worst sins |
