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Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by bigtt76(f): 2:17pm On Aug 03, 2023

You for ask her if your hair style de obstruct her heavenly race na abi you stray enter her lane ni? cheesy

DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.

My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.

Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.

Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.

How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that?

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Anabosee(m): 2:20pm On Aug 03, 2023

One tell me one time say jeans are from hell fire, I was like, God I don't want to end up like this.

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Nyanabo(m): 2:21pm On Aug 03, 2023

If you don't want to be rude to her, just humor her.

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by ecolime(m): 2:25pm On Aug 03, 2023

LikeAking:

Dey play.

I can play with everything except my soul.

Give your life to Christ today. Tomorrow may be too late bro.

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by hahn(m): 2:27pm On Aug 03, 2023

DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.

My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.

Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.

Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.

How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that?

Tell her to mind her own fvcking business 🤷‍♂️

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by fakawer: 2:48pm On Aug 03, 2023

DamianDd:

Haha what if? She was telling me I'm a fine boy

na scope to get close to u

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by gabicon: 3:00pm On Aug 03, 2023

DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.

My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.

Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.

Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.

How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that?

Next time it happens, have a broad smile on your face and tell her "Thank you madam, but pls mind your business" then walk away.

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by dbxttechnology: 3:12pm On Aug 03, 2023

What God need from us is your plain heart and never have any gods except Him the Almighty...I can turn all of my hair to red, it my business!!

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by DamianDd: 3:15pm On Aug 03, 2023

fakawer:
na scope to get close to u

Maybe she wants to marry me of to her daughter then.... Lol

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Aug 03, 2023

Redman44:
Tell her you like her a lot . And look deeply into her eyes. She will start avoiding you.

If she report the statement to her husband nko?? grin

How will you defend yourself if you are the husband friend?

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Aug 03, 2023

DamianDd:

Her friend said "This boy na fine boy oo" she's like yes na very fine boy, said it again to before I left. "You know you're a very fine boy so this hair nor work"

I doubt there's any meaning to it, I just feel these women are bored and very big gossips

Put eye for both of them and experience a three some.
Seriously if you later knack any of them pls post your experience in Nairaland here for the knacking grin

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by DodadaKoKigbe: 4:20pm On Aug 03, 2023

Christianity is a very toxic anti-African imported foreign religion.

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Jifok7: 5:07pm On Aug 03, 2023

"I can't do this because my religion forbids it" is sense . It's pious .

"YOU can't do this because MY religion forbids it" is a big overstep and outright stupidity.

I just wish more people understood this .
Tell her it's none of her business.

People who are overly religious are usually the greatest sinners

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by DamianDd: 7:08pm On Aug 03, 2023

fakawer:
na scope to get close to u

Haha there's some sense in this, she's calling me nicknames now

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by DamianDd: 7:09pm On Aug 03, 2023

Anabosee:
One tell me one time say jeans are from hell fire, I was like, God I don't want to end up like this.

She told me she talked to her friends daughter about jeans recently, that it's a sin

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by DamianDd: 7:10pm On Aug 03, 2023

Redman44:
Tell her you like her a lot . And look deeply into her eyes. She will start avoiding you.

Bad advice 😄

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by DamianDd: 7:12pm On Aug 03, 2023

Kobojunkie:
Humor her in her delusions? No wonder these people continue to do this even to this day in 2023. How can they know they need to change when no one even attempts to explain to them that there is a problem with their line of reasoning?

Engaging them is a waste of time, been in similar situations and what will end is they say you're rude and disrespectful to your elders. Young people hardly have rights when it comes to situations that involve elders in Nigeria

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by doneback04: 7:16pm On Aug 03, 2023

DamianDd:
I've recently been taking care of my hair as a man I've been looking towards self-improvement and of course improvement begins with my looks.

My own my hair is the shorts strong Nigerian dry hair so even if it's long it will still appear very short which is what I fixed by treating my hair recently and washing it, right after I washed it that evening I weaved it for it to dry and while I was outside that's when my neighbors wife came, she called me and started preaching about heavenly race and I've sinned for this hair I did and what will people think of dad by me carrying this. All I did was simply assure her that I don't do dreads or weaving and I just did it so the hair and my scalp could get space to dry.

Now the hair is back to normal and it's better because it just looks like afro now very many like it supposed to be, it's doesn't look like a girls hair it just looks like a guy that's been training hair for a long time so it's okay like afro.

Tonight she saw me while she was standing with her friend and they both start telling me about heavenly race and what people will talk about my hair, how I should not allow it to shift me from my destiny.... man's just stood there wondering what has brainwashed this women and how their husbands and children survive this everyday.

How do you presume I go about this because I don't intend on being rude to my elders and my neighbors wife as at that?

Everything you do people must talk, life goes on

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by 7upnigeria: 8:07pm On Aug 03, 2023

Puss360:
She means well for you... She means no harm...
Just smile it off...
Anytime she calls you to preach, give her that attention.. then say "Okay"..
Just humour her...

Life's not so bad that we get angry for every little thing...
Just smile and move on...
A day will come that instead of her preaching, she will call you and ask "If you are ready to change that she's tired".. lol..
So humour her...
Na person wey remember person give advice even if the advice is not needed

Wow, you talk like puss in boots

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Dadatao1998: 10:56pm On Aug 03, 2023

fakawer:
na scope to get close to u

.
You get it bro 💯.
That's how one of my ex-neighbour, a married woman was trying to get close to me immediately i moved in into my current apartment, she would be asking me some personal questions that doesn't concern her, she would be trying to talk, play and gossip with me.
But me i am a kind of person that doesn't really get close to people like that, and this kind of woman is not my liking ( illiterate, married, not really beautiful, not too exposed) i was just ignoring her and she also noticed, she later left me alone.

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by hatchetman(m): 10:58pm On Aug 03, 2023

Puss360:
She means well for you... She means no harm...
Just smile it off...
Anytime she calls you to preach, give her that attention.. then say "Okay"..
Just humour her...

Life's not so bad that we get angry for every little thing...
Just smile and move on...
A day will come that instead of her preaching, she will call you and ask "If you are ready to change that she's tired".. lol..
So humour her...
Na person wey remember person give advice even if the advice is not needed

I just had to quote you.
Good to see this cos I always engage any preacher I mean ANY.
We gist, argue and I learn every time cos I am a sucker for Personal Point of View.
I like intelligent and introspective conversations.
May God increase your knowledge.
***listening to Fire Squad by Fire Squad***
Kendrick Lamar Black Friday next>

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by hatchetman(m): 10:59pm On Aug 03, 2023

hatchetman:

I just had to quote you.
Good to see this cos I always engage any preacher.
We gist, argue and I learn every time cos I am a sucker for Personal Point of View.
I like intelligent and introspective conversations.
May God increase your knowledge.
***listening to Fire Squad by Fire Squad***
Kendrick Lamar Black Friday next>

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by kelspinall(m): 9:09am On Aug 04, 2023

sup with some so called or self acclaimed christains.. so everything got to do with destiny abi, you knack dey say you go lose ya destiny, you sin dem go mention destiny as if they know the person's destiny,oga ya destiny is the business between you and God,lots of biblical saints sinned but at the end fulfilled their destinies...

naa see finish or over neighbor neighbor thing dey cause all this thing.tell her straight up that she's disturbing you and the same time sounding judgmental when mentioning ya destiny because of ya hairstyles..set boundaries.

sometime ago my yard pastor invited me to his church i declined him not that I don't goto church nor I'm not a christain but dude I don't want to have a limited life where i will be soo cautious about what I want to do/say or someone demonstrating authority over me all the time....nooo

DUDE WAKE UP

nde destiny

Re: How Do I Deal With My Religious Neighbors Wife? by Exceed15: 11:55am On Aug 04, 2023

Nothing serious here. She's isn't threat to u. Just smile and say thank u

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