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pocohantas:
Hahaha. Tallesty, you no lie o.
I am quite hyper today. Wetin dey sweet me, I no even know.🤣🤣🤣🤣

Some days are like that my dear. E get days wey person go just dey happy and days wey person go just dey chop any how.

Tallesty1:
Your Cho Cho Cho today don too much. Rest

You sef see am. This new diet is giving this geh too mush energy

pocohantas:
Hahaha. Tallesty, you no lie o.
I am quite hyper today. Wetin dey sweet me, I no even know.🤣🤣🤣🤣

Na alat na.

Tallesty1:
Some days are like that my dear. E get days wey person go just dey happy and days wey person go just dey chop any how.

That one na tomorrow. I need to recover this energy.

GloriousGbola:
You sef see am. This new diet is giving this geh too mush energy. Na alat na.

They haven't paid me. I woke happy.

pocohantas:
That one na tomorrow. I need to recover this energy.

Address abeg

GloriousGbola:
You sef see am. This new diet is giving this geh too mush energy

She's on diet?

Tob456:
I have an almost 8 months old daughter with my ex girlfriend. My daughter was sick for 2 weeks and she was admitted to the hospital for a week and 3 days my family were very supportive as usual.

My daughter is doing so much better and she got discharged last week friday I give God all the glory.

The problem on ground is because my ex girlfriend leaves alone with her younger ones she doesn't have an adult who will help her to monitor the baby health so my parents asked her if she can come and stay with them for a week or two so they will be monitoring ans helping her with the baby she can go back to her place when she us fully recovered.
They've told her to bring her last born with her too but she refused saying she can't leave all her siblings alone but her 23 years old younger brother who just returned home from a different state can look after her other siblings in her absent.

I don't live with my parents I live alone and I wanted her to stay with my parents so we can all share the responsibility of taking care of our daughter but she declined.

My parents and I are not so happy with but we can't force her .

What do you guys think about this. Is she right or wrong for declining my parents request ?

maybe she doesn’t trust the brother to take care of her younger siblings by himself. How many of you young men are proficient care givers?

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. You are now a father ... in fact ... a baby daddy ... you need to first be a man ... and then a father. Where is your say in this matter that concerns your child and baby mama? You live on your own ... she lives with her siblings only... and your baby ... why can't you spend time with her to help out with your baby? is it pride?... that you cannot be seen going to her home? Did she tell you her younger brother can take care of her siblings? ... or you and your parents just know he can? Can he cook? ... wash?... manage the home? I can bet my life your family is pretty well off and look down on people below their status. You clearly did not consider for a moment what she is saying. Your parents should be telling you to go stay with her to help out ... or better ...your mother should be by her side to guide and help her through this stage. BTW ... where are her parents? That girl is a single parent to her siblings and now a young mother ... dumped while pregnant or soon after giving birth by her baby daddy. She has to be very strong not to suffer from post partum with all this added drama to her life. Do you even be eeing your daughter?... playing with her?.... holding her?... building a bond? Bro... be a man... and fast.

period!

Originalsly:
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. You are now a father ... in fact ... a baby daddy ... you need to first be a man ... and then a father. Where is your say in this matter that concerns your child and baby mama? You live on your own ... she lives with her siblings only... and your baby ... why can't you spend time with her to help out with your baby? is it pride?... that you cannot be seen going to her home? Did she tell you her younger brother can take care of her siblings? ... or you and your parents just know he can? Can he cook? ... wash?... manage the home? I can bet my life your family is pretty well off and look down on people below their status. You clearly did not consider for a moment what she is saying. Your parents should be telling you to go stay with her to help out ... or better ...your mother should be by her side to guide and help her through this stage. BTW ... where are her parents? That girl is a single parent to her siblings and now a young mother ... dumped while pregnant or soon after giving birth by her baby daddy. She has to be very strong not to suffer from post partum with all this added drama to her life. Do you even be eeing your daughter?... playing with her?.... holding her?... building a bond? Bro... be a man... and fast.

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Jovialjune1:
I don't get, you want her to stay in your parents house, which will block her from meeting potential suitors, while you continue to stay in your place living a bachelor life, and your parents in all of their wisdom don't see anything wrong with that and with you having a child out-of wedlock and wanting your ex to live with them, as what exactly?

It's so sad that so many parents enable this bad lifestyles of youngies that is rampant today, it's sickening, because there is no way bad lifestyles will exist if these children respects and value their parents.

It is wrong for his parent to demand such from his baby mama but that doesn't mean they enabled his decision to have a baby out of wedlock. Parents can only threaten or advice their children not to have a baby out of wedlock but once the deed has been done, it cannot be undone. They might have scolded him already. Do you expect them to get a gun to kill him?

If I were to become pregnant out of wedlock, the worst my dad would do is disown me. I would keep my distance from him while he is still angry and I would simply stay peacefully and comfortably in my own house without stress, while sending him Bible verses and quotes about forgiveness everyday. I would also ask people he respects to intercede on my behalf and request his forgiveness. Eventually, he might come around.

What business does she have with you again aside the baby? Why not concentrate on your current gf
Imagine the guts

Tob456:
I have an almost 8 months old daughter with my ex girlfriend. My daughter was sick for 2 weeks and she was admitted to the hospital for a week and 3 days my family were very supportive as usual.

My daughter is doing so much better and she got discharged last week friday I give God all the glory.

The problem on ground is because my ex girlfriend leaves alone with her younger ones she doesn't have an adult who will help her to monitor the baby health so my parents asked her if she can come and stay with them for a week or two so they will be monitoring ans helping her with the baby she can go back to her place when she us fully recovered.
They've told her to bring her last born with her too but she refused saying she can't leave all her siblings alone but her 23 years old younger brother who just returned home from a different state can look after her other siblings in her absent.

I don't live with my parents I live alone and I wanted her to stay with my parents so we can all share the responsibility of taking care of our daughter but she declined.

My parents and I are not so happy with but we can't force her .

What do you guys think about this. Is she right or wrong for declining my parents request ?

Your parents' request is very selfish, bad, wicked, evil, and downright repulsive.


Your parents are supposed to tell you to marry the lady so you can both cater to your child properly, not to tie down a young woman you refused to marry with the burden of turning into their house help unto say she born pikin for you.


And you are still talking?

You are still complaining that your baby mama has more sense than you?

Get out of here before I sama you more tongue lashing

Nonsense family training stupid boy.

Mtchew.

bukatyne:
Is there any reason NLers cannot properly define relationships?

1. Daughter's or Son's mother whom you did not marry is baby mama.

2. Cousin's sister or brother is Cousins. All your cousin's siblings are your cousins.

P.S.: Baby mama cannot have the prefix ex because what makes her your babymama is still existing. Before someone writes ex-babymama making us wonder if the child or children between them have ceased to exist.

@Topic:

You will all be fine.

Yes, my blood sister

It is well.
Sighs

So what u are trying to tell us is that u are more interested in the BABY than ur EX...

Why did u impregnate her at first?

pocohantas:
They haven't paid me. I woke happy.

Is my prayer da work for you. I prayed for you yesterday and it worked. Come and pay your tithes.