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endsarrrs:
Op is scared of what she reads here from Nairaland men...these days

A woman who knows her worth needs no validation. She knows she brings a lot to the table; Love, compassion, support,
prayer, wisdom, ambition, vision intelligence, value and drive."

She needs to be putting in the same level of effort as her partner....

Exactly

qtguru:
Exactly

But I once read where you wrote that you ain't really bothered about your woman bringing anything to the table that you don't see anything wrong in providing totally for your woman and all you need is for her to be steadily available for your sexual needs and not deny you. You also said any woman with you will be engaged by you which means you'll be involving her in your online jobs. So ain't you contradicting yourself like this

IconicR:
But I once read where you wrote that you ain't really bothered about your woman bringing anything to the table that you don't see anything wrong in providing totally for your woman and all you need is for her to be steadily available for your sexual needs and not deny you. You also said any woman with you will be engaged by you which means you'll be involving her in your online jobs. So ain't you contradicting yourself like this

Your fellow women up there didn't mention finance, she mentioned support, if you're not going to provide that, then make room for other women to. I don't expect finance because that's my role but you have alot to offer beyond support. Your mother's understood but your generation has lost it. It's still men largely responsible for families are the end of the day, so what are you talking about ? Are you just looking for a handout and not do anything in marriage ?

I don't get you women, tell a man to bring something to the table he won't complain, but God forbid you ask women to be responsible. It's the simps I pity actually.

qtguru:
Your fellow women up there didn't mention finance, she mentioned support, if you're not going to provide that, then make room for other women to. I don't expect finance because that's my role but you have alot to offer beyond support. Your mother's understood but your generation has lost it. It's still men largely responsible for families are the end of the day, so what are you talking about ? Are you just looking for a handout and not do anything in marriage ?

The topic is about bringing something to the table which means finance. Well a woman should offer support as expected and I'm not against that.

IconicR:
The topic is about bringing something to the table which means finance. Well a woman should offer support as expected and I'm not against that.

I only responded to the endsarrs, you're the one fishing for argument. Iyaebe go and rest

qtguru:
I only responded to the endsarrs, you're the one fishing for argument. Iyaebe go and rest

Be a traditional man that's all

IconicR:
Be a traditional man that's all

Yet Men pay all the bills still. You women think you're sharp. Abeg

qtguru:
Yet Men pay all the bills still. You women think you're sharp. Abeg

Women gets pregnant, nurse the baby but hardly complain about these things, ordinary bills una begin shout and want it shared. Abeg don't fall my hands biko

IconicR:
Women gets pregnant, nurse the baby but hardly complain about these things, ordinary bills una begin shout and want it shared. Abeg don't fall my hands biko

As you should it's motherhood, African fathers too play their role.

qtguru:
As you should it's motherhood, African fathers too play their role.

You getting a knife and a gun? What for? There's this violence tendencies in you that you should get rid of.

Kingosytex:
You need serious deliverance from AllaKaduna Nzeogwu because your simping is of the highest degree😂
and the earlier you read the book 'The manipulated man' by Esther Vilar, the better for you.

Men like you are the reason why these females have over bloated egos. What the f*** do you mean by that a woman shouldn't bring anything to the table?

Does it mean that a man can't set standards too like women? Does it mean that a man shouldn't have a choice? Why must the man be the one to compromise?
Women are brutal in judgement and never settle for less, why should you be the one to settle for less?
A broke jobless woman who can't feed herself will broke shame and ditch you for a man of better financial strength, yet you are of the opinion that men shouldn't set standards... This is laughable.

Women set standards despite not having the power of commitment but whine and throw tantrums when men set theirs.
Read somewhere on the blue app where a guy said that one of her female friends advised him to go after all those girls that have tasted life, like have had sex to the fullest that they make better wives, the guy simply advised the girl to also settle down with the poorest man in her community and the girl took offense😁

If men set standards, 90% of the women will be doomed. Imagine men set standards like 'no virginity, no marriage' as women detest broke men despite the fact that most of them are broke.
You can't bring anything to the table, ordinary virginity, you can't bring. Bring your virgnity to the table, it's easier to close one's legs than to hustle and make money.

bro, sorry for the disturb, please I need the book. No vex. Kokorokoman1@gmail.com

kokorokoman:
bro, sorry for the disturb, please I need the book. No vex. Kokorokoman1@gmail.com

Done!

Kingosytex:
Done!

God bless you