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Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Nobody: 3:35am On Aug 04, 2023
Let’s be honest. A woman isn’t supose to bring anything to the table. We approached them for dating and marriage,yet you still want them to bring something to the table? Ain’t done that way. As it is, a man’s supposed to go out , make money,provide and protect his woman. Also, men are supposed to know how to cook and clean, so when he get back from work he can cook delicious meal for his wife.

Some men are also aggressive. Y’all should learn how to be courteous and respectful. A woman can compensate ur hard work with sex sometimes if it looks like u have done enough job for the day, but u aren’t entitled to that tbh. Women are queen , let’s learn to treat them as one. My one cent

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Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by adebayo987: 4:09am On Aug 04, 2023
Where women are treated as property is where they're not supposed to contribute. If she's taking care of the home while the husband works a job off the home, her home works become what she brings to the table.

In developed countries where nobody pays a bride price on a woman's head, she is equally entitled to work and provide money just as the man because they're both equal. There, it is not only the duty of the man to work neither is it the duty of the woman to care for the home, it is the duty of the both of them which includes washing and cleaning of the home.

Now, in Africa, men are obliged to pay some money as a traditional law in order to marry, in other words, the women are bought with a price exactly the same way you pay for subscriptions before use. In senarios like that, the man may assign the duty of home caring (dirty works) to the woman, thereby reducing her to a house wife whose primary purpose is in the kitchen and the other room, because they're perceived to have been bought. This is why African men sees themselves as the one who can cheat and still continue to live as husband even if the wife is aware of his attitude or not. In other advanced nations, cheating on your spouse comes with a price (divorce and a forfeiture of 70% of your net-worth registered in your name to the one who didn't commit the crime).

You said women are supposed to be cherished, I agree with you, but so are men.

Right005:
Let’s be honest. A woman isn’t supose to bring anything to the table. We approached them for dating and marriage,yet you still want them to bring something to the table? Ain’t done that way. As it is, a man’s supposed to go out , make money,provide and protect his woman. Also, men are supposed to know how to cook and clean, so when he get back from work he can cook delicious meal for his wife.

Some men are also aggressive. Y’all should learn how to be courteous and respectful. A woman can compensate ur hard work with sex sometimes if it looks like u have done enough job for the day, but u aren’t entitled to that tbh. Women are queen , let’s learn to treat them as one. My one cent

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Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by sorepco(m): 4:24am On Aug 04, 2023
I think a lot of people do not get what it is women are suppose to bring to the table. Bringing something to the table for a women does not mean anything monetary or physical. We should note that a men and women do bring different things to the table...while men bring stability, protection,money or financial provisions; a woman is required to bring different things that have nothing to do with what a man brings.
A woman could bring to the table her femininity, support to the man and his mission, her cooperation with the man, her nurturing of the kids that would come, her submission to the man (while the man as the head of the household submits to God).

Men on average do not care about a woman's degree or achievements or her money as women do not necessarily spend their monies on their men or give them access to it!

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Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by wrongman665(m): 4:32am On Aug 04, 2023
No wowan will decieve me to marry her.

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Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by CodeTemplar: 5:32am On Aug 04, 2023
Right005:
Let’s be honest. A woman isn’t supose to bring anything to the table. We approached them for dating and marriage,yet you still want them to bring something to the table? Ain’t done that way. As it is, a man’s supposed to go out , make money,provide and protect his woman. Also, men are supposed to know how to cook and clean, so when he get back from work he can cook delicious meal for his wife.

Some men are also aggressive. Y’all should learn how to be courteous and respectful. A woman can compensate ur hard work with sex sometimes if it looks like u have done enough job for the day, but u aren’t entitled to that tbh. Women are queen , let’s learn to treat them as one. My one cent
SMH!
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by endsarrrs(f): 5:38am On Aug 04, 2023
Op is scared of what she reads here from Nairaland men...these days

A woman who knows her worth needs no validation. She knows she brings a lot to the table; Love, compassion, support,
prayer, wisdom, ambition, vision intelligence, value and drive."

She needs to be putting in the same level of effort as her partner....

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Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Kingosytex(m): 5:43am On Aug 04, 2023
cheesy
You need serious deliverance from AllaKaduna Nzeogwu because your simping is of the highest degree😂
and the earlier you read the book 'The manipulated man' by Esther Vilar, the better for you.

Men like you are the reason why these females have over bloated egos. What the f*** do you mean by that a woman shouldn't bring anything to the table?

Does it mean that a man can't set standards too like women? Does it mean that a man shouldn't have a choice? Why must the man be the one to compromise?
Women are brutal in judgement and never settle for less, why should you be the one to settle for less?
A broke jobless woman who can't feed herself will broke shame and ditch you for a man of better financial strength, yet you are of the opinion that men shouldn't set standards... This is laughable.

Women set standards despite not having the power of commitment but whine and throw tantrums when men set theirs.
Read somewhere on the blue app where a guy said that one of her female friends advised him to go after all those girls that have tasted life, like have had sex to the fullest that they make better wives, the guy simply advised the girl to also settle down with the poorest man in her community and the girl took offense😁

If men set standards, 90% of the women will be doomed. Imagine men set standards like 'no virginity, no marriage' as women detest broke men despite the fact that most of them are broke.
You can't bring anything to the table, ordinary virginity, you can't bring. Bring your virgnity to the table, it's easier to close one's legs than to hustle and make money.

Op... Read the attached, it will change your views and perceptions.

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Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Kingosytex(m): 5:46am On Aug 04, 2023
Right005:
Let’s be honest. A woman isn’t supose to bring anything to the table. We approached them for dating and marriage,yet you still want them to bring something to the table? Ain’t done that way. As it is, a man’s supposed to go out , make money,provide and protect his woman. Also, men are supposed to know how to cook and clean, so when he get back from work he can cook delicious meal for his wife.

Some men are also aggressive. Y’all should learn how to be courteous and respectful. A woman can compensate ur hard work with sex sometimes if it looks like u have done enough job for the day, but u aren’t entitled to that tbh. Women are queen , let’s learn to treat them as one. My one cent

You need serious deliverance from AllaKaduna Nzeogwu because your simping is of the highest degree😂
and the earlier you read the book 'The manipulated man' by Esther Vilar, the better for you.

Men like you are the reason why these females have over bloated egos. What the f*** do you mean by that a woman shouldn't bring anything to the table?

Does it mean that a man can't set standards too like women? Does it mean that a man shouldn't have a choice? Why must the man be the one to compromise?
Women are brutal in judgement and never settle for less, why should you be the one to settle for less?
A broke jobless woman who can't feed herself will broke shame and ditch you for a man of better financial strength, yet you are of the opinion that men shouldn't set standards... This is laughable.

Women set standards despite not having the power of commitment but whine and throw tantrums when men set theirs.
Read somewhere on the blue app where a guy said that one of her female friends advised him to go after all those girls that have tasted life, like have had sex to the fullest that they make better wives, the guy simply advised the girl to also settle down with the poorest man in her community and the girl took offense😁

If men set standards, 90% of the women will be doomed. Imagine men set standards like 'no virginity, no marriage' as women detest broke men despite the fact that most of them are broke.
You can't bring anything to the table, ordinary virginity, you can't bring. Bring your virgnity to the table, it's easier to close one's legs than to hustle and make money.

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Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by TERMlNATOR(m): 5:54am On Aug 04, 2023
Thats why i PARTIALLY love MIDDLEASTERN Islam. They really know how to pamper liabilities women.
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by chinwong(m): 6:07am On Aug 04, 2023
Op, you don marry? undecided

No worry e go soon reach your turn

Jus dey play 🤥
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Map1(m): 6:43am On Aug 04, 2023
The implications of marrying a jobless wife who brings nothing to the table,
1hatred will set in
2fighting
3 divorce
4the man will become single and start afresh
4the woman will become the sole provider
5the woman will need to date multiple men to meet up the responsibility
6 the woman might contact disease through this
7the woman might die untimely
8the children will locate their father after the women have finance them through university.
9but if the man continue taking up the whole responsibility because he didn't want his home to break, stress, depression, sickness will set in he might die at the age of 45 to 50 and the woman will rise up to the responsibility when she has no means and the strength again.then who loss?

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Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Autobot05: 7:42am On Aug 04, 2023
Right005:
Let’s be honest. A woman isn’t supose to bring anything to the table. We approached them for dating and marriage,yet you still want them to bring something to the table? Ain’t done that way. As it is, a man’s supposed to go out , make money,provide and protect his woman. Also, men are supposed to know how to cook and clean, so when he get back from work he can cook delicious meal for his wife.

Some men are also aggressive. Y’all should learn how to be courteous and respectful. A woman can compensate ur hard work with sex sometimes if it looks like u have done enough job for the day, but u aren’t entitled to that tbh. Women are queen , let’s learn to treat them as one. My one cent

You have tried very well sir.

But Wait fess … like this is a joke right ?

Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Nobody: 8:25am On Aug 04, 2023
Kingosytex:
cheesy
You need serious deliverance from AllaKaduna Nzeogwu because your simping is of the highest degree😂
and the earlier you read the book 'The manipulated man' by Esther Vilar, the better for you.

Men like you are the reason why these females have over bloated egos. What the f*** do you mean by that a woman shouldn't bring anything to the table?

Does it mean that a man can't set standards too like women? Does it mean that a man shouldn't have a choice? Why must the man be the one to compromise?
Women are brutal in judgement and never settle for less, why should you be the one to settle for less?
A broke jobless woman who can't feed herself will broke shame and ditch you for a man of better financial strength, yet you are of the opinion that men shouldn't set standards... This is laughable.

Women set standards despite not having the power of commitment but whine and throw tantrums when men set theirs.
Read somewhere on the blue app where a guy said that one of her female friends advised him to go after all those girls that have tasted life, like have had sex to the fullest that they make better wives, the guy simply advised the girl to also settle down with the poorest man in her community and the girl took offense😁

If men set standards, 90% of the women will be doomed. Imagine men set standards like 'no virginity, no marriage' as women detest broke men despite the fact that most of them are broke.
You can't bring anything to the table, ordinary virginity, you can't bring. Bring your virgnity to the table, it's easier to close one's legs than to hustle and make money.

Op... Read the attached, it will change your views and perceptions.
Omoh can u send me this book? can u send it to this email : ktalabi42@gmail.com
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Kingosytex(m): 12:22pm On Aug 04, 2023
Right005:

Omoh can u send me this book? can u send it to this email : ktalabi42@gmail.com

Please check your mail... It's done.
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by chiozor: 12:38pm On Aug 04, 2023
grin grin grin
wrongman665:
No wowan will decieve me to marry her.
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by chiozor: 12:41pm On Aug 04, 2023
please share to
jaaqbruce@gmail.com
Kingosytex:


Please check your mail... It's done.
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by blazepascal(m): 12:56pm On Aug 04, 2023
Op you don't have sense..it's a pity normally man is the provide but sometimes his salary is not enough that's when his wife can assist him. I don't why you guys like to twist things around .. in many home self women are the breadwinner due to circumstances their husband can't meet up again ..if you want your marriage to flourish stop seeking advice from social media.. rubbish
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Kingosytex(m): 12:58pm On Aug 04, 2023
chiozor:
please share to
jaaqbruce@gmail.com

Done
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Thecan(m): 3:48pm On Aug 04, 2023
Kingosytex:


Please check your mail... It's done.
Guy pls send the book to me via abujaoutcast@gmail.com
Thanks
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Theama(m): 4:19pm On Aug 04, 2023
Sarcasm hun?
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Clinton16: 4:31pm On Aug 04, 2023
Please can you send the book to me too? odujohnfrancis88@gmail.com
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by fourboys: 4:37pm On Aug 04, 2023
Wait till you get married... Then come back with nonsense writeup again embarassed
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by advanceDNA: 4:52pm On Aug 04, 2023
Nairaland women now pretend to be men in order manipulate men into doing what they want......

Desperation!! ....just because all u want to do in ur marriage is fvck, eat and sleep....

Yall should stay in ur father's house cos the number of billionaires in this world that can give u such life cant go round all of you

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Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Kingosytex(m): 5:44pm On Aug 04, 2023
Thecan:
Guy pls send the book to me via abujaoutcast@gmail.com
Thanks
Done
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Nobody: 5:54pm On Aug 04, 2023
Kingosytex:


Please check your mail... It's done.

Omoh I’ve been misled and blind all this life. Where was this book before now? Too much secrets revealed in one book. Why didn’t feminist banned this book? Ahah
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Thecan(m): 6:32pm On Aug 04, 2023
Kingosytex:

Done
tnx bro
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by talented321: 6:37pm On Aug 04, 2023
Before a man is asking that question' check yourself well there is something u are missing' reasonable men ask that question for a reason' because many ladies in marriage today were not asked'' what she will bring to the table.
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Kingosytex(m): 8:52pm On Aug 04, 2023
Right005:


Omoh I’ve been misled and blind all this life. Where was this book before now? Too much secrets revealed in one book. Why didn’t feminist banned this book? Ahah

They've been after her life for over 4 decades... The woman laid bare the hypocrisy and double standards of women.
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Nyascobar1414: 12:17am On Aug 05, 2023
Kingosytex:


They've been after her life for over 4 decades... The woman laid bare the hypocrisy and double standards of women.

Pls, send to Akwaik19@gmail.com.

Thanks sir.
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Kingosytex(m): 1:00am On Aug 05, 2023
Nyascobar1414:


Pls, send to Akwaik19@gmail.com.

Thanks sir.

Done!
Welcome.
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by ednut1(m): 1:15am On Aug 05, 2023
So if a woman works and earns well she should not bring anything to the table Ever wondered why men die early. Abeg rest
Re: Women Aren’t Supose To Bring Anything To The Table And Here’s Why by Nobody: 4:52am On Aug 05, 2023
I will never believe in this women bringing things to the table rubbish, your woman should only help you when the need arise and she shouldn't even be told to do that. Mi'oraye shit

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