OZIOGU1:


Na una make some men to become irresponsible shey u know?

same men that more than 70% are Yahoo? Or same men that filled up our correctional centres with their criminal atrocities? Dey play

UnfairLife7:
U spend for your side chic while she collect from her side cock

At least that place no get metre, non of us go know say we dey pound yam for the same mottar na 😆

UnfairLife7:
same men that more than 70% are Yahoo? Or same men that filled up our correctional centres with their criminal atrocities? Dey play

Who send them do Yahoo? Na women na, just to impress abi

UnfairLife7:
women do not assault their husband like men do

1) u aren't even convinced in your biased lie
2) u didn't answer the question

So let me ask again

If a woman assaults her husband, can he arrest her?

Yes or no

As someone who wouldn't stand my father physically abusing my mother, even though I love my father, I would have done worse than you did.


I hate it with every nerves in me when a man physically attacked a woman.


I would have heavily injured my uncle the day I saw him physically abusing his wife, who I don't even know from Adam, if not for passersbye who led me away.

The way I treat ladies or women or my mother is to walk out on them when their actions get to me.

OZIOGU1:


Who send them do Yahoo? Na women na, just to impress abi

greed send them. They want to ride the latest car and live in mansion.

If you're responsible as a man you will attract your like

Dogalmighty17:
You arrested and lucked up your husband for 2 days? No one is dumb here ma. No right thinking woman just suddenly locks up her husband. Was there food in the kitchen for him when he came home? Did you cook for yourself and just the children?

There are other crises resolution and mediation channels available to resolve issues within spouses. Did you explore any of them?

You most probably had nurtured this thought of locking your husband up for a while. You also most probably have mocked him in your actions and your words.

Madam, you don buy market o! I assure you of this, your husband will never forgive you. The day that man gets a job and finds his feet you will be the one begging for divorce.

I am not making excuses for him. Your husband is going through serious depression. No man wants to not be able to provide for his family. The present economy doesn't help at all. You could have handled the situation better.

Una head nor truly correct aswear. Asin food in the kitchen for who. someone who lost his job and is not thinking of a way to help himself and they family, but resort to drinking and becoming a liability to his struggling wife and you want them to pamper him abi. For your info i have walked that road before, 4 month after i married my wife in a very elaborate welding which was talk of the town among my friends and her and my wife at that time was heavily pregnant when i was laid off, i knew how painful it is. i even told a friend of mine that day that i wished i didn't get married, but all the thought i had in my head was how to hustle to take care of my wife and unborn baby and not to go become a liability to them. all i was thinking a breathing for that whole year i stayed at home was how to hustle to take care of my family i took up lots of minor hustles just to provide for them. The Op husband is just one very lazy fool and i can't feel pity for his type at all, he doesn't deserve anything good in life.

shantti:


If a man arrests his wife cos she assaulted him, will u support that?

If a woman hits a man, should he give it back to her fold to teach her a lesson she will never forget? Will you support that?

shantti:



1) u aren't even convinced in your biased lie
2) u didn't answer the question

So let me ask again

If a woman assaults her husband, can he arrest her?

Yes or no

go to Lagos State Ministry of justice and see for yourself. Even a mad man knows an average Nigerian man has the tendency of violence. These same men drop that trait the moment they get to Murtala international airport.

Keep supporting evil

UnfairLife7:
greed send them. They want to ride the latest car and live in mansion.

If you're responsible as a man you will attract your like

True...

UnfairLife7:
greed send them. They want to ride the latest car and live in mansion.

If you're responsible as a man you will attract your like

You get oil for head 😆

NOwazobia:
As someone who wouldn't stand my father physically abusing my mother, even though I love my father, I would have done worse than you did.


I hate it with every nevers in me when a man physically attacked a woman.


I would have heavily injured my uncle the day I saw him physically abusing his wife, who I don't even know from Adam.

The way I treat ladies or women or my mother is to walk out on them when their actions get to me.

only a useless man raises his hand on a woman

int0x80:
The level of wickedness amongst some Nigerian women feminists these days is becoming so pronounced. I read about one bragging of starving her own blood brother all in the name of feminism!

She wasn't starving him. He refused to cook.

UnfairLife7:
Your Emilokan is a puppet to the west. The West cannot be a standard but keep progressing while your shithole country keep retrogressing. Your country top the ladder of poverty and unemployed graduates. Your people in Nigeria cannot afford food anymore. After school, your youths are either jobless, underemployed or indulge in cyber fraud. Don't worry you will soon buy a bag of rice 60k before Xmas. The countries you think are bad are mile ahead your shithole country.

All your leaders, past and present beg to have their passport. 99.9% Nigerians wouldn't think twice to denounce your weak passport over the country passport

PLEASE WHAT IS PROGRESS THAT IS THE QUESTION. PROGRESS IS WHEN YOU CREATE AI WHILE YOU DONT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A MALE AND FEMALE. LISTEN TO YOURSELF. YOU HAVE BILLIONS BUT YOUR CHILDREN ARE PSYCOS.

albert2512:
■ You want to help her to brake her home? Not all cases of assault is habitual ma.

Just talk say na my attention you want!

LadyRosa:


I hope he signed an undertaking.

You are a good woman.

I would have kept him there for atleast a week, after which my brothers my likely extend it to a month.

Nah for social media una get mouth

Unless u plan to divorce him after that or do u plan to continue living under the same roof with him after arresting him?

We all know u will live In perpetual fear if u choose not to divorce

This issue at hand has gone soar,@op you can never turn back the hand's of time.
The damage has been done, if your mother in-law is still alive and you are in good terms with her and your husband siblings(f) take yourself and your kids to beg them for forgiveness.i guess he has not discuss these issue with his family and please note that your marriage can never be the same again with or without job.

Samantha124:
I'm sorry to say this, but your husband is childish.

If he was my husband and he starts emotionally blackmailing me like that by refusing to leave those police cells... I was going to leave him there until the police kick him out, or until he decides to leave.

As long as I'd have apologized to him and explained the reason why I got him arrested, I'd have left him there with his childish tantrums.

Maybe it's because I don't tolerate nonsense.

You have been on this thread commenting anyhow but if I may ask are u married?

Do u have any idea what it means for someone who can afford just anything to b broke.

No one is supporting d actions of d man but people like u are d problem of d society.

Now u heard frm just d lady n u have been saying all manner of things like a goat on heat just for likes nentions.

Try to hear from both side before u rant

People like u believe men cant b raped n it us normal but when it is a woman it is abnormal


Are u even married to start with ?

capnies:


PLEASE WHAT IS PROGRESS THAT IS THE QUESTION. PROGRESS IS WHEN YOU CREATE AI WHILE YOU DONT KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A MALE AND FEMALE. LISTEN TO YOURSELF. YOU HAVE BILLIONS BUT YOUR CHILDREN ARE PSYCOS.

go ask your leaders Who on a daily basis run to these country for education, vacation,businesses, meetings, healthcare and many more. Ask them if the country is progressing. At least i know your shithole country is a poverty ridden country that the citizens cannot afford to feed

Your husband did wrong by destroying your things and then also hitting you,you don't have to feel guilty about the issue that much,but I seriously advice that you sit your husband down and have a honest discussion with him as per what his next steps of action in life is and you also have to ask yourself if you want to stay with a man that beats you up whenever his is drunk and I fell that your husband might be jealous of you from the way he was speaking to you while destroying your phones and clothes.
Think about your safety and that of your kids,this might just be the beginning of abuse from your husband towards you.

Verokeena:
Good afternoon Nl family
Please pardon my epistle

My husband lost his job two years ago and ever since he has been so reluctant on getting another.. not to brag but I can say I have been the one keeping the family going ever since the job incidence (not like I ever complained) .

What I noticed about him is he now drinks and smokes and he is always hissing (obviously he is not happy and I try to always console him just to elate his Spirit)

Fast forward to last two months.. I got back from work and I was very tired.. I had to go pick the kids from school , bathe them, feed them and to make matters worst I wasn't feeling too alright .. (when I got home he (my husband) wasn't at home)

When I was done with the kids and fixing the house I was so tired I thought to myself to take a lil nap that was how I slept off (and this was around 9pm) ..

He got back around 10pm obviously drunk and smelling like a skunk.. he went straight to the kitchen. That was how the whole problem started.. first was insult.. then my phone, smashed it on the ground later my clothes he started tearing them .. saying all those things he was destroying was why I was feeling untouchable that he knows I have male friends sleeping with me..

I tried securing my items so he doesn't destroy more things that was how he pounced on me..

The next day I got him arrested he spent two days there.. but now I feel so guilty... He doesn't talk to me anymore.. I have apologized times without number

I don't just know what to do...


Nb: even while he was there I was still taking food to him

chia, u marry better man, try that with me and i will put a bullet straight into your kpekus and make sure it burst pout from your ass

Samantha124:
That's why she did the right thing.

Right from your end but not the best for her.

She realized her error but it's late. She has to cope with the consequence. Never take action out of anger.

shantti:


Nah for social media una get mouth

Unless u plan to divorce him after that or do u plan to continue living under the same roof with him after arresting him?

We all know u will live In perpetual fear if u choose not to divorce

keep defending evil claiming it's social media they can express themselves

Domestic violence is a No. I do not care what led to that.

If its worth reporting, they will, most nigerians values socio and cultural marriage standard than divorce. In contrast, 70% of Nigerian Men are not drunks and very hardworking unlike our counterparts in S.A. who protested for beer price during covid.

Femicide cases is on the low in Nigeria compared to SA. Ive been with an SA woman and I know how easy it is to die overthere. Your biggest cities have the highest crame rates in Africa.

Samantha124:
Of course you would know about the high cases of GBV in SA because most SA women would report it.

But we wouldn't know anything about GBV cases in Nigeria because you guys see it as a normal thing, hence most of your women don't report it.

And if your Nigerian women don't report it, there wouldn't be any case to know about.

You guys are not even afraid to beat up your women in front of a camera for everyone to see, because you know that nothing is gonna happen to you.

UnfairLife7:
go to Lagos State Ministry of justice and see for yourself. Even a mad man knows an average Nigerian man has the tendency of violence. These same men drop that trait the moment they get to Murtala international airport.

Keep supporting evil

What r u ranting about
Are we arguing about statistics?

Why can't u answer my question
What is hard in it?

If a man gets assaulted by his woman and he arrests her, would u support that?

Yes or no?

Satanistx:
chia, u marry better man, try that with me and i will put a bullet straight into your kpekus and make sure it burst pout from your ass

keyboard warriors. You go chop watery beans tire for kirikiri maximum prison.

MyExpression:


Or maybe she call the police with another person phone...na one of her customers.
That's what the husband was suspecting....wetin give you moral?

That's another angle of thought which I'm not exploring...buh, dangers of one-sided story

Well...the deed has been done. The consequence is gonna hit hard. Spouse isn't a friend or acquaintance you can get arrested in a place like Nigeria...

shantti:


What r u ranting about
Are we arguing about statistics?

Why can't u answer my question
What is hard in it?

If a man gets assaulted by his woman and he arrests her, would u support that?

Yes or no?

women hardly assault their husband physical. I am a man so i know all these

Samidecking717:
This issue at hand has gone soar,@op you can never turn back the hand's of time.
The damage has been done, if your mother in-law is still alive and you are in good terms with her and your husband siblings(f) take yourself and your kids to beg them for forgiveness.i guess he has not discuss these issue with his family and please note that your marriage can never be the same again with or without job.

Beg them for forgiveness for avoiding getting pummelled to death by their son? WOW....

Persephone1:
May we not marry a boy man

Dear Op, my people have an adage it is: Aiki lo kabo ile ejo , ka tun sore. It means we don't come back from court to become friends. Arresting your husband may be right or wrong but what happens when he is released?
If you were arrested as a wife, will you be happy with your husband and let everything go back to normal when you are released?
Especially in this part of the world.

If you still want a happy marriage after a dispute, police station should not be an option. In the sight of the law, you are right but culturally you are not.

Get elders to speak to him, I hope he listens. May God help you. This matter deep i can't think straight self

I'm shocked that you didn't condemn the husband who assaulted the wife. Instead, you're worried about her appeasing the husband and even begging with elders.

Why most of you women like to tolerate maltreatment is what i don't understand.

UnfairLife7:
keyboard warriors. You go chop watery beans tire for kirikiri maximum prison.

if you know me in person , u will know that i am not just blabbing. i will do exactly what i wrote here comforTABLY and surrender myself for hanging. no woman born of a woman can ever insult me like that and go free

Blazebond:
■ Your husband did wrong by destroying your things and then also hitting you,you don't have to feel guilty about the issue that much, but I seriously advice that you sit your husband down and have a honest discussion with him as per what his next steps of action in life is and you also have to ask yourself if you want to stay with a man that beats you up whenever his is drunk and I fell that your husband might be jealous of you from the way he was speaking to you while destroying your phones and clothes.
Think about your safety and that of your kids,this might just be the beginning of abuse from your husband towards you.

After his violent beating of her, I would not recommend she be in the same room alone with that man unaccompanied by some other as a witness. The last thing she should be thinking of doing is giving him the opportunity to finish the job he already started. Again, the man remains unemployed and possibly even more frustrated after his dastardly act against his own family.