blesdman:

Spice it up by going together to the hotel. Boredoms occur mainly with marriages with children. For those with children, sneak out and have quiet time in a hotel with ur spouse...it has a way of spicing it up

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

logicalhumour:
Marriage is a waste of time and energy. Marriage will fail you in every single thing it promises you, including loneliness alleviation.

Jossyfine:



Africans and African men believe going to the hotel alone with ur spouse is a waste of resources but forgetting it’s actually bonds couple together.
Even going on dates with ur spouse is a big problem amongst the Nigerian men.

Omo marriage is too boring biko

BirtherOfKings:
lack of money and no relationship wit the Holy Spirit

HE is perfect at keeping marraiage sweet and helping you overcome challenges

You lose your job, instead of you to join watsapp group - https:///EXhnJQawnUZ6PuYlul8qIp so you can get another, u will carry the frustration on ur partner,..why wont it be boring?.

The WhatsApp group is not connecting

achimendy:


But they will tell you it’s a waste of resources



Going to the hotel with your spouse is one of sweetest fun in marriage.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

ahnie:

Because you don dey complain now.una Neva reach the see finish stage....pray make e nor reach that stage

Jossyfine:



Africans and African men believe going to the hotel alone with ur spouse is a waste of resources but forgetting it’s actually bonds couple together.
Even going on dates with ur spouse is a big problem amongst the Nigerian men.

Omo marriage is too boring biko

UnusualEmissary:
Marriage is an institution for you to choose a partner with whom you will live and plan the rest of your life.

The question now is what plan do you have for the rest of your life and who or what kind of person are you choosing to run that course of your life in future with?

There are several factors leading to that effect (highlighted by the OP) which include financial issues, lack of dedication from one or both parties, wrongdoing like cheating from one or both parties and so on ...

But the major factor, I think, is understanding what marriage is about and choosing someone who equally understands what marriage is about and is fit for you to run that course of life with.

When you as an individual has planned or visualised your character and future plans and you do enough diligence to choose someone with whom you are compatible based on those factors, then you will find fulfillment in marriage God willing. Because the actions both of you will be taking in that marriage will be such that are in harmony with each other and brings fulfilment.

A lot of people get involved in marriage because they are attracted to certain things such as money, feelings or beauty. They do not look at the bigger picture. As such, that union has no purpose upon which it is based and due to that, it tends to get uninteresting as time goes along.

I'm not sure if I captured my thoughts with the very right words but I think I tried.

Jossyfine:



Africans and African men believe going to the hotel alone with ur spouse is a waste of resources but forgetting it’s actually bonds couple together.
Even going on dates with ur spouse is a big problem amongst the Nigerian men.

Omo marriage is too boring biko

UnusualEmissary:
Marriage is an institution for you to choose a partner with whom you will live and plan the rest of your life.

The question now is what plan do you have for the rest of your life and who or what kind of person are you choosing to run that course of your life in future with?

There are several factors leading to that effect (highlighted by the OP) which include financial issues, lack of dedication from one or both parties, wrongdoing like cheating from one or both parties and so on ...

But the major factor, I think, is understanding what marriage is about and choosing someone who equally understands what marriage is about and is fit for you to run that course of life with.

When you as an individual has planned or visualised your character and future plans and you do enough diligence to choose someone with whom you are compatible based on those factors, then you will find fulfillment in marriage God willing. Because the actions both of you will be taking in that marriage will be such that are in harmony with each other and brings fulfilment.

A lot of people get involved in marriage because they are attracted to certain things such as money, feelings or beauty. They do not look at the bigger picture. As such, that union has no purpose upon which it is based and due to that, it tends to get uninteresting as time goes along.

I'm not sure if I captured my thoughts with the very right words but I think I tried.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

Mindlog:


Open marriage in going on in many marriages even in Nigeria, it is not what is being announced.

I have been involved in a marriage therapy session where the issue was not the fact that both the husband and wife were having sexual partners outside their marriage that have produced 3 children but wifey was spending too much on a particular Ben 10 (sugar boy).

adecz:



Can you eat egusi soup forever❓❓❓

UnusualEmissary:
Marriage is an institution for you to choose a partner with whom you will live and plan the rest of your life.

The question now is what plan do you have for the rest of your life and who or what kind of person are you choosing to run that course of your life in future with?

There are several factors leading to that effect (highlighted by the OP) which include financial issues, lack of dedication from one or both parties, wrongdoing like cheating from one or both parties and so on ...

But the major factor, I think, is understanding what marriage is about and choosing someone who equally understands what marriage is about and is fit for you to run that course of life with.

When you as an individual has planned or visualised your character and future plans and you do enough diligence to choose someone with whom you are compatible based on those factors, then you will find fulfillment in marriage God willing. Because the actions both of you will be taking in that marriage will be such that are in harmony with each other and brings fulfilment.

A lot of people get involved in marriage because they are attracted to certain things such as money, feelings or beauty. They do not look at the bigger picture. As such, that union has no purpose upon which it is based and due to that, it tends to get uninteresting as time goes along.

I'm not sure if I captured my thoughts with the very right words but I think I tried.

Skyview01:


Yes.

Been eating the same egusi soup for 17years and guess what, its getting more tastier as the years go buy.
Already eaten the deliciius egusi 2 times this week and looking forward to eat some more before end of the week.
I have no desire to eat any other kind of disease infested soup.

This my egusi soup, na die !

TemplarLandry:
Many factors could be responsible.
1. Overfamiliarity
2. Insufficient finance
3. Dirtiness
4. Etc.

DenreleDave:


Can you be generous to give part of ur egusi to someone else?

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

ahnie:
I think open marriage should be encouraged in Africa.

Make I nor even mention cuckold abii dominatrix.


E go spice marriage up especially if your partner is wide.
Variety go become the spice